ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

<font color="ff0000">Ada oppsite car over take n was on our lane, hb tried to avoid then the our car spinning to the other side of the rd down the slope...

But pity my MIL, her forehead kulit dahi koyak from left to right, like mengganga gitu...

Me bersyukur coz when the car stopped out of sudden, Danial was on my lap and was quiet no sound from him...
me hug him tightly and cried aloud coz he was my precious dat time after long time to have a child

When balik to Spore have thoroughly check up...

Now go near places also i buckled up my kiddos including my maid...
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Mas,

No experience - actually the current one also no fresh maid without experience but alhamdulillah. Dah kerja bagus2 pula nak balik - headache got train all over again.

Bodoh betul lah dorang ni semua!
 
Dan..Alhamdullilah u r alrite gal..Biar hilang duit jgn hilang nyawa
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Shahlyn excess 2k means if any accident our fault we pay 2k, then yang excess $500 too sounds great can give me the no
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Mas,

Dorang ni semua sama gitu. Duit dah banyak nak balik habis tu nanti nak datang lagi, macam nenek punya maid dulu di-Saniah tu.

Kalau boleh nak ketuk kepala dorang
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Mira,

To the embassy for what purpose?

So far our maid does not go out on her own. She only goes down to buy small items like bread and newspaper or when my mum forgot something.

But one thing the maid and my cucu will be at my mum's house when we are at work so at least its not so bad.

When is yours coming?
 
Dan, i tak pernah kenal orang that involved in serious accident before..

Syukur you &amp; family selamat.. ALLAH melindungi keluarga you.

I pernah witness accident involving our Singapore bus tour hitting a malaysian car. The belakang side remuk. 2 kids sitting behind. I was in the 2nd bus and i witness everything that happen. Our bus stop and i went down to help. It was so bloody and the 2 kids were unconcious. Datuk &amp; Nenek &amp; Father &amp; Mother all panically trying to open the door, tapi dah kemek-kemek mcm mana nak bukak pintu kan. Then yg seramnya i kena handle the angry saudara yg wanted to kill our singapore driver. It was the scariest ever.

I sampai sekarang phobia to take bus or take car to drive around Malaysia.
 
cik Nab,
Actually, san's MIL got one maid to let go. Asking me. I talk to her MIL yesterday, thought want to meet the maid on sunday. but she told me that her maid going to the embassy for course on sunday. I also don't know cos she didn't explain also. Now, i have to think twice in this case. I don't know to accept her or to get a fresh new maid from agency.
This maid had work for San's Mother for 3 years.
Anyone, can give advise?
 
Nora R,
i dun remember whether his excess is 500 or 2k...
hehehe
if excess is 2k, means any accident repair below 2k, u kena bayar cash. above 2k baru dey claim insurance.

Cik Zai,
dulu i senang dapat maid free tau...
these maids, datang takder experience.
so i take them in, train them &amp; provide food &amp; accommodation. for 1week or 2... until their majikan ready to take them...

but now, no more la... coz their permit ngam2.. sampai jer, majikan terus fetch..
 
Mira,

Then I am sure San's MIL will be able to advise if the maid is good or otherwise since she has worked for 3 years. What is the reason for change of employer?

If you apply from the agency it will take at least a month to process.
 
Shahlynn,

Wah - untung lah the agency tak payah train them and provide food and lodging for the 1 or 2 weeks.

True, usually now once they are chosen then the agency will process the documentation. Jadi datang tak payah provide food and accomodation to them also.

Mas,

Naqi sekarang tak pegi rumah mama lagi ke?
 
<font color="ff0000">Mira

Y not take the fresh one...

Wati

Ye lah
Me next month nak go cuti to msia lagi, hb nak jln mlm....lagi kancong seh...</font>
 
Our maid tak ade bank account - she takes a small sum every month and the balance she asks my daughter to keep until she wants to hantar kat kampung then my despatch pegi bank on our behalf.
 
Cik Zai,
now MOM pun very strict la...
my fren nak release to me pun dah takleh..
pun, i takut nak amik lagi... kalau jadi cam kat papers tu, yg maid jatuh, mati daku!

maid2 skarang dah takleh percaya sgt ah...
tak semua la... still ada rare few yg sungguh baik..
 
<font color="119911">Dan
we also kena bad accident 1st time in my life aft e 1st incident of jatuh motor besar with hub.. i tell u.. dat time my lutut so longgar seh, i panicked tak tau apa nak buat coz my forehead was banged against my hub recaro's seat terus gue blank kejap.. tetau wen i sedar i saw e car dah pusing facing the mid railings, it spinned 180 degress seh.. &amp; c e word YONG PENG.. n my son dat time was on the floor of the car as he was rolled down while sleeping seh.. bt Dan urs very bad seh.. i tink if hub tak break more dat nite confirm will b like urs..
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Oh, jadi day time the maid and Naqi dua orang at home - its true Mas you all must do spot checks just to be sure since the boy belum pandai cakap lagi kan!

