ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

Alamak!! Mamaliz ni... nasib baik adik tk puasa... lapar seh tgk ur pics.... arrrrr.... kk.. nk gi cari mknan skajap...
 


sri..

kita yg post pics tu tapi kita pon terasa nak mamam lagi bila tengok .....bukannya turun berat badan ..makin naik lagi adaaaa...........
 
sally
post pic baby leh....

mamaliz
song2 yg kat yishun tak tau masih ada ke tak....
wow....broccoli sedap....but meat i tak makan sgt.....time me on early pregnancy....i stop eating meat....makan sikit je takut dapat bb boy lagi....alhamdullilah dapat marsyha....dats wat ppl said kalau nak bb gal....kita ikut je or mayb or..........bersukur lah...

Selamat bersahur
 
lol... izzit? tk tau pulak adik if byk sgt mkn daging will hv bb boy...hehehe.... but so far during my pregnancy i ni mcm vegetarian.. mkn biscuit jer... tk suka mkn meat/fish/rice... balik2 biscuit...maybe cz i always hv morning sickness till i phobia nk take heavy meal..

Btw, selamat bersahur to u too...
 
hehehe.. but niari i gt slp cz i'm in pain... if nt my daily sleeping habit kul 7am - 12pm..

Ooo..no wonder masa scan doc ckp bb gal.. kekeke.. since preggie, nk mkn meat pun tk leh telan.. mcm bau hanyir & geli gitu... Nvm.. I shall see if my bb really a gal or nt.. hehehe..
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Hey Sally, welcome back.

Mamaliz, your beef and brocolli tu nampak inviting lah.

Danryan, really ah must eat less meat. When I was pregnant with both boys, asyik makan steak and fish n chips. Kalau takde daging tak sah. Next time, must bear in mind. Hehe.
 
oooohhhhhh.....

makan daging banyak dapat boy? makan sayur banyak dapat girl~??? hmmmm..patut lah anak ku yg first girl...pasal dulu cant afford to eat much daging...bila preggy my boy he got all the expensive food...steak n all!!

betty bad...

very inviting u! i kat umah makan bertambah..lalu meja jer mesti pop a beef...abislahhhhhhh.....
 
makan sayor banyak dapat gal? ish aku tak makan sayor at all.. yucks!
anyway thats not true la.. cos i do have a gal but i dun eat vege at all...
 
Sri

I gave birth already!! My baby kluar on the 4th.
I start sakit perut time i nbak sahur. Baby out pukul 1422 hrs.. ;p

I'll pray for your turn ok..
 
lol!! wah kak..u senyap2 rupanye dh pop out eh... cpt nyer.... so envy.... share sikit kak ur labour story...

thks kak! i gt appt on the 8 sept.. tot hari tu nk induce..if doc kasi, maybe my bb come out on the 9 sept...
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Btw , congrats! rest well k... nk tgk gambar bb.....
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ada masa post k....
 
*ON Spree*
I join b4... ok lah nak cakap quality power pun tak. The sewing is neat but the material i find abit flimsy...U can always go to those factory oulet shops to see thier quality for urself. Kat clementi central ada 2 shops (1 near the donut shop)

*Sri*
Apasal nak induce..... Anyway ur bby due any day of this month right? Since it's ur 1st...enjoy the experience coz every birthing is unique. Kalo boleh u dun compare with other ppl's birthing exp coz buat diri stress aje coz ur a 1st timer.

*Meaty babies*
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Hmmm... me terbalik pulak..time dulu just got married bankrupt giler sampai tak makan whole day at some point in time...dapat boy pulak. When my 2nd i live with my mum, loads of food, daging esp since my stepdad suka...dapat gerl pulak...

Actually kan.. it's in the technique of the "ehem..." lah
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They say if girl on top
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then will most prob be a bb girl keke...

*Mamaliz*
Apasal posing pix of yummy food ni pulak
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Me was suppose to masak piza n burger today...last min kena paksa makan rumah MIL...ish ish...rosak plan....

