ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

quite a lot of young mommies here...

yasmin
i still can recall the pain on my back and the ribs....now masih ada rasa sikit pain on my pelvic bila i lying down mereng to the left or right....terpaksa baring on my back every nite...
 


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Date:21/8/08
Time: TBA

1.Lynzi
2.Ima + Amirul &amp; Nabila (via TPY/AMK Shuttle)</font>

My pantat dah gatal nak out from tis home.... hopefully ramai yg hadir
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*Telly*
How come u all from my sis punya era huh... me at tat time baru aje P1
 
yasmin
tu lah yg pelik nye...coz my previous 2 preggy tak pon rasa cam tu...further more this is my last delivery on june lalu tau......macam lambat gitu nak baik...

nor
tak leh join ler me FTWM....nak gi this wkend ada jemputan pulak kat JB.
 
*Danryan*
Ish ish... me from 2nd pregnancy til now pun same ting. mesti lie flat on back, plus taruk heating pad kat my bumm...baru leh tido. Realise lately hujan season my bones ache more than usual
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Yasmin,
urs is normal or c-sect? Setahu i sekarang memang banyak doc prefer to do c-sect..
Hopefully i try not to pasal bak kena potong potong ni ada sikit seram..

Nor,
Nak jugak bawak my son pergi fidgets.. sounds like fun.. Ashik duduk rumah aje.. Sesekali nak jugak mix dgn dunia luarkan.. Cuma these week i tak dapat pergi ada my hb family kat sini..
 
danryan
me before beranak pon severe pelvic pain, 6 mths i jalan macam koboi. sempai kena pegi theraphy bec my knees misaligned.

Tapi my pelvic pain went away lepas i pakai bengkung. the makcik urut ikat ketat ketat sampai lepas punggung. Lepas kena bengkung a few days baru rase lega sikit and no more pain. I only pakai bengkung after 1.5mths i deliver bec c-sect i tak berani pakai earlier.

maybe u can try.
 
donno why, sejak dengar 4 mths maternity leave je.. macam nak lagi satu ..

nak increase my brood kalau ade rezeki,insyallah.. haha
my hubby dah pikiran = p

Question: baby bonus pon ade increase tak?
 
nora

kat umah me still wrap wif binder and bila keluar wear girdle wor....kekadang ada rasa and sometime tak rasa....macam tenggelam2 timbul hahaha....lagi pon mayb i tak enough rehat during my confinement i kena stays at KK wif my bb gal yg kena chix pox then again i ligation skali after my delivery on june recently...
 
Hahaha... Yasmin, i oso feel sharp pain at ribcage.. do scanning, sonongrapher said my bb leg is very near at my ribacage.. so whenever i feel sharp pain means bb is kicking me.. She said I hv sufficient fluid tt makes bb easier to more ard freely...

Julian, masa i kat hosp gt tis kakak she's 7mths preggie..she admiited to hosp sbb she feel pain at tt area too.. kesian dia...susah nk jln.. she use wheelchair thruout her stayed...

**baby bonus**

best eh if dpt..too bad single mum nt eligible.. i tk dpt rasa ahh bb bonus...

**Fidgets**

wld like to join but cant... takut2 otw dere i terbranak... hehehe.. insya'allah if nxt yr gt such outing will join u all...
 
julian,
mine is normal, though i was prepared for c-sect coz baby didnt turn til last min &amp; if baby is too big.
.. think my gynae is pro-natural
 
Wah ramai orang tinggal Clementi lah dulu. But now, Jin Shan is replace with Nan Hua right.

Mas,
U ape class? Yr 82-87. Mesti kenal Cikgu Osman. The very the gatal one.
 
sri,
ya, macam rasa lebam kat ribcage. was angry initially,cannot breathe! but when nur was born, n i saw her buttock lebam, i felt so guilty for being angry.. heh
 
sri
kakak yg pakai wheelchair tu macam i la dulu. dah puas jln macam koboi, naik wheelchair pulak..sigh.. segan sekali nak keluar from room.
 
*Sri*
Kalo u terbranak kat sane then ur bby will be the youngest member there
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Anyway asal bby bonus tak dapat pulak? Single or not dapat right
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As long as bby is Singaporean citizen....

