ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

[styliciously]

hi nabnum
Morning sickness, mine tak teruk sangat tapi ade jugak. For me, rasa macam too much acid in my stomach, so I think I snack everytime can. Biscuit always in my bag so in bus pergi balik kerja ade makan sikit. kalau plus milk packet lagi best.. Bila ade makanan dalam perut, rasa tak nak muntah sangat. But sometimes, lepas makan/berus gigi, muntah jugak... Try healthy snacks esp yang ade susu-susu.

 

[sasha4real]

Lynzi,
Finally dapat jumpa Faiq, cute lah dia

Tak pe lah, once in a while keluar ape...at least malam tidur lena. Anyways, how's your cramps?? Let us know kalau cfm on 22nd tau...

Zu,
Oh, today merayap gi Vivo/Harbourfront?? Kat Taka baby fair kelmarin ada jugak stroller tu?? My friend told me last time at Baby Hyperstore ada satu Maclaren in <font color="ffff00">GOLD!</font> selling for 10K! I told her orang gila mana dah beli agaknya pasal when I went to collect/buy my stroller, tak nampak pun...

Shermin,
True. Lani's Sarah that time got frm foodcourt. Seems like I'm bit more lax when it comes to stuff like this - hazard of having 1 too many kids???? Never mind, maybe next time you can join &amp; Sharf can have fun too. Semalam parking kena banyak??

Nora.Rossi,
Finally dpt meet you. Last night semua lepas outing dah KO thats why not on MSN...hehe. You je yg lagi banyak energy I think we all headed home after dinner, me personally cant wait to put mine to bed. Think they all got bit cranky toward the end...

Nor,
Time preggy wt my twins, my MS pun very bad. I cld not get out of bed &amp; would throw up at the sight/smell or certain food. For abt 2-3mths, I survived on toast, crackers &amp; tea &amp; ate very very small meals (abt 5-8tbsp) every 3-4hrs.

 

[nabmum]

*styliciously*
Thanks for the tip

Yah agaknya coz i makan jarak to late so my tummy pretty acidic, but too bad i cant drink any milk. COz milk gives me gastric

But will try the biscuit snacking theory, might as well coz i got a ton of biscuit at home.

*Sasha*
Have yet to see someone stroll down Orchard in the GOLD Mclaren..hehe. U sure it was only gold..takede bling bling diamond ke

*Lynzi &amp; Nora*
Bestnya dapat merayap. Me gi Vista point beli Straits Time and will be pooped the whole day pala pening. I really dread the 1st 3-4 month of preggy coz usually feel like crap. Sometimes i see other preggy ppl (eg my SIL)who are so energetic and prancing ard cam totally unaffected by the bodily change rasa jealous jugak

Maklumlah dia masih muda...

 

[noni1]

Nor
I pon time preggy mula mula not well. not say morning sickness tapi terus takde energy. duduk hospital 11 hari pakai drip.. ape punye pembawakan.. tapi thru out my pregnancy pun i always penat and jalan terkangkang bec my baby is low and my placenta at the bottom, macam koboi.. time tu kan, kalau ade org berani datang kat i and sya they enjoy being pregnant, memang la nak kena selipar muke dia... hahahhahah

i got one admin staff here dah ade anak 3, time pregnant dia masih bole lari lari lagi pergi sane sini.. lain la i.. dragging myself all the way...

 

[noni1]

baru la today sempat catch up with all the posts. best ye you all dpt meet up and spend time.

i paling shock la ade stroller costs $10k.. kusemangat.. so i ade satu stroller aje Maclaren pon tak mahal sangat got it at baby hyperstore $100 plus aje.. i ade beli satu lagi stroller yg bole fully recline but its just those cheapo brand to use at home.. dah kasi org pun stoller tu...

i think stroller $10k tu agakye ade GPS, auto gear ke,suspension... jgn jgn ade personal air-con.. melampau.

 

[smalldreams]

nora

10K?! Wow...boleh beli brapa banyak coach bags tu..! Tu untuk orang kaya boleh lah... I told my hubby maclaren gunakan metal which is used to make aeroplanes and he had a good laugh over that. Mine is a combi stroller, i love it for its lightweight, but I bot another cheapo stroller to put at my mom's place - only $52! But now I'm thinking of getting another stroller...combi macam kecik gitu..hehe..

