ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

<font color="119911">s.lynn
entah eh ku cant remember whether dia ada tak time tu.. n nak tau apa ku buat nak kasi lipas tu kuar.. hehehe ku juggle muggle tetek ku seh.. sambil mengru'kuk kan badan ku.. so obscene sekali hehe..

wati
ciannya dia.. hope all tu dah kuar she need not got for ops eh.. doakan yg terbaik buatnya.. takmo amik lagi ah gbr dia camtu cian seh..</font>
 


shahlynn...
betul...betul...betul...

semua pernah make mistakes...i myself...dulu bab $$ tak plan betul2 but after that alhamdulillah
 
<font color="119911">S.lynn
mmg tul tp org yg ku kenal ni lain.. gaji 1K tp nak all e above of org yg earn itu 15K amaciam ckp? lau org dah sombong susah ah.. &amp; tau nya PINJAM &amp; minta2 kita utk simpati.. ish geram.. geram.. geram..</font>
 
<font color="000000">Wati
Maya look so adorable walaupun tengah sakit...suka i tgk muka dia..

Must let us know her progress ok...</font>
 
guys

terus terang me cakap..i marriage in young age dat is 20 years old..kahwin shotgun..nie pon dia tk nk tanggungjawab..found out da 6 bln masa tu..terus nikah when i was abt 7 mth..dari dulu hingga sekarang mesti adr financial prob..baik ape2 smua i tanggung..

dia tak erti mcm ane i susah jaga bdk..dia tau pe..alek mkn, tdo..sometime kuar dgn bdk2 mtr

i sanggup berhenti keje as police officer msa tu juz to spend time with my kids..until now he kept blaming me..sedih adr..nie after my son g surgery, agi berat financial kita

pernah mcm nk bunuh diri je but i tink abt my 3 kids..
 
<font color="119911">lina
i dari tadi nak ckp tp tak tertype asik type nonsense je.. walau apapun keputusan u besok fret not sis.. as u dah ada back up biz kan? those facial, massage stuff &amp; also bidadari so wish u success dlm bidang niaga u juga..</font>
 
my sis tak work...anak2 ade 4....hub sorang kerja...but im so proud of her...anak2 dia dua in polytech.....satu dah kerja satu masih nie poly...lagik 2 masih schooling.....
yg penting jgn banyak hutang...
 
nshahi...
inshAllah yg penting usaha....betul tak.....

mum of 3 kis...
bunuh diri nauzubillah.....
u tinggal mane....? kalau kes macam gini...u nak kena priortize ur diri n anak2...n hv ur own savings....
 
<font color="0000ff">Lina
betul tu, hutang lah berpunca segalanya..!! hutang bukan dari segi pinjam org je.. skg hutang ada mcm cara.. credit card, easycash, installment.. etc etc.. </font>
 
pinky,
nak cakap pun susah... i dunno where to start...
at least ur husband is working... and ada income masuk.

at the end of the day, it takes two to tango.
if u keep sacrificing, he kept slagging, things wont work its way out.
u can always return to workforce, and get a maid to look after ur kids...
or u can always do part time work to makes ends meet...
and u can choose to live as it is now, but cut back on lots of stuff &amp; luxury...
not easy, but ultimately, its in ur hands...

guys mature later. much much later den us women...
dats y islam galakkan kita kawen ngan lelaki yg lebih tua dari kita... so as why he's still acting like dat, sad to say, its not uncommon...

no point bunuh diri la...
 
lynn...
yes so kalau ade hutang...lebih baik settlekan cepat2...n consistently...

n calculate ur expenses base on ur Net salary....excluding OT...
 
<font color="000000">Pinky
mengucap byk2...

I know of a malay gal sarat mengandung terjun diri, 7 hari kubur dia keluarkan bau yg busuk sekali...</font>
 
naqi,
tu Market Place, syiok ah... coz tenok barang2 sumer fresh giler &amp; cantik2....
But tenok harga, terbegek...

u amik gula2 jer? kira i lagi UP la! I amik cookies &amp; mineral water! hehhehe
 
mum...
childcare\nanny....
like shahlynn said...kalau satu sove...then lagik satu asyik carik masalah...its a vicious cycle....
 
<font color="119911">pinkie
e more u lum dpt rumah e more u kena usaha dari skg.. if ur mum leh tlg u jaga ur anak2 lebih baik sis.. dats y for me my kids kena sep coz mum &amp; MIL tak leh jaga both so my part ill try to cari duit bbyk utk future dorang insyallah.. for now dorang masih kecik so i tink if i minta tlg parents utk support pun tak teruk as in future tp tak leh jadi kebiasaan lah.. mus berdikari also.. walaupun gaji beribu tp selalu tak cukup sal apa? sal bill yg tak menentu, tak stagnant, saman2 yg tak dpt dielakkan juga smuanya balik to GOVT balik.. sbb tu its not ez to live here.. mmg dulu masa me preggy 2nd i dah niat nak bunuh diri tp i try to bersabar mudah-mudahan i can go thru it till my kids besar kelak.. u try je sis kena start bukan setakat ckp je ok..
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lina
yup yg penting usaha.. ALLAH tak akan tlg jika hambanya tak mau usaha kan?</font>
 
pinky, my aunty oso police @ bedok.