*Pasal bby bonus*
The new details out already? me hope ade extra incentive implimented by October before i meletup in Nov...kalo tak rugi sey...
 
Insya-Allah kalau boleh, i nak normal jugak.. 1st and 2nd normal cuma sekarang ada paranoid sikit..

Sri Leo,
u choose which hospital.. U due bulan puasa kan..
sorry i curious sikit.. kenapa u tak eligible for baby bonus? ni baby u no. berapa ehh??

Mas..
How's Izz? i doakan dia selamat dan sihat..
 
yasmin
so funny u descibe yr dd.......

babylee
Cikgu Osman yg mane eh....dulu dia tinggal Clementi jugak ke??

my 3rd and last pregnancy nie i really cannot tahan frm 2nd trimester rasa macam cepat penat and jln dah tak kisah orang......koboi pon koboi lah...
 
nor, i dengar pasal baby bonusnye news released by this week.. Tunggu pak wong kan seng buat kira kira dulu duit cukup tak untuk kita semua..

4 weeks extended maternity leave tu i tak dapat lah pasal i SAHM.. rugikan.. They should do something for SAHM jugak pasal we depend on gaji hb aje..
 
dun worry bile pak wong kire duit tak cukup dia nanti bole naik kan erp ke gst ke duit hospital ke...

eh.. i tak bole survive pakai girdle. i notice some of the ladies in my exercise class pon pakai girdle time exercise. bile pakai girdle ade muffin top effect la..
 
cikgu osman..i ingat dia...ima...u at jin shan from which year? ai..bual pasal skul...rindu lak time2 skul dulu..

i assume the fidgets is bigger...coz the one at delta is small..
 
*siti*
Me ingat cikgu Osman
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but i think the most memorable malay cikgu is definately CIKGU DOLLAH
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Me at JSPS 1988-1993. kalo nampak ade sorang budak melayu gemok bertahun-tahun duk depan nurse/HOD/principal's office during reccess (1991-1993)...tat's me
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Tak buat correction n pass up homework/file punya pasal...
 
DanRyan, Siti,
Ya
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Cikgu Osman stays at Clementi dulu opp the AYE. hahahah....

Smua Mommies yg due ini tahun,
Hope smua deliver smoothly ya...banyak kan selawat.
 
entahlah..tk prasan lak..as for cikgu dollah, dia tk ajar i sgnt..yg ajar i cikgu osman,halijah and aminah.

for the 4mths mat leave tu, do u guys think our comp happy abt it? ader je drg cari pasal dgn kiter b4 we go for leave. mcm tk secure gitu..

sri, u try to ask mcys whether ur baby eligible for baby bonus. tkkan single parent tk dpt seh...its still a baby coming out pe...
 
*Cikgu Dollah*
U dun remember him? Dia PE teacher, n super dirty minded. Kalo he take over malay lesson confirm censored topics...ish ish...
 
siti
u are spot on abt the maternity leave. semalam org dah hint hint kat sini

ade collegues yg tanye i yesterday tak nak beranak lagi ke mat leave 4 mths. I told them off. I said kite beranak dpt maternity 4 bulan tapi tak guaranteed anak kite terbela kan. I cakap lagi kalau nak beranak pun dun do it for the wrong reasons. Some pple dah tak dapat enjoy the "benefit" sakit hati pulak bile org lain dapat. My work environment is not pro-family la.

Baru semalam i told hubby that i might consider working half day when my boy da start primary school.

Rase rase mcm nak carik keje kat govt office je.
 
i pun kalau my kids dah msk pri skul, i nk cari keje part time. time to spent quality time wif them...govt office ader part time ke?
 
siti
tak tau pulak pat tu, kalau pro-family shd ape... i think they call it flexi hours??? my boss memang tak suke org go on long leave bec we all handle our clients directly. so bile kite takde dia mengelapar jadi nye. Ade org nak pegi 4 days leave pon dia carik pasal.
 
Alamak, I'm lost already. Banyak sangat posts.

Hello to all new mummies.

Cakap pasal Jin Shan, I'm from the rival school, Clementi North from 85-90. Btw, Cikgu Halijah was my colleague 10 years ago. I pun from Clementi dulu, Avenue 4.

