ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?


babylee/Sharena/ic
Hope both of u have smooth delivery.....

Shimmers
Pray hard for u & yr bb...

today i work halfday @2pm my 29wks check up....
 
Hi all
Thanks everyone for the support.. Will definately heed the advises..but then again..today I started spotting..so not a good sign huh?? Lets wait till the end of the week how it goes...This is really dugaan for me..

Danryan
forgot to add you in the best wishes list..so all the best hope you have a smooth pregnancy ahead and a smooth delivery,insyallah.
 
ic
all the best for ur delivery too
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zu, bettybad
oh cool, Ergo users ! I just got a second hand one. My 10kg girl dah too heavy for my MIM sarong sling so I tryin Ergo.

babylee
not expecting yet. insya Allah next year.
 
TMC - my previous gyne was Joycelyn Wong. very frenly caring and helpful. norm I go on Saturdays. waited < 45min. personally can't say much abt her during actual birth though sebeb I kena transfer coz of complications. My fren kata dia bagus tho
 
hey mummies

today was my last gynae appt...baby is already 3kg. He was sleeping with his hands over his eyes and sempat bukak tutup mulut dia! Guess we'll see him soon enough...

shermin
do take care. Jgn stress sgt!

danryan
dah 29 weeks? Cepat jugak eh?

ic/babylee
In case kita sama2 kat tmc, let's exchange hp no and let each other knw..I dah pm u both mine. blh visit one another... tapi first few days i mesti terlanatr kat katil!! :[
 
Hi mummies!

Been busy and tired lately over the weekend. Seems like its nearing the EDD season! All the best for Sharena, IC &amp; Babylee.. All 2nd babies? So exciting! Interesting to have mummies same EDD or ard the same. Its the case for me, same EDD with a schmate &amp; a string of colleagues gave birth after me coz I work in a 100% female environment. Sharena, your baby at 3kg will prolly come out with chubby fats! good for babies for keeping warm hehe..

Shimmers, don't be too dishearten. Just pray for the best.

Have a great week ahead.
 
sharena
ye lah very the fast....tapi kan....tadi i gi check up....doc said lum confirm i dapat bb girl...but hor when my last 2 visits....doc said girl....now dia cakap 'ambiguus'....very rare and tak dapat see the actual gender have to wait till delivery....

now 29weeks...bb 1.4kg and i have gained 2.3kg since my last visit...total dah gained 11.5kg
 
danryan
ckp pasal my weight gain...all in all, i dah gain total 18kg as compared to 20kg the first time round...!

Mana yg lain sume senyap je ni??
 
hey, sume bebual pasal EDD season? Anyway, all the best! Hope Babylee, IC and sharena have a smooth delivery. Insya Allah!
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shimmers, dun worry too much. Remember i had spotting too.. But baby is healthy. Just pray hard. Thats all u can do. Take care and keep us updated!
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Oh Sharena, my gf u met da pop! hehe..
On April's Fools day!

daec, had to switch to ergo pasal nak kluar w a todddler and a baby in sling tak convenient. I love the slings tho..
 
Shermin, hopefully all is well, insyaAllah. I had spotting too when I was with my 1st at 5 weeks. Alhamdulillah he was ok.

Daec, yeah, fell in love w Ergo at that time. Ergo's good for bigger babies. I used the sling when my baby was younger. He's 15 months now and we're still using it.

Babylee, IC, all the best to you!

Sharena dah pop?
 
Babylee / sharena,
You dah book tukang urut? I cuba telefon tukang urut i yang dulu, tapi dia punya hp dah tak in service lagi! Argh!! Dia sebenarnya bagus, orang bugis... urut best..tapi sekarang dah tak tahu macam mana contact. You 2 dah book?
 
Hello All Mummies!
Thanks for the well wishers.

Danryan,
11 weeks and counting. Rehat rehat selalu.

Shermin,
Mine pun de same. Spotting for the first few weeks. Doc gave me the small pills and alhamdullilah. No worries ok. Just don't stress out too much. Not good for your health. Take it easy mommy!

