ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

Ohhh...blur sikit i... hehehe.. get it!
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hmmm..tink tk sama troop.. He frm KF
 


Ima, lawyer kat legal aid pun ckp mcm tu.. muz minta byk2 cz ltr HE will bargain wit u.. negotiate.....apa yg i spend for my checkup kalau blh i nk claim..muz share the amt....
 
Oh tu troop jiran keke...

Anyways, pasal claim, u must keep rcpt semua lah
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anything linked to the bby boleh try to claim. Eg scan, supplements, all the bby stuff cam cot, susu, pampers etc... If ur nak claim for personal self items tu tak tahu pulak.

Usually they try to neg for maintance cost yang tak logic cam $200...etc...jgn termakan. Bby is exp to raise, make sure u mintak wat is reasonable for COMFORTABLE UPBRINGING, u can state the reason as ur ex has no other kids to maintain and he is single no current wife to pay for. (one of best reason, confirm takleh jawab punya)

Oh yah, make sure u sembayang byk-byk...these ppl will use "blackmagic" is neccessary. Mesti iman nak kuat!
 
heheheh..ya...berjiran seh...sebelah jer...

Yup..i gt keep the receipts..hahaha...sbb dulu mmg nk claim den tk jadi cz kesiankan dia hv to work doubly hard in order to support his child...

Personal self items?? lol... ada such thing ke? i tk nk claim..gt nth to claim...lagipun i do tis for bb nt for my own benefit..

Yup...true...to raise a bb is EX! dia dh berkeluarga but no kids.. I'll use tt as adv... and oso his wife working wit gd pay..

Ya.....talking abt blackmagic really gives me chilled..

btw last yr u pernah gi police nye D&D tk? or police carnival?
 
<font color="ff0000">hello semua

haiz baru fridah tak log in dah 3 archives...

anyway Friday tak go work coz my grandma (my fathers's mom) passed away on Thursday mlm...the at 2pm Marsyha ada check up... so fully occupied yesterday.

on 25th, its Danial's bday n my hb aunt ada buat sikit2 makan cum open hse n danial bday celebration for my hb nye family side je...insyaallah ada time i go...anyway the place its at lynzi's...near to my hse.

wati, yr hse nice and the rest too.

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Danryan,
My condolences to you and your family.

Sri,
Your niat is suci in getting the $ from him. Insya Allah, everything will be OK.

Lynzi,
Dah dapat recipe kacang phool you? Yours use daging? My mom's recipe will use minced meat and blended beans. So first tumis bawang, bawang putih, then put minced meat, add black pepper and jintan, then put in the blended kacang. Cook sampai the raw smell of the kacang hilang.

nshahi,

I like your make up too, very natural...
 
*Sri*
I CANNOT execpt u cakap kesiankan dia hv to work doubly hard in order to support his child... Kalo lelaki boleh buat anak, then MUST mampu jaga them. Jus becoz he got a new wife dun mean can just lepas his responsibility and role as father. (u can use tis as reason in court also) Plus, u also have to make sure he visits his son regularly so ur kid knows he got father to look up to one day.

Anyway the blackmagic thing is no joke, be very careful k
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Kalo org dah mental stress, sometimes just go to bomoh to "solve" these type of problem. My mum dah kena from my Indon stepmum during court battles. Almost died somemore...but luckily dia kuat sembahyang and never lose faith in God for guidance.

Pasal D&amp;D &amp; carnival... last year carnival got go, D&amp;D tak pergi coz not invited. My hubi lokek nak belikan tiket for dinner. Ish ish.... Kedekot tahi hidung masin betul... Entah tis year ade ke? me pun cam tak ingat pulak. Kalo ade pun tak kuasa pergi, ramai org n panas nak bawak 2 ekor momok lagi... tak larat!
 
lol... cz dia dh tua ma... den injured lagi... kesian tau...i tk de son..doter.. hahahaha...if gt son best..leh i suruh dia bantai ayah dia...whahahahahahaha...kidding...

i agree the blackmagic thingy is nt a joke... i gt hear some stories.... they will do anything for their own benefits...

oh..u gt go.. me too!! best..... hehehehe.... D&amp;D brapa ticket dia?? $30 eh? dulu pun i tk nk pegi cz i don like such function but kena paksa da....he wanna intro me to his frens....if nt jgn harap la i wanna attend.... but Ima, the D&amp;D was fun! maybe one day u go wit HB jer.. minta ur mum/MIL tlg jagakan anak2..
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*Sri
ish ish..lupa lah u branak gerl tu hari..kekeke...i ni asyik teringat my bby in tummy boy so tercakap u punya boy pulak
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Panic dah 1 more month, nama lum choose lagi ni...sighz...

pasal ur ex injured..etc... pls lah, my stepdad is cact/kaki tempang, but works really really hard to suppoert his 2 boys who are schooling. Dia cuma forklift driver gaji kecik but tries his best to work out the finance to support his kids n my mum also. So ur Ex got no excuse for not trying tau....

