chique,
prolly she meant a few years after kawen... partly its true, cos it does happen to me before.
16years together, it does get a bit stale & we get complacent & took each other for granted.
things happened, we opened our eyes & we learnt from it, vowing neva to make the same mistake again.
but still, wateva u go thru in marriage, in life, its up to you how you want it to end.
either you fight for wat's urs, or u let go at the very 1st hurdle.