IC.
I already booked mine. She dulu urut when I gave birth to Darling in 2006. Pada pendapat I, Kak Suraya boleh lah tahan. U nak I boleh bagi u her number. Perlis, bengkung she will provide. Tapi ubat, dia tak pakai jamu if u tak suka. For me, I makan pati ikan haruan that time cos I breastfeeding.
 
babylee,
you tahu dia belajar urut dari mana? macam my tukang urut dulu, dia turun-kemurun. Belajar dari nenek moyang dia.. Bagaimana dgn tukang urut you? Dia orang apa? Umur berapa? Bolehlah, you kasi i telefon no dia...
 
ic,
u want my nenek urut no?
she belajar from turun temurun.
very good urut, tak sakit pun.
her age is 76.
where u live?
if near she only charge $35.
 
hey mummies!
still up and running...next tue i masuk lah..

zu
ur fren tu dah pop?brape wt baby dia eh? tk jauh lah kita..dulu u urut dgn sape pulak and hw much?

ic
my tukang urut dulu pun dah tk kuat so hv to take on another. yg my mil and my aunt tanya sume charging abt 50 so i think wl stick to this kakak jb who's bn urut-ing me. She charges me 40. my prev mkcik urut charge 30 je..and bagus dia urut.

lynzi
ur nenek v strong ehhh? dah 76 still active.

babylee
pilis lah bukan perlis..no wonder i baca mcm ada yg tk kena hahahaha

sasha pun ada a list of tukang urut tau..can sms her.
 
Sharena,

Hahahaha....bunyi macam sama je....heeeheee. What a blunder!
Btw, u masuk tuesday? I got to go to TMC on Tuesday cos Dr Ang wants to see if he could admit me in on that day. He wants to ensure if my cervix has totally "prepared" for the incoming...hahahaha..If yes, then we could deliver hand in hand lah.
 
eh babylee
i dgr2 kan, kat tmc tu v highly likely we can be upgraded from 4 to 2 bedded tau.. u dah choose 1 bedded eh?
Kalau u masuk adalah teman..skali sama bilik!
Ur appt kul brape? I kena admit at 11am. Must fast 6h b4 op so aft 7am tk leh mkn pasal my op at 1pm.
Jgn lupa sms me tau...u dah dpt my hp no. I PMed u the other day..
 
babylee,
I dah telefon you punya tukang urut. I cakap i recommended by you. Dia charge i package $460 untuk 7 hari. Termasuk bengkung, param &amp; pilis.

Sharena,
Murah. Tapi urut aje ke?
 
Sharena,

I nye appointment at 5pm. If doc says I got to go, kita berdua ade chance lah end up in the 2 bedded room. I kira kira, if I take 1 bedded nye, I got to top 1K cash for normal delivery. If 2 bedded nye, at least kita pay for $300. Difference tau! Cos kita nye charge is for 4 bedded nye. Hahahahah. Anyway if u got to go first, I wish u all the best lah. At least u op u tak rasa apa apa sakit. In no time, u will wake up in ur own ward. Hee...heee...u sms me ur number. Cos the other time, I've changed my email account. So tak received
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sharena, yup. she delivered on April's Fools. The boy abt 3.06kg tak salah.

Dat tym i urut dgn makcik nie. Org lama la, dia bidan kampung. She pun sunatkan my gal. Okay la.. And i paid her $30 per session. Tapi kalo urut lepas bersalin i tak tau plak. Cos i c-sect kan then she never do all the works cos i called her after 3wks. U nak then u let me know. I sms u the number. Dia org Teban la.
 
IC,

Dia charge I if not wrong last time was $450 ke $400 cos yang pay for me was my mom. I didn't know that time ade this forum. U all lebih tahu about makcik tukang urut nye contact. That time pun I dah suntuk cos I got her after my delivery. Abeh, this time round, my mom still wants her to urut me. So I'm going with the flow.
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Free!!! Hee...hee. mommy I pay.
 
babylee,
kak su charge you berapa? sekarang i rasa, kak su is charging me $65 per session. Dia kata kalau orang cina, dia charge $68 per session. Tapi that time bila bual-bual dgn dia kat telefon, dia offer i package.

Sharena,
Your kakak ni urut dari JB? You mean dia turun dari JB hari-hari?
 
my tukang urut is still very strong.
that time she charged $35 a day for urut, pilis, param, bengkung, jamu, mandi baby, tuam baby and free minyak telon.

for those yang having difficulty to get pregnant pun she can urut.
my mum's neighbour dah 8yrs married but no child so ask her to urut.
once a week for 3 months and now alhamdulillah dah ada baby.
 
