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smalldreams
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Athlete!
Welcome back!
So how's yr flu?
I pun out of atction for a long time coz away from office.
Wati
Beb, camner today? Dah happy balik!
Welcome back!
So how's yr flu?
I pun out of atction for a long time coz away from office.
Wati
Beb, camner today? Dah happy balik!
nora,
my hb kalau boleh memang lama nak start simpan ikan.
but i put my foot down everytime.
lucky memang all our places have been too small to put a tank anywhere.
SD,
I feel much better today!
I rested at home in the end yesterday, and managed to push back some of my deadlines slightly.
my hb kalau boleh memang lama nak start simpan ikan.
but i put my foot down everytime.
lucky memang all our places have been too small to put a tank anywhere.
SD,
I feel much better today!
I rested at home in the end yesterday, and managed to push back some of my deadlines slightly.
wati
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Good Morning semua... Happy Wednesday. For those yg got no plans for this Sat, i chance upon this.
PAssion Movie Night @ The Float
- part of PAssion Fun Around The Bay
Movie: Alvin and the Chipmunks 2: The Squeakquel (PG)
Date: 30 October 2010
Time: Arrive by 7.30 PM, Movie starts at 9.00 PM
Venue: Marina Bay Floating Platform (The Float @ Marina Bay)
Ticketing: Free Admission
Calling all movie buffs! As part of PAssion Fun Around The Bay, we will be having our second outdoor movie screening and you're invited!
Event Highlights:
Movie screening
Fringe activities
Stage games
Sales of Food and Beverages
Dynamic Light Art Installations
So, gather your friends, neighbours and family and head on down to our next PAssion Movie Night!
PAssion Card Privileges:
EXCLUSIVELY for PAssion Card Members
Flash your PAssion Card and RECEIVE
Free flow of popcorn
Discounts off Food & Beverages
Exclusive discount booklet*
*Limited to first 2000 PAssion Card Members only
Find out more @ www.passioncard.com.sg/movieclub
PAssion Movie Night @ The Float
- part of PAssion Fun Around The Bay
Movie: Alvin and the Chipmunks 2: The Squeakquel (PG)
Date: 30 October 2010
Time: Arrive by 7.30 PM, Movie starts at 9.00 PM
Venue: Marina Bay Floating Platform (The Float @ Marina Bay)
Ticketing: Free Admission
Calling all movie buffs! As part of PAssion Fun Around The Bay, we will be having our second outdoor movie screening and you're invited!
Event Highlights:
Movie screening
Fringe activities
Stage games
Sales of Food and Beverages
Dynamic Light Art Installations
So, gather your friends, neighbours and family and head on down to our next PAssion Movie Night!
PAssion Card Privileges:
EXCLUSIVELY for PAssion Card Members
Flash your PAssion Card and RECEIVE
Free flow of popcorn
Discounts off Food & Beverages
Exclusive discount booklet*
*Limited to first 2000 PAssion Card Members only
Find out more @ www.passioncard.com.sg/movieclub
wati
Active Member
i Light Marina Bay, Asia's first sustainable light arts festival
Date: 15 October to 7 November 2010
Time: Nightly, 7.30 PM - 12 midnight
Venue: Marina Bay Waterfront
Ticketing: Free admission
From 15 October to 7 November 2010, Marina Bay will play host to i Light Marina Bay, Asia's first sustainable light art festival. Proudly brought to you by Smart Light Singapore and presenter URA, i Light Marina Bay is a festival that does more than entertain and delight audiences, it spreads a profound message. In celebrating the nightscape with beautiful light art works, only energy-efficient lights and lighting techniques are used with the aim to create awareness for energy-saving lighting technology not only in the commercial environment and public spaces, but also within our homes.
In line with the Festival's sustainability message, Festival organiser Smart Light Singapore, is also encouraging the public to contribute used cooking oil in exchange for an energy-saving light bulb. This will take place on Saturday, 23 October from 7.30pm to 9.30pm at The Promontory@Marina Bay. This initiative aims to create awareness for better waste management, and underscores how communities can positively impact the environment they operate in.
PAssion Card Privileges:
PAssion Card is proud to be the Official Festival Card of i Light Marina Bay.
Click here for exclusive PAssion Treats in conjunction with the event.
In addition, PAssion Card Members get to enjoy priority queue for guided light walk tours. For reservations, please email to [email protected].
For more information on i Light Marina Bay,
please visit www.marina-bay.sg/ilightmarinabay or download the iPhone application (search for iLightMarinaBay).
Date: 15 October to 7 November 2010
Time: Nightly, 7.30 PM - 12 midnight
Venue: Marina Bay Waterfront
Ticketing: Free admission
From 15 October to 7 November 2010, Marina Bay will play host to i Light Marina Bay, Asia's first sustainable light art festival. Proudly brought to you by Smart Light Singapore and presenter URA, i Light Marina Bay is a festival that does more than entertain and delight audiences, it spreads a profound message. In celebrating the nightscape with beautiful light art works, only energy-efficient lights and lighting techniques are used with the aim to create awareness for energy-saving lighting technology not only in the commercial environment and public spaces, but also within our homes.
