momma_naqi
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ok gi mamamzzz dulu...
ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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toilet train
no... bec my mom tak kuasa
but weekends kite ade so we will bring him to toilet
but now malam he tak nak pakai diapers, so far only 3 kali accident..
looks like he can control, bile bangun pagi mesti straigh away gi toilet kencing.. banyak
if he tak nak bangun still baring baring.. then we put on diaper for him.
Bec for sure bile he sedar dari sleep tu he will pee.
no... bec my mom tak kuasa
but weekends kite ade so we will bring him to toilet
but now malam he tak nak pakai diapers, so far only 3 kali accident..
looks like he can control, bile bangun pagi mesti straigh away gi toilet kencing.. banyak
if he tak nak bangun still baring baring.. then we put on diaper for him.
Bec for sure bile he sedar dari sleep tu he will pee.
<font color="0000ff">Nora
no lah.. hb werk mcm mana nak send and fetch daily.. it 3hrs program only and we plan to take transport insya-allah klu jadi..!!
Naqi
pasal nak antar naufal at 18mth tu.. it my own idea, tapi kan bila i look at him when he 17mth.. i was tinking ehh kecik lagi lah anak aku ni.. alai hai tak sampai hatinya!! so i decide to send him once he 24mth..at least he can start to communicated wit me first!!</font>
no lah.. hb werk mcm mana nak send and fetch daily.. it 3hrs program only and we plan to take transport insya-allah klu jadi..!!
Naqi
pasal nak antar naufal at 18mth tu.. it my own idea, tapi kan bila i look at him when he 17mth.. i was tinking ehh kecik lagi lah anak aku ni.. alai hai tak sampai hatinya!! so i decide to send him once he 24mth..at least he can start to communicated wit me first!!</font>
lina,
i agree... u takleh samakan sumer anak.
but for the teacher to said Danish 'got problem' is so unprofessional of her.
aiyoh, mika tulis nama dia jer bleh fill up whole paper width. padahal stakat 7letters. and at times he writes right to left.
mika ada 'special' skit. he needs to move around to absorb info. and he will always give you dat 'goon' look. padahal, he's very particular to very fine details. my mom always said he mcm uncle dia. Insya Allah. Amin.
i agree... u takleh samakan sumer anak.
but for the teacher to said Danish 'got problem' is so unprofessional of her.
aiyoh, mika tulis nama dia jer bleh fill up whole paper width. padahal stakat 7letters. and at times he writes right to left.
mika ada 'special' skit. he needs to move around to absorb info. and he will always give you dat 'goon' look. padahal, he's very particular to very fine details. my mom always said he mcm uncle dia. Insya Allah. Amin.
i nak tanya u all something....lets say this girl anak luar nikah but tak pakai bte Abdulllah..then if she wants to get married...the mother\father must inform the kadi kan...
can a person not go to her nikah....coz tak nak subahat esp if her parents tak nak beritahu the kadi the truth
can a person not go to her nikah....coz tak nak subahat esp if her parents tak nak beritahu the kadi the truth
momma_naqi
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bab nikah tak bleh buat main tau...everything also hafta tell ....
Baby-faced boy is father at 13
By LUCY HAGAN
Published: Today
BOY dad Alfie Patten yesterday admitted he does not know how much nappies cost — but said: “I think it’s a lot.”
Baby-faced Alfie, who is 13 but looks more like eight, became a father four days ago when his girlfriend Chantelle Steadman gave birth to 7lb 3oz Maisie Roxanne.
He told how he and Chantelle, 15, decided against an abortion after discovering she was pregnant.
The shy lad, whose voice has not yet broken, said: “I thought it would be good to have a baby.
“I didn’t think about how we would afford it. I don’t really get pocket money. My dad sometimes gives me £10.”
Little family ... Alfie, Chantelle and baby Maisie
Lee Thompson
Alfie, who is just 4ft tall, added: “When my mum found out, I thought I was going to get in trouble. We wanted to have the baby but were worried how people would react.
“I didn’t know what it would be like to be a dad. I will be good, though, and care for it.”
Alfie’s dad Dennis told how the lad does not really understand the enormity of his situation — but seemed desperate to be a devoted and responsible father.
Secret
He wanted to be the first to hold Maisie after the hospital birth. He tenderly kisses the baby and gives her a bottle.