Even with my mum around pun Liana is a bit worried already.
 
Betul, maid ni semua macam mana baik pun kita tak boleh trust them 100% - kita kena berhati2 selalu because even those yang dah kerja bertahun2 pun sometimes ada problem.
 
Yup true.....Dat y ....We make a pt of spot check on alternate days.....Lagi mama is only 4 bus stop away so bila dia nak gi pasar dia drop by je....n lucky for me ada next door neighbour SAHM...
 
Cik zainab,

I don't think so lah cos when I told to her she everthing said good. And now because she cannot afford for maid that why want to let go. My worried is maybe in her house, not much work but in my house it will have plenty of works cos big family and got BB to take care. the maid will compare loh. When I ask san's MIL the maid cooks, she said normally she herself do the cooking, but she still can tell me the maid cook very well lah. That why I'm confuse.
 
Mas,

Ya must ask your neighbour to keep an eye.

Mira,

In that case why don't you get a new one - of course if they have worked before then they will make comparison if the previous employment is easier since smaller family.

Have you selected a new one already?
 
<font color="ff0000">Nshah

Me yg accident tu on the way to Tasik Cini...

Before dat ada lah my BIL sangkak2..
jap nak pegi jap dia tak nak pegi...

So now kalau nak pegi, pegi je...kalau tak nak sudah....</font>
 
<font color="119911">pasal maid ni hmm.. dulu slalu kita buat spot check, dia kuar je pi kedai beli apa yg patut, we will check her bags, her belongings.. in case ada apa2 yg tak sepatut disimpan..
wen shes in KL with MIL ah ill check her baju2 thoroughly.. so far ok ah.. cuma in her diaries byk tul songgeh dia..
so far dia tak panjang tgn tp kerja malas benar.. ada je yg kerja tak habis disoroknya, or benda rosak pepandai buang or sorok.. even her letters wen come ill read 1st then we pass to her bt we dont let her keep..</font>
 
mira....dia peramah....always greet me but i also heard stories abt her fr my ex maid but dunno how true...i think if u need to ask more u can ask San....
 
Cik Zainab,
Yes, i do choose one in the agency. Now wiating for her passport. It have been 3 weeks still no new yet.
i called the agent, they said will let me consider abt it. Just let them know my final decision. You all think I should get a fresh one?
 
<font color="119911">Dan
aft our accident tu i tul phobia tau.. then last mth ada org kiss belkg kita pun i dah menggeletar tp nasib tak teruk ah damage dia..

bt yg pat yong peng tu i confuse seh.. kuar je keta c soo many lites coz lat e last car ad lorries &amp; buses seh.. nasib tu smua tak jam break &amp; naik atas kita2 e last msia car anak dia nya mata dah bleeding still he argues with my hub seh.. celaka tul.. gue nya dahi benjol gila &amp; lebab.. tp entah so far doc ckp tak da papa.. bt tulah kkdg wen dtg my mabuk2 i takut its coz of dat.. laki gue drive suka hayal so ill always b e alret ones, tak leh tido.. n i will gv sound like, hmm.. ah.. stop.. break.. haiz.. cana aku nak belajar drvg u tell me? coz i phobia seh..</font>
 
Lina, I ask San. She want me to ask her MIL. Sorry, "peramah" means what. My malay do so good? What kind of story do you heard? Can PM me?
 
Dan, tu sebab i kalau boleh elak pergi Malaysia.. Sampai sekarang i masih boleh ingat the bodies of the kids..all bloodied. Tapi dorang tak meninggal.. but seriously injured..

The malaysian all so rowdy tau, they throw rocks, take besi and kasi pecah bus tu.. ngeri!!!

Take care tau...
 
Mira,

Dah 3 weeks still no news yet - maybe you have to keep calling them to check and remind them.

Ours before 1 month the maid already here but since my daughter busy with exams we delayed the date till tomorrow.

Morning the current one will go then from airport my girl will fetch the new one.

Headache betul but hopefully she can be trusted to carry out her duties.
 
<font color="119911">Dan
anyway jus now at 1.50 jus back from e urut.. hehe.. verdict.. hmm she did alot of lemak pecahing tp cuma e sengkak part cam tak biasa ah.. hehe.. bt tgk ah.. if can mayb nx mth pi lagi &amp; c how ah..
naqi.. cik aninya urut more powerful than this makcik.. meaning more sakit... hehe..

hmm tadi pelikat ku cam ok, skg start balik plak.. boringnya..</font>
 

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