 

[ClassyShimmers]

Sasha/ZU
Ya HFMD can get anywhere la..but prevention is better than cure what. Normally places like gym,playground are more prone to germs n bacteria so thts y i kanchong bila go to all this places. Org ckp sediakan payung sebelum hujan!! Takpe there'll always be next time rite..Nak jugak let my monster try out on all tht. Tapi nanti time to stop I'll have difficulty stopping him..
Btw parking kena ard $6+ la!

Lynzi, I went to your kampung ler.Yesterday I ukur jln kat Causeway point pulak....HEHE

Btw, tht day kat Fork &amp; Spoon, I think all of u dah kepenatan kan..sampai balik main jln terus jer..Zu n I waited for u at the lift outside, you tak dtg2..when I went in back to look for you..dah nowhere to be found da! Si Sasha pulak forgot her bag! The kids yg jumped around, mak mak budak yg tak terlarat at the end of the day..

Nor
The biscuit snacking is good. But Im sure you'll get bored having to eat biscuit all the time..U get those Quaker chewy or the Granola Bites pun good. For me I have gastric so no choice have to eat every half to 1 hr. Biscuit really can make me puke sey!
When I was pregnant with Sharf, I didnt have all those morning sickness but after few years I developed gastric which I think when being attacked, its even worst than having morning sickness.

 

[smalldreams]

Nor

Yr MS bad eh? My MS was in the form of gosok-gigi sure-nak-muntah. I dreaded brushing my teeth! Haiz... well try snacking the plain Meiji biscuits k? that worked for me...

 

[sasha4real]

Nora &amp; Nor,
Entahlah whats so special abt that 10K Maclaren. Waste of money je! Aku kalau banyak duit pun tak nak lah...kalau automatic boleh bergerak sendiri, comes wt GPS &amp; tracking system - ok jugak...LOL

Naqia,
Agree Combi very lightweight but the handles are low &amp; wheels are small. Rasa macam tak sturdy. Me ni very lasak...hehe

Shermin,
Ah ah seh, boleh terlupa bag ni. Dah sampai lift, ask hubby where's the bag - dia tengok muka aku, aku tengok muka dia. Nasib baik you all still there. AT least tak lupa anak pe

Kau ni rajin benar....sampai Causeway Point!!

 

[babylee]

Hello Everyone

Nor
My first baby, I takde MS pun. So I tot the 2nd one wud be the same. Tapi I was wrong. Whenever I brush my teeth aje, I nak muntah. I tot by gargling Listerine wud help. It didn't at all. The vomiting was horrible until my tummy macam nak terkeluar druing my first trimester. So, initially I pick up snacking. But the best is, I drank gingerale. This works for me just fine!

Sasha
U usually go out with all the 4 kids in tow? U betul supermum. U boleh handle all of them all by yourself!

Me now am wondering how u cud cope with the twins when u gave birth to Saarah. My hat's off to u!

 

[babyarumi]

Zu, thanks for the invite but I gotta pass. We have something on on sat. You have fun tho!

 

[nabmum]

*Naqia &amp; Babylee*
macam mane korang hidup 3 bulan tak gosok gigi ah....

hehe This time okie lah, muntah muntah aje. My 2nd one leceh like noni, me pun kena hospital pakai drip. Banyak burn MC sampai i terus resign keje.

*Sasha*
Ye lah...ape tips nak share for bring out all ur kiddoes at once. Kalau me do that macam kamakazi mission.

*Shimmers*
Later i get my hubby beli Uncle Toby's or some thing like that. I do like the Sunflower seed bars that's sold at pharmacy. Tu pun sedap jugak cuma depends on bila tekak nak makan.

Yesterday muntah 1 day tak makan. Tak leh tido coz hungry. End up at 2am in the morning i ate 1 basket of fries, 2 bowls of mee soto and half a block of Cadbulry...

This morning muntah balik semua haha. I think i should just blender all my food and pasang drip direct to my tummy

 

[lynzi1606]

shermin &amp; zu,
eh gerls...so sooooooooooooooorry!!!
i tak tau u all waited for me.
when i saw u gerls walked off i thot korang pun dah tired n nak balik.
when i gathered my things and pusing u gerls dah gone.
jadi i pun terus go to carpark ah.
so sorry eh.
i didn't know u gerls waited for me.
oh dear, feeling so guilthy now.

naqia,
yah...nor told me about the jack n lily shoes ada pig lining.
i went to check up on it and its true.
so i have ordered shoo shoos instead.

sasha,
when i saw u with your new stroller and knowing how cheap is it i pun dah gatal nak get another one...hehe.
was trying to psycho my hubby on the way home kemarin.
hopefully he will let me have it...wahahaha!!!

nora rossi,
it was great meeting u.
u anak dah 3 yrs old pun still look so good.
envy envy...hehe.

shermin,
kau ni takde keje betul eh?
from tampines can come all the way to causeway point...hehe
takde bendalah here.
same like tampines mall or century square jugak.

