let me just share with you...
@ apple tree, the teacher melayu.
she asyik2 told me mika cant speak english.
i said yes, nenek jaga. and we speak malay at home. every week she'll feedback to me dat his english is very poor.
for us, if his english is poor, so be it. he'll catch up when the time comes. and besides, husband wants him to talk in proper english. Not the, "u dont climb ah, wait you fall, pain, i donno ah!" he very particular.
but @ al-iman, his teacher is very nice. she assured us dat he's a fast learner, thou he's different, in a certain way. now, mika can speak english. thou not often, but he's progressing...