ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?


<font color="ff6000">I can see these kinda people always take advantages in some ways. For sure they have their own means. Kalau tak kasi, perkataan yg kita tak nk dgr semua keluar.

Mcm SIL, takde duit tapi bila dah dapat seberapa dia minta, manicure pedicure...stock up cigarettes &amp; colour her hair...See what i mean?
$50 can last 1-2 weeks of marketing for her 2 kids + herself tapi hairan, $50 boleh habis dalam 2-3 hari...She still owes us few thousands ok...buat dek jer!!!</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">Lina
ya lah.. it not the amt kan.. hutang tetap hutang pe..!!

yg hairannya.. masa dia hutang i first time, i just give lah cos tot will rtn next mth.. so after 3mth later when she call me, i ingat nak bayar balik.. rupanya nak pinjam lagi.. yg i ni pulak.. bila dah dgr cerita kesian dia.. kasi lagi..

so now dah more den 1yr.. dia tak call2 i balik.. senyap je.. i yg nak mintak pun segan sey!! </font>
 
<font color="000000">lynn
patotlah...!!

Naqi
Dulu slalu aku nampak kau terbongkok bongkok angkatkan beg Lin kan..kat canteen belikan Lin makan lagik..abis tak dpt jugak bro dia yg hensem tu?? **cabottzz** </font>
 
HUTANG...
hmmm kalau u all ade hutangkan org a certain amt n within that year orang tu tak bayar...kalau tak silap kena bayar lebih zakat...but kena check dgn ustaz\ustazah...i dgr nie pun dari my fren.....
 
<font color="0000ff">Quote"eh lynn,
macam mana u tau...hmmm confirm u pun main ini game kan "

eeee i tak gitu, jeling2 ni semua tak main.. nak terus terang je.. direct gi jumpa cakap kita suka kat uu...hehehehhe</font>
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<font color="0000ff">quote"Naqi
Dulu slalu aku nampak kau terbongkok bongkok angkatkan beg Lin kan..kat canteen belikan Lin makan lagik..abis tak dpt jugak bro dia yg hensem tu?? **cabottzz** "

Nottygal,
berapa lama si Naqi buat keje tu....!!WahhKahKahKAhhh..!!! </font>
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Nora Aw, abg you hensem eh.. nak tengok!!!

Hehehe.. haiz.. ckp pasal duit nie kan.. kalau family sendiri susah eh. Pinjam duit tak malu, nak bayar balik malu tau.. merepek siak.

In-laws i pinjam duit on and off, tapi tak byk. But then kalau end of the month $20 utk isi EZ Link pun tarak.. cam maner aku tak botak fikirkan masa depanku. Bukan tak nak tolong... tapi aku sendiri merangkak-rangkak.

My MIL lagi terror, dia suruh makcik my hubby call me to borrow $100.. kesian punyer pasal kasi, then sampai dah 2 thn dah tak bayar..

Tapi hairan, semangat my IN-LAW simpan duit nak gie tgk konsert lah, pergi rombongan ker KL lah.. blah blah .... still, end of the month mintak $150/ $50 / $20 / $30 just to survive till pay day..

Stress fikir pasal duit.. Mcm nak migrate ah !
 
Itu kan lumrah manusia, bila hendak pinjam buat baik apa pun kita cakap dia boleh terima tapi bila kita minta bayar jadi musuh.

Betul as what you all say tak ada duit tapi boleh sampai ke-mana2 cuma satu ajer kalau ada hutang pergi haji tak sah.
 
<font color="0000ff">naqi
potong mthly allowance takpe.. jgn dia suruh u tido luar sudah for 1mth.. boleh mati kering oii!!</font>
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Thanks for the hugs San...
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Entahlah eh... susah nak ckp. My hubby sampai malu tau dgn i. I nak tak nak, kalau i sesak pun, i ask from my mum. I bilang my mum the truth lah.. i ckp my IN-LAW nak pinjam. My mum look at me mcm kesian. Kena tanggung in-law plak now.

TV kat rumah i is TV 42" Plasma. Tu pun menang lucky draw. Hari-raya sedara my hubby dtg, mata terbeliak. Dorang keep saying "Kaya seh... TV besar seh.." In the end, me and hubby have to explain our situation that we actually won the TV. Dorang ckp kita bohong. Mana i boleh be so lucky... sigh*

Tapi i fikir hubby i lah i tolong in-laws.. Now i tgh fikiran, cos my brother in-law getting married next year.. aku ada this strange feeling that somehow or rather, my in-laws will ask us for money... Die Die !!!