GERLS,
22nd tak jadi cos i have oral exams every day next week so cannot take cuti.
how about labour day?
any plans yet??
wanna go hi-tea and include the hubbies?
juz a suggestion.
i'm open to any other suggestions.

 

[sasha4real]

Babylee,
Biasalah, I hv my days. Kids have their days. I feel bad if I have to leave say 2 of them at home - kesian kan

But my hubby yg slalu discourge me frm taking all of them out, takut I cannot manage. Like real only, if I leave 2 of them at home, I know he will be super stress &amp; keep SMSing when I will come home...LOL

But like I've told so many ppl, I personally find that my kids tend to be better behaved with 1 parent rather than if it was me &amp; hubby together. Guess they know they can try to work the other parent so hv to be strong &amp; united

Time Saarah was born tu, was easy breezy jugak. I mean, she sleeps half the time anyways &amp; I think the boys being no 2 &amp; 3, they all kept each other occupied &amp; I had my eldest who helped.

Nor,
Before going out, slalu we brief the kids. Tell them where we are going, what we are doing - our possible itinery for the day, &amp; lastly what is expected of their behaviour &amp; what is their punishment if they misbehave. My kids, I think they are so used to routine that even when we are out, it gives them comfort knowing what we are doing/going to do next.

I can tell you, its neither easy nor hard. Can be challenging. I usually dont hv expectations &amp; just take things as it comes &amp; keep my fingers crossed too

Lynzi,
Took me 1 wk to coax hubby to get me a new stroller. He told me to look arnd &amp; compile the models I hv seen. I had wanted to get the Inglesina frm before but at $299, I thought bit ex since wont be using for long anyways.

Was actually gonna go for the pink Esprit one frm Toys R Us at $149. Then go collect my antique Perego, thought might as well look arnd &amp; wa-lah, the Inglesina on discount so what the heck...really tried to sell the stroller to hubby at hyperstore!

Zu,
Kau punya playdate kul brapa sayang? Our plans for weekend are tentative since its all outdoor activities so tengok macam mana. Kau msg aku eh

High Tea: I 2nd the idea. We can maybe go Carousel or Straits Kitchen. I know hubby will be up for mingling wt other males Labour Day we hv no plan so I'm all for it! Lets plan already...

SAHMs: Ladies, check this out. I know you all wonder what keeps me occupied. This group is excellent. They hv everything for everyone,kids &amp; moms included. Hope you guys will join, gerek to hv members at the meetups...
http://playgroup.meetup.com/956/

On Tues (22/4) there is a movie outing for moms in evening. Timing &amp; location to be confirmed. We are catching 'Definitely, Maybe..', I am going. Anyone wants to join, let me know

Enjoy the weekend semua!

 

[norarossi]

Happy Weekend Mummies...

ZU..Ya my son is seriously enjoying his days sampai terbawak bawak..kept on asking when can meet Adam again..hehe macam kawan lama gitu..

Lynzi..Apalah awak ni..awak apa kurangnye..cute comel loteh aje..me young la tats why.. don envy, all of us can look good too with a little effort rite mummies? n the person yg i kagum is Sha Sha..should salute her man.. 4 kids..wow..Maintain je kan Sha Sha!!

Sha Sha..Seriously speaking i had expected you to be quite big size ke or at least plump ke coz 4 kids..i cant imagine how i would look like..then wow maintain seh..apa rahsia nye? hehehe..

 

[babyarumi]

Shasha,
I went to check out the link you gave. You seem to be everywhere! Thanks, I hope my days will be filled like yours=)

 

[sasha4real]

Nora.Rossi,
LOL, yes when ppl hear I hv 4 kids - they wonder too. Why do ppl hv this thinking that the more kid a woman has, the bigger she shd be??

I dunno abt other women, but I think lagi banyak anak lagi lah senang nak maintain slim. Eh, 4 kids - its an aerobic workout as it is! Tak yah nak diet-diet or join exercise class etc

Anyways, never really been quite big when I was pregger - think because of my body type.