Anyway 4 months maternity leave won't be much of a difference to me coz I'm a flexi adjunct teacher. No work, no pay. Kalau dapat monetary rewards besides the baby bonus pun bagus jugak. But we being Singaporeans will never be satisfied with what the govt's offering. Asyik nak lebih ajer.
 
Julian

yea they shld something for SAHM or working fathers who is sole breadwinner

nora
its soo true apa u cakap. ada mat leave pun, baby bonus - it only last for a while. anak dibela 20 years like dat..its not abt the money also. character lah, pelajaran lah - ni nak kena monitor closely. if mums stress sangat dengan kerja,burnt out, cam mana nak check seh. susah betul

rather than money - rather work options be changed. like freelance , part time work ke. work from home ke.rumah cheaper ke.std of living cheaper ke. bigger difference.
 
hahaha.. yasmin..sal buttock dia lembam nt ur fault..some babies keluar mmg mcm tu.. don feel guilty ya.. hehehe.. i bila part my dear bb kick, i tk marah..but i told bb "kat dlm kick tk pe..jgn bila Syg dh besar, Syg kick ibu eh..." kekeke...

Ima, bb bonus for single mum tk leh dpt..muz be legally married to the father of the child b4 the child 6yrs baru leh dpt...

So Julian hopes the above clarification, ans ur qns.. hee
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tis is my 1st &amp; last child... I due 12 sept but doc expected me to give birth tis mth.. I'll be deliver @ KKH...
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Nor(Nabmum),Hahaha.. tergelak bila baca u nye post as at August 20, 2008 - 3:32 pm. Hahaha..
Dulu2 u nie noty eh...

Sri and expectant mommies,
have a smooth delivery.
 
Sri leo,
If i tak silap, u can appeal to MCYS and inform them about ur situation.. Cos if its ur 1st baby, kan ada cakap they going to increase the amount.. Anyway its not the moneylah that matters but it helps in one way or another..
Sri, i hope everything goes well for you.. I doakan u bersalin dengan selamat..

Nak besarkan budak ni bukan nya murah sekarang..
When i survey baby diapers and milk powders, boleh pengsan harga dia.. What to do.. Nak kerja problem, tak kerja financially problem pulak..
 
minibear,
u cannot join us?
gotta wait for hubby then can go?
faiq 2mths old i dah jalan sendiri with him...took mrt easier...if bus i surrender...
if kena naik bus...ku mintak car keys and drive...lagi senang.
that time i went out when faiq was so young pun cos i myself wana get myself used to going out with him alone..plus i was so bored during confinement...hehehe...
now at 8mths faiq is used to going out and taking mrt.
looking at people and sound of the train don't scare him like it does to some babies.
minibear, if u nak go from woodlands u can share cab with ima pe.
from woodlands to bukit timah is near.

ima,
nanti aku comfirm again on the timing yah.
 
helo helo all mummies...
i jus left the forum few hrs,thread da panjang se..

minibear,babylee
thanks fer the wish..
moga2 delivery kiter2 yg due will b smooth ya..

yasmin,Sri,
a'ah my ribs selalu kena attack ngan baby..
cam hepi gitu baby kat dlm asyik relek dat corner.

betty,
helo to u too..thankiu welcome me &amp; other new mummies here.
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kat my werkplace pun gitu..not tat they tak support pregnancy..
fer the upper ppl,they pening to slot our cuti..
and the rest yg either lum kawin,or taknak kawin or taknak anak or that sort..kadang2 like u noe keep whining like hw our existing maternity leave affects their booking of leave slots la..
i mean bukan kiter sengaja nak jadi production factory ke ape kan..
lagik my werkplace pulak,biler satu ngandung..mesti ader another 2 at least also sangkut..
seasonal pregnancies &amp; births..hehe..
lagik2 nw soon to be 4mths ML...memekak la lagi org pat keje...hehe
 
maternity:
so far realised my boss did not comment on the 4 month maternity. my office now got 2 preg staff EDD only 1 mth apart n they planning to come back after 2 mths.. wonder how sey if 4 mths.. surely need manpower. if not, i jugak jadi octopus!

nora,
ur colleagues not Y2K generation one ah..
4 mth maternity actually ok but not the best move i feel. the longer u go off, the more work u have. If they make female working hrs shorter by a bit like a 1hr everyday better.. dunt need to rush home n at least u are at work everyday..

