ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?


<font color="0000ff">Nora
whatever people said abt me and my son.. i get irritated easily..

b4 becoming mother.. i'm not like tis.. i realise after had my own kid.. i mcm sensitive gitu..

normally i just ignore them tapi klu terus menerus cakap pasal my son.. i just shoot back!! </font>
 
Mamaliz
my sentiments exectly
kalau i nak kasi anak i manja pun i punye suke lah kan..

but what hurts is that its my MIL yg cakap gitu
depan kite she manis like madu
but behind us.. looks like memang she not happy yg kite happy

we were so shocked whn SIL called yesterday to tel us this
pada hal we just went to visit MIL on saturday, and all are fine and dandy

my hb said so sad he thot all parents will be happy kalau anak anak berjaya
but for MIL she likes to find fault with anak anak (except her beloved eldest son)
 
Lynn.. hehehe .. kau pun.. takper lah.. budak2 tak tahu aper2..

Mamaliz, tu lah.. Sarah is very helpful. I suka mcm gitu. at least tak bergaduh kan..

Nora Aw.. hhmmm.. i think i will feel offended. My bro pernah ckp Maya spoilt. I ckp, anak aku sorang jer.. kalau tak mak bapak yg manjakan dia.. saper lagi.. kan..

Entahlah.. i pun tak suka orang ckp gitu. Tapi dorang tak fikir, kalau budak tu nakal, of course kita marah kan..
 
<font color="0000ff">Nora/mamaliz
dat time, me and hb tgh makan kat dapur tau..

bila nampak.. packet kecil2 tercampak2.. i was asking my hb.. "ehh tu apa tu naufal buat main??"

bila hb pusing and tgk.. kelam kabut dia pergi pungut packet tu semua..!! hehehe</font>
 
org yg cakap pasal org lainnya family ni pasal iri hati....kalau ye pon anak aku manja....apahal nak dicakap kan....betul tak....

dah tuhan kasi kita rezeki....anak tu kita sayang lahhh....takkan nak diabuse pulak....

kalau i dah boring i carik cacat dia....."u jaga anak u cam gitu....ohhhhhhhh....iccccc..............." den terus diam...biar dia terasa....kekekekeke
 
Wati

for me i think MIL jeles gak ye tengok my boy compared to younger SIL ye boy

then cakap mcm gitu, please lah my younger SIl ye boy jerit jerit all the time
kalau marah buang buang barang, and nangis golek golek...
even suke pukul pukul org
tu tak di manjekan tu???

Nak cakap balik, MIL.. pahit ku telan je lah..
tapi tak tau brape lame boleh tahan...seh

I told my hb, his mom untung i tak jahat..
kalau i org yg jahat, mcm mcm i boleh buat
 
ish....mil rupanya.....tu part i also donnoe....pasal my milnya anak i nak cakap manja pon susah...he's a teror!!! pekik kat mak bapak dia....kalau disuruh do sumthing he will shot back at them and tell them do it urself lahh!! seram sehh...
my hubby dat time bingit ajerrr.....luckily adik tiri...kalau kandung dah kena pelangkung.....

my mil i tin k she also know her anak tu prob skit...she dont say much to our kids also....kekekeke...cos they listen to her....not like her son...
 
nora....

best is to ignore.....mulut yg mengata tu yg binasa....telinga yg mendengar bersabar ajerlahhh....

lucky aku takder mil or fil yg nak masuk campor hal umah ni....cuma my own mum yg suka buat hal....
 
Liz Kim is a Capricorn
According to her Zodiac sign, Liz is traits are practical and prudent, ambitious and disciplined, patient and careful, humorous and reserved, pessimistic and fatalistic, miserly and grudging.

im a miser...? hmmmmm......
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mamaliz
ye lah.. dengar aje, and hb cakap we must watch ourselves in front of PIL
and also not to crite dgn her abt our son sangat

hopefully with all these dorang takde ammunition to cakap kite

nanti cakap kite sombong pulak eh.. well u cant please everyone..
 
1. the acceptance of all things and events as inevitable; submission to fate: Her fatalism helped her to face death with stoic calm.

Fatalistic

Fa`tal*is"tic, a. Implying, or partaking of the nature of, fatalism.

Acceptance of the belief that all events are predetermined and inevitable.
 
Qadak dan qadar lah tu..

today must go back early, nak wrap presents
paper and paper bag pun blom beli lagi..
susah la nak beli barang with the mad crowd
 
mamaliz k i reserved for u 2 bottles....kalau belum bidadari dah happening...i tak tahu aper jadi after u consume bidadari....
 
Lina
u nakkan mcm gitu.. suke u eh...

I dont like to wrap present, bertahun tahun buat but takde skill langsung

i think my 7 yo niece can do better than me

one guy im my office kalau kasi present wrap so nice ..
dgn ribbons ikat so nice... jeles i
 
haha, nora,
i hate wrapping presents too, cos memang tak pandai...

re: kkh,
tulah, i heard its not neccessarily cheaper, but what to do, my gynae and all my records there. i think its only cheap if you're subsidised. also, i might have to go for c-sect cos of my low placenta, so must stay at least 3-5 days, kan? so now considering the costs jugak...
 
lina

u deliver kat i nya umah eh? ke aper eh? how muchie???
need to be more happening every time....kakakakaka

nora...

i tak tau lah kenapa have this thing for wrapped things....even pakai newpaper pon will try to make nice nice....ikat ngan flower/ribbon.....i loike!
 
athlete
cam tu u got to stick with kkh

Tapi kalau u take one-bedder than baby needs special care (touchwood)
then baby ye bill will not be subsidised too

so u got to take that into consideration

walau ape pun duit boleh carik Insya'Allah, just pray for the best for you and baby
 
oh yes....baby n mummy might have diff ward cost tau....masa me n hilmi kan the nurse was nice enuff to tell me hilmi charges will be high if i tak ask to change....cos he is in a diff class on papers onli padahal in reality its the same place...weird...
my fren was told laterrrrrr....and she oready kena charge a big sum of money for the delay....
 
yah, i also heard abt the diff ward charges for mom n child. i'll ask the nurse abt the charges at my next appt next week.

shermin, you've got PM.
 