As for D&amp;D, my hubi cakap tiket mahal $60++ ke $90++...
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jgn-jgn dia borak coz taknak aku ikut ke....hmm....

By the way this 18th Oct u coming my mini-open house? Larat tak? SMS eh 91832079 My hubi mintak i cari cater, tapi i think i masak better...
 
sri...

i dulu ada pernah pi d&amp;d police nya jugak...true lah its fun! heheheh...dat yr they did at ritz carlton, bestlah dapat rasa cam glamourous kan...kekekekeke...
too bad scdf tak sebegitu pemurah ngan staff...takder d&amp;d pon....setakat order makan for their guys at station n makan...tu pon the guys have to do themselves everything sehhh....lokek~
 
entah eh...

tanya lahhh the ladies yg hubbies werk police...lynzi? saper lagi?

im hoping for the day scdf baik hati buat d&amp;d....kekekekeke
 
LOL...oh ima, urs boy eh..hehehe..best...my mum nk sgt cucu lelaki cz her cucu kedua2nye pompuan da...hahaha...

nama eh??hmmm... for me, names for bb boy ni ada susah sikit..limited...u try tgk buku or ask him if he gt any specific name for his son....

Hmmm..tink the ticket is $50++.....for me mahal..but since he's paying for it, i ikut jer..kekeke...

Me? go to ur open hse?? wah...u jemput eh? hehehe..but i tk de baju melayu..dh tk leh muat la... heee... baju casual leh tk?
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Mamaliz...eh...i tink last yr is at ritz carlton...if tis yr ada u ask Ima HB to buy the ticket la..den u can go wit HB... Ima, is it allowed??

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hmmmm...i'm nt sure...if ada best seh....
 
kalau ada pon, actually my hubs cuzzin can buy for us....tapi now go tak best for us lahhh pasal hub dah tak keje situ lagi perr...janggal~

planning nak stay overnte at ritz one of these days....maybe celebrate sarahnya bday...kekeke
 
dah sonyap jer hari ni.....mesti masih berjalan raya eh? too bad for me pasal hubby keje, so dok umah jer lahh...revise buku ngan sarah....
 
Hi all new mummies..!

Do join us for the Perjumpaan Raya. I guess its our first. Don't worry abt being left out or what. It will be totally the opposite. My first meet-up with Lynzi, zu, sasha n shimmers, they were all very friendly and warm and asked lots of qn to get to know me.

Maintenance:
agree with Ima $200 too little. now with the inflation n such. and if u depend on maintenance only whether working or not, its risky! Sometimes, some guys end up tak pay maintenance on time or nv pay a few months. If depend on that money and emergency arises, very hard.
 
LOL... tk de baju?? whahahahahahahahahaha....... ltr ur family send me to IMH seh...heee... Insya'allah if i sihat, i dtg...
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I agree wit Styli... ppl here are very friendly.. when Madem, Mamaliz, Nora &amp; wati came to visit me, we all berbual mcm dh kenal lama...hehehehehe....best la kakak2 kat sini...
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shermin,
pandai si sharf main piano! lol!! budding artist! nampak sgt ikut daddy dia!
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so end up laki kau dapat tak nyanyi malam tu? capoeira tu like Lynzi ckp, Brazilian martial arts!

lynzi,
i will pass the msg to sasha.. as for 25th oct, aku try to go over ok. nanti aku tgk lar ape aku le bawak..kalo tak pun, MCD ade per. lol!!

aryanti,
kau carik aku? abih tu email da bounced tak tau nk text?! neway, i saw the link. lawa sey the clips! nanti aku nk order aku txt kau!
 
mamaliz,
ape dah.. kan da ku repply pat FB. adam pi yg pat Funan. they r gg to open a class for kids soon in Nov. In the meantime, dia join class adults.. cum ade 3 org ajer so its okie. lol!! nak join ke? Its free trial by the way!
 
