ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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<font color="119911">ah lynzi silalah jawabkan utk sri..
ku nak tau gak hes a married guy ke baru je kawin? how they noe each other?
lynzi, takpe u email je.. coz tak salah kan they need at least u all ada experience in recep.. jadi taklah kekok sgt dgn our stupid customers call & can overcome e couriers smua.. sri if u have dat experience, ammend & put in.. if tak nak bedek, ah bedek je ah</font>
ku nak tau gak hes a married guy ke baru je kawin? how they noe each other?
lynzi, takpe u email je.. coz tak salah kan they need at least u all ada experience in recep.. jadi taklah kekok sgt dgn our stupid customers call & can overcome e couriers smua.. sri if u have dat experience, ammend & put in.. if tak nak bedek, ah bedek je ah</font>
bettybad
yup..I agree..i faham...nk mengata, ngata la..but gt limit dia... she herself tk tanya y her marriage on the rocks b4 i came into the picture... semua masalah nk salahkan dektu or me.... the probs wit her, she too upper handed la... ok la..i oso don wanna talk much abt her keaiban... let ppl tink & judge me... i don care.. i cant be bothered animore...
seriously, i dh MUAK!!!!!!! his bro & SIL sendiri hv seen & hear her true character..... I'm glad they noe the real situation.. when his bro & wifey berkwn rapat ngan i, she tk suka.. but they ignore her... ni they ngah cold war wit her.... she don want them to acknowledge Shadiyah.. well, who the heck she is to tell ppl to do tis & tt..
maaf...cuma luahkan perasaan yg terpendam..
yup..I agree..i faham...nk mengata, ngata la..but gt limit dia... she herself tk tanya y her marriage on the rocks b4 i came into the picture... semua masalah nk salahkan dektu or me.... the probs wit her, she too upper handed la... ok la..i oso don wanna talk much abt her keaiban... let ppl tink & judge me... i don care.. i cant be bothered animore...
seriously, i dh MUAK!!!!!!! his bro & SIL sendiri hv seen & hear her true character..... I'm glad they noe the real situation.. when his bro & wifey berkwn rapat ngan i, she tk suka.. but they ignore her... ni they ngah cold war wit her.... she don want them to acknowledge Shadiyah.. well, who the heck she is to tell ppl to do tis & tt..
maaf...cuma luahkan perasaan yg terpendam..
Sri, but good for you coz you know what you are doing. Usually people memang susah nak blame themselves. They only think they are right. And you did the right thing of giving life to your baby girl, by not going for abortion (the easy way out for some ppl). That's y I say you must make him responsible. Have to pekakkan telinga with whatever the wife has to say as long as you're not doing the same thing of badmouthing her.
She needs to tell people what to do and they're not going to listen. You have us supporting your cause without us being told to.
Don't worry too much k dik. We hope for the best for you and your baby girl.
She needs to tell people what to do and they're not going to listen. You have us supporting your cause without us being told to.
Don't worry too much k dik. We hope for the best for you and your baby girl.
smalldreams
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betty bad
well said. i agree. U boleh jadi counsellor. Kalau nak mid-life career change, can consider
well said. i agree. U boleh jadi counsellor. Kalau nak mid-life career change, can consider
Thks kak... nw pun dia dh berbaik semula wit them after bro's wife bahasakan dia....i tink dia telan jer apa SIL ckp....no choice cz SIL gd to me & she worried I'll enter the family..duh!! siapa nk pun..
u noe why nw trigger i nk claim for maintenance?
cz bro & SIL ckp actually his family has planned nt to make me marry him... depan dia act baik & accept me..but they actually hv agenda... tis one i doubt so HE tahu tau!
yg i marah..their reasons tk nk kasi him kahwin ngan i cz ltr they all will get lesser pocket $$ frm him... leh gitu?? pentingkan diri sendiri..sdgkan mula2 mereka benarkan dia kahwin ngan i....they noe we in relationship long long time ago..if nt i wont be wit him for 2yrs!
so nw i nk claim...but ape kasi mereka2?? kasi anak dia lagi muai.... ha... anak satu jer aper... muz hargai! if u cant hargai, I'll atleast make u play a part for it... tanggung dia!!!
his parents, sis & wifey hv the cheek to tell me to abort..hv the cheek to tell me to tanggung sendiri..pandai2 la i jaga... can ar like tt??? ok..nw i use law..to force him to tanggung.. if u all tk happy, gi la bilang judge... LOL...
ok..tts all... hehehe...
u noe why nw trigger i nk claim for maintenance?
cz bro & SIL ckp actually his family has planned nt to make me marry him... depan dia act baik & accept me..but they actually hv agenda... tis one i doubt so HE tahu tau!
yg i marah..their reasons tk nk kasi him kahwin ngan i cz ltr they all will get lesser pocket $$ frm him... leh gitu?? pentingkan diri sendiri..sdgkan mula2 mereka benarkan dia kahwin ngan i....they noe we in relationship long long time ago..if nt i wont be wit him for 2yrs!
