ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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For your info - my wooden door and gate will be closed by just a push - no need to lock but of course you need the key to open it.
Agak nyer perasan dia sepatu dia tu cantik sangat sampai nak simpan dalam tas. I tanya dia "kenapa sepatu kamu tu mahal sangat ke sampai nak di-simpan di-dalam almari (her bag is kept in the cupboard). Sepatu kita yang mahal pun tak pernah di-simpan dalam kamar" - memang tangan dah ringan nak naik kat muka dia - panas darah !!!!!!
Agak nyer perasan dia sepatu dia tu cantik sangat sampai nak simpan dalam tas. I tanya dia "kenapa sepatu kamu tu mahal sangat ke sampai nak di-simpan di-dalam almari (her bag is kept in the cupboard). Sepatu kita yang mahal pun tak pernah di-simpan dalam kamar" - memang tangan dah ringan nak naik kat muka dia - panas darah !!!!!!
<font color="ff6000">Ladies,
U noe ah..yesterday I watch video that was recorded by husband while he was at Philippines.
He was with his mates over at Von Dutch Boutique, buying me some outfits. The sales girl over their end pon boleh tahan sey. Miang, ask for tel no etc...All's been recorded in the video. Trus I cubit my hub upon hearing. Then he said, "Eh, I duduk satu corner jer tau. My friends yang layan pompuan2 tu semua. You tgk mana I duduk. Just bcos I belikan u baju & sweater, the salesgirl "beat me (cara gatal)" to buy a pair for her."
That's his explaination but are the filipinos the same? Menggatal?</font>
U noe ah..yesterday I watch video that was recorded by husband while he was at Philippines.
He was with his mates over at Von Dutch Boutique, buying me some outfits. The sales girl over their end pon boleh tahan sey. Miang, ask for tel no etc...All's been recorded in the video. Trus I cubit my hub upon hearing. Then he said, "Eh, I duduk satu corner jer tau. My friends yang layan pompuan2 tu semua. You tgk mana I duduk. Just bcos I belikan u baju & sweater, the salesgirl "beat me (cara gatal)" to buy a pair for her."
That's his explaination but are the filipinos the same? Menggatal?</font>
momma_naqi
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morning wati,
lina/Dan,
true dioranga apa peduli....So kalau kat sana kan...must manja2 wif hubby...muz lovey dovey ..hold hands..
lina/Dan,
true dioranga apa peduli....So kalau kat sana kan...must manja2 wif hubby...muz lovey dovey ..hold hands..
naqi....seb baik sinie tak ade jual seluar dlm besi yg ade locked....ihihih
San....some people sanggup jual maruah due to poverty...so tak heranlah kalau this thing is quite open in pino,thais.batam..TP....
kalau in malaysia dorang pun ade issue bohsia...
in singapore also sad coz students pun yg ade choose to 'jual diri'
San....some people sanggup jual maruah due to poverty...so tak heranlah kalau this thing is quite open in pino,thais.batam..TP....
kalau in malaysia dorang pun ade issue bohsia...
in singapore also sad coz students pun yg ade choose to 'jual diri'
Mira,
We left and 12.30 and came back around 3+ - can you imagine.
That's what I told her - "you know that by lying down outside the door like that you are inviting the men to come and rape you????
Bodoh betul - luckily my hubby around so he keep asking me to control myself.
We left and 12.30 and came back around 3+ - can you imagine.
That's what I told her - "you know that by lying down outside the door like that you are inviting the men to come and rape you????
Bodoh betul - luckily my hubby around so he keep asking me to control myself.
wati
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Filipino memang gatal.. especially those who knows that they are pretty... jaga-jaga oi...
Sat, i went to esplanade to jalan.. ramai seh orang Phillippines.. sexu plak tu.. Baik kurus, baik gemuk.. about 5 ladies tgh diri dekat tong sampah hisap rokok.. menyampah..
My neighbour pun baru saja citer kat i pasal anak dia melekat dgn pompan Phillippines. Budak tu ckp, pompan filipin tu kesian, orang susah... siao!! Kalau susah, mana ada duit nak dtg Singapore for holiday... betul tak.. Budak nie plak termakan kata-kata pompan tu.. dah mak dia risau...
Sat, i went to esplanade to jalan.. ramai seh orang Phillippines.. sexu plak tu.. Baik kurus, baik gemuk.. about 5 ladies tgh diri dekat tong sampah hisap rokok.. menyampah..
