ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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Elle,
Luckily your children are not looked after by them otherwise they will be influenced by bad habits.
I feel that you too should have a heart-to-heart talk with your hubby and try to make him understand how you feel. Try to talk calmly so that he can see your point of view.
Luckily your children are not looked after by them otherwise they will be influenced by bad habits.
I feel that you too should have a heart-to-heart talk with your hubby and try to make him understand how you feel. Try to talk calmly so that he can see your point of view.
wati
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Cik Zai, i think i also will start to stop thinking too much abt my IN-LAWS. Sigh*** I just pray that they will stop being so boros! I found out smlm that my FIL dah dpt duit CPF dia. Then belanja kita makan and then beli kan Maya gelang.. Then nak belikan i cincin emas, tapi i ckp "TAK NAK"...berkali-kali ckp sampai muka aku baik maintain sampai hitam muka i tau.. Baru she stop pestering me to buy cincin. And then dorang bilang nak pergi BALI for holiday.. Tgk lah..
Tak bleh pegang duit lebih sikit tau.. I feel like telling them "Please keep your money for hari tua... and also your 2nd son wedding next year.." seram sejuk seh... takut duit dia habis begitu saja...
Tak bleh pegang duit lebih sikit tau.. I feel like telling them "Please keep your money for hari tua... and also your 2nd son wedding next year.." seram sejuk seh... takut duit dia habis begitu saja...
Kak Zai,
I feel is not easy for the hubby to understand us and stop them to help their sibling and parents. My hubby also like that. He is the elder. When ever his silbling got into trouble, my MIL will ask him to go and help out. Physically and also money issue also. I remember one of his brother need money( I remember around 7K. the wrose case) to pay to the court if not he will have to sit in the jail till someone paid up.(not one time is a few time) Then i have to ask help from my friend to borrow money. End of the day, not my BIL pay back but I and my husband have to paid back to my friend. Till now, I don't think he paid us.
Even his niece nephew have problem, will alway come and ask him for help.
But when I need someone to take care my BB for two weeks cos MIL go not in. No one help us and my husband have to take care. as i cannot take leave due to just join the company that time.
I feel is not easy for the hubby to understand us and stop them to help their sibling and parents. My hubby also like that. He is the elder. When ever his silbling got into trouble, my MIL will ask him to go and help out. Physically and also money issue also. I remember one of his brother need money( I remember around 7K. the wrose case) to pay to the court if not he will have to sit in the jail till someone paid up.(not one time is a few time) Then i have to ask help from my friend to borrow money. End of the day, not my BIL pay back but I and my husband have to paid back to my friend. Till now, I don't think he paid us.
Even his niece nephew have problem, will alway come and ask him for help.
But when I need someone to take care my BB for two weeks cos MIL go not in. No one help us and my husband have to take care. as i cannot take leave due to just join the company that time.
smalldreams
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Lynn
u pon 1/2 day leave?
Kak Zai
have fun!
Nora
I pun hari ni hopefully can go back to work from home in the PM. Going to have a super busy week running around coz my parents (my mom tolong jaga my son), has gone off for a 2 week holiday. sighs. hubby jugak yang kena jaga.
Elle
Hope yr problem will be solved soon.
Wati apa nak buat, they're part of us also. Close one eye, make doa sudah lah...
u pon 1/2 day leave?
Kak Zai
have fun!
Nora
I pun hari ni hopefully can go back to work from home in the PM. Going to have a super busy week running around coz my parents (my mom tolong jaga my son), has gone off for a 2 week holiday. sighs. hubby jugak yang kena jaga.
Elle
Hope yr problem will be solved soon.
Wati apa nak buat, they're part of us also. Close one eye, make doa sudah lah...
Hi Ladies..
nshah thanks for the direction n btw i take the pak wancar there(cab)..so wat is exactly the road name there?..
Nora Aw..i can fully understand how u feel..but darling..be strong u u will soon c the difference in him
n by then u will look back and realise tat Alhamdullilah i made that decision. Insya Allah
Elle..Take things easy dear..im sure u very strong
nshah thanks for the direction n btw i take the pak wancar there(cab)..so wat is exactly the road name there?..
Nora Aw..i can fully understand how u feel..but darling..be strong u u will soon c the difference in him
Elle..Take things easy dear..im sure u very strong
Nora Aw..wat i usually do is that i use the permanent marker n i try to buy the towel that is very prominent or diff from others so for easier identification for teachers too..and wat u can do is to constantly remind izzat tat this is his towel. coz from my past experience parents also very frustated tau when things get mixed up or lost
which is very often happen in childcare lol
Yeah Girl u go ROCKER!!..hahaha
Jemput makan me now eating Nasi Goreng Pattaya..
Ladies i nak ask la..my selera makan makin lama ni kan makin melampau tau..i realise i nowadays makan byk dan tak kira tempat..n if i feel like eating cakes i buy, chocz i buy fastfood jalan terus..My pants from XS-S-M n yesterday shocking news L size pun da bole masuk..alamak macam mane ni..Pening Pening
ask MIL yesterday for help she say Puasa sunat la Insya Allah..tapi cam ane nak puasa pukul 12 tepat je i da keluar cari makan
Jemput makan me now eating Nasi Goreng Pattaya..