Lynzi,
Not bad for $35 a day. Semua complete. Pulak tu, ur nenek masih kuat eh. If jauh jauh like Yishun my place I kasih extra for her taxi fare pun ok kan. Cuma nak check if she boleh datang ke tidak.

IC,
Why not take up Lynzi nye? Like my friend oso, she got her tukang urut from JB. Tapi, the masseuse stay overnite for that whole week at her hse. I skarang if nak take up my fren nye, I takde extra bilik cos now I'm staying with my mom in a 3 room flat. Unless if I dah move kat Woodlands lah.
 
babylee,
Eh, $400 a lot of difference tau! Makna, per session dalam $57. Kalau $450, per session dalam $64. I pun hairan kenapa dia tak genapkan $450..apasal $460. I tak negotiate lah pasal i ingat murah dan i ingat recommended by you, jadi dia akan kasi i price sama. Lupa nak tanya price daripada you sebelum telefon dia seh.

zu,
$30 per session murah. Bolehlah kasi no. I try tanya berapa cost dia untuk urut bersalin. Hmm, i tak kisah dia dari mana. Tapi i lebih suka tukang urut yang belajar dari nenek moyang dia orang atau turun-kemurun. Bukan yang pergi belajar pakai course punya.
 
Ic,

Frankly speaking if compare to all these urut nye price eh, $450 mahal seh for package. I ade second thoughts lah.
 
babylee,
for yishun, sembawang and woodlands she charged $35 aje.

Usually for malays at the most pun she charge $40.
She ada urut bersalin for japanese, angmohs, indian people also.
she can lebih kurang.
if u are the last one for the day, she can even urut 2 hour plus.
dia tak kira timing.
some tukang urut die2 within one and a half hour je dah abis.

for those in the west like bukit batok, her daughter who is 50plus is doing.
she taught her daughter on how to urut.
some of my frens ever used her daughter to urut.

btw, she is not my nenek...hehe.
just that my mum is very close to her as she was our neighbour.
 
But I just changed it to Nespray recently. How u get to know Lynzi? I'm not really so observant as to read all the contents. Just buy since they say it's good for babies.
 
yah...my fren who is a nutritionist said similac uses human hormones.
she said the halal body in america has came out with a statement.
 
hi hi semua
wahh..so kecoh abt tukang urut eh! hehe
i dat time amik tukang urut recommended by my MIL, orang jawa and she dat time 60++ , tak ingat exactly but i was shocked wen she told me cos she looks very healthy n younger for her age.
nak katakan lebih kuat then my hubby, cos she tied th bengkung so mampat one!! her urut oso very syiok~! i amik 7 days nya treatment abt $300++, $40 per session n extra $5 for transport...
she even recommended a guy for my hubby to urut him...pasal my hubby ni slalu badan sakit sakit...n the guy also jawa..he's a teacher in batam who come to sg once in awhile..n my hub pon cakap the guy very good.
 
babymimi,
if the see the previous threads,u can see where each of us live.
as far as i know,jurong don't have.
nearest is zu who is in bukit panjang or something.
 
Morning mummies
kecohnya kat sini pasal tukang urut pulak
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ic
i have one tukang urut. name Cik Maznah, tinggal bedok. if u keen, can give u her contact no.

Abt the charging, is vary. If near her place would be much cheaper. Coz her charging inclusive her transportation.

She did massage the post-natal for me for 10 days, and i really slim down to my b4 pregnant weight and my tummy flatter after 2mth.
 
Lynn02
How the charges n brapa lama per urut like for Cik Maznah?

Sharena
Yr due really dah nak sampai hari nye...i dah tak sabar nak habiskan my 3rd trimester nie...
 
lynzi,
Your neighbour yang tukang urut ni berapa umur dia? Dia orang apa? Boleh kasi nombor? I tunggu your number tau.

Macam mana you tahu similac tak halal? My anak minum susu tu semenjak kecil tau.. daripada similac infant!!

babylee,
Itu pasal i tanya berapa Kak Su tu charge you? Pasal you kata you dah book dia. Sekarang i kena charge $460.

mixedup,
Terima kasih eh! I nanti call tanya price dia...
Nak tahu juga berapa dia charge untuk bengkung, param &amp; pilis.

lynn02,
tukang urut you dia belajar urut dari mana? Dari turun-kemurun ke atau yang pergi courses gitu? Dia orang apa?
 