And Dennis, 45, said: “He could have shrugged his shoulders and sat at home on his Playstation. But he has been at the hospital every day.”
Maisie was conceived after Chantelle and Alfie — just 12 at the time — had a single night of unprotected sex.
They found out about the baby when Chantelle was 12 weeks pregnant.
But they kept it a secret until six weeks later when Chantelle’s mum Penny, 38, became suspicious about her weight gain and confronted her.
Devoted ... Alfie holds and cuddles Maisie
Lee Thompson
After that Alfie’s family told only those closest to them for fear he would be “demonised” at school.
Chantelle gave birth to Maisie on Monday night after a five-hour labour at Eastbourne Hospital, East Sussex.
Last night she told The Sun: “I’m tired after the birth. I was nervous after going into labour but otherwise I was quite excited.”
Chantelle told how she discovered she was expecting after going to her GP with “really bad” stomach pains. She said: “Me and Alfie went. The doctor asked me whether we had sex. I said yes and he said I should do a pregnancy test. He did the test and said I was pregnant. I started crying and didn’t know what to do.
“He said I should tell my mum but I was too scared.
“We didn’t think we would need help from our parents. You don’t really think about that when you find out you are pregnant. You just think your parents will kill you.”
But Penny figured out what was going on after buying Chantelle a T-shirt which revealed her swelling tum.
Chantelle admitted she and Alfie — who are both being supported by their parents — would be accused of being grossly irresponsible. She said: “We know we made a mistake but I wouldn’t change it now. We will be good loving parents.
“I have started a church course and I am going to do work experience helping other young mums.
“I’ll be a great mum and Alfie will be a great dad.”
Caring ... Alfie bottle feeds his little daughter
Lee Thompson
Chantelle and Maisie were released from hospital yesterday. They are living with Penny, Chantelle’s jobless dad Steve, 43, and her five brothers in a rented council house in Eastbourne. The family live on benefits. Alfie, who lives on an estate across town with mum Nicola, 43, spends most of his time at the Steadmans’ house.
He is allowed to stay overnight and even has a school uniform there so he can go straight to his classes in the morning.
Alfie’s dad, who is separated from Nicola, believes the lad is scared deep down.
He said: “Everyone is telling him things and it’s going round in his head. It hasn’t really dawned on him. He hasn’t got a clue of what the baby means and can’t explain how he feels. All he knows is mum and dad will help.
“When you mention money his eyes look away. And she is reliant on her mum and dad. It’s crazy. They have no idea what lies ahead.”
Dennis, who works for a vehicle recovery firm, described Alfie as “a typical 13-year-old boy”.
He said: “He loves computer games, boxing and Manchester United.” Dennis, who has fathered nine kids, told how he was “gobsmacked” when he discovered Alfie was to be a dad, too.
He said: “When I spoke to him he started crying. He said it was the first time he’d had sex, that he didn’t know what he was doing and of the complications that could come.
“I will talk to him again and it will be the birds and the bees talk. Some may say it’s too late but he needs to understand so there is not another baby.”
Lovely
Chantelle’s mum said: “I told her it was lovely to have the baby but I wish it was in different circumstances. We have five children already so it’s a big financial responsibility. But we are a family and will pull together and get through.
“She’s my daughter. I love her and she will want for nothing.”
Last night Michaela Aston, of the anti-abortion Christian charity LIFE, said: “We commend these teenagers for their courage in bringing their child into the world.
“At the same time this is symptomatic of the over-sexualisation of our youngsters and shows the policy of value-free sex education just isn’t working.”
Britain’s youngest known father is Sean Stewart. He became a dad at 12 when the girl next door, 15-year-old Emma Webster, gave birth in Sharnbrook, Bedford, in 1998. They split six months later.
By LUCY HAGAN
Published: Today
BOY dad Alfie Patten yesterday admitted he does not know how much nappies cost — but said: “I think it’s a lot.”
Baby-faced Alfie, who is 13 but looks more like eight, became a father four days ago when his girlfriend Chantelle Steadman gave birth to 7lb 3oz Maisie Roxanne.
He told how he and Chantelle, 15, decided against an abortion after discovering she was pregnant.
The shy lad, whose voice has not yet broken, said: “I thought it would be good to have a baby.
“I didn’t think about how we would afford it. I don’t really get pocket money. My dad sometimes gives me £10.”
