ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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i pun tak pernah combine.
he settle his, i settle mine.
tak cukup, i ask from him, which is rare.
coz one, i tak suka mintak2. i only ask for bills & other urgent payments, if yg dia kasi tu tak cukup....
he doesnt noe how much i gv my mom even.
he doesnt give my mom, but wheneva kita kluar, he would buy food or stuff for my parents.
and sometimes my mom would call him, mintak tolong belikan things from pasar on his way to send Mika.
he settle his, i settle mine.
tak cukup, i ask from him, which is rare.
coz one, i tak suka mintak2. i only ask for bills & other urgent payments, if yg dia kasi tu tak cukup....
he doesnt noe how much i gv my mom even.
he doesnt give my mom, but wheneva kita kluar, he would buy food or stuff for my parents.
and sometimes my mom would call him, mintak tolong belikan things from pasar on his way to send Mika.
I know how much he gives to his family and like most of them here, contribution to his late mum is never enough even though he has to pay her bills on top of her allowance. Bila dapat bonus my children and I pun dia bagi2 for berkat.
He also gives my mum monthly for taking care of my girls and for our dinner.
On top of that I also get a "small" allowance for "duit kuih" till now.
Kalau dia pinjamkan his siblings also he will let me know so that I am aware of it. So far alhamdulillah we never hide from each other.
Nora,
My hubby pun bila dapat promotion, increment or bonus I will be the first one to know.
He also gives my mum monthly for taking care of my girls and for our dinner.
On top of that I also get a "small" allowance for "duit kuih" till now.
Kalau dia pinjamkan his siblings also he will let me know so that I am aware of it. So far alhamdulillah we never hide from each other.
Nora,
My hubby pun bila dapat promotion, increment or bonus I will be the first one to know.
nora,
yes... still, depends on financial status suami la.
but i told my husband, berapa u kasi, i tak kisah. coz most of things sumer dia settle, but give at least $10 a mth, pun jadilah, for berkat... afterall, i pun not the type yg gunakan duit nafkah tu to buy bags & shoes. i save.
yes... still, depends on financial status suami la.
but i told my husband, berapa u kasi, i tak kisah. coz most of things sumer dia settle, but give at least $10 a mth, pun jadilah, for berkat... afterall, i pun not the type yg gunakan duit nafkah tu to buy bags & shoes. i save.
nora.aw mari i correctkan u....hihihihi...nafkah not really mean $$$$....selain dari nafkah batin eh..nie lain bab...
if a hub sudah langsaikan keperluan keluarga like bills semua n did not hand in any $$ to the wife...is it ok?...its still ok...
mane yg kite nak... a hub n kasi the wife $50 setiap bulan ..so called nafkah(ade eh cerita benar) tapi SEMUA BILLS lain the wife kena settle or SUAMI yg dapat membaya SEMUA keperluaan keluarga but got no spare $ to give the wife.....for the 2nd case..the husband telah melakukan tanggungjawap 'nafkah'...
FYI....walaupon isteri kerja dgn izin suami but si suami hanya boleh meminta abt 50% untuk isteri membantu...yg lagi 50% tu hak isteri...
if a hub sudah langsaikan keperluan keluarga like bills semua n did not hand in any $$ to the wife...is it ok?...its still ok...
mane yg kite nak... a hub n kasi the wife $50 setiap bulan ..so called nafkah(ade eh cerita benar) tapi SEMUA BILLS lain the wife kena settle or SUAMI yg dapat membaya SEMUA keperluaan keluarga but got no spare $ to give the wife.....for the 2nd case..the husband telah melakukan tanggungjawap 'nafkah'...
FYI....walaupon isteri kerja dgn izin suami but si suami hanya boleh meminta abt 50% untuk isteri membantu...yg lagi 50% tu hak isteri...
<font color="ff6000">Lynn,
Of cos tidak lah tapikan I ever went tru this quote more than 5 times though we have never stepped in JB for 3 months eversince hub was bz that time.
"Bila kau nk pergi JB? Minyak mak kat rumah dah nak kering..."
So u tell me -- takkan nk masuk JB kerana nk beli sebotol minyak when we hv nt drive in there for 3 months? Abis kalau tak masuk JB, we still have to travel fr eastern to northern to send her the oil isit? U have maid, pretty well ask her to e nearest shop to get a small bottle first. It wun harm anyone...sigh!</font>
Of cos tidak lah tapikan I ever went tru this quote more than 5 times though we have never stepped in JB for 3 months eversince hub was bz that time.
