ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

<font color="000000">Lina

mane mane pon dia selit, smlm my kids pergi ngaji I bongkar beg sch dia..found worksheets dilipat lipat mcm fan! padahal, I buat 2 files – ‘homework file’ and ‘parent notices file’. Then byk worksheet blank and with teacher stamp for parent’s signature, but was not my signature..

Cik Zai,
TERIMA KASIH banyak2 for your kind advise dan doa. Insya-Allah, I will try again….

Nshah
its not easy gal…da jadi mak baru I tahu…I think its coming back to me…</font>
 


nora.aw...wah betul punya prepared...sampai ade spare panty hihih....

agaknya dia ade problem tak with the teacher?...semua subject dia simpan or a particular subject?....

kalau ur son tak suka cakap...u just need to find ways to help him express himself....

like adekan pin up board for him...like for instance....today kalau happy then letak smiley face then kalau sad marked something.....
 
Lina

hah aku kalau nak angkut barang balik from office kena sewa Mira yer lorry.

Nottygal
i pun buntu kepala cam ne nak handle bec no expericance.
 
<font color="000000">nORA
Thanks nora...Insya-Allah, mulut je ckp nak give up..tapi hati tak sampai...

Wati
mane lah i boleh marah..malahan i should thank you for providing some input regarding my problem...

Lina,
tak suka ckp tapi dia 'colok rite?' at other times...very friendly to the max!

Mamaliz,
yg i think i heard that too..dia ngah sebok asyik tanya whether dia dah baligh lom...dad dia finally explain to him last Sunday..</font>
 
hmmm....nottygal..

maybe see is it a particular subject or all hios homeworks he doesnt do...
if particular then ask lah...tak pandai buat ke...tak suka teacher ke..
maybe he doesnt like the subject ke...so kita kena help him wif it...

budak budak ni nowadays nak kenal isi hati diorang ni bole cekik darah ....tapi kalau kita meletup makin menjadi...nak kena slalu lepaskan angin marah tu tempat lain...i pon pernah lepas tangan kat muka sarah...
lepas tu terus i lari masuk bilik meraung...aku ni dah lah crybaby....
but after dat i apologised to her...pasal i tau i shudnt do that no matter how angry i am cos she's jus a kid...
 
Notttgal,
I feel you should call his form teacher and have a good understand what his behaviour in school. As for the signature part. Maybe, he forget a few times and got scolded by teacher, that why he do that. Talk to him again. Tell him not to do it again and you will monitor him very closely with the teachers and you must do it to show him you really care and corncen. Couselling is good but some boys will be more rebellious, just like my nephew when he is young. So nottygal, u have to put in double effect.

My Waafir, in P2, Always forget things in school in last Jan, like forget to let me fill in the form or signature la...until his form teacher go and look for his elder sister whom is in P6. So, as and when he do wrong the teacher will inform my 3rd girl. For my luckily I have one more elder one in sch this year. Next year, I will have problem.

Now I have problem with him on his tution work cos he didn't pass up the book or bring the book to tution. I found out last last Thurday as i on leave and went to the centre to fetch him and saw the teacher and the teacher told me. so now, I will everyday reach home ask him you got homework. anything for me to sign?? anything to tell me? then check with my elder girl...
 
Nottygal, what liz said is maybe true. Maybe it's puberty. Maybe he dah "baligh" and think that there is something wrong with him.. things like tat.

I ada 2 younger sisters. 1 of them ada split personality. Dari kecik memang gitu tau. She like to be alone in the room and draws or design. Tapi bila kita happy, she will be happy, tapi sekelip mata nanti dia jadi sedih and unhappy tau. Padahal orang tak kacau dia. Then she is more to friends. Thru her drawings, she will like put things as her family never loves her, nobody loves her.. things like tat. Quite dangerous sebab dorang nie very depressed. Best thing is we got her a diary. So dia luahkan all her feelings in her diary. So there’s no simpan2. Then we make her feel impt. Like ask for her opinion.. so dia feel grateful. Memang susah, tapi dah darah daging you kan.. But cannot give-up tau.. never give up.

Nottygal, just watch your son for awhile. Kalau dia more into friends, then you must let him mix with his friends tapi kena tgk what kind of friends tau. Budak2 memang suka ikut2 kawan. Kawan yg baik tu bagus lah kan.. kawan yg tak baik tu, kita jauhkan.

