Shermin, ntah eh. Most of the time, memang kita kesian, thats why we too avoid eating whatever they can't eat. Tapi my elder one dah paham sikit. I think he knows how painful it is when he's coughing so when we say takboleh coz nanti abang batuk, dia dengar MOST of the time. A few weeks ago, my sister had a birthday party for my niece and she already told me she was gonna buy an icecream cake. I told my kids before we went that they were not allowed to eat the cake because it was made of icecream. Instead my mum made donuts for them. So bila lepas potong kek, dia cakap sendiri, "Ni abang takboleh makan kan." Then he asked me for donuts and I let him have them. Tu pon tetap kena sukat ah takut byk byk confirm batuk jugak. Sometimes kalau kat luar ada jugak dia throw tantrum but we wont layankan. I guess we just have to be firm for their own good because kalau dijaga and they grow out of it, bila besar and dah baik, lantaklah berapa banyak aiskrim dia nak. Heh.