ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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<font color="000000">Sabrina
eee...thank u so much...I really appreciate ur input and the feedback on me really makes me happy and smiling now..I always tot i am a lousy mum not doing hard enuf for my kids...
yup, betol he only have academic problems...Insya-Allah, i talk with his cikgu, teacher and anyone who could help my son...
By sharing ur experiences would help all mommies here to handle their kids better....</font>
eee...thank u so much...I really appreciate ur input and the feedback on me really makes me happy and smiling now..I always tot i am a lousy mum not doing hard enuf for my kids...
yup, betol he only have academic problems...Insya-Allah, i talk with his cikgu, teacher and anyone who could help my son...
By sharing ur experiences would help all mommies here to handle their kids better....</font>
eliza_hairi
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ooops it's me again...
sajer nak share a parenting tip that i learnt from my principal on how to inculcate good learning behaviour in young children. She has 3 daughters. Eldest doing medicine, 2nd in RJC, youngest just entered RGS.
Her tip is to have a proper study table in the house, not kitchen table or coffee table in living room etc. Train the kid to sit at the table and do and complete homework there. For young kids, they can do their pre-nursery books or drawings /scribblings etc. Start as young as possible and do it everyday if possible. This is to help develop self-discipline.
i find that it makes sense in sumways, coz many children nowadays 5 mins oso can't sit still and focus to do homework... coz not train mah? rite?
sajer nak share a parenting tip that i learnt from my principal on how to inculcate good learning behaviour in young children. She has 3 daughters. Eldest doing medicine, 2nd in RJC, youngest just entered RGS.
Her tip is to have a proper study table in the house, not kitchen table or coffee table in living room etc. Train the kid to sit at the table and do and complete homework there. For young kids, they can do their pre-nursery books or drawings /scribblings etc. Start as young as possible and do it everyday if possible. This is to help develop self-discipline.
i find that it makes sense in sumways, coz many children nowadays 5 mins oso can't sit still and focus to do homework... coz not train mah? rite?
smalldreams
Active Member
Dan
apa angin dia kasi angpow? lucky ya!
apa angin dia kasi angpow? lucky ya!
smalldreams
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sabrina
thanks for the tips! ya lah it's hard to engage young kids these days. Gotta train them. If I give my 21 mth old crayon, he'll only be at it for about 5 mins, then he'll find something else to conteng. sighs...
thanks for the tips! ya lah it's hard to engage young kids these days. Gotta train them. If I give my 21 mth old crayon, he'll only be at it for about 5 mins, then he'll find something else to conteng. sighs...
smalldreams
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Nottygal
Alahai you ni buat i paiseh aje tau. Apa lah tips yang I boleh kasi....hmm..I think Sabrina has given good tips already, and since she's a teacher, am sure the tips would work, insya-Allah.
How about setting some kind of structure - eg, bila dia balik, dia kena show his homework, and also, since he's so young, you might want to have a time when all your kids can do their homework together. That way, you can ensure his homework is done. If you haven't tried that, that is
Can also explain that mula2, one can start forging signature, then later one may start doign things which are more serious. So before that comes, encourage him to think of the consequences before doing any action. Hope that helps
Alahai you ni buat i paiseh aje tau. Apa lah tips yang I boleh kasi....hmm..I think Sabrina has given good tips already, and since she's a teacher, am sure the tips would work, insya-Allah.
How about setting some kind of structure - eg, bila dia balik, dia kena show his homework, and also, since he's so young, you might want to have a time when all your kids can do their homework together. That way, you can ensure his homework is done. If you haven't tried that, that is
Can also explain that mula2, one can start forging signature, then later one may start doign things which are more serious. So before that comes, encourage him to think of the consequences before doing any action. Hope that helps
<font color="000000">Bibik just call, he lom balik...teacher released him at 2.30pm...
to reach home took less than 30mins, he is neither at my mom's place...
Ya Allah, lindungilah anak ku...Hope he will come home safely....
Going to log out now...thanks mommies! Bye....</font>
to reach home took less than 30mins, he is neither at my mom's place...
Ya Allah, lindungilah anak ku...Hope he will come home safely....
Going to log out now...thanks mommies! Bye....</font>
smalldreams
Active Member
weather memang gerek..semalam i was at home, i tertido while tidokan adam. and i was cooking sup daging kat dapur! syukur I woke up an hr later, daging pon dah empuk, tapi tak hangus, phew!
Notygal
seems that you've tried a lot. Just befriend him, and rules are rules okie! That's important. tak boleh tukar2 rules - eg curfew can get later and later.
Semalam ada sapa2 tengok desperate housewives?
Notygal
seems that you've tried a lot. Just befriend him, and rules are rules okie! That's important. tak boleh tukar2 rules - eg curfew can get later and later.
Semalam ada sapa2 tengok desperate housewives?
momma_naqi
Active Member
last mth mine was $130.00....ishhhh ape ke tidak hari2 anaqi bangun je dia da cakap kat bibik dia...'Ney ..ney....(Barney)....hmmm 1 hari 3 x tengok ..
<font color="ff6000">Nshahi,
Ooouh...cos I received e bills last 1.5 weeks. Alhmdllh...Hopefully, it'll stay this way..hehe!
Cheap? Syukur...At least with the xtra back up, I can save or buy some books or clothings for my boys. Blanja my parents at teh-tarik pon ok gak.. </font>
Ooouh...cos I received e bills last 1.5 weeks. Alhmdllh...Hopefully, it'll stay this way..hehe!
Cheap? Syukur...At least with the xtra back up, I can save or buy some books or clothings for my boys. Blanja my parents at teh-tarik pon ok gak.. </font>