KEKEKE...AKU KAT FACEBOOK BLUR SKIT...CUMA TAU MAIN YOVILLE JER KAT SANA....
THE FEES HOW MUCH? ADA WEB TAK?
 
Hi all!
Wow, very the happeninglah thread nie. I selalu go in tuk sprees jer. Tapi stumbled upon thread nie. Btw, Selamat Hari Raya to all Mummies!
 
welcome rina....!!! thread ni memang happening pasal mumies kat sini happening~~ kekekeke....jgn malu malu utk bersembang di sini k~
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Good Morning Mommies.!!

penatnye..smlm rumah kena attack! frens are supoosed to come next week and yesterday meant for all my in laws get together je..tapi 15 kwn2 darby datang coz they cant come next week as they wil be goin to Sepang for Moto GP..
nasib baik lah masak xtra: Mee Hailam, pizza and roasted chicken.
Depa tak ambil gambar psl smlm BZ sgt sgt!
Semua habis! Vry Good..tak membazir..

Yg tak GOOD, bracelet depa yg depa pakai smlm terlepas...sampai tak lena tido depa memikirkan..definitely i drop it in my house!
 
Zu
Senyap jer kau kebelakangan ni? Dia main piano tu ikut suka hati dia, kau ckp pandai? Itulah merepek dia kat rumah selalu composed songs hantulah, songs for the bees la, songs for me lah, whatever la dia tu..Btw, laki aku managed to carry on singing but high tone supported by band members la..Lucky it was a success perfomances.
Capoeira yg mcm tunduk2 joget2 tu eh? then they'll like go in a circle? Kalau itulah, I'm not sure how that'll help in defending eh? Its more like dancing to me?? Interested pulak si Adam tu? Kau hantar dia class semua jauh2, larat kau eh?

Nottygal
Apa benda yg u order frm org Yahudi huh? Heheh..
Bracelet u tu hopefully tak mcm mine, kat rumah pakai sekali mlm hilang 1 rumah cari tak ada.. Lepas tu I teringat yg I buang sampah maybe benda tu ikut sekali dlm tong sampah..Sampai sekarang gone terus!!
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Ima
You expecting a boy?? Congrats ler..ini your 3rd kan??

Sri
Kalau gitu la u ckp, I agree with the rest, $200 punya la sikit..Dia dah berfamily lagi?? I cant believe it yg dia nikah dgn org lain..
I really can feel what you are goin thru rite now..U r having his child yet he marries someone else?!!! OMG!!
Whatever it is, I rasa jgn la kasi chance sgt dgn dia.. Like Ima said "Kalo lelaki boleh buat anak, then MUST mampu jaga them. Jus becoz he got a new wife dun mean can just lepas his responsibility and role as father"
I second that!

Rina
Welcome! Intro la sikit..


Pheww..smlm dpt cover few houses..mcm lega load sikit..yday was our day 3 outing since 1st day raya tau..this year tak jln banyak pasal Im down with fever 1st day then hilang suara for nearly 2 weeks..then hubby pulak yg kena. Jadi smlm baru mcm semangat raya for me n family..
Gambar ada amik sikit, itupun Sharf ingatkan that I had a camera with me, kalau tak ku lupa jugak! Jap lagi ku cuba upload la..
 
Gambar tak prepare punya..main petik saja2..tengok la my son punya funny face..
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Ok im out for jln again..will see you all here tonite or tomorrow insyaallah..
Have a nice Sunday!
 
<font color="aa00aa">Harlow mummies!!!!!!!!!!!!

firstly,
ima...kau tak baca ke announcement aku?
buat penat je aku buat grand announcement, even si zu ni pun boleh tau...hehehe...
jangan marah ha.
our perjumpaan confirm on the 25th at my place.
when its nearer to the date i will give u gerls my addy.

sri,
your ex dah kawin????????????????????????????????
ada hati nak kasi u pregnant then shirk away his responsibility but stil nak beristerikan pompan lain?
pegi bilang kat bini dia...if dia boleh buat gini kat u and especially shadiyah..then he can do the same thing to his wife and future children.
bila dah terkena batang hidung sendiri barulah rasa ubatnya.
i agree with the rest...mintak lebih2...
tak boleh kasi muka dgn orang macam ni.

sher,
nice purple.
but then again, im partial to purple...
biased...hehehehe...
masih ingat lagi kak ema panggil aku minah feeling purple..kekeke...

today tak go out.
doing open house just for kaum kerabat aku yang berlambak ni.
masak dari semalam macam untuk berapa army batallion sey.
slept at 4.30am then by 7.30 dah continue cooking again.
yang puas hatinya, semua dah dimasak dan ready for tamu.
plus sempat bersihkan and lap dapur...hehehe...
nak tau apa tu kheer sugi eh?
later i post the pics for u gerls to see eh.

madem,
today i dapat masak kacang phool..wooooooooohoooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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*Lynzi*
Aik...ini threqad panjang sgt lah... announcement pun leh "hilang"
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Alamal kalau dah over 20th Nov ima dah tak free pulak..
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By the way, sugi banyak-banyak...sape kahwin?

