ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

lynzi
yes...
kesian eh i pasal tak kuasa la nak berbual dgn dia
hb pernah tell her off, but MIL later told hb jgn kasi malu
sil, jgn marah marah dia
so now dia nak terlungkup ke terbalik ke hb pun buat dunno
 


<font color="ff6000">korang tgk 2 x 5 dol smlm? hehe tak taha aku tgk dorangnya gelagat ah.. tp another 2 epi je dah bis seh </font>
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<font color="aa00aa">nora aw,
for me kan kalau orang macam tu i nak bebual pun malas.
tak payah bebual lagi mulia.
buat sakit hati je.</font>
 
Ladies, i nak luahkan perasaan.

Kan last Sunday my daughter birthday, then you know my daughter nie dah ngantuk nak tido before the party start lah... My mum bawak my daughter naik atas to tidokan dia, then suddenly.. my mother in law come into the room and took my daughter away..Nobody is able to locate them seh.

Aku terus panic seh.. melalak-lalak tau...tak dpt carik dorang... dah lah tu, botol, bantal and puting my daughter tak bawak...

I bingit giler seh... My hubby dah serba salah cos parents dia perangai mcm gini. Call hp tak angkat..

Then finally they answer, dorang ckp pergi pasar nak beli buah longan for party. Naik teksi. I punyer BINGIT !!! Bcos my daughter tak nak dorang... she will cry like mad... Nanti anak aku sawan mcm mana...

Now i dah malas nak layan dorang.. cos they say it's nothing wrong.. I stress tau.. takut they do this more often in the future.. Laki aku plak malas nak comment pasal nie.. He dun want to argue with his parents...
 
<font color="0077aa">yup kesian kan so now face the consequenceslah anak dia baru 2 thn da every 4 hrs on steriods n ventolin....every mth kena ketepikan at least $300 for medical</font>
 
tu lah... dorang tak faham how i feel.. i risau mcm nak rak.. then dah bawak balik, my daughter dah tido.. i lock myself in the room with Maya and nangis seh...

I nie particular sikit. Mana my daughter ada, i mesti ada... cos they will stupidly feed her nonsense... Ada patut kasi anak i makan goreng pisang lah, samosa goreng lah...Sigh...nanti sakit, i yg susah... too oily.

Pernah my MIL nak feed her sambal udang. Aku terus mata terbeliak lah...bingit !!!
 
<font color="aa00aa">kesian tengok budak2 macam ni...
sekarang sendiri susah nak jaga.

wati,
bab pil tu sensitive.
cerita sampai akhir zaman pun tak habis.</font>
 
memang kidnapp!! I sampai pekik2 kat my husband tau.... i nak call police... main amik ajer anak aku!

Bodoh seh, tak makan saman.. Dorang eh kalau my daughter tak nak dorang, they will like raise their hand to buat the action mcm nak slap or beat her tau.. sebab dorang marah Maya tak nak dorang... I kecik hati cos budak masih baby kan.. that time they do this kind of action when she was only 6 mths old..
 
<font color="aa00aa">ku paling pantang orang anyhow nak feed my son.
kelmarin jalan raya, my uncle depan mata i feed my son with kek marble!!!
kan ada lots of sugar...eggs...n watsoever tu!
kat situ jugak ku nak diri, marah, gaduh dengan dia.
tak minta izin tiba2 nak bagi.
so rude!!!!
my parents sabarkan i.
i dah geram sangat i told kuat2 depan everyone...
"Rifqi tak boleh makan tu eh...Rifqi cuma makan organic food aje!"
GERAM AKU!!!

so i can understand how u feel, wati.</font>
 
Memang... sometimes, i just wish i dun have PIL !!

I know it's a bad wish, but who can tahan. I selalu sakit kepala pasal dorang lah.. Yesterday i gie NUH Specialist Clinic to check on why i selalu migraine and headache... i due to do a CT Scan next year Jan 09.

Sigh*
 
<font color="0077aa">lynzi agree bebual pasal
pil dunia kiamat pun things will never change</font>

<font color="0077aa">wat i can do is urut dada jelah</font>
 
Haha... Lynzi... I pun marah lah.

Then orang ckp i mengada2.. i ckp, kalau anak aku sakit saper yg susah !!!
 
<font color="aa00aa">nak menang hati budak bukan dengan marah2..angkat tangan...
mesti kena pujuk baik2..main2 dengan dia...baru dia suka</font>
 
<font color="aa00aa">alhamdulillah my pils are ok.
siang2 dah kena warning sejak faiq got sick with diarrheoa kelmarin.
saper nak cakap me sombong or mengada ngada...cakaplah..
all i know is i yg jaga my son..kalau dia sakit pun i yg jaga...
if u wana feed your kids/ grandkids junk then go ahead.
try and feed mine with junk and kalau aku tak mengamuk and terus angkut anak aku jalan..memang nasiblah!</font>
 
nora
dats mean u bukan employer my ex-maid..dulu my ex-maid sblm balik mintak nak jumpa employer lama..so i sent her there..i tunggu dlm kereta je,masa tu raya..this maid still in contact with me and she is the best maid i ever had..still mizz her alot..she completed her 2years contract. She is 30 and planning to have a baby that is why she can no longer work.
 
oic
suspen jugak ku tadi kejap

good that u still in touch with her
mane la tau she still wants to work lagi
i know someone who can do direct hire
means maid dun have to bayar hutang banyak
banyak kat agency
 
no problem, but the maid must be resourceful
if she can make her way to batam on her own is the best
then the agent will pick her up from there and do the necessary
only take 2 mths salary
 


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