ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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shash_2901
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nshash i will add u,..
shahlynn,
yeah dat s the rate la...takpela i tak kisah...eh blh gitu ppl tot kita tgh berdrama,its for real,peeps!
lynn,
takla,betol pe i ckp,..
kenape i salah ckpke?
dan,i jualkan kambing2 shahlynn,u nak beli?hahahha
shahlynn,
yeah dat s the rate la...takpela i tak kisah...eh blh gitu ppl tot kita tgh berdrama,its for real,peeps!
lynn,
takla,betol pe i ckp,..
kenape i salah ckpke?
dan,i jualkan kambing2 shahlynn,u nak beli?hahahha
shash_2901
New Member
san,ok anytime,but pls do inform 2weeks b4 k
mamaliz
Active Member
alooooooooooooo
shash...
kalau berjaya u dah bole bukak pt housekeeper services....hehehehe....saper tau kalau rezeki u kat situ...
my arwah mak dulu masa i was abt 5yrs old ...i remembered following her to peeps hse ..kemas umah, cuci baju...etc..dulu lagi baju dicuci ngan tangan..kesian see her but she said its all good money cos those jobs are considered normal for her since she dah biasa buat...dat time padahal ada kedai makan sendiri...she nak earn extra to help my arwah bapak...touching!!!
shash...
kalau berjaya u dah bole bukak pt housekeeper services....hehehehe....saper tau kalau rezeki u kat situ...
my arwah mak dulu masa i was abt 5yrs old ...i remembered following her to peeps hse ..kemas umah, cuci baju...etc..dulu lagi baju dicuci ngan tangan..kesian see her but she said its all good money cos those jobs are considered normal for her since she dah biasa buat...dat time padahal ada kedai makan sendiri...she nak earn extra to help my arwah bapak...touching!!!
<font color="119911">liz
touching nya do u feel sepi tanpa ur parents now dear? sorry coz my time not here yet so ive yet to realise. sorry eh if its too sensitive? bt i tak leh carry i tink if both my parents dah takda sedangkan wen they parted to haji je ku nanis nak rak seh..
shash
mana tau masin mulut liz u can be a professional in this insyallah lau niat kita suci mana tahu dlm bidang apa yg kita buat mungkin ada hikmahnya</font>
touching nya do u feel sepi tanpa ur parents now dear? sorry coz my time not here yet so ive yet to realise. sorry eh if its too sensitive? bt i tak leh carry i tink if both my parents dah takda sedangkan wen they parted to haji je ku nanis nak rak seh..
shash
mana tau masin mulut liz u can be a professional in this insyallah lau niat kita suci mana tahu dlm bidang apa yg kita buat mungkin ada hikmahnya</font>
<font color="ff6000">Nshah,
Unless u nak order 100s shld be no prob lah...
Dan,
Abt my gf..she was admitted agn due to frequent contractions bt the doc tk nk induce her tho dah 37 weeks. Duno y...he just want her to relax and let her waterbag burst...
And her MIL kata, give her son a chance cos this MIGHT BE due to pembawakan budak that her son's having 3rd party. Pada I mengarutlah. Alasan tk kena tempat. He's been with tat gal for almost 4 yrs and how can her MIL conclude ini pembawakan budak? Tak masuk akal langsung...</font>
Unless u nak order 100s shld be no prob lah...
Dan,
Abt my gf..she was admitted agn due to frequent contractions bt the doc tk nk induce her tho dah 37 weeks. Duno y...he just want her to relax and let her waterbag burst...
