ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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Nora. Yup i agree small haha i nak mandi dgn Danish pun tak bole.
Betty im using Gek Jin, they are small co. But personally my opinion as a fren to you. If you looking at cost wise his is good but quality wise, better not him.
I feel that contractors, u have a total control of the whole reno process and a feel of satisfaction. but ppl don like cause they don have time to actually manage and coordinate.
Betty im using Gek Jin, they are small co. But personally my opinion as a fren to you. If you looking at cost wise his is good but quality wise, better not him.
I feel that contractors, u have a total control of the whole reno process and a feel of satisfaction. but ppl don like cause they don have time to actually manage and coordinate.
i also heard abt first world hotel in genting being haunted.
but i myself tak pernah stay there...
seems that everyone's preparing for year end hols, so fun!
for me, in nov going to perth again!
just becos that time sq ada promotion fare.
nora r,
wah, i wish you all the best in your quest to be a property agent!
its always great to hear of new career developments and ambitions!
but i myself tak pernah stay there...
seems that everyone's preparing for year end hols, so fun!
for me, in nov going to perth again!
just becos that time sq ada promotion fare.
nora r,
wah, i wish you all the best in your quest to be a property agent!
its always great to hear of new career developments and ambitions!
Athlete, thanks but what's the co you're using?
Norra R, we wanted to use contractors and coordinate everything ourselves at first but because of the delay for the 1st appt due to HDB's 'lack of manpower', the keys which could been collected on 1st Oct now will only be collected mid next month so we're in a rush to complete everything preferably before yr end. Most probably windows I'll source out on my own. I want wrought iron grilles and all the IDs I went to kept harping on the cost saying aluminium is cheaper but I have a very bad experience with aluminium grilles in my previous house. One panel of the grilles could actually be lifted off just like that. Can you imagine kalau my sons climb on the sofa to tengok tingkap ke apa. The previous house was on 2nd floor. My new house is on the 11th floor so that's one thing I'm now gonna cut cost on. But if there's any co that can guarantee the sturdiness of aluminium, I might reconsider.
Norra R, we wanted to use contractors and coordinate everything ourselves at first but because of the delay for the 1st appt due to HDB's 'lack of manpower', the keys which could been collected on 1st Oct now will only be collected mid next month so we're in a rush to complete everything preferably before yr end. Most probably windows I'll source out on my own. I want wrought iron grilles and all the IDs I went to kept harping on the cost saying aluminium is cheaper but I have a very bad experience with aluminium grilles in my previous house. One panel of the grilles could actually be lifted off just like that. Can you imagine kalau my sons climb on the sofa to tengok tingkap ke apa. The previous house was on 2nd floor. My new house is on the 11th floor so that's one thing I'm now gonna cut cost on. But if there's any co that can guarantee the sturdiness of aluminium, I might reconsider.
<font color="ff6000">Chop...chop!
I nak tanya.
My FIL passed away days ago and just got it buried today morning for some stupid reason, the uncles & aunts tolak dalih. From what I understand, tak baik seksa mayat begitu. Yang tanggung dosa, my hub & siblings. Betul ker?</font>
I nak tanya.
My FIL passed away days ago and just got it buried today morning for some stupid reason, the uncles & aunts tolak dalih. From what I understand, tak baik seksa mayat begitu. Yang tanggung dosa, my hub & siblings. Betul ker?</font>
smalldreams
Active Member
wah hari ni panjang berjela-jela thread yer?
Tapi sayanggg...i'm so busy today.
Underestimated my workload, if not i wouldn't have taken leave semalam! Ni lah, senang2 dahulu, susah2 kemudian...haizz....
Tapi sayanggg...i'm so busy today.
Underestimated my workload, if not i wouldn't have taken leave semalam! Ni lah, senang2 dahulu, susah2 kemudian...haizz....
<font color="119911">san
its always cam tu e kes for those in batam.. sbb tu kita time tu demanded dat very day gak we must kebumikan mayat almarhum.. n dia dikebumikan only at 9plus at nite ok.. we even asked police for help smua.. coz dorang mmg selagi bleh they wanna simpan e mayat longer entah utk apa ku pun tak paham!!! i tght u went there to settle e burial? so its eddie's real dad?
jus to share our exp, mayatnya tak diclaim at hospital pun, it was left at mortuary for 2days already wen we came there soo much dispute & they wanted duit je from us, we tried to settle so much on our own with a help of an ustaz we knew whos org sana.. even setelah jenazah dah kebumikan they came with us with a list of how much arwah hutang org2 kampung tu.. sungguh menjijikan sekali.. n dorang tak putus2 call utk minta kita byr dorang which we ignored till today</font>
its always cam tu e kes for those in batam.. sbb tu kita time tu demanded dat very day gak we must kebumikan mayat almarhum.. n dia dikebumikan only at 9plus at nite ok.. we even asked police for help smua.. coz dorang mmg selagi bleh they wanna simpan e mayat longer entah utk apa ku pun tak paham!!! i tght u went there to settle e burial? so its eddie's real dad?