Jgn putus asa.
 
hahhhhh....

aku rasa dia ngah going tru dat period lah tu nottygal....maybe his frenz talking abt it....so before they go moreeee into the subject themselves biar u n hubby talk abt it...

its ok for u to join in ...so u can tell him abt respecting girls also...birds n bees ni nak kena explain betul betul...hehehe...abis lah bila akunya turn nanti ehhh..
 
To add on, I have problem with my 2nd girl on her maths result and I had work very closely with her and keep ask her abt her maths till she fed up sometime.
I scolded her on the bad result and try to find out how com I send her Private tution till result so bad..she refuse to tell me till I take out my cane at the side and talk to her again. finally she told me the tutor confuse her by using too much method. So I change the tution and luckily I find a good tution that can open up her mindset and able to make her a bit interested in maths. so I monitor with the sch teachers and the tutor closely and everytime I let her know I'm very worry abt her maths. final result she a least got a C for maths. therefore this this I hope she can built up her foundation in maths.
 
Dulu when i got my period i was so confused tau. And upset with my family. Then think there was something wrong with me. My mum nvr really explained about period to me. So it came as a shocked. Tapi memang time puberty was hard for me. Cos i was so rebellious. I pentingkan kawan. Then i made my dad and mum cried cos i scolded them. Hmm... i was really a bad daughter. Sampai sekarang i menyesal tak sudah atas perbuatan i. But now i am a much better daughter. I love my parents to death. And always the one taking care of them.
 
yup Lina... thanks.

I always think things happen for a reason. We all learn from mistake.

ok. now nak gie mamam.. Roti, hotdog and sambal sardine.. yummy!
 
hmmmm....me wen i datang haid for 1st time haiz......i diam jerr...cos i dgr dgr from some girls that these happens....wen my sis found out cos she saw me amik her pads ..she told my mum...then my mum jus tell my sis write down doa utk mandi hadas n give me...thats all...
sedih sehh....rasa macam my mum geli ngan i gitu tau...
my dad made me feel better by taking us out for dinner...so far i can say only my dad understands on wat to do wen i feel trouble or wat...my mum kalau bole nak walk away jerr...
dats why i hope i can be a good mum to my kids...
 
liz n all...
inshAllah we will be better mommies walaupon at times i feel that i hv failed...but tak kan nak give up kan....kite kena terus usaha...walaupon mulut terkate give up hihiih
 
<font color="ff0000"> CHIA YO!!!</font>
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nottygal,

i agree with mira... maybe you want to find out more from the form teacher about your son. The form teacher should be able to help you in some ways.

One of the methods used in school to help self-discipline students is using 'tracking diary'.
Your son have school diary? If he has, you can use this to track his homework and behaviour. You can request that all his subject teachers sign in the diary, against the homework that has to be done for each subject. The subject teachers can also write comments about his behaviour in school or attendance in CCA / extra classes. Everyday you check the diary for updates and countersign. You can also use this diary as evidence during Parent-Teacher meet.

Give your son a time frame to improve his behaviour, if he wants to be out of this 'tracking system'.

This method may work brilliantly or backfire totally. Work with the form teacher.

Just my POV as a teacher myself...
 
Danryan
Dah kasi honey to Marsyha?
ye lah anak anak sakit ni pening kepala.. lagi u solo sekarang.


Naqi
Dah makan lunch? Feel better tak? Pi minom coke, me pun tengah minum coke nie. Nyaman....


Nottygal
I reply ur sms dapat tak? my phone nie dah ngek ngok

Asik cakap phone memory full, but all my contacts and pics are in memory card, tak atau ape lagi nak delete.

I used to store like 2000 smses now all dah delete.. but still say phone memory full..dunno know what else to do abt it.
 