And her MIL kata, give her son a chance cos this MIGHT BE due to pembawakan budak that her son's having 3rd party. Pada I mengarutlah. Alasan tk kena tempat. He's been with tat gal for almost 4 yrs and how can her MIL conclude ini pembawakan budak? Tak masuk akal langsung...</font>
mamaliz
Active Member
nshah...
anak mana yg tak sayangkan mak bapak kan...mestilah ada rasa sedih....wen my dad went first i was still in sec school so it was really bad for me cos i anak bapak...can say i pengsan wen i heard the nws n tak kluar dari bilik for over a mth...tido wif his shirt ajerrr...
wen my mum went i was lebih redha...pasal i nampak my mumnya kesakitan...sedih bangat but dah try my best to be emotionally ready...sad to say i wasnt able to mandikan my mum cos my tears takleh stop...mabok mabok also cos my head was banging...in the end jus temankan sarah who was silent....
Life n death is part n parcel of life...we just have to deal wif it i guess...but yg paling kesian is the kids that are too young to understand....
anak mana yg tak sayangkan mak bapak kan...mestilah ada rasa sedih....wen my dad went first i was still in sec school so it was really bad for me cos i anak bapak...can say i pengsan wen i heard the nws n tak kluar dari bilik for over a mth...tido wif his shirt ajerrr...
wen my mum went i was lebih redha...pasal i nampak my mumnya kesakitan...sedih bangat but dah try my best to be emotionally ready...sad to say i wasnt able to mandikan my mum cos my tears takleh stop...mabok mabok also cos my head was banging...in the end jus temankan sarah who was silent....
Life n death is part n parcel of life...we just have to deal wif it i guess...but yg paling kesian is the kids that are too young to understand....
<font color="119911">liz
sorry eh if i tersedihkan u.. yelah tak u tak i kan.. so i tink i hv to b prepare gaklah if e day were to come
coz currently mmg aku ni very egoist tau.. i mmg dari dulu bbual dgn dorang kasar & wen married hub i barulah ok skit as in wen jumpa salam or even try to celeb their bdaes coz entah eh i was brought by my parents dt way bbual kasar, pekik2 thus act tak nak my kids flw.. n till now i terkujut tgk myself can call my mum & apologise on wat i had act shouted at her.. mmg ku ni bukan baik mana bt i do hope i can change for e btr insyallah.. coz hub have been nagging me daily to change bt entah eh smtimes susah ah coz cara perbualan kita, gurauan kita mmg kasar gitu not like my hub side where we can sit & bincang tog.. im not close to any of them ah bt entah eh girls daddy i tink masa dulu byk syg to abah ah coz dpt apa je from him
bt now more rapat to my mum instead bt insyallh like NAw i also wanna make them happy
sorry terlebar</font>
sorry eh if i tersedihkan u.. yelah tak u tak i kan.. so i tink i hv to b prepare gaklah if e day were to come
coz currently mmg aku ni very egoist tau.. i mmg dari dulu bbual dgn dorang kasar & wen married hub i barulah ok skit as in wen jumpa salam or even try to celeb their bdaes coz entah eh i was brought by my parents dt way bbual kasar, pekik2 thus act tak nak my kids flw.. n till now i terkujut tgk myself can call my mum & apologise on wat i had act shouted at her.. mmg ku ni bukan baik mana bt i do hope i can change for e btr insyallah.. coz hub have been nagging me daily to change bt entah eh smtimes susah ah coz cara perbualan kita, gurauan kita mmg kasar gitu not like my hub side where we can sit & bincang tog.. im not close to any of them ah bt entah eh girls daddy i tink masa dulu byk syg to abah ah coz dpt apa je from him
smalldreams
Active Member
mamaliz
*hugs* *hugs*
It's tough having lost both parents. I can't begin to imagine it.
I agree with Nora too, tapi kita ni manusia biasa aje, need constant reminders. Tapi I rasa kalau kita senangkan hati orang tua, insya-Allah hidup kita pon mudah.
Now the challenge is to spend time with our families, YET have enough time to spend with our own parents.
Recently there was a point of time when I had to work late almost daily & only sent & picked up my son from my mom's place. My mom made a remark that "I was never there" & also just setakat amik/send anak I aje. I felt angry when she said that, but I realised she missed my company. Coz both of us always sit & chat on the sofa about all kinds of issues etc.
