ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?


Just reading abt what kids can/shld eat and i realise I'm soooo un-informed abt motherhood! I see my aunt feed my 1.5 yrs old nephew all sorts of kuih raya also, I actually thought its ok for that age!

Lynzi,
Can I ask, what do you mean by organic food? Is it food with organic ingredients only or just home-cooked, non-junk food?
 
Wati, just read your story. Kalau I pun confirm gaduh besar. How can they be so irresponsible. Buat orang takut tak tentu pasal and furthermore, the kid doesn't like them. Takde hati perut lah.

Like the rest, I pun anti orang orang yang feed my sons anyhow. Budak budak kadang mintak and dorang kesian. Kalau I nampak, confirm I menjerit. Bukan apa, my sons asthmatic. I kena jaga makan dorang. A lot of people say my sons are deprived children but nak kutuk kutuk lah, yang penting they don't fall sick
 
Betul betul betul
Talk abt PIL never end
My both sons memang tak ngam with them
apekan tidak bila datang je nak cium2 budak tu...naik rimas.
Then my FIL pulak suka kasi makan ape yg dia makan...
Si Raiyan tu memang pemakan tapi must see lah wat to give him..
Now my bb gal turn pulak kena romos n cium2 tak berenti..
 
Qoute "ku suka tengok 2X5 dol tapi paling menyampah dengan norfa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" x 10 to the power of infinity. Sooner or later her face will be in the fized "oink oink" position since she like to do dat so much. hahahaha.... I'm online by the 2nd advert for the show came on.

actually its dangerous to feed babies food anyhow. even if look harmless, the baby might be allergic to it or her body not able to process these food yet. internal organs still not mature enuff.
Ayuni dah twice her face very red n rashes come out on her face. first coz of baked beans n second time coz of either egg beancurd or egg.and the allergy reaction some out very fast, almost instant. n she would be so restless. 2nd time, my mum gave her to drink air zam zam n sapu sikit on her face then nampak turun sikit.
 
I missed watching both Dol&Minah and 2x5 Dol yesterday. Was held up at the clinic dari 8+pm tunggu sampai nearly 10 baru sampai rumah. My boy has runny nose and high fever and dr said it could be due to spread of infectious diseases at the swimming pool (coz after came back from swimming, terus dia kurang sihat). Macam gini make me so paranoid. Swimming pun boleh sakit. Why can't parents keep their sick children st home instead. Tak pasal pasal spread the disease to other children.

Danryan, my sons started with bronchiolitis when they were babies (ni dr said due to genes) pasal hubby's side semua asthmatic tapi by the time reach 1 yo dah upgrade to asthma. Both seeing specialists in KK and on daily preventer inhaler.
 
<font color="ff0000">bettybad

ye lah, he followed my hb nye genes...
blood pon sama, Birthcert nye alphabet pon same2
Dats y i very scared when my boy has runny nose n cough...
he was admitted at KKH when he was abt 2yrs old..
For asthmatic kids, swimming is good for them...</font>
 
<font color="aa00aa">penat betul...look at the time, now then i get to rest.
nowadays so hard to make faiq go to bed at nite.
dah in the dark pun he still wants to sit and stand and play.
betul macam nak kena ketuk ni budak.
dia dah sleep then startlah aku macam lipas kudung kemas rumah, wipe the floors, clean the kitchen.

tadi baked chunky brownies for tomorrow's playdate at rumah ima.
habis bake je all the trays and stuffs still on the table.
rimas betul rumah serak2...
dah kemas baru puas hati..
hehehe

athlete,
organic food tu yg grown naturally using natural fertilisers.
no pesticide, no genetically modified foods.
nowadays a lot of food has been injected with hormones, etc to make them stay fresh longer, get ripe faster and macam2 lagi.
besides organic food, for me its strictly no no to sugary food, food that has egg, wheat, etc.
and also no seafood except for the ikan kurau in his porridge.
faiq banyak pantang.
kalau list down kat sini sure berjela.
cakap senang, i only give him appropriate foods at the appropriate stage.</font>
 
Gd morning........

ORGANIC...

but some of them not cheap eh....now i try as far as possible to buy organic vegetables.....

hmmmmm nampaknya sinie pun banyak anti eh
anti-orang hisap rokok with children around
anti-kasi anak2 makan\minum sembarang....
anti-PILs ade? hiihih

i dulu sampai dapat gelaran menantu hantu juz because i stand on my rights....but that was the past.....

Mdn Wati...tu dah macam kidnap eh....kalau sayangkan cucu...takkan sanggup buat cam tu esp dia tgh tido kan......
 