Little family ... Alfie, Chantelle and baby Maisie
Lee Thompson
Alfie, who is just 4ft tall, added: “When my mum found out, I thought I was going to get in trouble. We wanted to have the baby but were worried how people would react.
“I didn’t know what it would be like to be a dad. I will be good, though, and care for it.”
Alfie’s dad Dennis told how the lad does not really understand the enormity of his situation — but seemed desperate to be a devoted and responsible father.
Secret
He wanted to be the first to hold Maisie after the hospital birth. He tenderly kisses the baby and gives her a bottle.
And Dennis, 45, said: “He could have shrugged his shoulders and sat at home on his Playstation. But he has been at the hospital every day.”
Maisie was conceived after Chantelle and Alfie — just 12 at the time — had a single night of unprotected sex.
They found out about the baby when Chantelle was 12 weeks pregnant.
But they kept it a secret until six weeks later when Chantelle’s mum Penny, 38, became suspicious about her weight gain and confronted her.
Devoted ... Alfie holds and cuddles Maisie
Lee Thompson
After that Alfie’s family told only those closest to them for fear he would be “demonised” at school.
Chantelle gave birth to Maisie on Monday night after a five-hour labour at Eastbourne Hospital, East Sussex.
Last night she told The Sun: “I’m tired after the birth. I was nervous after going into labour but otherwise I was quite excited.”
Chantelle told how she discovered she was expecting after going to her GP with “really bad” stomach pains. She said: “Me and Alfie went. The doctor asked me whether we had sex. I said yes and he said I should do a pregnancy test. He did the test and said I was pregnant. I started crying and didn’t know what to do.
“He said I should tell my mum but I was too scared.
“We didn’t think we would need help from our parents. You don’t really think about that when you find out you are pregnant. You just think your parents will kill you.”
But Penny figured out what was going on after buying Chantelle a T-shirt which revealed her swelling tum.
Chantelle admitted she and Alfie — who are both being supported by their parents — would be accused of being grossly irresponsible. She said: “We know we made a mistake but I wouldn’t change it now. We will be good loving parents.
“I have started a church course and I am going to do work experience helping other young mums.
“I’ll be a great mum and Alfie will be a great dad.”
Caring ... Alfie bottle feeds his little daughter
Lee Thompson
Chantelle and Maisie were released from hospital yesterday. They are living with Penny, Chantelle’s jobless dad Steve, 43, and her five brothers in a rented council house in Eastbourne. The family live on benefits. Alfie, who lives on an estate across town with mum Nicola, 43, spends most of his time at the Steadmans’ house.
He is allowed to stay overnight and even has a school uniform there so he can go straight to his classes in the morning.
Alfie’s dad, who is separated from Nicola, believes the lad is scared deep down.
He said: “Everyone is telling him things and it’s going round in his head. It hasn’t really dawned on him. He hasn’t got a clue of what the baby means and can’t explain how he feels. All he knows is mum and dad will help.
“When you mention money his eyes look away. And she is reliant on her mum and dad. It’s crazy. They have no idea what lies ahead.”
Dennis, who works for a vehicle recovery firm, described Alfie as “a typical 13-year-old boy”.
He said: “He loves computer games, boxing and Manchester United.” Dennis, who has fathered nine kids, told how he was “gobsmacked” when he discovered Alfie was to be a dad, too.
He said: “When I spoke to him he started crying. He said it was the first time he’d had sex, that he didn’t know what he was doing and of the complications that could come.
“I will talk to him again and it will be the birds and the bees talk. Some may say it’s too late but he needs to understand so there is not another baby.”
Lovely
Chantelle’s mum said: “I told her it was lovely to have the baby but I wish it was in different circumstances. We have five children already so it’s a big financial responsibility. But we are a family and will pull together and get through.
“She’s my daughter. I love her and she will want for nothing.”
Last night Michaela Aston, of the anti-abortion Christian charity LIFE, said: “We commend these teenagers for their courage in bringing their child into the world.
“At the same time this is symptomatic of the over-sexualisation of our youngsters and shows the policy of value-free sex education just isn’t working.”