My neighbour pun baru saja citer kat i pasal anak dia melekat dgn pompan Phillippines. Budak tu ckp, pompan filipin tu kesian, orang susah... siao!! Kalau susah, mana ada duit nak dtg Singapore for holiday... betul tak.. Budak nie plak termakan kata-kata pompan tu.. dah mak dia risau...
Lina,
Itu lah dia, I say "kamu dah kerja 2 minggu lebih tak ingat nak simpan sepatu kenapa hari ni tak ada orang kat rumah baru nak simpan?"
I ingat agak nye dia nak jengok2 kat luar pasal everyday to and fro my mum's house at next block mesti sama2 kita jadi tak ada chance for her to look/see outside so dia pun amik peluang lah.
Itu lah dia, I say "kamu dah kerja 2 minggu lebih tak ingat nak simpan sepatu kenapa hari ni tak ada orang kat rumah baru nak simpan?"
I ingat agak nye dia nak jengok2 kat luar pasal everyday to and fro my mum's house at next block mesti sama2 kita jadi tak ada chance for her to look/see outside so dia pun amik peluang lah.
momma_naqi
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maid call me ibuk....
Lina,
My husband sekarang hari2 worried that one day I will lose my temper and hit the maid - but I say that I won't be so foolish to spoil my reputation because of one stupid idiot.
Mudah2an I will have patience to deal with these idiots. Anyway already told my daughter to go and choose a replacement.
My husband sekarang hari2 worried that one day I will lose my temper and hit the maid - but I say that I won't be so foolish to spoil my reputation because of one stupid idiot.
Mudah2an I will have patience to deal with these idiots. Anyway already told my daughter to go and choose a replacement.
<font color="ff6000">Mira,
MIL's maid calls me "Kak Su" and MIL/FIL, buk/pak..
Lina,
I tgh bingit dgn MIL lah. Aritu ckp lain, now ckp lain. When hub's arnd, mentioned she wana let go the maid cos near future she'll be shortage of $$$ etc. Skrng gi SG-KL-BANDUNG 5 heads w/o FIL. No doubt she hv siblings married to Dato, Menteri kanan etc, takkan smua sponsor flights, food and shopping? Mind you, per adult head cos RM$1500. Sms'd hub, not to call her hp cos she dunwan to brng along to avoid SIL call her cos she noe she'll ask MIL to buy some stuffs over at Bandung.
Tell me, mana I and Hub tak bingit??
*emo*</font>
MIL's maid calls me "Kak Su" and MIL/FIL, buk/pak..
Lina,
I tgh bingit dgn MIL lah. Aritu ckp lain, now ckp lain. When hub's arnd, mentioned she wana let go the maid cos near future she'll be shortage of $$$ etc. Skrng gi SG-KL-BANDUNG 5 heads w/o FIL. No doubt she hv siblings married to Dato, Menteri kanan etc, takkan smua sponsor flights, food and shopping? Mind you, per adult head cos RM$1500. Sms'd hub, not to call her hp cos she dunwan to brng along to avoid SIL call her cos she noe she'll ask MIL to buy some stuffs over at Bandung.
Tell me, mana I and Hub tak bingit??
*emo*</font>
momma_naqi
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Cik Nab,
Jgn spoil yur reputation bcoz of 1 stoppid fella...U ada much much more better things to do...Ishh geram seh ..sabar...u buat bodoh je..n kalau bleh tukar dia cepat2 lah....nasib baik u send her to u mom's place can;t imagine dia ngan fayaa je at home
Jgn spoil yur reputation bcoz of 1 stoppid fella...U ada much much more better things to do...Ishh geram seh ..sabar...u buat bodoh je..n kalau bleh tukar dia cepat2 lah....nasib baik u send her to u mom's place can;t imagine dia ngan fayaa je at home
<font color="ff6000">Lina,
Feel like giving up sey. Nnti dah back to Smbwng, semakin dekat...I takut...
Bukan takut apa, I takut I cant take the pressure when mil/sil kips koling hub etc...
And it's been close to a mth we didnt step in JB. Then MIL kol up when we'll be heading agn cos nk kirim barang2 dapur. Takkan nk gi JB w/o anythg bought for ourselves bt to Q for hours for MIL sey...</font>
Feel like giving up sey. Nnti dah back to Smbwng, semakin dekat...I takut...
Bukan takut apa, I takut I cant take the pressure when mil/sil kips koling hub etc...