<font color="0077aa">lina,
agree makanan organic not cheap
anti-PIL i shal say 50-50....nak kata 100%...tak bleh..macam mdm wati cakap w/o them hubby kita pun
tak ada...but well..sumtimes it's better to remain
low profile</font>
 
momma_naqi...

jauh2 bau bunga..dekat2 bau ????

i kasi simple rule........tak kira pade sesiapa..."janji jgn pijak my wire sudah" hihihih

u dah breakfast belum?
 
<font color="0077aa">bau najis beb..hehehe nak cakap taik tak bleh sensitive esp nshahi...da berak queen..
betul prinsip I aku tak kacau kau, kau jgn kacau aku..kubur kau kau jawab , kubur aku, aku jawab..
da makan pau kacang goreng..bibik I bawakan..
u da sarapan?</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">belum tunggu my fren keluar meeting....mane yg lain eh.....wakakakaka berak queen sehhhh</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">mommies what r ur hobby\favourite pastime...your own eh...tak masukkan ur family.....or do u have any family hobby?</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">Morning Mummies.!!

Morning Lina/Naqi
siang dah online..??

Ehh wah eh wah.. semlm u all ni free sgt ke.. tukar color font??? Klu lynzi dah chop color purple, danryan color red.. i chop color blue ehh.. dont use my color plz.. hahaha mcm iye2 je mcm ada copyright gitu..</font>
 
<font color="0077aa">lina,
oh ok...hehe

Lynn,
biasa bila ada free time je masuk...

my hobby well, selain suka masak &amp; baking,
me suka surf the net

kalau family hobby ...kita orang suka go to kids gym...suka skali tengok Anaqi climb up n down.</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">Wati
Kesian ur gerl.. if it happen to me pun i confirm naik angin sey.. memang geram..!! like u also.. Mana my boy ada, i mesti ada. i dont allow him to go out with anyone w/o me.. klu org nak cakap i apa.. cakap lah..

pasal hb pulak kan.. watever their parent did, walaupun salah. diaorg takkan tegur cos dont wish to hurt their parent feeling.. tapi sampai bila kan.. PIL takkan tahu silap diaorg..

btw memang betul pasal PILs ni.. klu kita nak cakap pasal diaorg.. sampai dunia kiamat pun tak habis..!! i ni pun boleh di chop anak menantu hantu jugak.. cos i ni the opp of my mil.. hahaha</font>
 
<font color="191970">for me i like...surfing the net,reading magazines\short stories...outdoor activities like shopping\window shopping(betul nora R...i guess nie fav for most woman)...kalau for family...i love to bring my kids out to movies or we rent VCDs....we actually like to picnic at Sentosa but tak der time to go there often</font>
 
lynzi, mdm Wati

korang dah cool down pasal the food episode? I guess yr babies are still very young, jadi tak boleh lah feed yang bukan2.

For me I'm quite tolerant, I let my child eat anything (he's 17 mths) but stay away from common sense oily food, peanuts, prawns, generally seafood. My son pulak jenis tak mau makan, so I'm glad to just feed him stuff as long as he eats! He even eats muruku...hehhee. But I believe he was fully breastfed, insya-Allah his system would be strong. Lagipun kita time budak2 dulu, semua masok per, mana ada benda organic2 ni sumer.
 
<font color="0000ff">lynzi/styli

Qoute "ku suka tengok 2X5 dol tapi paling menyampah dengan norfa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

Betul betul betul.. i agree seratus peratus.. paling menyampah tgk muka norfa yg suka sgt buat muka mcm gitu..!! </font>
 
Lynn

Biasa lah, as responsible mothers I guess we'd want our children to be with us as much as possible kan?

I don't fancy letting my child go here &amp; there with other people, nanti jadi kebiasaan pulak.

But now I have a little problem - my mom's going on a 2 week holiday &amp; I'm stranded coz I haven't got leave to take since I'll be travelling 2 weeks after she comes back too! Guess no choice gotta place my kid under my inlaws care...haiz... macam mana agaknye. I hope things will work out.
 
<font color="0000ff">smalldreams

Qoute "Lagipun kita time budak2 dulu, semua masok per, mana ada benda organic2 ni sumer."

betul jugak ehh apa u cakap..hmmm</font>
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<font color="0077aa">actually apa yg small dream cakap tu betul...dulu kita 2 thn agaknya da makan asam pedas kan...cuma skg parents are quite paranoid lah...perhaps it's based on the eviromental factors
...dulu kita dibesarkan w/o playgrounds yang ada pasir..
skg huh canggih....da ada indoors playground </font>
 
momma naqi

I miss those pasir playground &amp; slide batu/marble yang seronok tu! Now slides sumer pendek2 ah, tak best..hehe..

