ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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San,
You have to be really firm, she is simply borrowing due to bad habits. She only spends on herself so tak kan tak cukup, teruk sampai tinggal $2 ajer - I think that is hard to belief. Just because you all dah biasakan dia so dia naik manja.
Stop giving in to her once and for all - let them say whatever they want - your money can be spent in a better way I am sure.
You have to be really firm, she is simply borrowing due to bad habits. She only spends on herself so tak kan tak cukup, teruk sampai tinggal $2 ajer - I think that is hard to belief. Just because you all dah biasakan dia so dia naik manja.
Stop giving in to her once and for all - let them say whatever they want - your money can be spent in a better way I am sure.
<font color="ff6000">Lina,
Lau kita-kita charge, kita smua kena tembak dgn dia. FYI, $0.05 pon dia boleh mintak balik horrr...
Cik Nab,
Sebab tu sampai hub and myslf kena labelled. Pastu "complain" to MIL. Then smlm, hub tk puas hati, tell MIL e whole story. FIL sampai geleng kepala. Tapikan, even MIL pon pinjam kita. Kalau tk mggu nie MIL, mggu depan...it's like a roller coaster. It's either MIL or SIL and that's accumulate on our mthly basis...Kata nk byr tapi 2 mggu lagi, mintak lagi...Nak ask back fr MIL, hub kata halalkan jer den sampai bila?
*sigh*</font>
Lau kita-kita charge, kita smua kena tembak dgn dia. FYI, $0.05 pon dia boleh mintak balik horrr...
Cik Nab,
Sebab tu sampai hub and myslf kena labelled. Pastu "complain" to MIL. Then smlm, hub tk puas hati, tell MIL e whole story. FIL sampai geleng kepala. Tapikan, even MIL pon pinjam kita. Kalau tk mggu nie MIL, mggu depan...it's like a roller coaster. It's either MIL or SIL and that's accumulate on our mthly basis...Kata nk byr tapi 2 mggu lagi, mintak lagi...Nak ask back fr MIL, hub kata halalkan jer den sampai bila?
*sigh*</font>
ClassyShimmers
Active Member
Ah ah la Lina
cam ne tau I gi try lingerie I? hehehe
Tak lah...anak I nak kencing.
cam ne tau I gi try lingerie I? hehehe
Tak lah...anak I nak kencing.
san
Cik Nab is rite, kalau u and hb boleh kuat kan hati.. dah jgn kasi lagi
its just a habit tu... bukan ye she takde source of income
lagi makan diet pills.. kan mahal tu
kalau u nak contribute utk anak dia, buat mcm Lina tadi cakap
give the barang barang (in kind) instead of cash
Cik Nab is rite, kalau u and hb boleh kuat kan hati.. dah jgn kasi lagi
its just a habit tu... bukan ye she takde source of income
lagi makan diet pills.. kan mahal tu
kalau u nak contribute utk anak dia, buat mcm Lina tadi cakap
give the barang barang (in kind) instead of cash
<font color="ff6000">Lina,
Manja sebab dia sorang anak pompuan dlm keluarga...Boleh belah!!!
*evil smiles*
Nora,
Her ex dun allow her children to visit my PIL anymore cos dey hv been complaining that MIL tak kasi dorang mkn etc...jagaan anak pada ex-nya. So, overall...SIL is all alone -- luxury and pampering herself.</font>
Manja sebab dia sorang anak pompuan dlm keluarga...Boleh belah!!!
*evil smiles*
Nora,
Her ex dun allow her children to visit my PIL anymore cos dey hv been complaining that MIL tak kasi dorang mkn etc...jagaan anak pada ex-nya. So, overall...SIL is all alone -- luxury and pampering herself.</font>
ClassyShimmers
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Nora A
Apa rasa coke zero tu?>
takde rasa apa2? Nak jugak minum coke sekali sekala..I cannot take gas drinks la..kalau minum mesti gastric attack..with or without food with soft drinks surely stomach upset giler punya!
Apa rasa coke zero tu?>
takde rasa apa2? Nak jugak minum coke sekali sekala..I cannot take gas drinks la..kalau minum mesti gastric attack..with or without food with soft drinks surely stomach upset giler punya!
