ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

betty
ya lor..best bcos all got children so as parents all of us were very helpful & understanding..especially when our child buat kerenah..not tat paiseh...

Nor
Maisyarah is a beautiful name...

Anyway, my doc scanned me yesterday, he said 90% BOY..my hubby so heppi now got company....will have my detailed scan next month so can c more clearly.....
 


DanRyan,

Hello there! Congrats! Sorry lah I terlambat sangat nak wish you. Very busy with the kids cos my maid kena transfer back to my sis! So I ngan my mom lah terlari lari in the hse. My mom tempang pun kena buat keje rumah dah! So kesian. So enuff abt me! How's baby girl? And the boys? Danial & Raiyan must be very happy!
 
Nor

dun think too much. just for it and hope for the best. if dapat - gd. if tak dapat pun - u know u dah try. ni abt fate, rezki juga. see what God has planned for u..
 
ryatie,
a boy! congrats
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thanks all ummies

betty
u said complete...my doc mantel gi cakap ngan my hubby..3 is odd..n aper lagi he said..wat abt 4..i said kreta n taxi tak MUAT....
 
Good Afternoon!!

betty bad..
cepat ke??? hehehe...me n hubby feels that the waiting game sureee is long...agaknya pasal we couldnt wait to get our new house and start to deco so the getting buyer part macam lama sangat gitu...my house susah skit nak dapat buyer pasal its low floor and furthermore in amk the price of 3 rm flat u can buy 4 rm elsewhere....Alhamdulillah hopefully the intended buyer will keep to his promise to sign the otp this sunday....pray for me yahhh~~~?

yasmin..

lerr...i dah letak my flat up for sale at the "WANT TO SELL" nya thread pon...and also kat sini i dah cakap nak jual..hehehe...takperlah...ini semua fated, u will find ur dream house soon enuf!
 
mamaliz, cepat seh u jual rmh!! u can rekomen me yr agent tak? my ILs nye rmh tak terjual2 la.. its been almost 8mths tau!

ryatie, congrats!! at last dapat bb boy!
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zu...
actually kan my house ni pon i takut takder org beli so i post online, at all those property ads nya webbie...thats where my buyer got me lahh...if u want my agent u can look him up at www.ckgoh.com he's a chinese muslim...very friendly and easy going guy...
 
zu
yor in law nyer rumah..yg dekat iyad isit? if yes, im looking for a house there but can only buy the house end of the yr after my confinement....
 
Hi Mummies

Macam dah lama tak masuk sini cos farah ni pantang nampak i kat comp mesti nk sibuk type lah main mouse lah..sampai malas nk be at the comp. Bila dia tidur, i pun ikut tidur jugak..

Btw, my grandpa just passed away yesterday. He's my mum's dad who is a Catholic so will be going to the wake later without the kids.

ryatie! Congrats! dah boleh consider 'tutup' lah eh. InsyaAllah i'll go for no.3 in a few years time. Your doter kat Iyad since playgroup issit? Then now at what level? Half day or full day? I plan nak put farah in nxt yr for playgroup kat cck.

mamaliz
InsyaAllah. Mudah2ah the buyer tk back out.
 
danryan,
milk materna for pregnany so i will pass for the vocher.

nor.
think u shd take a break already la. if u too stress worrying abt find job no good for baby. maybe can find job after u settle child care arrangements after give birth. planning in adv would be better than scrambling to find work now.

sharena.
sorry to hear abt ur grandpa. hopes everything goes smoothly.
 
ryatie,
congrats on the upcoming boy!
mudah mudahan selamat.

ima,
i ni tengah stress about work.
cannot imagine how u feel especially in your condition.
i think for u better relax first just like wat styli said.
 
*Lynzi & styli*
Well my CPF dah kontang due to duk rumah for too long, so i really need a job. Me dah cool sikit. Hari tu agaknya due to hubi pressure or hormones overdose so i felt so frustated
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Interview in 2 days time, me just hope for the best
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Busuk-busk keje kat long john silver at causeway point
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...keke gaji LJS not bad tau....
 
