ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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momma_naqi
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nshahi,
sanggup kau post gambar tu kat sini eh..hahahahah
sanggup kau post gambar tu kat sini eh..hahahahah
momma_naqi
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masa tuk balik..... buhbyeeee
lynzi,
murah nyer kau nyer bil!!!! aku pun buat mcm tu tapi sama ajer.. dulu mlm2 on aircon bil average was $170. skrg tak on aircon tapi bil last mth was $230! mcmne nak explain tu?! dah tu rmh nie kite 4 org ajer.. suku kaum dia da blah.
pening sey. pay so much for bil letrik.
danryan,
veteran ar.. advanced member! tgk ajer post number tu.
murah nyer kau nyer bil!!!! aku pun buat mcm tu tapi sama ajer.. dulu mlm2 on aircon bil average was $170. skrg tak on aircon tapi bil last mth was $230! mcmne nak explain tu?! dah tu rmh nie kite 4 org ajer.. suku kaum dia da blah.
pening sey. pay so much for bil letrik. danryan,
veteran ar.. advanced member!
tgk ajer post number tu.shash_2901
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mrg ladies....
wah siang sey i nari,i tak dpt tdor betol after wat had happen,i'll b staying at my mum's place 4 couple of mths,yeah...mestilah suka dok ngan my mum,tapi cara yg kita terpaksa yg buat i sakit kepala,sowiela kalau boring pasal sgt cerita,i cuma nak let out apa yg ada dlm ati i...
my PIL place kan its belong to my hb now,tapi kita anak branak ibarat menumpang rumah adik ipar i,wify dier ada prob dgn i,i try to recall apa mistake yg jadi dier tak nak ckp n avoids the kids to play with rizqi,alhamdulilah my MIL perasan dier tak senang ati kalau tglkan i pat umah with her,dier rather i alik umah my mum or i kluar,dier takut kita berdua gadoh besar,tapi alhamdulilah i masih blh sabar,siapa blh relag,anak i tgh tdor dier hempas pintu kuat2,and bkn skali tapi mcm sengaja kluar masuk then slam the door,bila anak dier tdor tau plak tutup pelan2..then my hb pun da perasan n decide to move to my mum's,i tak nak pasal ingatkan my PIL ,then last 2 days kita alik my mum's to go to swimmin,then my MIL called n talk to my hb,i saw my hb eyes turns red after the call,so i tak tanya dulu ,till he started ..he told me my MIL kesian tgk kita anak branak mcm duk menumpang,bila anak2 dier nak main dgn rizqi dier mesti pekek pat anak2 dier suruh masuk bilik,my mil ckp kalau kita sygkan my PIL kita dokla umah my mums dulu ...smlm after packing i tgk brg2 kita mcm nak lari umah berthn,mcm kena halau pun ada,haish the sad part is wen my hb salam mak dier n both cried...i feel bad mcm i ni punca memisahkan ibu dan anak,but my hb said dier tak pernah salah kan i ,kita semua tau saper salah,my hb bkn taknak bersuara,dier fikirkan anak2 sedara punya pasal kalau tak siang2 da halau kluar,its not the first time buat i cam ni...sowie la i cuma nak luahkan i da tak tau pada siapa i nak mengadu....
wah siang sey i nari,i tak dpt tdor betol after wat had happen,i'll b staying at my mum's place 4 couple of mths,yeah...mestilah suka dok ngan my mum,tapi cara yg kita terpaksa yg buat i sakit kepala,sowiela kalau boring pasal sgt cerita,i cuma nak let out apa yg ada dlm ati i...
my PIL place kan its belong to my hb now,tapi kita anak branak ibarat menumpang rumah adik ipar i,wify dier ada prob dgn i,i try to recall apa mistake yg jadi dier tak nak ckp n avoids the kids to play with rizqi,alhamdulilah my MIL perasan dier tak senang ati kalau tglkan i pat umah with her,dier rather i alik umah my mum or i kluar,dier takut kita berdua gadoh besar,tapi alhamdulilah i masih blh sabar,siapa blh relag,anak i tgh tdor dier hempas pintu kuat2,and bkn skali tapi mcm sengaja kluar masuk then slam the door,bila anak dier tdor tau plak tutup pelan2..then my hb pun da perasan n decide to move to my mum's,i tak nak pasal ingatkan my PIL ,then last 2 days kita alik my mum's to go to swimmin,then my MIL called n talk to my hb,i saw my hb eyes turns red after the call,so i tak tanya dulu ,till he started ..he told me my MIL kesian tgk kita anak branak mcm duk menumpang,bila anak2 dier nak main dgn rizqi dier mesti pekek pat anak2 dier suruh masuk bilik,my mil ckp kalau kita sygkan my PIL kita dokla umah my mums dulu ...smlm after packing i tgk brg2 kita mcm nak lari umah berthn,mcm kena halau pun ada,haish the sad part is wen my hb salam mak dier n both cried...i feel bad mcm i ni punca memisahkan ibu dan anak,but my hb said dier tak pernah salah kan i ,kita semua tau saper salah,my hb bkn taknak bersuara,dier fikirkan anak2 sedara punya pasal kalau tak siang2 da halau kluar,its not the first time buat i cam ni...sowie la i cuma nak luahkan i da tak tau pada siapa i nak mengadu....