And it's been close to a mth we didnt step in JB. Then MIL kol up when we'll be heading agn cos nk kirim barang2 dapur. Takkan nk gi JB w/o anythg bought for ourselves bt to Q for hours for MIL sey...</font>
Lina, Why current maid call you Mdm and don't follow the last one call you Ibuk??
Danryan and Naqi. Thanks.
Last time my maids call me Mi, like my children called me, Mummy. and address my husband as Bapa. For this new maid i don't know how should I ask her to address me.
By the way, how abt your children. How they address your maid???
Danryan and Naqi. Thanks.
Last time my maids call me Mi, like my children called me, Mummy. and address my husband as Bapa. For this new maid i don't know how should I ask her to address me.
By the way, how abt your children. How they address your maid???
momma_naqi
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call maik bibik...
Mas,
Ya, that's why we have never left Fayaa alone with the maid even the previous one because we can't trust them with the kid no matter how good they are. Unless they have been with you for a longgggg period then can trust otherwise strictly no.
True lah that's what Cik Aman say why get so upset over the maid issue - if not happy then just send her back (hopefully the next one will be good like the previous one).
Thanks Mas!
Ya, that's why we have never left Fayaa alone with the maid even the previous one because we can't trust them with the kid no matter how good they are. Unless they have been with you for a longgggg period then can trust otherwise strictly no.
True lah that's what Cik Aman say why get so upset over the maid issue - if not happy then just send her back (hopefully the next one will be good like the previous one).
Thanks Mas!
momma_naqi
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yup cik nab...buat apa u nak pikir2 pasal diorang nanti memudaratkan diri u sendiri...tukar je maid cik nab no point in waiting ...
Dan,
She's with us for more than 2 weeks already but every day you have to tell her what to do. 1 pc of shirt has to be ironed about 4-5 times just to get the fold right.
Even lipat kain and telekung sampai sekarang have to keep showing her. Every morning she will ask my daughter what time to bring in the clothes, what are the things to bring to my mum's house for Fayaa and so on sampaikan my daughter pun so fed up.
Lepas dia sapu rumah if I sapu again masih banyak habuk and rambut lagi then she will stare in disbelief - sakit hati tak?
She's with us for more than 2 weeks already but every day you have to tell her what to do. 1 pc of shirt has to be ironed about 4-5 times just to get the fold right.
Even lipat kain and telekung sampai sekarang have to keep showing her. Every morning she will ask my daughter what time to bring in the clothes, what are the things to bring to my mum's house for Fayaa and so on sampaikan my daughter pun so fed up.
Lepas dia sapu rumah if I sapu again masih banyak habuk and rambut lagi then she will stare in disbelief - sakit hati tak?
momma_naqi
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holla nottygal..
Cik Nab,
You are so good, understand that we cannot trust the maid so much. If My MIl like you.. I will be happy.
Las time when I have the maid, MIL will side the maid one lor and i don't know what the maid told her and what is their conversation. Then My MIL will tell my husband and my husband come to me amd tell me off.. You see the maid so smart right? They know how to use "the weapon" that they have in hand. Always tell me "Nanak told me not need to do this and that" When the last maid left. My In-law give her money. I knew it only when I sent her back to the agency. And that maid still keep contact my borther( cos this maid was transfer to me after my mother pass away in Feb) When I ask my brother not to contact her...My brother also one kind...side maid one lor... I'm so angry.
Next maid come..thought want to ask my MIL to come to my house in the morning cos next year my child all in Morning class. Left maid with my BB only. But I also scare she will "spoil" the maid.
How ah...what should I do??
You are so good, understand that we cannot trust the maid so much. If My MIl like you.. I will be happy.
Las time when I have the maid, MIL will side the maid one lor and i don't know what the maid told her and what is their conversation. Then My MIL will tell my husband and my husband come to me amd tell me off.. You see the maid so smart right? They know how to use "the weapon" that they have in hand. Always tell me "Nanak told me not need to do this and that" When the last maid left. My In-law give her money. I knew it only when I sent her back to the agency. And that maid still keep contact my borther( cos this maid was transfer to me after my mother pass away in Feb) When I ask my brother not to contact her...My brother also one kind...side maid one lor... I'm so angry.
Next maid come..thought want to ask my MIL to come to my house in the morning cos next year my child all in Morning class. Left maid with my BB only. But I also scare she will "spoil" the maid.
How ah...what should I do??