liz,
ppl make mistakes. so long we know wat we want, insya Allah, we'll turn out fine.
Its a sad thing, dis shotgun thingy...
i noe of someone who's mom is a out of wedlock, her sis oso, and now, her doter oso... its like a vicious cycle, a curse.
but we all learn from mistakes & its in our hands not to repeat the same mistake.
good thing for you, u & happy work hard and not let sarah make the same mistake again. Kudos to you