Ladies i nak ask la..my selera makan makin lama ni kan makin melampau tau..i realise i nowadays makan byk dan tak kira tempat..n if i feel like eating cakes i buy, chocz i buy fastfood jalan terus..My pants from XS-S-M n yesterday shocking news L size pun da bole masuk..alamak macam mane ni..Pening Pening
ask MIL yesterday for help she say Puasa sunat la Insya Allah..tapi cam ane nak puasa pukul 12 tepat je i da keluar cari makan
<font color="119911">nora R
hahaha sama.. sama.. gue pun sama siak..
act mmg ku dah niat smlm mlm nak puasa nari.. tetau je nari ku bangun siang dah mandi & at 5.20am i terasa nak minum kacik fatimah aku.. dah tu ku ilek2 minum sambil makan m&m pepagi buta sambil siapkan sarapan utk hub & bag for my son.. n i realised at 5.50am.. eh im supp to b puasaing kan? duh.. nampaknya tangguhkan besok ah insyallah.. mmg susah.. tp nak kena maintain babe.. so meh kita puasa sesama besok? hehe utk ilangkan blur aku.. ill try to puasa tues & thurs insyallah if dah ok & biasa baru i start at mon & thurs plak.. hehehe.. so? lu on sista???</font>
hahaha sama.. sama.. gue pun sama siak..
act mmg ku dah niat smlm mlm nak puasa nari.. tetau je nari ku bangun siang dah mandi & at 5.20am i terasa nak minum kacik fatimah aku.. dah tu ku ilek2 minum sambil makan m&m pepagi buta sambil siapkan sarapan utk hub & bag for my son.. n i realised at 5.50am.. eh im supp to b puasaing kan? duh.. nampaknya tangguhkan besok ah insyallah.. mmg susah.. tp nak kena maintain babe.. so meh kita puasa sesama besok? hehe utk ilangkan blur aku.. ill try to puasa tues & thurs insyallah if dah ok & biasa baru i start at mon & thurs plak.. hehehe.. so? lu on sista???</font>
<font color="000000">Nora R
Tadi my boss pon said i put on weight..the first thing he noticed my pipi tembam after he return from business trip last week..Betul eh gal???
He saw me eating bread just now and told me to stop eating it if i want to lose weight..ask me to exercise. I nie pemalas sikit, niat nak buat tapi semangat dua minit aje..</font>
Tadi my boss pon said i put on weight..the first thing he noticed my pipi tembam after he return from business trip last week..Betul eh gal???
He saw me eating bread just now and told me to stop eating it if i want to lose weight..ask me to exercise. I nie pemalas sikit, niat nak buat tapi semangat dua minit aje..</font>
mdm wati
hahahah... me baru read thru tadi ur post abt ur in laws nak beli kan u ring
klu i, dorang nak belikan ring i pun tak nak seh..
kalau nak belikan crown tu lain la..... hahahahha
nshah
no problem beb
nora r
towel ape yg distinct?? unless i print towel gambar anak i..heheh
hahahah... me baru read thru tadi ur post abt ur in laws nak beli kan u ring
klu i, dorang nak belikan ring i pun tak nak seh..
kalau nak belikan crown tu lain la..... hahahahha
nshah
no problem beb
nora r
towel ape yg distinct?? unless i print towel gambar anak i..heheh
wati
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I'm back from lunch.
Nora Aw.. Crown eh.. Aper kau dah giler ker.. hehe
Aku tak amik offer on the cincin tu.. I'm not sure whether it's me.. But i think i will feel mcm forever indebt.. like tat lor. So better nothing from her. I told her, if you want to waste money, waste on my daughter.. I do not want anything.
Gals, about my post on "THERMOGRAPHY".. it will cost about $150. But it will detect cancerous cells yg belum menjadi.. cos kalau dah jadi lump, it might be too late...
Dan.. belum makan lagi.. takder selera ke..
Nora Aw.. Crown eh.. Aper kau dah giler ker.. hehe
Aku tak amik offer on the cincin tu.. I'm not sure whether it's me.. But i think i will feel mcm forever indebt.. like tat lor. So better nothing from her. I told her, if you want to waste money, waste on my daughter.. I do not want anything.
Gals, about my post on "THERMOGRAPHY".. it will cost about $150. But it will detect cancerous cells yg belum menjadi.. cos kalau dah jadi lump, it might be too late...
Dan.. belum makan lagi.. takder selera ke..
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Wati
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Nora Aw..i bought towel yg Big stripes..at first when i do a trial there i look at all the children belongings including the bag, mattress cover n then i try to buy things diff from other kids. maybe u can try Big stripes or big pics..don expensive nye la nanti hilang sedih..
Lynzi..alamak ia ke my next appointment for my implanon family planning next month. tu la 1 thing boutthis device kan..my menses very irregular till bout 6 mths can hav no menses then tak kan every mth ku nak ckeck pregnancy kit..haiyo but so far tak nausea2..alamak..
Nottygal..takde la cuma like i say kite yg da perna bersalin tak le lepas dari punggung expand lol
but u tak fat girl slim je
Lynzi..alamak ia ke my next appointment for my implanon family planning next month. tu la 1 thing boutthis device kan..my menses very irregular till bout 6 mths can hav no menses then tak kan every mth ku nak ckeck pregnancy kit..haiyo but so far tak nausea2..alamak..
Nottygal..takde la cuma like i say kite yg da perna bersalin tak le lepas dari punggung expand lol
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k.. ill go & find eh.. u nak barunya or yg usednya bleh? hehe k u email me lah eh.. let me noe by wen u need, how to meetin the email pls..
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k.. ill go & find eh.. u nak barunya or yg usednya bleh? hehe k u email me lah eh.. let me noe by wen u need, how to meetin the email pls..
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