"Bila kau nk pergi JB? Minyak mak kat rumah dah nak kering..."
So u tell me -- takkan nk masuk JB kerana nk beli sebotol minyak when we hv nt drive in there for 3 months? Abis kalau tak masuk JB, we still have to travel fr eastern to northern to send her the oil isit? U have maid, pretty well ask her to e nearest shop to get a small bottle first. It wun harm anyone...sigh!</font>
if a hub sudah langsaikan keperluan keluarga like bills semua n did not hand in any $$ to the wife...is it ok?...its still ok...
FYI....walaupon isteri kerja dgn izin suami but si suami hanya boleh meminta abt 50% untuk isteri membantu...yg lagi 50% tu hak isteri
<font color="ff0000">Lina
Betul betul berul...ku sokong</font>
FYI....walaupon isteri kerja dgn izin suami but si suami hanya boleh meminta abt 50% untuk isteri membantu...yg lagi 50% tu hak isteri
<font color="ff0000">Lina
Betul betul berul...ku sokong</font>
<font color="0000ff">Shahlynn
my mom and MIL pun sama jugak.. everytime klu diaorg kirim barang.. sure dah siap kan duit nak bayar balik..
but u tell me, as a dotter/son or DIL/SIL.. u nak ke amik duit from ur mom/MIL yg berapa sen je tu??
unless lah klu diaorg 'Kirim' barang yg beribu/beratus $$$.. tu lain cerita lah!!!</font>
my mom and MIL pun sama jugak.. everytime klu diaorg kirim barang.. sure dah siap kan duit nak bayar balik..
but u tell me, as a dotter/son or DIL/SIL.. u nak ke amik duit from ur mom/MIL yg berapa sen je tu??
unless lah klu diaorg 'Kirim' barang yg beribu/beratus $$$.. tu lain cerita lah!!!</font>
lynn
hangat sikit ajer tak leh tahan...bukan kite orang gaduh kan...kite orang share information n sedikit sebanyak...dapat jugak learn fr each other...hihi....
shahlynn punya kes is diff. kenapa? dorang comfortable n bills settle....whereas for some...still comfortable but bills melambong...so when the latter happened...the couples kenalah rombak balik their financial status\perancangan....
hangat sikit ajer tak leh tahan...bukan kite orang gaduh kan...kite orang share information n sedikit sebanyak...dapat jugak learn fr each other...hihi....
shahlynn punya kes is diff. kenapa? dorang comfortable n bills settle....whereas for some...still comfortable but bills melambong...so when the latter happened...the couples kenalah rombak balik their financial status\perancangan....
<font color="0000ff">Nshahi
asal pulak besok ada half day?? apa special besok?
next wk long holiday.. tak gi mana2, cos hb kena keje..
on sun insya-allah klu takde apa hal.. will go to nora aw place..
and den i will balik rumah my mon and stay there till sun..
Boring Nya..long holiday tapi kena duduk rumah je!!!!!! </font>
asal pulak besok ada half day?? apa special besok?
next wk long holiday.. tak gi mana2, cos hb kena keje..
on sun insya-allah klu takde apa hal.. will go to nora aw place..
and den i will balik rumah my mon and stay there till sun..
Boring Nya..long holiday tapi kena duduk rumah je!!!!!! </font>
NSHAHI,
sat i half day. no plans.. i nak kasi mika ubat batok, den i nak TIDO. hehhehe
sun, my husband's relatives from mesia coming. so we meeting up @ my BIL's @ kembangan. from there, see where we go.
mon, i nak masak2 fine dining... a surprise treat for my husband. he doesnt noe wat i'm cooking and he's not allowed in the kitchen till i call him.
making chicken cordon bleu, scallop with creamy sauce & panna cotta. check out my food blog if nak tahu how it turns out eh.
tuesday, OPEN to invitations...
wed, mika skool. after skool mebe we'll take him swimming @ jurong east.
sat i half day. no plans.. i nak kasi mika ubat batok, den i nak TIDO. hehhehe
sun, my husband's relatives from mesia coming. so we meeting up @ my BIL's @ kembangan. from there, see where we go.
mon, i nak masak2 fine dining... a surprise treat for my husband. he doesnt noe wat i'm cooking and he's not allowed in the kitchen till i call him.
making chicken cordon bleu, scallop with creamy sauce & panna cotta. check out my food blog if nak tahu how it turns out eh.
tuesday, OPEN to invitations...
wed, mika skool. after skool mebe we'll take him swimming @ jurong east.