*Missy*
CONGRATS
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Ur bby sama Bday with me lah
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*Ima nak announce sikit*
Ahem ahem...lately me under radar coz BZ nak complete my latest project...sesiape yg sudi tolong spreadkan the word of my new item at my humble KEDAI... maklumlah, creationz anak melayu...or actually... MAK anak melayu tempatan kita
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daec

I tak paham after scanning that article. Kalau self-employed, doesn't that mean the mother is self-employed & she's her own boss? Abih tu sapa yang nak bayar her own maternity leave?!

Hehe, blur lah...

Sally
Ey welcome back!
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Ima, i dh rasa sakit2 dia...hw to explain eh.. hmm... nk jln susah..kengkang cz i can feel the head kat situ.. gt contractions too.. nk yah but cant..sometimes takes a long time to process... feel like having menses cramp.. my pinggang jgn ckp ah... sengal giler..... aching seh... 8 sept nk suruh doc buat CTG & check if i hv dilated more than 1cm..

really? girl on top will hv bb gal? means there possibility for me to hv bb boy la... kekeke... if yes, my mum will be the happiest grandma seh.......balik2 ask me to siapkan nama lelaki but i told her doc said its a gal la so i only siapkan nama pompuan... hahaha...
 
assalamulaikum all,

saya baru kat sini, gald to see there are some malays on motherhood forum jugak.

my boy arrived at NUH on 25 Apr 2008. time puasa nie susah nak breastfeed coz my milk supply is low. hai...hajat hati nak breastfeed lama lama.
 
wa'alaikumsalam omnichups... welcome....

pasal BF, adik tk arif...hehehe.. bb lum keluar lagi n tis is my 1st pregnancy..but dlm article tk silap adik i tink its abt our food intake & muz diligently latch on..
 
Ima, I really like the clippy hangers. Pandai you buat. I wish I had a girl though. Heh.

Will bookmark your 'shop' and recommend to my friends.
 
small dreams,
hehe.. coz 3rd month of maternity ur pay is paid by govt not employer. companies would claim ur pay from govt so for self-employed mums u have to claim from govt urself.
 
*Pasal government maternity leave*
Sigh
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i wish i could qualify under this scheme
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...

*North-West CDC*
Ish ish ...due to desparateion, Ima going down there tomoro nak apply keje. Anyone got thier jobs via CDC before?
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Nak tahu jugak how fast boleh dapat keje & how their placement is like. Dream job would be some nut-case employwer employ me for Oct til i branak in Nov. Kasi maternity leave 2 bulan then sambung keje....
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Haha cacat sey kalau ade employer cam tu.....

*Sally & Betty*
I love doing such stuff since 204...cuma tat time i takde resources. Everything is done in combination of years of delicate skills as factory op and my love of all things nice
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*BF during puasa*
I think Sri kata tu betul
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If not wrong it's u must latch consistently. Ini Ima ade cerita sikit.....

Trapped at sea n BF survivors
This story i heard during my school-going days. About how a ship wrecked crew on a life boat. Consist of a few ppl n a BF lady. They survivied by being BF by the lady...ish ish... & i dun think fresh water nor food was available. Kira dia pun cam puasa gitu. tak salah it was days til they were rescued and the ppl who survived owed thier life to that lady...GIRL POWER i say!
 
*North-West CDC*

hmmm.. my sis ada try apply keje thru CDC toa payoh.. tk salah adik tis is wat they'll do:

Firstly, muz call them to fix an appt.. Ltr they'll ask u wat type of job u want incld salary wise...Tink muz bring ur cert as well..

After tt muz wait for their letter..They'll find a job according to ur requirements & qualification..Dh dpt surat/call frm them, ltr u hv to go for the interview...

Abt the duration hw long u can get the job, is depends on the job availability... tk leh cerewet.. apa yg dia kasi u juz go for interview... but of course la if tk sesuai ngan u, u can reject or tk pegi for the interview...

But Ima, i tink susah la for preggie woman nk dpt keje p/t.. cz i dh cuba but nt thru CDC....Employer prefer after confinement den kita keje..they find it as waste of resources to employ a preg lady den hv to give her a ML... Haiz... Bias la.... I ada la nk cari rezeki for my bb so ada duit sikit after bb is born.. nampak nye tk kesampaian.. Sob..sob..sob...
 
*North-West CDC*
Oh so takde walk in? Coz that time Ima Baca newspaper, they go early in the morning, kasi details, then balik wait for thier call/come back in evening for "standard interview" Later on will get a call/sms about job offer. Dah tak cam tu lagi ke.....