Britain’s youngest known father is Sean Stewart. He became a dad at 12 when the girl next door, 15-year-old Emma Webster, gave birth in Sharnbrook, Bedford, in 1998. They split six months later.
momma_naqi
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smlm I nak masak kari ayam...
so at work I da kol bibik to blender the ingredients...
bila balik i tengok dia da tumis the blended ingredients ...tapi I know dat sumtihing is missing....dia tak letak kunyit...so i diam je...
then i da letak rempah semua da letak santan da masukkan ayam semua...i suruh dia rasa....then dia cakap "bu rasanya lain...ibu beli rempah salah ke...
so i tell her hah saya selama ni pakai rempah yg sama...rempah apa yg lain..
so i ask her..apa tadi yg kamu blender??..ada letak kunyit tak..
"alamak ibu saya lupa..."
hah so salah saya ke...
she panic lah coz hubby makan very cerewet....
so i cakap kat dia kamu lain kali orang cakap dengar betul2 jgn main dengar then tak masuk ...so inthe end she hafta do double work...
blender kunyit...then tumis kat another pot...then transfer to the initial pot...
so at work I da kol bibik to blender the ingredients...
bila balik i tengok dia da tumis the blended ingredients ...tapi I know dat sumtihing is missing....dia tak letak kunyit...so i diam je...
then i da letak rempah semua da letak santan da masukkan ayam semua...i suruh dia rasa....then dia cakap "bu rasanya lain...ibu beli rempah salah ke...
so i tell her hah saya selama ni pakai rempah yg sama...rempah apa yg lain..
so i ask her..apa tadi yg kamu blender??..ada letak kunyit tak..
"alamak ibu saya lupa..."
hah so salah saya ke...
she panic lah coz hubby makan very cerewet....
so i cakap kat dia kamu lain kali orang cakap dengar betul2 jgn main dengar then tak masuk ...so inthe end she hafta do double work...
blender kunyit...then tumis kat another pot...then transfer to the initial pot...
momma_naqi
Active Member
ari tu suruh blender cili nak masak sambal tumis...but dia tak soak dulu itu cili...ok takpe I diamkan je....then bila da tumis tak jadi merah jadi itam ....so dia tanya I kenapa...
"simple I cakap kamu tanya saya kenapa??...siapa yang blender ini cili..kamukan jadi kamu cari apa silap kamu...."
then dia tertanya2 apa silap dia...
so i cakap kamu nak buat keje semua cepat2...kamu ada rendam cili tak ....hah inilah punca nya...da double work lagi kena buang the initial cili n blender all over again.....
"simple I cakap kamu tanya saya kenapa??...siapa yang blender ini cili..kamukan jadi kamu cari apa silap kamu...."
then dia tertanya2 apa silap dia...
so i cakap kamu nak buat keje semua cepat2...kamu ada rendam cili tak ....hah inilah punca nya...da double work lagi kena buang the initial cili n blender all over again.....
Nak tanya sikit la ibu ibu disini kalo anak u ade problem eating rice or infact proper foods how do u train them? My son Irfan ni suka makan sweet things je like biscuit n all those stuff tapi the healthy food tak makan lak. Cuma heran nya when I ask his teacher in Childcare they say at school he makan 3 kali tambah seh. biar betul mcm tak percaya gitu coz at home I really have difficulty seeing him eat the proper foods.Mcm mana eh?
momma_naqi
Active Member
eryanie...
simpan all those sweet thingylah..
simpan all those sweet thingylah..
momma_naqi
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lina,
hah itulah sebabnya...i diam je....so bila da salah dia rasakan coz hafta do all double work...then lap the stove all over again...bila orang cakap tak nak dengar betol2....I tahu dia nak buat keje semua cepat2....
hah itulah sebabnya...i diam je....so bila da salah dia rasakan coz hafta do all double work...then lap the stove all over again...bila orang cakap tak nak dengar betol2....I tahu dia nak buat keje semua cepat2....
momma_naqi
Active Member
Dan,
hah blender kalau rosak..senang ku suruh dia pakai style orang lama2....pakai lesung...
hah blender kalau rosak..senang ku suruh dia pakai style orang lama2....pakai lesung...
naqi\nora....pasal barang2 pecah nie memang expected...maybe coz itu bukan barang2 dorang....sometimes i gi pasar or supermarket...i purposely beritahu the price...kalau tak dia ingat i laki bini gi pancing tu ikan.....main nak buang ajer......kalau on air like nobody business...so hv to explain to her again n again