In line with the Festival's sustainability message, Festival organiser Smart Light Singapore, is also encouraging the public to contribute used cooking oil in exchange for an energy-saving light bulb. This will take place on Saturday, 23 October from 7.30pm to 9.30pm at The Promontory@Marina Bay. This initiative aims to create awareness for better waste management, and underscores how communities can positively impact the environment they operate in.
PAssion Card Privileges:
PAssion Card is proud to be the Official Festival Card of i Light Marina Bay.
Click here for exclusive PAssion Treats in conjunction with the event.
In addition, PAssion Card Members get to enjoy priority queue for guided light walk tours. For reservations, please email to [email protected].
For more information on i Light Marina Bay,
please visit www.marina-bay.sg/ilightmarinabay or download the iPhone application (search for iLightMarinaBay).
wati
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Im fine. Thanks for the concern. Cuma this experience have made me a quieter person at home. My HB tanyer sepatah, i jawab sepatah. I prefer not to talk about it..By talking i will think and i will get stress and headache and i will get upset and blame him for everything that happened. So ada baiknya aku just keep to myself lah. Tapi kesian plak tgk dia.. haiz..
Now im living in mcm constant fear. Like tomorrow im going to my In-Laws for visiting and i fear that they will open their mouth and ask for more money..cos this Sunday dorang buat kenduri and order food for catering. Then i also fear that days before they go haji, they ask for money for them to just survive in Mekkah...
This part aku tahu aku being paranoid. Maybe they won't be asking already, but aku mcm dah phobia and badi.
So that is why i prefer to keep quiet now. I will take things day by day.. Dengan keadaan aku mcm gini.. haiz.. it's double the blow. Praying to keep myself sane.
Now im living in mcm constant fear. Like tomorrow im going to my In-Laws for visiting and i fear that they will open their mouth and ask for more money..cos this Sunday dorang buat kenduri and order food for catering. Then i also fear that days before they go haji, they ask for money for them to just survive in Mekkah...
This part aku tahu aku being paranoid. Maybe they won't be asking already, but aku mcm dah phobia and badi.
So that is why i prefer to keep quiet now. I will take things day by day.. Dengan keadaan aku mcm gini.. haiz.. it's double the blow. Praying to keep myself sane.
wati
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Lina, susah sikit cos they know my dad is loaded. Pernah tau they desperately need money and i dun have any and i went to my mum for help. And they are ok with it. How? They always tell people that Wati's dad is a business man. Even my MIL tell my HB aunts that if they ever need $$ help, just approach Wati. My In-Laws nie memang show-off people. Dorang nie hidup ikut pepatah, "Biar miskin asal bergaya" / "Kais pagi makan pagi, kais petang makan petang". Aku tgk lifestyle dorang aku takut tau. Lucky i educate my HB well.. now he knows the importance of saving money. Sad to say adik-beradik my HB ikut jejak their parents.
My BIL gaji $4K tau dia bawak balik. 1 bulan boleh habis lah! Sedangkan sebelum kahwin, duit $13K he got from his work trip from Maldives he can blow it up in 2 months by enjoying it with his fiance at that time...
Now i can see my HB trying hard to nasihat his own family. He keep stressing abt the importance of saving $$ for hari tua to his parents. I just hope they listen. My ILs nie both are working. My MIL werks part-time lah. Gaji tak besar tapi enough for her to spend for herself. Tiap2 bulan kita tak pernah putus kasi dia duit lagi. Then my FIL pun kerja as CISCO. Kira muai tau... tapi sayang dorang punyer lifestyle is mcm orang kaya.
My BIL gaji $4K tau dia bawak balik. 1 bulan boleh habis lah! Sedangkan sebelum kahwin, duit $13K he got from his work trip from Maldives he can blow it up in 2 months by enjoying it with his fiance at that time...
Now i can see my HB trying hard to nasihat his own family. He keep stressing abt the importance of saving $$ for hari tua to his parents. I just hope they listen. My ILs nie both are working. My MIL werks part-time lah. Gaji tak besar tapi enough for her to spend for herself. Tiap2 bulan kita tak pernah putus kasi dia duit lagi. Then my FIL pun kerja as CISCO. Kira muai tau... tapi sayang dorang punyer lifestyle is mcm orang kaya.
wati
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Hi Athlete,your bf same as me.. hehe.
Ok.after the above story, aku dah mentally tired to citer lagi. Maybe nie jalan cerita hidup aku yg dah tertulis. Now me and HB trying hard to make our life better by saving maut.
Kalau korang nampak aku jalan kat luar baju koyak2, muka comot.. jgn tegur dan jgn pandang belakang.. heheh
Ok.after the above story, aku dah mentally tired to citer lagi. Maybe nie jalan cerita hidup aku yg dah tertulis. Now me and HB trying hard to make our life better by saving maut.