The secret is to not let yourself go &amp; not be lazy. I think that what happens to women: They hv kids, they sort of take a back seat &amp; forget abt themselves. Plus ada maid also pe to help wt the kids. I'm very hands on &amp; I know most of you here are too because we take care of the kids ourselves. So keep healthy, keep active for the kids because how you feel will reflect on how you 'manage' them

Ok, pagi-pagi aku dah berceloteh...

Aryanti,
YAY!! Must attend the meetups ok...&amp; hope to see you &amp; Arumi there. Some of the popular activities like the monthly get-to-know meetup get quite full quickly so RSVP fast.

Hehe, yes I am everywhere - thats what happen when you become a mom

You try to keep the kid instead of yourself occupied - for your own sanity lah...

 

[lynzi1606]

ok mummies.
let me start the ball rolling.

HI-TEA GATHERING
Date/ Day: 1 May 2008, Thursday
Time: 3pm
Place: Carousel/ Straits Kitchen/ Family Buffet Restn@Taka (please vote for the place)

1) lynzi+baby+hb
2)
3)
4)
5)
6)
7)

 

[ClassyShimmers]

Lynzi, Count me in but without Hubby la,,HE'S NOT BACK YET!!! Place wise, I'll go with the majority..tak cerewet

HI-TEA GATHERING
Date/ Day: 1 May 2008, Thursday
Time: 3pm
Place: Carousel/ Straits Kitchen/ Family Buffet Restn@Taka (please vote for the place)

1) lynzi+baby+hb
2) Sher&amp; Sharf w/o Hb
3)
4)
5)
6)
7)

 

[sexymumma]

Hi Mummies..

HAPPY WEEKEND!

Tgh free2 ni with both kids tidur so apa lagi, chk this out lah..Farah tk leh nampak i kat pc, mesti nk dok sama and ask to watch her video clips on you tube. Dia suka tgk Schnappi and Pingu. Dahlah tu asyik nk mintak repeat aje..sampai 10x pun tk jelak2!!

I mcm nk ikut jugak gi gathering tapi hmmm..dunno if can or not...will c how..

Will be starting my urut on Monday. Can't wait..my body is feeling tired already..

 

[mixedup]

sasha, sorie eh. baru skrg nak tgk forum. pasal tak msg aku smlm? tis tues, movie ape tu ar? pat mane?

nora rossi, sama lar si adam nie. today ade playdate later, dia tanye if abg sharf and danish coming onot. haha.. i told him next time. rumah kite sumer jauh2 dar!

Hi Tea Gathering: i chk w hb kalo dia bole ambik day off dat day instead of Wed. Bole jgk kite join korang.

Big Mom w many kids- Actually kan woman w many kids la yg slalu slim. My sis w 4kids pun slim. Watever baju i tak muat, i pass to her. haha... nampak sgt aku nie gemok kan!

 

[sasha4real]

HI-TEA GATHERING
Date/ Day: 1 May 2008, Thursday
Time: 3pm
Place: Carousel OR Straits Kitchen
(Hv yet to go the 'new' Carousel but love love Straits Kitchen)

1) lynzi+baby+hb
2) Sher&amp; Sharf w/o Hb
3) Sasha + 4 kids + hubby
4)
5)
6)
7)

Sharena,
Kids these days ya...mine pun sama. Cant see me on the comp - nak go on this website lah, that website lah...print this, print that. Put on CD-ROM...it never ends!

How is it going wt b/feeding so far? Try to join us for the gathering if you can...still got time

Zu,
Ah, aku pun tak tau why I didnt SMS you last night! *blur* My 2 heroes tgh minum susu lepas tu, bedtime - YAY

Movie on Tues, kan aku dah list in my prev post. Tak baca ke?? Its Definitely, Maybe starring Ryan Reynolds, most prob at Vivo abt 9pm show. Ikut lah!!! But let me know pasal getting tickets on Mon ok...

And pls, gemuk kepala otak kau...dont speak nonsense lah. We all just hv diff body frames!

 

[ClassyShimmers]

Zu
Kalau kau gemok then aku ni?!! Anyways, how was the steamboat session huh? Tht Hi-Tea kalau ur hubby kena work takpelah..kau pergi aje dgn Adam n Sarah..temankan aku yg tak berpartner ni..

Sasha
How I wish I can join the movie outings..BUT who is gonna be looking after Sharf if I go? If only he sleeps as early as ur kids, kan senang!! Btw, the groups that u are with most are caucasian mums? Looks fun kan! Kau baru aje join eh?