<font color="ff0000">Hello semua...panjang citer lah hari nie
me bohong sunat wif my boss nak ambek halfday ....jeng jeng jeng
lepas tu follow lah hb wif my BIL to JB nak belanja at GIANT EXTRA...
Sure can make it for half day kan...coz we reached Spore custom abt 1130am..
Sampai Spore custom counter my WHITE CARD still inside my passport...Msia tak chop DEPARTURE..
Memandangkan hb werk kul 130 i have to take bus wif accompanied wif my BIL...to JB again
pendek kan citer, sms boss cannot make it halfday
luckily i just go through the JB custome as usually...Pheeewww...selamat tak yah kena sogok dulu baru leh lepas..
so now at home...
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me bohong sunat wif my boss nak ambek halfday ....jeng jeng jeng
lepas tu follow lah hb wif my BIL to JB nak belanja at GIANT EXTRA...
Sure can make it for half day kan...coz we reached Spore custom abt 1130am..
Sampai Spore custom counter my WHITE CARD still inside my passport...Msia tak chop DEPARTURE..
Memandangkan hb werk kul 130 i have to take bus wif accompanied wif my BIL...to JB again
pendek kan citer, sms boss cannot make it halfday
luckily i just go through the JB custome as usually...Pheeewww...selamat tak yah kena sogok dulu baru leh lepas..
so now at home...
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<font color="119911">thx smua for ur advice..
tulah ku rasa ku nak tukar balik e price.. tg kan lagi skit to another $100 ah coz mmg ku dah target if she masuk & agreed to our price before this was $750 me n hub dah kira senang skit for few mths seh tak tersempit lagi.. coz i planning pun utk kebaikkan bukan utk makan duit org tau..</font>
tulah ku rasa ku nak tukar balik e price.. tg kan lagi skit to another $100 ah coz mmg ku dah target if she masuk & agreed to our price before this was $750 me n hub dah kira senang skit for few mths seh tak tersempit lagi.. coz i planning pun utk kebaikkan bukan utk makan duit org tau..</font>
<font color="ff0000">Nora Aw
I dah masuk Spore custom they can release me but to go back to msia or other country later susah wor...like i overstayed at JB or illegal entry heheheh
not only white card tak chop my pasport also tak chop departure
So moral of the story....B4 LEAVING THE IMMIGRATION COUNTER DO CHECK ALL PASSPORT ARE CHOP ARRIVAL & DEPARTURE.
selalunye i check...but today i sit kat belakang...my BIL TAK check pulak</font>
I dah masuk Spore custom they can release me but to go back to msia or other country later susah wor...like i overstayed at JB or illegal entry heheheh
not only white card tak chop my pasport also tak chop departure
So moral of the story....B4 LEAVING THE IMMIGRATION COUNTER DO CHECK ALL PASSPORT ARE CHOP ARRIVAL & DEPARTURE.
selalunye i check...but today i sit kat belakang...my BIL TAK check pulak</font>
ClassyShimmers
Active Member
San
HAHAH BETOL KAT NORA TU!! Tak makan belikan makan utk anak2 dia tu..tak yah kasi duit kan..
Aspartama tu apa benda?
Tak bagus?
HAHAH BETOL KAT NORA TU!! Tak makan belikan makan utk anak2 dia tu..tak yah kasi duit kan..
Aspartama tu apa benda?
Tak bagus?
<font color="119911">with them duduk dgn kita confirm
PUB bills akan naik paling tidak pun up to $350 bt if can i dowan it to b soo much ah.. coz currently my bills is btwn $150-$200 je..
then e balance tu i nak top up balik duit CPF rumah kita.. yg dah surut sesgt tu.. by that jelah we got extra moolah utk top up balik if nak harapkan kita top up every mth $200 pun tak da u..
then i plan at least $100-$150 masuk to my kids nya school acct.. bt once dorang dah belah tu lain cita ah kan.. so c my purpose of renting to them ada reason tau.. coz if not sesenang je ku leh rent out kan to ppl who need the room & willing to pay..
n dulu wen she duk with me dia tolak setakat $50 je duit PUB ok.. tp a/c jalan terus siak.. air pun sama, tv pun sama haiz.. even sm mths pun dia tunda ckp tak da duit tp bleh plaj shopping seh..