Anyway the irony is, kuman pun bukannye berkurangan - bertambah lagi ada with all the HFMD (God forbid!) . But of course the padded playgrounds are safer lah kalau budak jatuh. Sometimes, just because it's modern, doesnt mean it's always the best. Tapi of course lah we all parents want the best for our children
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<font color="0000ff">smalldreams

i tink all mother, grandmother, mil and all the mother yg sewaktu dgn nya.. nak yg terbaik utk anak2 kita.. cuma maybe cara and permikiran yg berbeza..

i will tell myself dat wheneven i angry with my mil.. just to cool down..

klu tak.. boleh biol asik nak marah and fikirkan pasal diorg je.. </font>
 
Lynn

Sama lah - I believe they mean well. And ur'e rite, waktu berubah, but care remains the same. Asalkan dorang tak kidnap Adam (tak sanggup pun, knowing how active he is, hehe) dorang nak comment apa2, go ahead. I just take it with a pinch of salt :p

My MIL dulu bising2 jugak suruh I kasi formula when baby abt 6 mths but I tak kisah. Sakit hati ke bingit pun tak - after all weekends jer I have to tolerate, hehe.

My Adam is lean so asik2 my MIL suruh kasi makanan. Kalau ada makanan, of course I'll be happy to give, if not I just tell her, Adam tak suka makan ah, nak mainnnn aje!

My SIL is quite modern too - she has 3 kids of her own. Whatever she feeds Adam, I let her, asalkan bukan benda merepek sangat, hehe.

Tawakkal ajer lahh...
 
<font color="0077aa">smalldreams yup bestkan nanti ada buai2 semua...hmmm the good ol' times

Lynn,
yup agree who doesn;t want the best for their grandchildren...so dat;s y i cakap sumtimes better
to keep quite and low profile</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">smalldream
u son pun susah nak makan ehh? my boy pun susah sgt nak kasi makan.. tapi very active.. semin pun tak boleh diam. he now 14mth tapi cuma 10kg je..

abih tu semua org teguh he kurus.. as if i tak kasi makan gitu..

malas pulak nak layan org2 ni sometime..

normally i reply balik.. alah dia ikut mummy dia lah.. small size je.. takkan nak gemuk2 pulak.. </font>
 
<font color="0077aa">Lynn/smalldream anak I pun sama susah skali nak makan..dat's y kalau dia nak makan I kasi je...as n when...arghh agree baru last week I ada tahlil n every1 cakap dia kurus...as if I tak kasi makan cukup then budak too active...dia cuma senyap/diam bila dia tido je..kalau tak huh abis semua..</font>
 
momma naqi

oh yes, the swings, gerek! Sekarang susah nak carik swings. Mana tah dorang sorok. Swing fisher price pathetic je ada hehe...

Lynn, Momma naqi
My son was 10 kg for quite some time. Sekarang at 17 mths pun dia baru nak go past the 11 kg mark! I guess some babies are just lean - dah lah makan sikit, lepas tu tak leh dok diam.

I totally understand what you mean - orang sebut2 dia kurus kan? Hehe, cakap je, takpe, asal sihat, alhamdulillah. Kekeke!

Kalau nak ikut mummy dia...erm... Mummy dia ni (I lah) isn't exactly kurus, whoops :p
 
they are thin due to the season thay are starting to walk and play more just like my daughter then down to my son now also the same..now my daughter quite fleshy..
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<font color="0000ff">smalldream/naqi

ya rite.. next time klu org teguh2.. kita cakap je.. janji sihat.!!

bukan apa sometime mcm bingit asik cakap anak kita ni kurus lah, apa lah, mcm2 lah.. budak tu yg susah nak makan.. takkan lah kita nak paksa kan..!!

sometime tu nak kasi makan pun mcm main kejar2 dgn dia pulak.. hahaha.. </font>
 
naqi,
yup now also i lay low from my pil...MY FamilyIL loves to destroy me...but i stand in GODs ground never to be defeated..
they were so rude to me last week!!and i was sick..bloody CRAP!! SERIOUSLY..
 
<font color="0077aa">elle be low profile better less sin..hehe

nora..morning

Lynn
agree smlm I kasi makan ds i from 6.30 till 8pm..huh lari sana lari sini huh</font>
 


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