 

[sasha4real]

Shermin,
Join lah...get babysitter. I can recommend mine

But tu pun if both you &amp; Sharf(oh, n ur hubby too)is OK wt it. I think I joined in Jan - tu pun my friend yg intro.

Some of the moms I know frm before I join the meetup group. And yes, most of these groups make up of expat mommies or local moms married to foreigner but there are also local moms too

You dah join belum??

 

[mixedup]

sasha, lah... vivo tu jauh sey. laki aku slalu smp rmh kul 10.30pm. takkan aku nak tinggalkan budak2 nie pat rmh sorang. haha.. even tho dorang by 8pm da tido. kalo pat town okie jgk. bole aku drop pat rmh ILs aku.

shimmers, the steamboat, okie lar.. ape yg susah.. nak makan buang aje dlm pot. haha.. slalu kalo org dtg playdate smp malam tu je ar modal aku- steamboat!

maybe next time buat gathering w malay moms plak. PD-cum-steamboat.

HI-TEA GATHERING
Date/ Day: 1 May 2008, Thursday
Time: 3pm
Place: Carousel OR Straits Kitchen
(Hv yet to go the 'new' Carousel but love love Straits Kitchen)

1) lynzi+baby+hb
2) Sher&amp; Sharf w/o Hb
3) Sasha + 4 kids + hubby
4) zu + 2kids + hb
5)
6)
7)

 

[lynzi1606]

hihi ladies,
me just back from suntec.
hubby nak sangat go to the diving exhibition so i ikutkan ah.
ni pun dah very the tired.

btw, i have been to the new carousel.
they have some semi-private areas so don't know if kita ramai then can use that instead of the common dining area.
oh, and there's a choc fondue fountain so whoever yg don't allow your kids to eat too much choc have to jaga2...hehe

 

[norarossi]

Hi mummies..

Lynzi..u make me drool..Choc fondue yummy..i'm a super choc lover..
But i'll confirm again coz hubby work tat day then afternoon shift lagi..c if he can manage to change shift..

ShaSha totaly agree with u, keep fit n we mummies must also have some time for ourselves..pampering session haha..

and Zu..u r not fat u cuma berisi je its much better rite? some ppl nak naik badan tak le naik..its ok all woman are beautiful in their own ways n as long as kita healty ok pe...

 

[sasha4real]

Zu,
The location not yet cfm, wait I will SMS the orgnizer see where &amp; get back to you. And oh, smthg wrong wt my eye...movie is tmr night, not Tues. LOL!

Aku pun dah LAMA sangat tak makan steamboat so I'm all for the PD-cum-steamboat but can make it for lunch?? Haha pasal if like y'day at 6pm, mati ah aku...my boys will be super cranky because w'ends they dont nap

Lynzi,
Oh yes, I hv heard abt the Choc fountain! Maybe if we hv decided on the location, we can call &amp; request abt the private room. I dont think Straits Kitchen hv any though.

Was there a diving exhibition? I was at Suntec too y'day - biasalah, ramai orang

Nora.Rossi,
Yes I agree abt the pampering. I do try to go for mani/pedi wt some of my friends

Massage, I do at home - shiok!

What do you usually do on w'ends?

 

[babylee]

Hello all!
How's weekend??? Wah! Banyak plan eh. Am so tempted to go to High-Tea with u all. But then again, doubt if I could go sigh... Btw, I've been to Carousel. Lynzi's right. They have Choc Fondue Fountain. Help yrself to the fruits and dip it in! It's yummy. But you guys should try the cakes too. Not bad! Some of it maybe to your liking...not too sweet. Alot of varieties compare to old Carousel. Then there's dim sum, chicken rice, laksa, finger foods, sashimi, prawns, etc...I'm longing to go to dinner at Carousel. Maybe after my confinement.

Sharena
How's BF?

 

[sexymumma]

hey all

sambil type ni i'm carrying shakil. My mum has brought farah for a walk cos se seemed v bored. This morning, my mum, sis n i went for facial kat csc bt batok. feels so good...