Kalau korang nampak aku jalan kat luar baju koyak2, muka comot.. jgn tegur dan jgn pandang belakang.. heheh
actually eh, what's with the Ils and their $ problems?
mine also sama jugak.
mil hutang my mother $2k belum bayar.
bil mintak my hb bayar downpayment for some course- now he dah drop-out!
i was so pissed.
i know this might sound harsh, but sometimes i feel like really, its all my fault.
for marrying my HB.
i mean, maybe if my HB married a "simpler" girl from tj pinang or something, will they (the Ils) behave like they have walking atms to rely on?
bottomline, i choose him, hence it is my fault.
mine also sama jugak.
mil hutang my mother $2k belum bayar.
bil mintak my hb bayar downpayment for some course- now he dah drop-out!
i was so pissed.
i know this might sound harsh, but sometimes i feel like really, its all my fault.
for marrying my HB.
i mean, maybe if my HB married a "simpler" girl from tj pinang or something, will they (the Ils) behave like they have walking atms to rely on?
bottomline, i choose him, hence it is my fault.
wati
Active Member
Athlete, nie kira dah jodoh. Tak baik you rasa menyesal tau. Cos kalau you tak kahwin HB you, you wont get a beautiful son like whom you have now. I learnt my lesson. I use to feel this way too.. mcm menyesal.. tapi i learnt to think positive. I learn to appreciate my HB and always think about my positive memories with him.
wati
Active Member
Nora, oh benda dah lama terjadi eh... haiz.. dah 5 tahun kan.. Agaknya they have difficulty with the hospital and theraphy bills tak...?
Lina, aku yg busuk2 nie anak orang loaded, aku ada ego jugak. Cos bapak aku selalu ckp aku boros. Tapi only recently he found out that in-laws aku quite often pinjam duit. Aku dari dulu sampai sekarang tak pernah pinjam duit from my dad. Kalau susah, aku dgn HB aku diamkan diri kat rumah and solve our own problems. Tak pernah mintak orang. Tu yg im very proud of myself.
Athelete, i pun learn to embrace that marrying my HB comes with so much other stuffs.. tgh belajar terima. By the way, i ada email you tanyer pasal playpen, you dah baca ?
Lina, aku yg busuk2 nie anak orang loaded, aku ada ego jugak. Cos bapak aku selalu ckp aku boros. Tapi only recently he found out that in-laws aku quite often pinjam duit. Aku dari dulu sampai sekarang tak pernah pinjam duit from my dad. Kalau susah, aku dgn HB aku diamkan diri kat rumah and solve our own problems. Tak pernah mintak orang. Tu yg im very proud of myself.
Athelete, i pun learn to embrace that marrying my HB comes with so much other stuffs.. tgh belajar terima. By the way, i ada email you tanyer pasal playpen, you dah baca ?
wati
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Lina/Nora, aku dah pernah bilang my HB..that if they ever need my dad's help, they go and call themselves. I dun want to know also. Biar dorang yg malu. Even yg masa my FIL sound kat my HB ckp nak suruh the maid sleep overnite to tolong kenduri.. my HB cakap, nie maid is bapak wati punyer. It is actually illegal for her to work a few houses. Kalau nak, call bapak wati and asked. Terus bapak dia tak call pun. He abit bingit cos kita mcm tak nk kasi
"my HB cakap, nie maid is bapak wati punyer."
seb baik dia tak cakap nie maid ahmad albab yg punyer....err maybe kan use that dialog when nak pinjam duit hihihiih...
sometimes kite kena be anal for the sake of sanity....
dialog pinjam duit
lina kau ade $$$$
me: aku baru nak pinjam kau lah...
or simply sorry no spare...
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
"kemaluan aku tembam so aku abit thick-skinned now"
kena tembamkan kemaluanan untuk kepuasan diri sendirik jugak...
seb baik dia tak cakap nie maid ahmad albab yg punyer....err maybe kan use that dialog when nak pinjam duit hihihiih...
sometimes kite kena be anal for the sake of sanity....
dialog pinjam duit
lina kau ade $$$$
me: aku baru nak pinjam kau lah...
or simply sorry no spare...
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
"kemaluan aku tembam so aku abit thick-skinned now"
kena tembamkan kemaluanan untuk kepuasan diri sendirik jugak...
momma_naqi
Active Member
morning ladies....
Lina
Danial P1...tapi the list to learn for the English Paper banyak..
I banyak print out previous year Exam Paper from other sch such as Anglo Chinese, Raffles Girl, Red Swastika for self revision..www.misskoh.com
Danial P1...tapi the list to learn for the English Paper banyak..
I banyak print out previous year Exam Paper from other sch such as Anglo Chinese, Raffles Girl, Red Swastika for self revision..www.misskoh.com
another source is www.oldschool.com.sg