Morning all nice mummies ~~
Shash,
Its ok to share with us here, hopefully it can help to clear your mind.
Luckily your MIL and your hub understand the situation. I think to avoid misunderstanding its better that you shift to your mum's place. Do you have plans to buy your own house?
If you can sabar so much the better, because sabar itu separuh dari iman.
I hope you will lead a better life from now Insya Allah
Shash,
Its ok to share with us here, hopefully it can help to clear your mind.
Luckily your MIL and your hub understand the situation. I think to avoid misunderstanding its better that you shift to your mum's place. Do you have plans to buy your own house?
If you can sabar so much the better, because sabar itu separuh dari iman.
I hope you will lead a better life from now Insya Allah
mamaliz
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shash....
banyak bersabar....alam keluarga memang camni..ada jerr yg serba tak kena....alhamdulillah ur pil faham the situation...daripada ada org yg sebelah mata ajerr....u n hubby banyak bersabar k....walau pon dah keluar dari umah tu, rajin tanya khabar ur pil, show them u still care even if tak sebumbung....this is to prevent any miscommunication, jadi kalau ada apa apa yg they ragu they can ask u straight away....
as for ur sil, i tink u diamkan....sampai bila dia nak camtu...the huby shud see wats going on n do sumthing kalau sampai gini jadinya.....
u take care n dont be soo stress k....
banyak bersabar....alam keluarga memang camni..ada jerr yg serba tak kena....alhamdulillah ur pil faham the situation...daripada ada org yg sebelah mata ajerr....u n hubby banyak bersabar k....walau pon dah keluar dari umah tu, rajin tanya khabar ur pil, show them u still care even if tak sebumbung....this is to prevent any miscommunication, jadi kalau ada apa apa yg they ragu they can ask u straight away....
as for ur sil, i tink u diamkan....sampai bila dia nak camtu...the huby shud see wats going on n do sumthing kalau sampai gini jadinya.....
u take care n dont be soo stress k....
shash_2901
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mamaliz,
hello lama tak chat with u,hb dier tu entah eh,da mcm bini dier head of family,laki dier ikutkan jer apa kata laki dier,i pun tak tau dari mane i dpt kesabaran kali ni,kalau dulu mmg da terok i kerjakan,lol
takpepela mungkin ni dugaan yg harus i tempuhi,mungkin ada hikmah disebaliknye..thanx mommies..
mrg cik nab,thx i will sabar fo now..
hello lama tak chat with u,hb dier tu entah eh,da mcm bini dier head of family,laki dier ikutkan jer apa kata laki dier,i pun tak tau dari mane i dpt kesabaran kali ni,kalau dulu mmg da terok i kerjakan,lol
takpepela mungkin ni dugaan yg harus i tempuhi,mungkin ada hikmah disebaliknye..thanx mommies..
mrg cik nab,thx i will sabar fo now..
momma_naqi
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selamat pagieee singapura...
Shash *hugzz* ....sabar gal perhaps ada hikmah dsebalik segala yg berlaku.
Shash *hugzz* ....sabar gal perhaps ada hikmah dsebalik segala yg berlaku.
momma_naqi
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wat's for breakfast today ladiesss
mamaliz
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shash...
heheh...tulahh....i've been busy also since my mum passed away...banyak yg nak disettlekan...online pon tapi tak chat pasal no mood...now feel a bit better emotionally so im up n about again...but now demam...
menyampah betul bila sakit camni....
u banyak bersabar,,....pasal pada i kalau menantu cam ur sil tu ...like no respect for pil gitu...tak segan silu hempas pintu in the hse that in laws staying in also....biar kita mengalah...
heheh...tulahh....i've been busy also since my mum passed away...banyak yg nak disettlekan...online pon tapi tak chat pasal no mood...now feel a bit better emotionally so im up n about again...but now demam...
u banyak bersabar,,....pasal pada i kalau menantu cam ur sil tu ...like no respect for pil gitu...tak segan silu hempas pintu in the hse that in laws staying in also....biar kita mengalah...
momma_naqi
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mamaliz,
hmm "HANA YORI DANGO 2!" on mysoju....bab ni tak faham..
me having my MCD breakfast
hmm "HANA YORI DANGO 2!" on mysoju....bab ni tak faham..
me having my MCD breakfast
Good Morning Good Morning Gerls
Naqi
semalam tido ok? Anaqi bangun lagi tak?