As for bf.. dah lebih sikitlah but stl nt that much..skali pump cuma max 50ml je.. so hv to kp pumping lah...

this morning shakil nangis kul 3am, farah pun bangun and he kept crying every hr so kita 3 org tk dpt tdo except my hb..sampai 6am..so farah slept with my mum and i cud slp til 8.30 another feed...penat jugak. this time pun shakil minum susu lambt tk mcm farah..laju minum susu then terus slp.. had a breezy time wt farah whn she newborn. Takpelah..dua2 lain karenah. And now farah is showing more jealousy tow shakil. Asal habis minum susu, farah mesti ambik botol shakil and finish whatever's left...time tgh minum susu pun dia nk snatch the botol away! sigh...imagine this tgh mlm...when she's awaken by shakil's cries!

Btw..i'm giving my hb the silent treatment cos ystrdy, aft he came bk frm work, he just said hi to farah then went str up to the rm to watch soccer!!I was sooooupset and mad that he didn't say hi to me or at least to Shakil...whn i went upstairs to feed shakil, i told him what i felt. He said he was tired and i said takksn tgk baby kejap pun tk leh..then just to pacify me he said he'll burpkn baby..i said no need..he must hv gt the msg. i was so upset that i cried...sampai hati seh dia pentingkn Arsenal dia! GERAM I! So today he stayed hm toook aft the kids, together with my mil while me, mum n sis went for facial!
My mum n sis pun perasan we r nt talking but they thot he's angry that we left him out...diorang tk tahu real story..

 

[sasha4real]

Babylee,
Tu makan kat mana?? Looks Yum-O!

Sharena,
Best dapat gi facial. I dah lama hv not gone for one. DIY kat rumah je when kids sleep...

When I first started pumping pun the amt very pathetic, abt 30ml...then slowly increase to 50-60ml. By 2wks, naik 120ml then 180ml. Dont give up, keep it up. I used to drink hot milo before pumping session &amp; ate fenugreek. Helps I think. And jgn stress too much abt it, because tu pun can affect milk flow.

And pasal hubby ni, biasalah. Sometimes, they think they sorang yg penat. Kita yg terkejar2 anak ni tak penat ke?? Wats wt b/feeding, keeping other kids occupied etc etc. Me pun like you, kalau marah or geram, just give my hubby silent treatment. Then he try to pandai pandai ah try to 'win' me over...sometimes can take 1wk...LOL

 

[mixedup]

sasha, kau nie blur lar.. were u sleepy when u type pasal movie outing tu? haha.. kate vivo now blum tau then kau kate tues, then become tmr.. aku baca pun tak faham dar...

i tink the pics tt babylee took is the new carousel lar. the food macam same je like last time. maybe the oyster je menu baru. Yummy!! i nak makan oyster dari dat tym preggie sey. hehe..

sharena, u take care.. jgn marah2! i rasa all hubbies memang mcm tu. no pt getting angry cos this issue tak kan stop gitu je. kadang i penat, si adam bebual dgn hb dia tak layan pun bole jadi pasal. i guess silent treatment works. my hb- the more i kip quiet the more angry he gets. and the more angry he gets, the more happy i am!! haha.. tapi sashaa kau menang, haha.. bole drag smp 1wk!

pasal PD-cum-steamboat nie aku on anytime.. we see how the turnout eh.. sesape yg interested to join, letak ar nama.. then we find a wkend to organize.
-zu
-sasha and family

tapi kan sasha, aku rase family kau je pun da cukup. haha.. jgn marah!

 

[sasha4real]

Zu,
The location tentative is Vivo but depends on movie timing so cld be in town after all And date tu memang salah aku, nak kena gi eye check. Its tmr, not tues...sorry ah!

Organizer lum SMS aku balik abt the location. Nanti dah tahu, aku msg kau ah...

Today buat apa??

 

[mixedup]

today, lepak at home!! sooo tired!!
ingat nak pi science center tapi malas semacam!
aku baru realised that this week i was out almost everyday!

mana kau bawak kaunye entourage hari nie?
pi zoo?

 

[lynzi1606]

hi everyone.
how was the weekend?

zu,
kau not fatlah.
if u are fat then don't know what to call most of my aunts.
dorang punya size dah macam Big Daddy tau.

sasha,
the pics babylee showed was at carousel.

babylee, sharena,
join us ah.
mesti fun.
the more the merrier.

about hubby jangan cakap ah.
boleh sakit hati.
this morning je we had a tiff before going to my parents' place.
juz becos i asked him to put plain water in faiq's bottle to bring over.
he pulak tengah playing game.
became an argument.
i pulak paling pantang when i asked to do something, he questioned me back.
so apa lagi, silent treatment the whole day.
yg make my bllod even go higher was becos i saw he juz threw his used clothes on the floor in front of the bathroom door.
makinlah i marah!!