Nora Aw, adik eh.. hmm... email i gambar dia.. i nak tgk lah.. hensem tak hensem i judge.. hehehe
Tapi tgk Naqi, memang mata dia terpeleot.
 
Kak Zai,

yes... pergi haji jer takleh hutang.
duit senoman pun takleh. kena tunggu last person dapat, baru kita bleh gunakan duit tu untuk pergi haji... kan kan kan?
 
Cik Zai, betul ker... Tak sah eh Haji kita.. i think not many people know. Better tulis kat suratkhabar besar2.. biar orang yg berhutang tu baca.. hahaha.. biar dorang kelam-kabut.
 
amik tisu...hembus ingus....hmmm sedih kan....apa kan daya....uwahhhhh..thanks eh nottygal for the hug u je yg paham perasaan I..

wati,
Mata i insyallah terpeleot punya

Lynn,
I tido luar huh.....i no sweat I takut hubby I plak yang bersweat2 nanti
 
Wati, perhaps u bleh discuss laki bini...
how much u both are comfortable to contribute.
say, $300,? 500?... nie, u tell ur BIL, sumbangan u laki bini! takyah bayar! cukup tak cukup, pandai2 dia! jgn mintak lagi!

pandai carik bini, pandai2 carik duit!
 
Wati, takkan ramai tak tau? It's one of the syarat sebelum menunaikan haji. No hutang piutang. Ada yang tau pon agaknya buat dak ajer.
 
Wati
best eh menang lucky draw

tu BIL kawen u prepare je lahh.. tak yah nak strange feeling
mesti confirm ye

naqi
jgn sedih sangat ke.... cium nanti baru tau!!!
 
<font color="aa00aa">eh eh...ni adik saper pulak yg hensem ni???
masih single tak?
kalau single boleh kenalkan kat adik aku...hehehehe...</font>
 
Wati,

I think pasal ada hutang tak sah pegi haji semua orang should know.

Kalau your in-laws nak minta duit for BIL's wedding then as what Shahlynn cakap kasi aje berapa yang suami isteri termampu janji ikhlas.
 
Tu ah.. hi Manjamama.. kaum Jurong West ku.. hehehe

Betty, hopefully they know lah eh...

Shahlynn, adik dia confirm tak mintak.. yg mintak mak bapak dia... confirm mintak share cost for the wedding.. mampus siak.. My MIL pun case suka nak standard up up.. duit takder pun nak eksyen... konon anak dia kahwin mesti lawa2..

Takper, kalau mintak beribu, confirm i takder... I will tell them, kalau nak duit buat loan bank or Ezycash. Kalau dorang tak bayar pun bank or lawyer lah yg kejar.. hahaha.. Confirm tak bleh burn burn punyer... i think i will suggest them.. boleh bayar beransur-ansur per
 
<font color="aa00aa">nottygal,
besok ku single lah.
faiq kat rumah my parents besok..
selalunya malam ni send him there but my dad said tonite he balik lambat so besok je hantar gi sana.
first time sey saturday nite aku free...single mingle..hehehe</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">
eehhh si lynzi ni.. datang dari mana alih2 nak jadi matchmaker pulak..

Lynzi
diaorg ni tgh cakap pasal adik nora aw yg hensom tuu.. tapi syg noh.. org tu dah anak 3..!!</font>
 
<font color="aa00aa">ler...anak 3 kirim salamlah.
ingatkan single lagi..hehehe...
ni faiq baru lepas makan so me free kejap nak masuk sini.
jap lagi nak kena layan him again so me will disappear from here till he fall asleep..
hahahaha!!!</font>
 
lynzi,
wow sedapnya....i yang dengar pasta je macam da best kan....taklah I tanya kekadang I run our of ideas nak kasi Anaqi makan apa...Smlm I da kasi dia makan nasi with veg soup...Today macaroni with minced chicken soup
 


<font color="ff0000">Nari i suruh bibik masak beef ball soup, ikan goreng n sambal belacan....

MIL in the hse, so tak leh masak seafood for her..
kalau salah makan muka dia semua merah2, gatal2
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Ayam pon tak leh makan kekadang tak tau nak masak ape for her
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yg pelik nye she can eat kupang, kerang
udang sotong, ayam tak berani nak makan...</font>
 
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