Shash
I kesian u gerl.. ye lah dok bercampur ni mesti ade conflict
Tapi kudos to ur MIL for being open and accepting the way out
Some parents lagi nak bercover cover, tu tunggu time bomb meletup jer
Jgn susah hati lah.. dok rumah ur mom pun u less stress kan. Tak payah jadi maid org lain.
Naqi
semalam tido ok? Anaqi bangun lagi tak?
Shash
I kesian u gerl.. ye lah dok bercampur ni mesti ade conflict
Tapi kudos to ur MIL for being open and accepting the way out
Some parents lagi nak bercover cover, tu tunggu time bomb meletup jer
Jgn susah hati lah.. dok rumah ur mom pun u less stress kan. Tak payah jadi maid org lain.
momma_naqi
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Cik Nab,
binga ambon....u make??
Nora...Morning...
Hahahah da nak bangun terus tepok2 dia n he's back to sleep...
Mamaliz,
Cett...ku ingatkan makanan baru..
binga ambon....u make??
Nora...Morning...
Hahahah da nak bangun terus tepok2 dia n he's back to sleep...
Mamaliz,
Cett...ku ingatkan makanan baru..
<font color="0000ff">Nora
naufal getting better.. dah tak muntah2 lagi.. dat day doc cakap stomach flu cos of e antibiotic..
tapi tu lah.. he very cranky ahh now.. really dont neo what he want.. dulu tak mcm gini.. mcm ada yg tak kena..
for the past few days ni.. at nite he will wake up every hr bila dah dukung baru tido balik..!! </font>
naufal getting better.. dah tak muntah2 lagi.. dat day doc cakap stomach flu cos of e antibiotic..
tapi tu lah.. he very cranky ahh now.. really dont neo what he want.. dulu tak mcm gini.. mcm ada yg tak kena..
for the past few days ni.. at nite he will wake up every hr bila dah dukung baru tido balik..!! </font>
wati
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Good morning Shash , Mamaliz, Cik Nab and others..
Sorry lama tak log in.. Sibuk over the weekends.. byk perkara terjadi.
Friday lepas balik outing, I went to my in-law place. Then I notice Maya have a bit of redness on her bottom eyelid. Mcm ada growth.. then Sat nite, bawak pergi NUH emergency. They gave eye lotion.
Then Sunday nite, my uncle in JB nazak… and Monday morning he pass away. I took urgent leave. Then notice Maya eyes become worst then before. So yesterday told my mum to send her to KK hospital.
Doctor tu sampai bukak buku tau. Then call the head doctor to look at Maya. But better lah. Cos they gave anti-biotics, itchy medication, eye drops and eye lotion. Then smlm her growth tu, mcm burst tau. Then bleeding and then the nana all came out.. Sigh*
So sad lah tgk Maya. Kesian seh…. I really pray that she will recover soon. Let me the one to suffer… kengkawan.. Doakan Maya ok…cos kalau tak baik, she need to go for operation. Which is really the last resort. I ada attached gambar Maya.
Shash, kesiannya I baca kes you nie.. Harap bersabar.. Everything happens for a reason. Ada hikmah disebaliknya…
Sorry lama tak log in.. Sibuk over the weekends.. byk perkara terjadi.
Friday lepas balik outing, I went to my in-law place. Then I notice Maya have a bit of redness on her bottom eyelid. Mcm ada growth.. then Sat nite, bawak pergi NUH emergency. They gave eye lotion.
Then Sunday nite, my uncle in JB nazak… and Monday morning he pass away. I took urgent leave. Then notice Maya eyes become worst then before. So yesterday told my mum to send her to KK hospital.
Doctor tu sampai bukak buku tau. Then call the head doctor to look at Maya. But better lah. Cos they gave anti-biotics, itchy medication, eye drops and eye lotion. Then smlm her growth tu, mcm burst tau. Then bleeding and then the nana all came out.. Sigh*
So sad lah tgk Maya. Kesian seh…. I really pray that she will recover soon. Let me the one to suffer… kengkawan.. Doakan Maya ok…cos kalau tak baik, she need to go for operation. Which is really the last resort. I ada attached gambar Maya.
Shash, kesiannya I baca kes you nie.. Harap bersabar.. Everything happens for a reason. Ada hikmah disebaliknya…
Mdm Wati
Oh dear.. kesian Maya, tepanjat i tengok gambar tu
Did dr say why? cld be the tear duct is clogged or infected
Kalau nanah keluar pun bagus lah
Kalau org dulu dulu roll roll the area with telor rebus to make the nanah masak and come out.