bt by hook or by crook i mus minta duit sewa of $650 every mth</font>
PUB bills akan naik paling tidak pun up to $350 bt if can i dowan it to b soo much ah.. coz currently my bills is btwn $150-$200 je..
then e balance tu i nak top up balik duit CPF rumah kita.. yg dah surut sesgt tu.. by that jelah we got extra moolah utk top up balik if nak harapkan kita top up every mth $200 pun tak da u..
then i plan at least $100-$150 masuk to my kids nya school acct.. bt once dorang dah belah tu lain cita ah kan.. so c my purpose of renting to them ada reason tau.. coz if not sesenang je ku leh rent out kan to ppl who need the room & willing to pay..
n dulu wen she duk with me dia tolak setakat $50 je duit PUB ok.. tp a/c jalan terus siak.. air pun sama, tv pun sama haiz.. even sm mths pun dia tunda ckp tak da duit tp bleh plaj shopping seh..
bt by hook or by crook i mus minta duit sewa of $650 every mth</font>
ClassyShimmers
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Dan
I pernah cam gitu tau..
Then sg tak check la kasi masuk jer..
Sekali nxt trip kena tahan
Pasal chop masuk ada tapi keluar takde..
Then what msia custom buat tau, referred us to org atasan la tu konon..berbual punya berbual..He took us to one corner..apa lagi minta RASUAH la..!! bingit sey dgn msia authorities nie!!
I pernah cam gitu tau..
Then sg tak check la kasi masuk jer..
Sekali nxt trip kena tahan
Pasal chop masuk ada tapi keluar takde..
Then what msia custom buat tau, referred us to org atasan la tu konon..berbual punya berbual..He took us to one corner..apa lagi minta RASUAH la..!! bingit sey dgn msia authorities nie!!
<font color="ff6000">Lina/Nora/Shimmers,
Good idea!!!!
Tapi she tak mkn maggi hor...dia MacD, Pizza Hut taste and that's y I pangkah dia duduk dgn kita kat smbwng. So what if my hse is a wknds hse...?
To rule her own place?
No way!
Lagi afdal bawa my prnts tggl besama.</font>
Good idea!!!!
Tapi she tak mkn maggi hor...dia MacD, Pizza Hut taste and that's y I pangkah dia duduk dgn kita kat smbwng. So what if my hse is a wknds hse...?
To rule her own place?
No way!
Lagi afdal bawa my prnts tggl besama.</font>
ClassyShimmers
Active Member
Nshahi
rumah U berapa bilik?
Lina
Mula2 kita kasi 100, then dia belit2 la ckp ni ckp tu lagi tak habis..kita tahu la ni mesti tak cukup..then Hubby kasi lagi 100 tau..
Lepas tu tak kasi kita lepas ni! lagi ckp pasal the consequences & such..I geram I said..Encik, soal ni sebenarnya bukan salah kami, tapi pegawai awak yg cuai! Jadi kalau Encik dah jadikan kita sebagai ATM machine, kita pun boleh adukan perkara ni ke pihak atasan awak! Kita boleh ckp machine kita hampir rosak kerana disalah gunakan oleh salah seorang pegawai bawahan awak..
Apa kata encik berhibur la dgn 200 ringgit itu dah kita habiskan di sini saja? Boleh?
Dia pun tukar muka..lepas tu ckp la..lain kali Puan periksa dulu passport sebelum masuk sg..Okla..ini kali saya lepaskan..
Kwang kwang kwang..
I showed him 1 disgusted look..kalau ikutkan my hubby, dia tak mahu banyak songeh, berapa jer dorang minta sorok, dia kalau boleh sorok! I always stopped him frm doing so.
rumah U berapa bilik?
Lina
Mula2 kita kasi 100, then dia belit2 la ckp ni ckp tu lagi tak habis..kita tahu la ni mesti tak cukup..then Hubby kasi lagi 100 tau..
Lepas tu tak kasi kita lepas ni! lagi ckp pasal the consequences & such..I geram I said..Encik, soal ni sebenarnya bukan salah kami, tapi pegawai awak yg cuai! Jadi kalau Encik dah jadikan kita sebagai ATM machine, kita pun boleh adukan perkara ni ke pihak atasan awak! Kita boleh ckp machine kita hampir rosak kerana disalah gunakan oleh salah seorang pegawai bawahan awak..