*Lynzi*
Ape sey. I pernah keje LJS (kira desperate time). I was the cook
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Best hari-hari i dapat makan fries & chicken
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. But i quit after dapat another PT job. Kalo tak will jadi
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asyik keje kan the french fries keke. Not bad the pay, i worked 4 weekends (8 days) dapat $500 after cpf
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*Yasmin*
Eee... dulu i did relieve teaching...geram betul the kids nowaday rasa mcm nak
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aje! One funny story, dulu after my A's i did relieve teaching for 1 day kat Siling pri, after that demam for 2 days straight...sumpah!
 
ima,
eh...lucky u stop working at ljs...
if not sure put on weight kan?
but i guess the temptation to eat is always there if working in F&B.
i pun can never resist fries...especially if panas2...haha!

kesian u relief 1 day got sick for 2 days.
can understand wat u went thru.
some who did relief for the first time had a rude shock cos it was totally not wat they expected.
 
Ryatie,

Congrats on the baby boy. Happylah hubby you!! : )

Bestnye the cc your dd went to. So pro-active! They should open one in the east!!!!

Ima, if you work at LJS, boleh I dapat extra fries. I like LJS food and frequents the Causeway Pt one. : p
 
*Lynzi*
My relief teaching experiance was terperanjat beruk
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Didn't expect them to be sooo naughty. I mean during my time semua treat relief teachers ok-ok, tak lah sampai bully giler....ish ish... tis is what happens when u take away the authority to pinch nad use canes in classroom...

*Pasal Batam*
I online check out the resorts kat sane. Wow semua fully booked 1 month in advance
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Seems like a nice place for cheap honeymoon... My hubi still owes me one since we were married in 2003..sigh....

*LJS*
All i can say is the fries are so sedap. Haha, nak tahu cerita sikit tak
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That time i applied they wanted me to counter staff but i volunteer to be the cook. U know why...so that i can curi the recipe for the fries and the infamous batter that makes the crumbs!!
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But too bad all pre-made batter n Fries, tinggal nak goreng aje..keke

Mayb Ima cari keje kat KFC...spy
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the Coronel's secret recipe pulak...
 
ima, kelakar i baca yr crite abt ljs and kfc! lol!! ekonomi teruk sgt ke smp nak keje pat ljs beb? :p anyway, rezeki halal sudah eh!

ryatie, no la.. yg dekat iyad tu my mom's place. dun tink she wana sell. kalo nak pun nyonya pat blk dia byk yg tgh aim. hehe.. cos she got a big recess area, or watever yg they call it. my ILs place at Holland! anyone wana buy? :p

sharena, sorie abt the loss! take care!
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*relief teacher*
ah~ .. remembered my days as a relief teacher zaman anak dara dulu.. kekek
2nd day , moody seh, sebelum gi school. my nenek tanya kenapa muka sedih.
terus aleh aleh i nangis , tak nak gi sekolah!!
hahaa!
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opps..
 
hi hi mommies,

salaam to all!

i just realised that this thread is still active. i think the last time i contributed was last year. hahaa! i have a tendency to be like a biskut when it comes to this sgmotherhood.

for the past few months since i went back to work, i have decided to prioritise and focus on the.. errrmmm.. sprees. heh.

nor - i hope you are successful in your interviews. where i come from, i was informed that it is MOM's ruling that to qualify for maternity leave, you must work for at least six months before the day you pop. maybe you can check with the interviewers if you qualify for maternity leave or not.

styliciously - yes. i read that. one of the guys who earned $11k is my hubby's friend. they used to hang out together a lot. haiiii.. jeles... jeles... but, i dont have the tenacity to do tuition. you need a lot of self-motivation which i sorely lack. so makan gaji is the answer for me.
 
yasminy - i can so identify with that!! i felt the same way when i did relief teaching after my As. i was so miserable because i got a lousy class and there were no friends among the colleagues. (actually, mainly because i felt so alone in the school. no friends.) but i tahan for one term before i gathered enough courage to tell the vp i wanted to quit.
 
*styli*
Kalau leh tutor pun best but Ima dulu zaman sch asyik sibok dating dapat result teruk. Nak tutor budak PAP pun tak qualify man :p

*Yasmin*
hehe, so ironic,
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i picture naughty students crying taknak gi sch... but not their teachers!! hehe. I feel ur pain...