Lynn
anak sakit cam tu lah.. kite bersengkang mate and tahan penat lah
Hope he will get back to his normal self soon
Oh dear.. kesian Maya, tepanjat i tengok gambar tu
Did dr say why? cld be the tear duct is clogged or infected
Kalau nanah keluar pun bagus lah
Kalau org dulu dulu roll roll the area with telor rebus to make the nanah masak and come out.
Lynn
anak sakit cam tu lah.. kite bersengkang mate and tahan penat lah
Hope he will get back to his normal self soon
momma_naqi
Active Member
goodness....
Watiiii.....kesiannya....how I wish the mothers can take over her place....
Insyalah I will doakan dat she cepat sembuh.....*hugzzz*
Watiiii.....kesiannya....how I wish the mothers can take over her place....
Insyalah I will doakan dat she cepat sembuh.....*hugzzz*
<font color="0000ff">Wati
klu sakit tu, i faham ahh.. memang very cranky.. tapi now entah ehh.. nak cakap sakit, tapi no fever.. doc pun cakap lung dah clear..
tapi rasa mcm ada yg tak kena gitu.. selalu dia tak gini.. he very playful and active..
if u seen him b4 u will neo.. now he only want to be carried only!!</font>
klu sakit tu, i faham ahh.. memang very cranky.. tapi now entah ehh.. nak cakap sakit, tapi no fever.. doc pun cakap lung dah clear..
tapi rasa mcm ada yg tak kena gitu.. selalu dia tak gini.. he very playful and active..
if u seen him b4 u will neo.. now he only want to be carried only!!</font>
momma_naqi
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Lynn,
Kalau orang dulu cakap kan...budak kalau nak pandai sesuatu slalunya cranky....and lagipun kan dia baru nak baik sakit so manja sikitlah gal....
Kalau orang dulu cakap kan...budak kalau nak pandai sesuatu slalunya cranky....and lagipun kan dia baru nak baik sakit so manja sikitlah gal....
<font color="aa00aa">lynn,
kalau faiq sick pun he would be like naufal.
part nak kena dukung sampai 1-2 hours at nite tu yg i takleh tahan.
cos he dah 12kg and then tak nak his daddy to carry him pun.
my tummy boleh cramp dukung dia like that.
i hope there is nothing worng with naufal.</font>
kalau faiq sick pun he would be like naufal.
part nak kena dukung sampai 1-2 hours at nite tu yg i takleh tahan.
cos he dah 12kg and then tak nak his daddy to carry him pun.
my tummy boleh cramp dukung dia like that.
i hope there is nothing worng with naufal.</font>
wati
Active Member
Thanks for all your prayers and doa mommies... i tgk Maya hari2 pun mcm nak nangis, but i can't lah... I need to be strong for her..
Doctor ckp her pore / gland is block. Air tak bleh keluar. So it's like blocked lah. Tapi sigh, sedih betul aku tgk.. I really think Maya dun deserve this seh.. tapi dah takdir kan. Hopefully she recover soon. So far her character is still the playful Maya. Cuma now we are trying hard not to make her cry. Kesian...
Nora, telur rebus ? Hmm... Si Maya now phobia if people touch her eye. Dia dah pandai now.. Kalau kita adult ckp nak letak ubat kat mata, terus dia climb on me like clinging for her life. Perang besar tau. She is really scared.
Lynn, sabar jer.. it's like tat. Masa tu Maya tak sakit tak aper, every 2 hours bangun nangis, macam nampak hantu.. sebab it's really crying on top of her lungs tau.. then nak i dukung and dodoi kan dia.. then dia tido balik. Bila nak letak dia on her mattress.. terpekik lagi and kena aku dodoikan lagi.. penat babe.. I understand how you feel...
Doctor ckp her pore / gland is block. Air tak bleh keluar. So it's like blocked lah. Tapi sigh, sedih betul aku tgk.. I really think Maya dun deserve this seh.. tapi dah takdir kan. Hopefully she recover soon. So far her character is still the playful Maya. Cuma now we are trying hard not to make her cry. Kesian...
Nora, telur rebus ? Hmm... Si Maya now phobia if people touch her eye. Dia dah pandai now.. Kalau kita adult ckp nak letak ubat kat mata, terus dia climb on me like clinging for her life. Perang besar tau. She is really scared.
Lynn, sabar jer.. it's like tat. Masa tu Maya tak sakit tak aper, every 2 hours bangun nangis, macam nampak hantu.. sebab it's really crying on top of her lungs tau.. then nak i dukung and dodoi kan dia.. then dia tido balik. Bila nak letak dia on her mattress.. terpekik lagi and kena aku dodoikan lagi.. penat babe.. I understand how you feel...