Tapi if i wanna get a job outside, lagi takde org nak. I tot CDC ada lobang to help out mums/preggies to match jobs
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Actually me dun mind if it's just a temp 1mth job (oct). kalo perm tu mesti takde org yang nak kasi. Sigh... if i wasn't facing an unforeseen difficulty, tak payah terkial-kial cari job....sianz...

*Job portal 4 SAHM/preggies*
I think i nak suggest to Gahmen...set up a job portal for ppl like us
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Sape-sape nak support? They could set-up something cam jobstreet.com... but all jobs is for flexi-hour or suited for SAHM & preggies. Can be temp or perm. This way those company that come forward to advertise thier job opening, will get recognision from public n Gahmen. Also Gahmen leh support such companies (somehow, biz incentive maybe?).... IDEA yg terbiat tak?
 
blh walk-in... up to u..cuma when u call/or see the webby, they will mention make an appt tk silap adik... but u juz try... mana tau ur anak nye rezeki... tu la.. i pun ada difficulty.. biasa la in terms of financial.. ni pun ngah terkial2... aniwae gd luck to u ya!
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mudah-mudahan u get a job ASAP..
 
*Job portal 4 SAHM/preggies*

Gd idea..but leh ke gahmen accept? Hw i wish they allow bb bonus for single mum on the age 21yrs onwards.. argh!! hehehe...
 
Ima, if u ada probs, tk kisah in terms of financial or etc, u can try to go dwn to nearby Family Service Centre (FSC).. u tell them ur probs, see wat they can help... they can help u find a job too... adik dpt food ration, but tk sebrapa..but but.. bersyukur juga la.. hehehe... some of the ppl went dere, they help to pay their bills but they need to see family income & exp...
 
*Sri*
Im facing a one-off financial prob. I think if i dapat keje 1-2 mths gaji enuff to cover. Anyways, i was hoping to stay at home til my bby 6mths old... so not really seeking perm job (yet). But my skills not really much. A-level aje
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most prob next year once bby dah besar i would end up in kilang again....

What i dun get it is why ur bby tak dapat bby bonus... bby u Singaporean ape! Dah try jumpa ur MP about it? Sigh...sometimes our gahmen cuma see part of thier citizens, the rest like single mums & SAHM are transparent gitu...
 
Sri,

besok dah your appt, bawak sekali bag, mana tau, boleh deliver sekali : )

Ima, you are so talented. Today, in the Sunday times, they featured the crafty people- people who make business out of their passion for craft.

Song & Song,

Bedok, Toa Payoh also have their outlets.
 
i dh try tanya MCYS.. but cant... sbb adik single mum..tts y tk dpt.. muz legally married to the biological father b4 child turns 6yrs old baru leh dpt bb bonus... abit dissapointed cz my child wil contribute to the society kan...they cant cast aside such benefits..its for the child future needs juga kan.. haiz....

ok ape A-level..i lagi teruk.. Higher Nitec jer.. O level pun tk bagus.. hahahaha... insya'allah u can get a job...

LOL madem... muz bawa ke.. punya la besar & berat..mcm malas cz i need to bring Nur oso.. mum will be accompany me... I tot if tt day can deliver, i'll ask one of my sibling to bring it... tu pun kalau they all baik hati & rajin.. kwang..kwang..kwang..
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Btw hw r u kak? ur UTI dh ok?
 
Then don't bring the bag, anyway, they will provide evrything you need - toiletries, cuma baju baby aje. Ape yg you bawak sampai berat2?

I'm fine, bila pee still got slight pain, I think the UTI is due to the catheter inserted after the op.

Danryan, yours normal birth?

Mamaliz, mane gambar menu hari ini? You punya food pics very appetizing to look at. Macam pro....
 
hmmmm.. adik bawa:

swaddle
one set of bb clothes, booties, mittens & cap
one set of my clothes
toiletries
minyak - tiger balm n bubut
towel
Handbk KKH

Tink tts all... but for me berat...maybe cz diri sendiri dh berat..mana nk angkat bag, angkat pram lagi...leh pengsan....

catheter tu is a must eh kak? i heard frm other mummies, bila nk cucuk tu, punya la sakit...
 