*hugs* *hugs*
It's tough having lost both parents. I can't begin to imagine it.
I agree with Nora too, tapi kita ni manusia biasa aje, need constant reminders. Tapi I rasa kalau kita senangkan hati orang tua, insya-Allah hidup kita pon mudah.
Now the challenge is to spend time with our families, YET have enough time to spend with our own parents.
Recently there was a point of time when I had to work late almost daily & only sent & picked up my son from my mom's place. My mom made a remark that "I was never there" & also just setakat amik/send anak I aje. I felt angry when she said that, but I realised she missed my company. Coz both of us always sit & chat on the sofa about all kinds of issues etc.
<font color="119911">dan
apa yg terlebih sis? sorry ku ada blur skit ni maklum baru lepas lunch hehe
NAw
hehe tulah tp entah nari tak syiok cam smlm or mayb smlm ku kebuluran i finished up the whole pack of rice, daging & veg licin seh ku sendiri terperanjat hahaha</font>
apa yg terlebih sis? sorry ku ada blur skit ni maklum baru lepas lunch hehe
NAw
hehe tulah tp entah nari tak syiok cam smlm or mayb smlm ku kebuluran i finished up the whole pack of rice, daging & veg licin seh ku sendiri terperanjat hahaha</font>
smalldreams
Active Member
nora
mana chicken rice boleh mintak less rice?! More rice is more like it.
Dan
Kita pon akan jadi tua satu hari kan? It's an inevitable part of life. What goes around comes around
mana chicken rice boleh mintak less rice?! More rice is more like it.
Dan
Kita pon akan jadi tua satu hari kan? It's an inevitable part of life. What goes around comes around
<font color="119911">dan
oh hehe.. a'ah sorry ah terlebih pjg
bubur ayam wow bestnya if dpt makan bubur pun dah ckp seh.. smlm nak makan nasi ayam fav tp kedainya tutup so pi ABC pasar makan nasi fish sweet sour kau berguni seh nasi dia berbaloi for $4 tak lokek
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oh hehe.. a'ah sorry ah terlebih pjg
bubur ayam wow bestnya if dpt makan bubur pun dah ckp seh.. smlm nak makan nasi ayam fav tp kedainya tutup so pi ABC pasar makan nasi fish sweet sour kau berguni seh nasi dia berbaloi for $4 tak lokek
Good topic that reminds me to treat my mum well.
At times I tend to lose my patience and will raise my voice "a little". But hub will remind me when we get home and I will feel bad. Will be extra nice after that till another episode happens again *knocks head on the wall*
At times I tend to lose my patience and will raise my voice "a little". But hub will remind me when we get home and I will feel bad. Will be extra nice after that till another episode happens again *knocks head on the wall*
Cik nab
tak org tak kite, we jsut remind ourselves
I am in a dilemma
This evening i got a meet up with a head hunter
They got a position open
But I serba salah nak pegi bec, I feel kalau i nak TTC
It wont be a good idea to change job now
It doesnt refelct well on me to leave my team at the new place kalau i on mat leave etc
But at the same time, wld like to meet up and keep that option open (cam tamak tak)
Then I was thinking buat ape waste time nak meet up since i wont go for it anyway.. hmmm
Kalau i nak cancel the meeting i shd let them know soon.
tak org tak kite, we jsut remind ourselves
I am in a dilemma
This evening i got a meet up with a head hunter
They got a position open
But I serba salah nak pegi bec, I feel kalau i nak TTC
It wont be a good idea to change job now
It doesnt refelct well on me to leave my team at the new place kalau i on mat leave etc
But at the same time, wld like to meet up and keep that option open (cam tamak tak)
Then I was thinking buat ape waste time nak meet up since i wont go for it anyway.. hmmm
Kalau i nak cancel the meeting i shd let them know soon.