Apa kata encik berhibur la dgn 200 ringgit itu dah kita habiskan di sini saja? Boleh?
Dia pun tukar muka..lepas tu ckp la..lain kali Puan periksa dulu passport sebelum masuk sg..Okla..ini kali saya lepaskan..
Kwang kwang kwang..
I showed him 1 disgusted look..kalau ikutkan my hubby, dia tak mahu banyak songeh, berapa jer dorang minta sorok, dia kalau boleh sorok! I always stopped him frm doing so.
mamaliz
Active Member
alloooooooo........sedap skit dapat napnap....ada yg mengumpat tak???? kekekekekeke
lina...
later i transfer ehhh.....ibanking pakai hubnya hp, kat bilik ngan dia....both hp n master sleep...malas nak kacau...u nak post ke nak pass kat i at amk??
san...
$$$$$$ i dah sebati....kakakaka....my kakak, abg, mak "rajin" call i kalau pasal $$$.....same story, "aku dah 2-3 hari tak makan" "kocek tinggal $2...."
padahal......siblings both divorced and werking...aku yg hsewife a family of 4 ni jugak yg dilable ber-duit padahal kita cuma pandai calculate our spending jerr....ingat savings n all....diorang yg splurge like orang kaya nak kita tanggung.....chet~!
ingat tadi nak tido lagi...skali 15 missed calls from my dear mama......haiz.......pening....
lina...
later i transfer ehhh.....ibanking pakai hubnya hp, kat bilik ngan dia....both hp n master sleep...malas nak kacau...u nak post ke nak pass kat i at amk??
san...
$$$$$$ i dah sebati....kakakaka....my kakak, abg, mak "rajin" call i kalau pasal $$$.....same story, "aku dah 2-3 hari tak makan" "kocek tinggal $2...."
padahal......siblings both divorced and werking...aku yg hsewife a family of 4 ni jugak yg dilable ber-duit padahal kita cuma pandai calculate our spending jerr....ingat savings n all....diorang yg splurge like orang kaya nak kita tanggung.....chet~!
ingat tadi nak tido lagi...skali 15 missed calls from my dear mama......haiz.......pening....
<font color="119911">wati
lupa ku nak tanya hang.. ur doter dah baik? dah nak minum susu?
my son smlm kena asthma attack lagi.. haiz baru last sun pi 24hrs clinic seh.. smlm petang pi Neptune Clinic to get his medicine supply sal nak dekat buka sekolah.. dah tu malam at 10.30-10.50pm dia buat hal lagi.. short of breath padahal aft getg his medicine seh.. in 1 day $150 gone camtu je.. i really pening & GIVE up seh kenapa he asik kena je.. me cam dah putus harapan tau.. e 3 of us cried tog tak tau apa lagi me & hub nak buat utk dia.. ya allah tak cukup ke cobaan yg kau berikan padanya.. dia ialah insan yg tak berdosa & lemah utk smua ini..
i suspect coz of SIL smoking smlm at home & laki AKU sesungguhnya tak TERIMA ok.. even MIL.. dia ckp tak kerna kakak isap rokok je leh jadi dia semput kakak tak dtg pun dia semput??i told her yelah lau kakak tak dtg tp abg masih isap rokok at home!!!</font>
lupa ku nak tanya hang.. ur doter dah baik? dah nak minum susu?
my son smlm kena asthma attack lagi.. haiz baru last sun pi 24hrs clinic seh.. smlm petang pi Neptune Clinic to get his medicine supply sal nak dekat buka sekolah.. dah tu malam at 10.30-10.50pm dia buat hal lagi.. short of breath padahal aft getg his medicine seh.. in 1 day $150 gone camtu je.. i really pening & GIVE up seh kenapa he asik kena je.. me cam dah putus harapan tau.. e 3 of us cried tog tak tau apa lagi me & hub nak buat utk dia.. ya allah tak cukup ke cobaan yg kau berikan padanya.. dia ialah insan yg tak berdosa & lemah utk smua ini..
i suspect coz of SIL smoking smlm at home & laki AKU sesungguhnya tak TERIMA ok.. even MIL.. dia ckp tak kerna kakak isap rokok je leh jadi dia semput kakak tak dtg pun dia semput??i told her yelah lau kakak tak dtg tp abg masih isap rokok at home!!!</font>