*Zu*
The last time i chk LJS n KFC masih halal...keke loya buruk mlm2 buta.... Well easy $$ is so tempting. My interview besok 3pm. the whole day plan ape nak cakap to the peson. Takut he ask all the dumb question like... "tell us more about urself" benci sey that question. How u all jawab ah? Kasi tips sikit.
 
yup. cried buckets donno for what pagi2 buta.. haha. thank God, i took a week to get used to it n had the students to listen to me.
my mom wanted me so much to be a teacher,(since she cant be one..) so i pergi for the interview. was so happy when i was rejected.. kekeke, much to her displeasure..

not that i hate teaching, i love to teach young children, only that the paper work n extra activities/marking freaks me out. n i never like to bring work home. maybe im just selfish.. heh
 
Sharena
Salam takziah to u...
Qistina is now in N2(NUrsery)....Qasdina is going to N2(playgroup) next year insya'allah...both fulday care..have u register ur child...cos they usually give priority to siblingd there...

zu
oh yg kat iyad tu ur mom's pl..ya lor..susah nak dapat rumah kat saner..tat's why i'm scouting early...if u happen to kno anybody selling..pls update me ya..

mademoiselle
how bout u dah detailed scan...so how's amaar reaction while ur having tis baby?

*relief teaching*
i dule pernah relief teaching for mendaki...paywise good tapi stress..cos most of them r realli teruk in their studies..n one or 2 of them suker main2...dule my time gi class mendaki ..al of us will duduk diam2 dengar teacher cakap...
 
ryatie
congrats on yr bb boy.........

babylee
yes, both my boys so happy to have bb maysyha...

At last, hari nie baru i start to urut my badan...lega sikit
 
hihi...
today barulah i dapat masuk sini.
saturday got weddings to attend.
yesterday pulak went jb for fathers' day.
wah...so many posts to catch up with.
ni nak share with u all, i'm very proud of myself today cos i finaly pureed carrots, pumpkin and apples for my boy.
betul punya self satisfied.

today faiq not with me.
hubby send him to mil's place so i get some rest as today is my wedding anniversary.
so now, i'm relaxing at ritz carlton...surfing the net while enjoying the spore river view from the window...hehe.
 
lynzi
r u still interested in signing up faiq for classes like gymboree? I wanna fill up my saturday afternoons with some class for me n ayuni.
 
*Lynzi*
Enjoy nampak
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Good if u have supportive in-laws to 'jaga' ur kids for ur anniversary.

*Wedding anniversary*
Just a quick survey, anyone else celebrates this or this is just a date in ur calender aje?

*Pasal interview tadi*
One of the most tiring ones i had. Supposed to be scheduled at 3pm, but ppl who came at 1pm still waiting to be seen!! But luckily i met a few 'oldie' in the trade and we chit chat to pass the time. Interview ended at 615pm. Didn;t ask much...pelik pulak coz i was expected to be grilled for answers till i crack. hehe Now awaiting 'result' this fri will get t know if im going US ke tak. My hubi macam sedih when i tell him that. but i know in his mind he is planning to turn the house into a bachelor pad during my absence.....
 
Nor

Re: Wedding anni
So far I baru celebrate twice - first time, just a quiet dinner & 2nd time, dgn baby2 sekali kita angkut gi makan kat Carousel. Hee!

Lynzi
Wah seh, must've spent a bomb @ritz! It'll only be in my dreams if I get to put my baby at my mom's place while I go off to enjoy my anni! My mom is who I'd call the modern nenek, who'd rather read newspaper & catch up on her books rather than entertain her cucu on my anni day. But then again I think I'll miss my baby lots if I'm out without him :p

Btw NOR
Wah, u mean the job offers a trip to US Immediately?? POwer tu! Boleh lah shopping Coach ehhehe and perhaps carry all your California Baby items back for sale :p
 
Ryatie,

Surprisingly, he's excited on the coming one. He can't wait for his sis to come out so that he can play with someone. But nowadays, he's beyond me. His temper can be outrageous and sometimes I have to put him in his "naughty corner" a few times. He just got too much energy!!!

Lynzi,

What a nice way to celebrate your anniversary!!

Nor,
It's nice to celebrate it with hubby only, especially if we have been busy everyday with the kids. But if we have something on that day, it's not die die must go out. What is most important it's spending quality time with each other beyond that date. But we will try to do something nice on that day.
 
*mademoiselle*
See at least both of u make an effort...sigh...my hubi tak guna betul. aprt for the plastic flowers n colour pencils he gave me for my birthday last time, takde benda pun. Ask him date of marriage pun nak kena tunggu fikir sekejap
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eee.. feel like throwing him in the dustbin sometimes...along with his plastic flowers!!