*Shimmers*
Yup #3 pulak. Nama lum pilih...STRESS!
 
nasib baik dpt masuk today and catch up. kalau tak besok tak buat ape kat ofis, baca this thread je... hahahha
 
mamaliz,
aku paid $80 for 8lessons. the fees quite affordable.
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website i dun tink they have la.. cos dorang nie just operated tak salah aku.

shermin,
aku ade la pat sini.. tak tau kenapa sejak2 nie penat sgt2! si sarah nie, org tgh tido shiok2 nanti kul 3pg dia bgn da tu takmo tido! penat aku! capoeira tu smtg mcm kau ckp2 la.. ade la self defence nye tapi its more subtle unlike taekwondo.. susah aku nk explain. hehe.. ye lah. asal dia suka! cos the plc near hb wkplc, so after class le balik sama2!
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lawa gmbr kau family!!

aryanti,
nyonya! tu email da tak ku pakai lagi. send to [email protected]
 
My son ada cakap yang dia nak amik piano lessons. Tapi I sceptical nak masukkan dia. Budak nie sekejap nak belajar violin, sekejap nak masuk CCA Soccer. Takut nanti bila I enrol dia for piano lessons dia dah tak minat pulak. Sungguh stress ada anak bujang nie lah!
 
*Mak yg enroll anak dalam activity/classes*
How u all keep ur active kids punya attention during class. Is it becoz they minat or ??? I just enrolled Amirul in ACT3 holiday programme (its held during my EDD coz i wanna keep him preoccupied) but abit skeptical
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whether he can focus coz dia hyperactive, love to run ard do his own thing, disregard the environment punya attitude... Takut duit burn aje kalo he dun learn anything from the programme....Or worst still kena tendang from the programme for being disruptive
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any advise...tips maybe?
 
<font color="aa00aa">MORNING MUMMIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wow rina,
u are 26 and yet u oredi have 3 kids.
i ni dah masuk 28 but onli 1 kid yg belum 1 yr old pun.
alamak...
aniwei welcome here.
and please join us for our perjumpaan raya yah!

ima,
try training at home first.
read to him or do flashcards with him.
mula2 memang attention span very short but i realised the attention span will get longer.
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<font color="0000ff">Morning Mummies..!!!

As expected, baru 2 hari tak login dah berjela this thread..

Welcome Rina...
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Hope u enjoy ur stay here.. tis thread memang happening selalu.. Hari Raya pun jln terus je..

nshahi
Mana ada mcm SHREK..!! merepek je u ni.. Sweet looking.. i like ur hair.. suit with ur look..

Sher
First time i nampak ur pic kat sini.. very pretty sey.. i like ur tudung.. but i nvr dare to wear dat kind of tudung ahh.. segan!!
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Nora Aw
I end werk at 5pm actually.. but last wk boss at US.. so i self declare balik kul 4.30 for wk last.. hehehe..

Btw i'm going home now.. boss suruh balik..!! cos i had flu and he ask to go home and rest..!! BESTNYA.. I sayang sgt my boss.. very understanding uuu.. LOL
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Morning to all...

Shimmers,
yOU Look so sweet in purple, and memang tol kata Lynn, u cantik banget..alah, psl gelang, i da tak mahu fikirkan lagi..anyway bukan emas, its jade mom got 4 me frm Myanmar..bagaimanapun ada sentimental values..
Yahudi: hahaha!i order bag fm Israel..

Lynzi,
oic..ni namanye kheer suji.., but i kol itu lain,,alah cant recall..anyway that is my favourite tu..look very very sedap!

Rina,
welcome to the thread, ya!
 
<font color="ff0000">Morning to all

Rina
Hello to u...
Same me here have 2 boys &amp; 1 bb girl....

Lynzi
Nak tanya je...for the Perjumpaan Raya any dress code hehehe....
The sugi looks sedap wor..

mira
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