 

[sasha4real]

Zu,
Seriously, whole week out?? Lagi busy dari aku...LOL

Next time nak pergi Science Centre, let me know. Went once &amp; kids hv fun - tu pun tak sempat round the entire plc.

Today tak jadi gi Zoo pasal 2 of my kids slept over at my parents so nak kena gi collect them &amp; all, leceh ah...actually, malas nak ulang-alik. Brought them to Gymboree, main sampai mabuk!

Lynzi,
Sounds so so familiar abt hubby. Sama lah sini lagi2 if he in front of comp or he's just lazing abt playing wt his Blackberry, jgn harap nak suruh buat apa2. Suruh buat benda kecik boleh jadi WW!! Makan hati betul sometimes. Kadang2 rasa macam anak 5 seh...

Ingat aku sorang hubby macam gini rupanya ada geng jugak! LOL And seems like silent treatment is popular huh?

 

[nabmum]

Hehe asyik tido the past 2 days tak sempat nak reply kat sini

Ape cerita ni pasal war wif hubbies lak? Ima punya org kalau unhapi tak boleh silent treatment. Most prob will have items flying ard in the house kalao gaduh and tat's definately not silent hehe...

*Zu*
Ima pun dah lame tak gi sci ctr. Every since pindah from Pandan to Woodlands rase macam malas nak venture to Western part of SG

Actually jgn cakap West Sg, Causeway point yang kat depan muka pun buntut malas nak ke sane

*sasha*
Ish ish kuat merayap jugak eh u ni. At this moment mcm malas nak ke mane2. Later on once the MS phase dah over i would love to join ur little group for outing

 

[ClassyShimmers]

Hubby issue
For me silent treatment doesnt work la..How I wish it does for me!! I kalau start the silent treatment, hubby will come straight infront of my face and demand for explaination or will keep asking what goes wrong. If I walked away kan, he will keep tagging so in the end baik2 nak silent terus jadi a BIG argument. But he plays silent treatment if he's not happy with me and I will buat bodoh..Then he will make it an issue back Y didnt I bother to ask..Ahhh lagi susah kan dari korang2 punya hubby.

So Sharena, u see, this part of them is really useless for us to be bothered. Pasal besok2 pun they will still DO IT AGAIN..I suggest at this time round, just let it be pasal if you care too muchkan, the blues will pay u a visit. Its good that you go for a facial..Somehow I believe it works kan..

Sasha/Zu
Kalau nak go science centre by public transport, mcm mana? Kalau korang nak go nxt week, let me know eh nak join la.

 

[sasha4real]

Nor,
Hehe, I NEED to go out &amp; interact wt other moms - refreshing! Also kan, kalau I bring my kids out, I tak payah worry abt cleaning the house...kadang2 keluar I bring food, feed them dinner outside, balik hv milk then bed time...easy-peasy!

You shd join us when you feel better. PM me your number so I can ctc you lah. How are you coping wt MS these days?

Shermin,
Kelmarin aku gi naik taxi - public transport pe...LOL! Next time I also wanna take train though. I think stop kat Jurong East then take bus &amp; stop in front of the centre kan?? Cause frm entrance of Science Centre can see the interchange (sort of)

I agree wt you abt the hubbies - dont bother so much cause it WILL happen again &amp; again &amp; again...buat buang energy je. For me, my hubby gets upset if he gets the silent treatment - macam anak terbuang...hehe! Macam Zu cakap, if he's unhappy, I'm happy - mission accomplished

 

[mamaliz]

hehehe.....

i baca topic pasal hubbies nya habits ni cam kelakar lahh...so kita semua ni sama geng lah eh~
my hubby yg tersayangggggggg ni pon sama, tak abis abis ngan ps2 dia...jangan cakap i jerr yg kena, anak anak pon kena!! my dotter kekadang kena pekik ngan ayah dia if she commented "wah..ayah menang? ayah kalah?"...bebual kuat sangat sebelah ayah dia pon bole kena pekik....ish!
yang si kecik pulak dah kena marah a few times for walking in front of the father while he is playing dah learnt his lesson...he will walk behind n not disturb n to think he's only 18 mths!
for me kalau pasal nak ask him to do things wen he's playing game....hmmmm.....kalau i rajin nak gaduh bole lahh..kalau tak, biarkan ajerr....
i kekadang kasi silent treatment, but at times i tak masak until orang tu dah lapar baru i cakap...makan game tu...hehehe

 

[bettybad]

Hehe, mamaliz, your 'makan game tu' lagi funny.
Anyway, to Science Centre, naik train to JE then you can just walk too. It's diagonally opposite the Jurong Library.