so nw i nk claim...but ape kasi mereka2?? kasi anak dia lagi muai.... ha... anak satu jer aper... muz hargai! if u cant hargai, I'll atleast make u play a part for it... tanggung dia!!!
his parents, sis & wifey hv the cheek to tell me to abort..hv the cheek to tell me to tanggung sendiri..pandai2 la i jaga... can ar like tt??? ok..nw i use law..to force him to tanggung.. if u all tk happy, gi la bilang judge... LOL...
ok..tts all... hehehe...
smalldreams
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sri
aduh, u're in a tight situation now. berat mata memandang, berat lagi bahu memikul. whatever it is, think of what matters for yr baby. that will keep you going.
aduh, u're in a tight situation now. berat mata memandang, berat lagi bahu memikul. whatever it is, think of what matters for yr baby. that will keep you going.
momma_naqi
Active Member
no matter wat Sri, u r a very strong lady...u managed to overcome all the obstacle ...bravo..kuddoss..keep it up...we will be behind u always
Smalldreams, thank you. Tgh practise ni. Hehe.
Lina, dah dapat. Not sure whether can collect this weekend ke tidak. Hubby's working.
San, ok noted. Apa-apa you sms me jer.
Sri, orang-orang yg suruh abort tu macam betul ajer. Berani betul nak tanggung dosa ke. Anyway Sri, kita-kita cuma tau cakap ajer. We are not in your shoes. But you have to be strong and tough to 'fight' them. Don't let them go scotfree.
Ok enough from me for now *migraine*
Lina, dah dapat. Not sure whether can collect this weekend ke tidak. Hubby's working.
San, ok noted. Apa-apa you sms me jer.
Sri, orang-orang yg suruh abort tu macam betul ajer. Berani betul nak tanggung dosa ke. Anyway Sri, kita-kita cuma tau cakap ajer. We are not in your shoes. But you have to be strong and tough to 'fight' them. Don't let them go scotfree.
Ok enough from me for now *migraine*
Nora
thks kak.. LOL..if hari2 adik mkn...hmmm... sure makin gemuk eh.. hehehehe
betty.bad
Yup..tk nk kasi muka lagi... wah..migraine attack eh..tu yg i tk suka..tk de ubat migraine?
**Popeye**
Oh..kat spore flyer ada eh.. hehehe..lagi dekat noh... hahahahahaahha..suka nye aku...... if nxt gathering kat sana, nk naik spore flyer skali ke? heee
thks kak.. LOL..if hari2 adik mkn...hmmm... sure makin gemuk eh.. hehehehe
betty.bad
Yup..tk nk kasi muka lagi... wah..migraine attack eh..tu yg i tk suka..tk de ubat migraine?
**Popeye**
Oh..kat spore flyer ada eh.. hehehe..lagi dekat noh... hahahahahaahha..suka nye aku...... if nxt gathering kat sana, nk naik spore flyer skali ke? heee
<font color="119911">nora,
if sri nak pi airport from here tak ya naik train ada bus to airport lah from our place every tues & thurs best kan?? :")
nora,
hehe ku selalu trim sendiri & u noe wat i do? hehe ku shave dah tu betul2 kan kai tweezer tp kekdg terlebih shave sampai cam terbotak skit hehe dah tu cover ah dgn eye pencil khekhe..
ima,
alah ku tanya je lah.. coz dua2 tanding amat hebat</font>
if sri nak pi airport from here tak ya naik train ada bus to airport lah from our place every tues & thurs best kan?? :")
nora,
hehe ku selalu trim sendiri & u noe wat i do? hehe ku shave dah tu betul2 kan kai tweezer tp kekdg terlebih shave sampai cam terbotak skit hehe dah tu cover ah dgn eye pencil khekhe..
ima,
alah ku tanya je lah.. coz dua2 tanding amat hebat</font>
momma_naqi
Active Member
Me DIY but kekadang go shop...diorang pakai tweezer..
<font color="aa00aa">I'M BACKKKKKKKKKKKK
faiq dah sleep again boleh aku masuk sini..
hehehe...
ima,
sorilah sis.
semalam me malas nak ikut my in laws but my hubby n sil beriya iya sangat nak i pegi.
tapi dah sampai..i makan sampai tak toleh kiri kanan.
we bought 8 piece meal pun tak cukup.
biscuit dia tambah extra lagi...hehehe...
nora,
i always go bobbi brown at centrepoint.
tu dah dekat your work place kan?
but have to call for appt.</font>
faiq dah sleep again boleh aku masuk sini..
hehehe...
ima,
sorilah sis.
semalam me malas nak ikut my in laws but my hubby n sil beriya iya sangat nak i pegi.
tapi dah sampai..i makan sampai tak toleh kiri kanan.
we bought 8 piece meal pun tak cukup.
biscuit dia tambah extra lagi...hehehe...
nora,
i always go bobbi brown at centrepoint.
tu dah dekat your work place kan?
but have to call for appt.</font>