To all mommies kat sini yg akan pop soon, good luck eh... may u enjoy the experiance...

sharena
this is ur second c-sect, so u gg for the GA or partial aje?

mane shernmin? hope everthing is ok with her. Kalau ape pun happen its all takdir Tuhan. Tak kan terjadi kalau Allah tak izinkan. so be strong.
 
ic, Danryan
i did 10days post natal massage for $400. so it $40/hr. normally dia urut for abt 1 hr and everything include pilis, param, bengkung, jamu.

After the 10days massage, i did every once a wk for abt 2mth.

Abt dia org apa tu i'm not sure, tapi yg i tahu, dia belajar from turun-kemurun lah.
 
IC,
I pun pikir I nak tukar lah. Think nak ambik Lynzi nye jiran. How? U nak try jugak? I told my mom. Abeh my mom kata, kita dah book dia long time ago nanti orang tu kecik hati pulak. But then if u talking about money, if Lynzi nye charge $35, kita can do 10 days nye massage tau!

Lynzi,
I pun nak number jiran u tu!

Babymimi,
Hello! Are u new? If yes, welcome!
 
babylee,
Actually i dah confirm dengan your masseur, tapikan, i nak try telefon lynzi punya neighbour tu yang dia recommend dan tanya. Kalau lebih murah, i pakai lynzi punya lah... dan nanti i telefon Kak Su, cakap cancel. Since lynzi cakap dia pernah pakai neighbour dia dan dia bagus. Yang penting, you mesti rasa urut dia bagus dan rasa selesa... overall, Kak Su, you suka tak? Kalau rating dari 1 hingga 10, you rate dia berapa?
 
those who want the no for my jiran who is doing the urut, tonite i will post it as the no is at hm and i am still STUCK at work...sigh.

ic,
she is 76 years old.
very experience.
she belajar from her grandmother.
 
lynzi,
Ok, nanti tonite or tomorrow morning, i log on untuk dapat telefon daripada you.
Wah...76 tahun dah tua... you rasa dia boleh datang sengkang tak? You pernah pakai dia lepas bersalin?
 
ic,
i think she can go sengkang since there is a direct bus from woodlands and yishun.
U just need to give her directions.
Can be quite frustrating as she is a bit pekak so must speak very loudly...hahaha.
yup i used her for urut after i gave birth in dec last year.
i was home from kkh on tuesday and she came to my house on wednesday.

sally cinnamon,
i did ask my nenek urut if she will do sengkak.
she said its actuali haram and she refused to do it.
she said if nak anak, she can help.
if we tak nak anak lagi then we have to do it our own way like taking pills or something.

my nenek urut will only naikkan the uterus to its original position.
nowadays lots of young malay mums yg urut2 for bersalin but i find it scary as they only learn the theory thru courses.
i ever heard horror stories of sengkak tapi did it wrongly sampai the poor lady terpekik2 in pain.
my fren pulak kena sengkak sampai today tak ada kids after her first abortion.
better get someone who is experience.

for c-section, she will only come to urut after 4 days after u get back from hospital.
she will urut the whole body but not touch the stitch area.
Will still wear bengkung but atas aje.
For me, that time i had blocked ducts and even mastitis so she even urut my breasts.
Alhamdulillah sekali urut je my milk flowed out and tak sakit lagi.
if any pain anywhere tell her.
if bengkak also tell her and she can urut.
i had extremely swollen legs after giving birth.
very scary looking.
so she even urut from my arms, body and down to my feet.
for body its always using minyak and param.
if ada swollen legs she will use kapur and air limau nipis.
For baby also she is good.
after dah mandikan she will tuam the baby's body and if yours is a boy then she will naikkan the buah.
BUT anything u want her to do please tell her and remind her everytime she comes as she is old and quite forgetful...hehe
 
hi gerls,
here is her no.
64547391
her name is nenek hajah kamidah.
this is her house no.
if she is not at home u can talk to her daughter or cucu.
Oh, and remember to ask for her hp no also.
 


Lynzi

I didn't read the previous thread because I don't even know where to begin (the archive is from May 25, 2006)!

Zu

I am new to this ANY MALAY MUMS HERE? thread BUT have been active in motherhood forum since 2007. I had to change my username because of my email. My gal is 17mths. What about yours? I am planning to have more tapi this time round no good swimmers la. Where is Teck Whye? I have heard of it but I have no idea where is it. Am really bad with directions!

Babylee

Yea, am new to this thread! Love the welcoming =)
 

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