ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
- Thread starter bubs
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aahhh the "joys" of ILs and visitings! I can never understd it.. I mean for Raya, its given we go berkunjung-kunjungan, tapi tengok mana yg sempat lah, jgn sampai keep score lah, nak amik hati kalau tak dtg rumah; that kinda stuff.
there's much more to Raya than just visiting right?
HR Open house
sometimes kalau I dah jumpa that relatives/ frens at another house yg buat HR open house, I just tell them I tak janji go to their place, kalau sempat then will go, kalau tak jgn lah marah.
lagi pon I study p/t weekend kedua dan ketiga raya i have classes so orang nak dtg rumah pon kena chk timing and I nak keluar pon very limited edition time gitu.. this time Raya is very chaotic..
there's much more to Raya than just visiting right?
HR Open house
sometimes kalau I dah jumpa that relatives/ frens at another house yg buat HR open house, I just tell them I tak janji go to their place, kalau sempat then will go, kalau tak jgn lah marah.
lagi pon I study p/t weekend kedua dan ketiga raya i have classes so orang nak dtg rumah pon kena chk timing and I nak keluar pon very limited edition time gitu.. this time Raya is very chaotic..
lina
the hb yer habit before leave current house
call the next house
dia takmo call too early bec nanti org tertunggu tunggu
and might stop org yer plan beraya
nor
hah tu lah dia
keep score tau
side mil tak leh kurang from fil
nanti kena accuse besarkan side fil
and my mil thinks that since adik beradik dia ade 6 ketik jer
why cannot go to ALL
bec fil adik beradik is berbelas
*amik tisu paseo lap peluh di dahi*
the hb yer habit before leave current house
call the next house
dia takmo call too early bec nanti org tertunggu tunggu
and might stop org yer plan beraya
nor
hah tu lah dia
keep score tau
side mil tak leh kurang from fil
nanti kena accuse besarkan side fil
and my mil thinks that since adik beradik dia ade 6 ketik jer
why cannot go to ALL
bec fil adik beradik is berbelas
*amik tisu paseo lap peluh di dahi*
you know, kat aust, the melayu there don't practise calling 1st before datang.
to them it's considered like very rude.
but, over there, rumah semua jauh-jauh kan.
so what to do, tawakal aje.
but then diaorang full force jalan raya for a whole month.
kat sini after 2 weeks, dah takde orang jln raya kan?
to them it's considered like very rude.
but, over there, rumah semua jauh-jauh kan.
so what to do, tawakal aje.
but then diaorang full force jalan raya for a whole month.
kat sini after 2 weeks, dah takde orang jln raya kan?
notty
my skinny sister sebenar ye pegi kedai tu jugak but she is regular with this lady sammy
si sammy sakit ke ape so balik kampung
aku dunno she go there until she ask me whr i go cut hair bec the shop she goes to dah tutup
aku kasi number.. sekali same shop.. location jer lain .. hahah
yep yep she perm her hair nice bec her hair very long
.. tapi dia pakai tudung
my skinny sister sebenar ye pegi kedai tu jugak but she is regular with this lady sammy
si sammy sakit ke ape so balik kampung
aku dunno she go there until she ask me whr i go cut hair bec the shop she goes to dah tutup
aku kasi number.. sekali same shop.. location jer lain .. hahah
yep yep she perm her hair nice bec her hair very long
.. tapi dia pakai tudung
wati
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For me, we will call first before coming just to ensure they will be at home. Kita tinggal Jurong, yg lain tinggal jauh.. so die-die must call.
Kalau i pergi rumah aunties/uncles, will kasi dorang duit raya kepada yg tidak bekerja sahaja.. Mana yg masih kuat bekerja, i tak kasi.
Kalau i pergi rumah aunties/uncles, will kasi dorang duit raya kepada yg tidak bekerja sahaja.. Mana yg masih kuat bekerja, i tak kasi.
lina, yup, yup kena bawak bekal sekali.
btw, i know bulan puasa tak baik cakap tentang perkara yg tak bagus ( i can;t think of the word).
but tak boleh tahan lah.
tempat keja i ni, banyak jugak org mayo.
but diaorang semua ada major attitude!
i'm not saying that just becos im mayo also, must be pally wally.
but kalau dah sama lift, or jumpa pat corridor, at least senyum ke or just acknowledge the fact that we're colleagues, kan?
but diaorang, huh, muka tengok lain, then macam v arrogant gitu.
yg tak mayo lagi friendly to me.
btw, i know bulan puasa tak baik cakap tentang perkara yg tak bagus ( i can;t think of the word).
but tak boleh tahan lah.
tempat keja i ni, banyak jugak org mayo.
but diaorang semua ada major attitude!
i'm not saying that just becos im mayo also, must be pally wally.
but kalau dah sama lift, or jumpa pat corridor, at least senyum ke or just acknowledge the fact that we're colleagues, kan?
but diaorang, huh, muka tengok lain, then macam v arrogant gitu.
yg tak mayo lagi friendly to me.