Evening ladies...

mademoiselle...

today n yesterday tak masak pasal i overnite my cuzzins place smalam at woodlands....buka ramai ramai bestlahhh..
and nolah im not a pro in cooking but a pro in eating!! hehehehe...

smalam malam2 buta we went out for supper at Hani's at the budget flight airport....the menu is soooooooooo wide!! macam macam ada...local/pasta/sandwiches/burgers....etc!! rambang mata tengok...hahahabut too bad i was having a bad flu so my selera not really there but i did enjoy my chicken cheeseburger there though.....yum~! i think the cafe is a subsidiary of Han's...the cakes are wondrous~!

Siti...

tanx so much for helping us out last nite....my umah takder fridge sungguh lah susah....hari hari must buy fresh food to cook...koyak pocket ku...and sori tak respond ur sms, my hp kena rendam dalam air by my son agaknya...ada keys yg tak bole tekan....i off jer tu hp....haiz....bila agaknya laki ku nak kasi hp baru sehhhh....

Anyone heard abt the uniformed groups getting the moolahhhsssss??? is it 1st october..? cant wait to hear my hubbys bank go Ka-ching!!
 
ima,
i believe with yr quali mana tau leh dapat keje admin/ cso.. = )
i nak cari keje lain pon tak brani.. kinda in my comfort zone now.. ekeke
.. ade low confidence skit nih.. isk.. = p

hi new mommies~
 
*Sri*
Ape yg u pack sampai tak larat nak angkat tu... ingat nak pack luggage gi holiday ke ni
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keke

<font color="aa00aa">*Stuff i bring to hospital*
Enuff coli n disposable undies if ur nursing, might not be wearing coli (individual comfort)
Maternity pad (yg sticker type) &amp; nursing pads
Toiletries mandi &amp; tuala mandi
Sikat/deodarant/bedak
2 pairs of socks
Cardigan
Slipar (for walking ard ward) actually i wear slipar to go delivery suite
Baju nak pakai balik
1 set baju bby and selimut nak wrap bby time balik
Handphone n charger
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Stuff for reg bby birth u can get ur mum to bring on the day ur coming home. Coz not good to simpan all these importamt doc in ur bedside drawer, takut hilang</font>

*Pasal my A-level*
Hmmm... i consider my A-level as redundant as having PSLE... coz obtained in 2000 so now mcm tak relevent gitu. Ima tak pernah pandang rendah jobs that are labour intensive can minah kilang n cleaning and willing to do such jobs. But When the time comes to go back into workforce (after my #3 dah 4-6 MO at least) my hubi would like me to find a job yang perm sikit cam keje minah ofis/CSO. But susah kalo nak dapat coz almost all (esp if advertise by job agency like KELLY etc...) they all want mandarin speaking &amp; and on top of that some lagi nak mandarin n "dialect" speaking...ish ish.... mati lah org melayu cam kita ni susah cari keje sey....

*Members baru*
Haloz semua.... tak intro ke?

*Mamaliz*
Dapur tak berasap ke hari ni....
 
oh ya..lupa lak..incld disposable panties, nursing bra, pad, socks &amp; charger HP... kk... tink tts all...

lol ima.. i yg higher nitec ni can get office job..n i'm sure u A level graduate can get a better position &amp; pay...
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hmmm.. i try apply keje kat jobsdb &amp; job supermart... dpt.. but mengambil masa.. if u nk keje kat govt, u try http://app.vog.gov.sg/.. send sebyk resume.. manalah tau ada org nk employ... hehehe...

Kelly nye agency mmg no use ahh...i gt try b4... sal mandarin n dialect speaking tu, paling i fed up bila nk apply for job..alasan diaorg cz wanna liase wit chinese/china client so they need mandarin speaking employer...Arrrr....
 
yasmin...

kalau u n hubby interested kan, i buat new valuation...kalau naik we sell at valuation price, no cov lahhh....1st time buyers dekat ngan parents ada kurang skit kan??

nor...

i ngah flu lahh..anyway smalam buka tempat my cuzzin....hari ni tapau since im too sick...

welcome famela!!!
 