*Naqia*
Ish ish, i make it sound like vacation sey
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Waiting for shorlisting this friday, kalau dapat end this month then fly of to...California keke macam ironic that i do CB BP. They having eqpt training coz the m/c not in Sg yet. 1-2mths only. Actually me tak risau leave my kiddies, only risau leave my hubi sorang kat rumah
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entah ape agaknya dia buat at home unsupervised...hmm.....
 
thanks ladies for the wishes.

ima,
wah...kul 3 plus kau masih log in?
ni terror ni.
me got interview today.
tak taulah how it will go.
just crossing my fingers that i won't embarrass myself...hehe.
 
*yasmin*
ala...keje low class kat kilang aje. Just tat thier m/c not yet arrive in sg so they training kat US (HQ) dulu. Donnoe dapat or not, the shift also not bad. 2 day work 2 day off
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Rotate pun every 4 months so still managable for me.
 
If you say low class job, this must be the highest low-class job ever! Factory mana ni huh? HEhe...But If i do get the job, I think i'llgive it a pass coz I just can't bear to leave my toddler at home..... my heart too soft lah. Jadi, i'd rather say goodbye to US factory outlets...than leave my kid at home :p
 
*naqia*
tak betul lah u ni, nak jadi minah kilang high class ke? keke yah rasa sedih leave the kiddies at home since i've spent their whole lifetime with me. But nak duit punya pasal.....

*yasmin*
Sumbat dalam luggage leh
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keke. tapi nowadays i heard flights are charging for excess baggage eh? ish ish...kalau gitu i pack sluar dalam spare aje lah... yg lain tinggal kat rumah
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Wah, the job sounds good. But how long training dia? A few days, can lah. But if berminggu-minggu, a bit hard?

Lynzi,
Good luck on the interview.

Today, i'm off. Brought Amaar to Health Promotion Board for dental check up. Starting ok, let the dentist check his teeth, but when they want to start the washing, he screamed and start getting off the chair. Pujuk punya pujuk, dia tak nak jugak. So, the dentist just teach me how to brush his teeth properly and to stop any night feed.If anybody want cheap dental check up, make appt with them. the dentist quite patient with young kids.
 
mademoiselle
how much they charge?? did he cry?

lynzi
best seh dapat santai w/o children...i nak jugak tapi me nie @ the moment sussah nak apart from my children cos' i only get to c them weekdays nites n weekends..
 
ima,
i think most airline do charge for extra baggage. maybe if other mommies can offer advice. the furthest place out of mainland that i usually go to is johor jee...

ryatie,
ure a ftwm also? i share your pain, kadang2 termenung tengok my baby tido pon jadi. hah!
 
yasminy08
yup i'm ftwm ..i feel the same 2 ..sumtime even hug them 2 sleep with me...sampai tangan cramp
i keluar rumah 6.30am sampai rumah 8.30pm...so tat's y when ppl said 2me tinggal jer anak kat rumah..i relli feel BAD...cos i c them less than 6hrs..ikutkan hati mcm nak resign...but @ the moment still manageable..dunno if dah 3 ..mcm maner..
 
ryatie, yasmin,
that was exactly how i felt.
my baby was closer to my fil than me and hubby.
even when we came to fetch him, he would cry and cry when we took him away from my fil's arms.
as a mum, it was heartpain.
that was wat triggered me to resign and now finding part time job.

btw, interview tadi went ok.
but i think i won't get it cos they want chinese speaking.
am supposed to have interview at jamiyah tomoro but have to change it to thursday cos tomoro i got to go school to clear my workstation.
 


*Lynzi*
Has it been a month since u tender? Thursday dah clear meja cam cepat gitu. TAdi interview b4 they shorlist u they never mention nak chinese speaking or not ke? I pernah travel jauh2 interview dah sampai, they dun even grant me interview coz i tak cina. Then i angry shout at them tadi kat talifon why tak cakap siang2, ingat duit busfare murah n i so free izzit!

Hopefully u land not just any job, but a job that suit ur need to spend more time wif faiq
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*For the rest of FTWM*
U all keje 5 day weeks eh... i tak pernah keje ofis hour (at most put 6 mois aje but b4 my no.2) Usually i keje shift which i feel is much better coz u have 15-16 off days per month.

*pasal dental*
The HPB jauh tak? kalau jauh then better antar my son kat the one nearby @ vista point. Tat time dia check up & polish was $30. At least the dentist was nice
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