<font color="0077aa">Aloz ladies.... cuma nak announce i'm having a clearance sale @ my shoppe. Going to re-stock with new stuff in 2009 which are more in-line with my personal style. Feel free to browse ard tau...
Sale Sale Sale!</font>
 
good morning ladies......hari ni saya mulakan dewan perdana ehhh!!! kekekekeke.....so early im here oready pasal i never sleep....cant sleep in fact pasal kena heart burn~....macam orang preggy pulak....

wahhh...i think my bday i have to agree go sentosa lahhh.....hubby bila i sound go elsewhere he said "No, lets go sentosa" then bila i said "how abt we go there for ur bday?" terus dia majok......haiz......now claims if he tak plan i majok wen he plan i tak kisah.....lerrr....camner nak explain ngan dia to at least do sumthing yg i suka or want sehhh....pening.....tak nak org majok atau gaduhnya pasal...terpaksa sedapkan hati dia lahhh....
sentosa here i come............
 
salams &amp; morning ibu2!

mamaliz wah hari ni u open ceremony eh? hehe. gi sentosa hari ni OK lah, weekday sure tak ramai orang
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we're still in japan! Now in Osaka. Travelled via bullet train from Tokyo - 3 jam dah sampai.

Lynn,

Thanks for asking. Adam is alrite alhamdulillah. lompat2 bila kita lepaskan dia drp stroller - to keep warm agaknye. tapi bibir dia kering &amp; crack ah
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such dry winter.

Lina &amp; the rest

Sejuk giler ah kat sini. esp when angin tiup.....
nak upload pic tapi i'm using a mac interface...and all my photos are in the windows interface. grr.

Ima

kat jepon ni, barang2 budak2 punye lah lawa2!!! *drools* Kalau lah i ada girl, memang i dah borong all the tights &amp; clips &amp; whatnots! so tempted to get the colourful tights &amp; lovely hair accessories &amp; sell.. also to share the pretty &amp; kawaiii designs with pple back home!

anyway, good luck with the sales!
 
smalldreams....

kekekeke...not going today, besok jerr...pasal bday nya esok~

bestnya kat jepon....ngidam nak pi sana...but org cakap everything ex....betul ke? bila tgk japan hr the hotel seems ok jerr....issit the countryside murah the town/city yg mahal???

the kimonos mahal tak? lawa lawa???? amik gambar ehhh!!!
 
wati.....

sky dining???? for ur hubby bday....kekeke, im tinking of this rite now...jus for a date....maybe this wkend....maybe his bday....hmmmm
 
Good morning all nice mummies - you are so early today.

Mamaliz - take care of your health now that you are still young.

Smalldreams - must be very coldddd in Japan, shiok !! Buy lah the tights, clips and accessories then sell to us
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morning cik zainab....

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i become zombie oready.....cant sleep at all...makan bismag pun tak jalan....will try catch a nap wen hubby come back....kids will be up soon so might as well order breakfast...heheh

anyway...anyone knows how much is the chocolate buffet at fullerton hotel???? the price not stated lah on the webby....
 
<font color="0000ff"><font size="+2">Morning Ladies...</font>

greeting from home.. bestnya dah tak werk...!!!

Login just to say hihi je.. now Naufal kat bawa wit atuk dia.. later dia naik, dah nak kena layan dia pulak!!</font>
 
Gd morning...mamaliz later i pm u ah.....i dah nak kena chk machines n gi breakfast.....nie ari hangus $16 sebab bgn lambat then zoom naik cab....


Anak Manja...
I guess yg ade 1 anak now ...mostly kena label anak manja...a friend of mine anak call nangis ajer ...terus nak balik rumah....pagi kadang2 dtg lambat kalau si anak 'manja' e.g mati2 nak the mother to bathe him,etc....

so i told my friend yg dia manjakan sangat...but she said she cldn't help it...coz anak sorang then before that she gugur 2 kali....

nanti boleh sambung talk talk k.....
 
<font color="0000ff">Morning mamaliz, cik nab, smalldream

mamaliz
paginya dah login...!! u kena heart burn? lain mcm je... hehehe

Smalldream
Wow bestnya... klu i tgk all the girl punya accessories, i pun geram sgt.. cantik and cute2 kan.. nasib baik takde girl.. save jugak!!

betul jugak kata Cik nab.. u buy lah extra2, boleh jual kat mummies kat sini..

tapi eh, i realise kat sini byk bb boy ehh compare with bb girl... hmmm (so siapa nak start production for bb girl now? Angkat Tangan!!)</font>
 
lynn....

*angkat tangan* tapi tak dibenarkan.....kekekekeke, hubby say stop at 2...if possible....kalau ter-3rd it would be accidental~~~~*kwang kwang kwang......my sarah ni macam tak menjadi sangat lahhh....very boyish...susah aku nak main dress up....
 

Morning Lina, Lynn and Nora.

Breakfast apa hari ni? I makan bagel from Swiss Bake and left-over pizza from last night with Nescafe.
 
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