*Kelly &amp; other job agency*
Sigh... not only pilih race but they weed out mums n preggies also tau..no matter how high ur qualifications are, kalu iu ada young kids to care for, most likely u won't be shortlist to any job at all. And as for nak liase with chinese boss.. come on lah... have u ever had a CHINA PRC boss in the 1st place? At most will be a chinese singaporean n dun tell me they so dumb dunnoe how to speak English aka Singapore's 1st lang...ish ish....jus another excuse to discriminate against other races. Tis prob so rampant n yet Gahmen just brush it aside....
 
tu pun adik ngah worry.. takut lepas branak, they see i'm single mum &amp; anak satu, they mcm ragu2 nk employ me.. haiz...
 
yasmin...

lupa nak cakap, my hubby said if the valuation remain the same kan...sell at valuation to u...hehehe....dia actually dah malas nak advertise semua...nak cepat jual then dapat pindah near his mum so i can work....Force Labour!!! kekekekeke...kesian aku~

nor...

ni semua dah biasa lahhh....i dulu keje kan...they still take me cos they have malay customers mahhh....so die die must take but for me it was hell working at a place where they look down on our kaum...my arwah datok meninggal i nak balik kampong tengok...they said datok sebelah mana? then they even said actually not imp enuff for me to go!!! kepala otak~....i was fuming mad but also stuck there cos times were hard....all the way i work i menangis jerr....even my best fren who is chinese kesian tengok i, dia masuk office n make hell for them....in the end baru diorang kasi balik...tu pon satu hari jer......
sekarang i cakap ngan hubby i kalau i cari keje, i nak memilih...pasal i dont want to be unhappy like that time.....
one more link we can find work....under WDA https://pes.wda.gov.sg/jbs/Logon/index.aspx
 
*Keje ofis*
hehe ima tak tahu ambil minutes lah.... The last time i took minutes, ended up tertido (coz the meeting was 3 hrs) n when my boss ask me i tulis ape. I showed him my cartoon drawing of him tgh marah his workers
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Those were the good old days....
 
lol...funny la u ima... i terkekek seh...i paling benci take dwn minutes of meeting... nasib baik i tk keje admin or secretary...if nt eh..i leh nangis seh..if kat skola kena buat tk pe la..wat to do..dh sch assignment..
 
*Sri*
Ape nak buat...coz im not the type who duduk one corner type type kinda person
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. Cepat bosan. Last time i keje my title was production/plannning admin. Title aje admin but keje cam contracter. Sampai keje aje tukar pakai boots, earplug, helmet &amp; payung. Pas to b4 workers sampai i dah panjat2
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ard the workshop n m/c collect data for my boss...ish ish... kulit pun jadi burn, sampai my frens tanya pegi beach suntanning ke
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kekeke so much fun!

If i had a choice i would rather continue my dip in radiography. Dulu had to stop due to my hubi tak kasi....
 
wah kak... ruggard eh u... power... Radiography tu ape course kak? sal HB tk kasi? mcm my guy dulu tk kasi masuk poly cz he jealous...maklum la kat poly bdk2 lelaki nye muda2...dia dh tuek.. but i tink dia tu tink too much..sampai kesitu lak...
 


*Sri*
Dip tu nanti leh keje kat hospital. Ambik x-ray tulang org
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or leh scan bby... My hubi dulu tak kasi sambung
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coz if i stop keje then $$ i tak support. He total tak support. My poly fee i pay guna $ i keje after my lectures kat kilang dobi/Long John Silver/kedai jamu. Usually balik malam ard 11pm-1am. Pas to settlekan my son (tat time dia 1YO) and sambil study for weeky quiz n project
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Penat!! My grades were very good comparing that i tak school for 6 years n the rest of my classmates semua budak fresh from A-level but their grades so bad...ish ish... Wat i find so ironic about these poly kids is even nafa 2.4km run i came in 3rd somemore...the rest (semua 19YO) tercunggap2 kat belakang... very pelik...

Feel so regret i stopped but
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think about it, if i sambung then during my 2nd semeter nak kena branak my Nabila and bila year 3 nak branak my #3 cam mane pulak eh
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haha bila attachment maybe leh scan tummy sendiri...
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Insya'allah in future a da kesempatan, will try to re-apply again
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But for now need to be realsitic and work support growing family coz i got lots of small kids...banyak pakai $$ lah diorang ni semua!
 

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