 

[styliciously]

shimmer,

u got read yesterday's front headline abt HFMD? alot of cases. makes me think twice abt sending my kid to CC.

 

[ClassyShimmers]

Sasha
Ya taxi pun public pe! More convenient..BUT with the fares now.. I think I can die la..nanti dah bayar rasa mcm menyesal tau. The money I pay for the cab can actually pay for my son's food!

styliciously
ya i knw!! scary kan!! but this thing happens all the time so if you tak hantar ape jadi pulak tu Ayuni kan..Most impt you must keep track of how the school maintain its cleanliness. And if the rates are increasing check if the school is affected with any outbreak tak.. But Ayuni is only 6mths for you to be worried now. Maybe you should wait till she's bigger than 18mths la baru hantar.. Now I feel so guilty of letting my Sharf played all the rides yesterday at Vivo..Really hope all's well la..

 

[sexymumma]

mamaliz
maybe i shud use ur tactic too, pasal 'makan game'!

Sampai hari ni i only talk whn necessary. But early morning hb helped with Shaikl..dah 2 hari ni dia mesti bangun ard 3am for milk then minum sikit and went to sleep. Within an hr bangun lagi want more milk thn tak nk tdo! Bila dukung tidur but whn put down je kejap lagi bangun nangis...went on til 6am!

Niari my urut lady tk dpt dtg but will be coming tmr..dah tkleh tahan badan aku punya aching...

 

[lynzi1606]

hi ladies,
any other mummmies nak join?
if u do please add on to the list.

HI-TEA GATHERING
Date/ Day: 1 May 2008, Thursday
Time: 3pm
Place: Carousel OR Straits Kitchen
(Hv yet to go the 'new' Carousel but love love Straits Kitchen)

1) lynzi+baby+hb
2) Sher&amp; Sharf w/o Hb
3) Sasha + 4 kids + hubby
4) zu + 2kids + hb
5)
6)
7)

 

[nabmum]

*mamaliz*
haha, makan game tak lut in my home... nanti me n my anak kebulor cam mane

*Sasha*
i dah PM u tau. Nowaday not tat bad, me telan lots of Eno to neutralise the gastric so far it's working. Only vomit once a day but still pening2. Think my BP is low again

*stylicious*
Ima baru aje nak antar my boy to CC next month...macam tak jadi eje...

 

[babylee]

Sharena
Hai Sharena, buang masa aje kiter nak argue ngan our hubbies. Kiter layan our kids lagi better. For me n my hubby, kejap aje gaduh. Aft that we back to normal. My mom aje yg panick wen we argue cos both of us be yelling &amp; the things be flying ard the hse. I know this is bad but so far no such incident ever occured lagi. My hubby and I bukan the mushy type so both of us kalau cakap pun very kasar. Orang kalau dengar pun ingat kiter nie tengah gaduh but actually we're not. That's how we speak to each other. Ha.ha..ha..So no diff lah if we argue, unless we fight literally. Hee...hee...

Sasha
Yep. That's at the new Carousel. I forgot to snap all the desserts. I forgotten all about it when I tasted chocolates. I love chocos!

mamaliz
For me I pantang if my hubby raises his voice or spank Darling. Esp when his sleep was disturb by her who usually cries either for my attention or she wants mimik (BF) from me. He aje thinks he's tired. Abeh orang yang kat rumah nie, free ape? We ever argued and I told him to move out of the hse and stay at the cemetery for peace! Bukan nye ape, dia besar kan his nap time. So we made a deal lah. Saturday he got the whole day to rest whereas I ask for Sunday. Now, he daren't say much but help me with the kids at home. Cos he knows how tough it was on that 1 Sunday to have hands-on on the kids.

 

[ClassyShimmers]

Lynzi
mcm takde respond jer..balik2 muka kita 4 org!! Muahhhahah!!

 

[lynzi1606]

yalah shermin,
asik2 kita2 je...
not that i'm bored with u gerls but i tot since its on labour day surely the FTWM can join in mah.
kalau asik the 4 of us then kita dah boleh buat sistahood sey...ehehek

 

[babyarumi]

Moms, we wld not be joining la. Hubby is going away so need to help him do the packing=( Have fun! And eat lots!!