amik maid, but put at ur mom's la..

neway... its still in ur hands. nak seribu daya...
u can always work something out for urself, ur family, at ur convenience...
 
pinky...
kalau u nak cakap kawin muda...hmmm i dun think so...I kawin at the age of 19 going 20...n yes I admit da first few yrs was very difficult....n u know My hubby pun budak moto (design)....every week mesti ada meeting/outing but u hafta prioritise whichever shud come first....bila da kawin kita tak bleh terbawak2 zaman remaja kita....yes enjoy is enjoy but limit ourselves....

bunuh diri will not solve da prob gal...infact lagi banyak masalah...u kena tink for yur kids...jgn kasi diorang repeat wateva mistakes dat we as a parents have done....dat's my principle...

Sorry gal kalau i terpanjang lebar post....juz my POV
 
<font color="ff0000">Lina

tak de ape lah...

bila nottygal mentioned abt her fren...baru ku ingat nari hari ape eh lina...

besok lak friday the 13th</font>
 
<font color="119911">dan
sioltz je tau.. ingat apa je.. hehe a'ah lina malam afdhal nari naik taxi ke? hehe</font>
 
<font color="000000">Merepek je si Dan ni tau!

tapi kesian, she mengandung shotgun pastu found her boyfren on the bed with another gal...ape lagi dia trus keluar dan terjun dari flat jantan tu...kesian kan..terburai perut coz lagi sebulan gitu dah nak bersalin..</font>
 
momma_naqi

ur husband is under design mtr ? sama ah dengan my husband..he under Kakashi..bab g meeting dia da drop..asyik OT ampai bdk2 asyik tanye my hubbi ane..

angun pagi my kids tanye ayah ane..i ckp da g keje..malam kul 1 am, aru balek..slep abt few hr kul 0430 going off to work
 
Nottygal, astargfirullah ! Sarat and commit suicide ? Tak kesian ker kandungan dlm perut tu ? Sigh*

Ok. Insyallah i will balik and take new pic of Maya. Update on her eye. Adorable ? Thank you.. She is the apple of my eye.

Pinky, ingat ALLAH. Banyak kan berdoa. Try to be independent. Have own savings, kalau tak dpt nak save byk, sikit pun jadilah.

HUTANG - Yes.. i totally agree abt this. Tak kira hutang aper.. My brother Adi Rahman ever told me that hidup kita kalau takder hutang confirm takder masalah. Hutang itu mcm very evil tau. Bcos Adi Rahman said that to me before i got married, i'm proud to say, i free of hutangs..

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For the newbies... this is me and Maya
 
<font color="0000ff">quote *yup yg penting usaha.. ALLAH tak akan tlg jika hambanya tak mau usaha kan?*

Usaha memang kena usaha.. tapi klu kita tak ingatkan Allah.. mcm mana Allah nak "Ingat" kat kita?? mcm mana nak Ingat kat Allah.?? bukan dgn sebutan je.. </font>
 
oh, i was saying abt my auntie kan?
ah... her working hours very hectic. in papers, working hrs 8-8... tapi by the time knock off, 12noon! so anak dia, her mom yg jaga...
but she did mention, if she sangkut lagi, she mite get a maid, but tinggalkan wif her mom...

naqi,
kawen muda best... i kawen umur dah 26 la.. but kenal my hubby dah 10years...
baru2 kawen memang syiok. bleh suka2 kluar rumah, suka2 balik. balik kol 5pagi, tido, den gi kerja kol 8 pun selalu!
but once kita dah puas enjoy, dah. time to re-evaluate &amp; prioritise.

beb, i had my own set of marital problem. Alhamdulillah... after 6years, we realised &amp; make amends... not easy la...
 
pinky,
yup but those were da days ...dia da tak active lagi....so i guess u hafta ....kalau budak2 bawak blok cakap kan..
(lu bukak meja dok ngan laki lu n slow talk ngan dia babe...suruh dia pilih mana lagi penting)
 
yup wat shahlynn said is true semua orang mesti ada make mistake...Kita bita bukan angel seh...

Yup2 dulu balik keje gi clubbing balik till 5 pagi then kul 8 da gi keje mata still bleh angkat....skg huh...aku tahu by 11 je aku mesti nak gi slumberland aku - bukan apa I need my beauty sleep lah
 

selamat tengahhari semua ladies.......

cip dah panggil i masuk forum dari tadi but i dok depan pc mata naik kerok~!! panjang the lebar the thread worrr~~~~

pinky...

jus my 2 cents....be strong for ur kids n ingat Tuhan all the way....make that as ur torch in life....go on forward n never look back...
me too shotgun marriage..banyak dugaan but alhamdulillah we always think of the children in watever we do...now in almost my 8th year and have to say im loving my hubby more n more cos we both keep trying to improve ourselves for one another...

Sooooo...ladies aper topic next???? wink wink...hehehehe
 
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