Dan

I campur honey dgn susu kasi minum.

i had kuah asam pedas ikan kerisi with daun kesum
super best bec mak masak

yesterday my hb makan maggi goreng kat rumah
pasal i told him i nak balik makan kuah pedas, tak nak makan kat luar
 
<font color="ff0000">Smlm kul 9mlm ada olang knock my door...

but to my surprise, my neighbour kat bawah gave me a birthday present
she knew my DOB coz her hb bday same2
and we pernah talk abt bday during raya visiting

tak sedap pulak..
dah dia tolong my hero car dapat present lagik..
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<font color="ff0000">Nora

yes, i mixed with warm water...
dia dah rasa, pas tu she shut her lips

balik i try with her milk</font>
 
<font color="ff0000">Nora

ya lor rezeki kot....alhamdullilah

i sms her this morning and try to korek2 her DOB
You know wat she reply...
This is not a one to one xchange

as long i luv it ok
and she tried to make me happy.
Last Fri her hb saw me waiting for cab at abt 630am
Dat time marsyha was referred to KKH

I lum open the present</font>
 
Lina

dah.. tadi i try to sms, tak keluar the memory message tu.
Maybe thats the remedy.

actually how to check the phone yer memory??
 
<font color="ff6000">Ladies,
Nak tanya pendapat. My gf just called me. Her MIL called her to be patience and give her husband some times to cool down. Mind you, it's close to 2 weeks he didn't come home to see my gf, doter and unborn baby. Mentioning, her MIL's trying to settle his debt FIRST before going through their current hoo-haa relationship cos her son's currently stressed.

And now, my gf's in dilemma and asked me till when she gona be patience with all. She's left with days, heading to labour.
"Nampak gaya, aku branak sorang. Aku bertarung nyawa. Sekiranya aku tk dipanjangkan umur, aku tak akan maafkan dia &amp; family dia."

I feel like crying upon hearing her woes. Didnt expect her to go thru all.</font>
 
biasalah. Budak kalau sakit memang kita yg susah hati setengah maut. Mana tak tido, mana nak ingat ubat... haiz.. diri sendiri tak terurus.

Liz, takperlah.. at least your father is concern abt you.

Can i know what is the doa of mandi hadas haid ?
And how and when do you guys read it...

Just asking, not that i tak tahu lah... mana tahu korang different versions.
 
On Sunday I went to kedai makan yg deret hawa kat simpang bedok

The last stall next to 7-11, the kangkong belacan sedap, pedas.

Jengok jengok jugak dlm sedap corner, mane lah tau ade member yg tengah try dip dip.


San

you fren ignore jer MIl tu for now, nak cakap aper, cakap lah..
can she gurantee her son will turnover a new leaf
senang eh.. buat taik then wife clear up, now mak dia clear up..

concentrate on giving birth dulu, bile dah selamat bersalin and sihat
baru take action..
 
San, please be strong for your fren ok.. I pun sedih dgr citer dia. Sigh* Tell her to join this forum lah.. luahkan perasan.. she will feel better. If she go into labour, i think she can bring 1 family member tau.. Like her mum or sister. Kalau dia takder, then you can go in with her. Be strong for her.
 
<font color="000000">Sabrina
Thanks...

Handbook: All my kids hv been using the handbook to write notes, homeworks, self-reflections..

Without fail, i will sign their handbook daily. Even though no homework, they must indicate 'ALL SUBJECTS NO HOMEWORK'. I will countersign on it..

My son is the popular boy at school. He just dont have interest in studies. Smlm, i found his malay mock test 11/54...mcmane tu...

He is failing in all subjects...but he is a kind hearted boy. He loves and helps his younger bros with their homework at home..i can also feels his love for me. At school, he likes to help the teacher and he is also the class marshall.

Fyi, I hv been using the tracking method for the past 6 years on him...but it doesnt seems to work at all for me...I just called the school to ask for the Counsellor, was told I need to talk to form teacher first....they will get the teacher to return my call to fix appt..

I am feeling very upset...I myself pon need counselling..so many things bottled up...</font>
 


<font color="ff6000">Naqi/Nora,

Mmng sedih. She wanted to tell her mother but afraid her own mom takes action. MIL wants her to come over Pasir Ris and sleepover this weekends BUT I told her..."Why must you be the one coming over when no one's fetching or sending you home? Its as if, you're in the wrong and keep clinging your husband."

I know I've hurt her but I find that her MIL's plan mcm karut lah. Bukan dia tak tahu kwn I dah sarat. Expect her to take a cab with her toddler dotter fr Bishan to P.Ris....

Wati,
Thank u. I did tell her to bring her mom bt a lil' reluctant cos she want to prove all that she's a strong person w/o her husband beside her. Ada juga recommend this website tapi dia masih segan.</font>
 
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