SAHM:
its true abt what govt say lost of opportunity to earn income... Govt wants us to have babies n yet work at the same time(eg tax relief for FTWM), tat y nothing for SAHM or fathers.. without its pple, SG is nothing. then its should be a mindset/attitude change.. ie pro family instead of just giving out bonus n maternity leave which is like a one-off thing per child.
but work wise sg is still quite traditional n not flexible. but for me nowadays, I always leave on the dot. hah!
 
good evening ladies...

in regards to the pro family ni kan..all im hoping for is the childcare to be heavily subsidised by gahmen or at least sg make the companies in sg more pro family so that we all can go out n work....saper yg tak nak keje if we can help to ease the burden financially kan...

nshah...

no news from my fren lahh...dah tanya but no response so i think u dont hope so much lah for it...sorry eh..

lynzi n ima..

hmm..if u ladies going after 1pm i might be able to join pasal my girl abis skool at 1pm...if jadik then i meet ima at amk mrt lah to take the shuttle....tak berani pi sorang sorang pasal turf ct tu jauh ke dalam....n im always lost at that place sehh....
 
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Aloz ladies! Due to some weird mood my hubi is in, dia nak send the whole family gi turf city. So tomoro, me n my family kat sana @ 2:30pm so kalau nasib baik kita terserempak.
 
moms yg nak pi fidgets tmr, take note tau dat place is yg sebelah blakang. Kalo kluar dari Giant after check out, turn left then ade escalator, naik smp the door. cos the place is sooo BIG!! First time aku pegi, sesat sey! lol!! Have Fun! Too bad aku takle join tmr! Kalo gi Sunday, then can mit there!

naddy, then u mesti kenal my sis! :p
sama batch dgn u ler.
 
good morninggggggggg ladiessssss

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mamaliz
me me..!! hehehe i memamg dah plan for 2009 baby but i prefer end of the yr baby.. so will start pancing maybe early tis yr.. hehehe Insya-Allah itu pun klu ada rezeki..

East Mummies!!
Any recommendation playgroup centre for 18mth.. i plan to send Naufal, now he already 12mth.. still havent decide nak antar kat ner.. prefer ard bedok reservoir/eunos/kembangan area.. TIA
 
Morning to all

mamaliz
haiz, melepas lah kita....tak dapat benefit....
my fren yg dah bersalin #5 on April lalu pon lagi melepas....

lynn
wah...cun lah u target to get bb next yr...hehehe

FIDGET
Told my hubby abt dat place interested and nak go on 30aug to celebrate together wif my 2nd son nye bday.....dat day falls on saturday mesti ramai org kan kan...

S'pura Shiok
Smlm watch dat show, got the chance to see JACOBS BALL (betul ke name dat pl) yg some mommies pernah gi dulu....so interesting place jugak....feel like going but dah nak posa pulakkk..
 
Danryan
hehehe kita merancang je.. Insya-Allah
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Fidgets
if u wanna go on sat, memang ramai org but still ok cos the place quite big.. the last time i went pun on sat.. but still ok lah, masih ada tempat utk naufal crawl ard..

Ydays show tu is the same place where some mummies pernah gi dulu.. they even post some of the photo here..
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lynn..

heheheh...wah dah semangat lah tu ehh...best of luck to u then! get the ball rolling~~~~

Arliana

hehehe...nak cakap apa kan....lain lah kalau u nak anak lagi...then get the ball rolling for 2009 babies pulak n get the benefits along...hehehehe

jacobs ballas childrens garden

great place!! in my view lahh...cos i think its good to let our kids play surrounded by nature...i dont like skarang nya playground cos too plastic lahh...over at the garden its sand at the playground and there are flowers n ponds...even got water play area to let the kids get wet....fun lahhh...maybe we make another gathering there b4 puasa??? i didnt make it last time...but went there myself...
http://www.sbg.org.sg/bukittimahcore/ChildrenGarden.asp
 

mamaliz
seen the pics of yrs b4...geram see yg tembam tu....

lupa ler name dat place Jacobs Ballas kok jadi Jacobs Ball hahahahah
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