jus to share our exp, mayatnya tak diclaim at hospital pun, it was left at mortuary for 2days already wen we came there soo much dispute & they wanted duit je from us, we tried to settle so much on our own with a help of an ustaz we knew whos org sana.. even setelah jenazah dah kebumikan they came with us with a list of how much arwah hutang org2 kampung tu.. sungguh menjijikan sekali.. n dorang tak putus2 call utk minta kita byr dorang which we ignored till today</font>
<font color="ff6000">Nshah,
All of us wana go including my dad TAPI pakcik, makcik dia buta hal. Demand us to brng back the arwah. Cost us 6k. Now SIL is there to settle since ystdy. Benda senang tapi dorang nk rumitkan...I was so angry. Benda gini mana bole buat main-main.</font>
All of us wana go including my dad TAPI pakcik, makcik dia buta hal. Demand us to brng back the arwah. Cost us 6k. Now SIL is there to settle since ystdy. Benda senang tapi dorang nk rumitkan...I was so angry. Benda gini mana bole buat main-main.</font>
<font color="ff6000">And hub redha dgn pemergiannya walaupon ditinggal oleh bapanya bertahun-tahun.
I asked, kita buat kenduri arwah ok?
Dia kata nak tny pakcik makcik nya.
As far as Im concern, they are all bo-chap. i doubt so.
MIL lagi entah. At first she forbid hub and her othr children to go there too. Haiz...complicated!</font>
I asked, kita buat kenduri arwah ok?
Dia kata nak tny pakcik makcik nya.
As far as Im concern, they are all bo-chap. i doubt so.
MIL lagi entah. At first she forbid hub and her othr children to go there too. Haiz...complicated!</font>
smalldreams
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San
Oh, my condolences. You mean your FIL's body is overseas eh? Dah lah now dah kebumikan, that's all that matters.
Padan lah you not at the burial. Boleh siap buat assignments lagi. Rupanya body is not here.
Oh, my condolences. You mean your FIL's body is overseas eh? Dah lah now dah kebumikan, that's all that matters.
Padan lah you not at the burial. Boleh siap buat assignments lagi. Rupanya body is not here.
<font color="119911">NAw
yes its soo true abt indon!!!! no money no talk, u give me money ill do, u gv me less ill demand more, berapa pun kita kasi its NVR ENUF!!!
san
yes dats wat they wanted to initially & we noe we cant afford seh dat amt to brg back arwah.. n we will jus menyiksa arwah coz if bawa balik sini kena quarantined ingat senang ke nak kebumikan disini.. so much need to b done.. thus we settled it to be buried there & insyallah dec will menziarah kuburnya lagi</font>
yes its soo true abt indon!!!! no money no talk, u give me money ill do, u gv me less ill demand more, berapa pun kita kasi its NVR ENUF!!!
san
yes dats wat they wanted to initially & we noe we cant afford seh dat amt to brg back arwah.. n we will jus menyiksa arwah coz if bawa balik sini kena quarantined ingat senang ke nak kebumikan disini.. so much need to b done.. thus we settled it to be buried there & insyallah dec will menziarah kuburnya lagi</font>
<font color="ff6000">Smalldreams,
Ya, not in SG.
Buat assignmnts pon tk tenteram. Kip tryg luck to get thru my hub. Walaupon I tk prnh jmp my arwah FIL, I cn feel hub is not himself. I wish I can help further till dad sounded he's willing to go all out in getting it all done.</font>
Ya, not in SG.
Buat assignmnts pon tk tenteram. Kip tryg luck to get thru my hub. Walaupon I tk prnh jmp my arwah FIL, I cn feel hub is not himself. I wish I can help further till dad sounded he's willing to go all out in getting it all done.</font>
Yup i do agree. tats why org yg meninggal sewaktu Haj pun they prefer to buried there.
Betty yup aluminium is dangerous but i still did cost wise budget constraint. Tapi nasib i stay at HDB yg door to door. If i were to stay at along corridor nye where ppl can see inside ur house. i think have to use the wrought iron if not org bole pecah masuk seh..
Betty yup aluminium is dangerous but i still did cost wise budget constraint. Tapi nasib i stay at HDB yg door to door. If i were to stay at along corridor nye where ppl can see inside ur house. i think have to use the wrought iron if not org bole pecah masuk seh..
eliza_hairi
New Member
nshah, dah braper ari ni aku mkn / tido / segalanyer dgn Mark...
Mark exam paper laa.... jgn nak ingat lain ehh
Mark exam paper laa.... jgn nak ingat lain ehh
eliza_hairi
New Member
san,
my deepest condolences to you and your family
my deepest condolences to you and your family
smalldreams
Active Member
Nshah
tadi pagi i had 1 prata telor + 1 prata kosong, jadi sekarang masih kenyang. I have 2 Polar Chicken pies for standby though...hehehe....
Nora.R
mesti lah sis, kalau meninggal kat haji, takkan nak fly back to Singapore. Sedangkan kat australia, it takes $20K to fly back the body.
San
Kalau tak mo buat kenduri, you can just sedekahkan some food to the mosque and ask the mosque to read some doa for Almarhum. And of course, doa harus diteruskan setiap hari...that's all that's left for those people yang dah tinggalkan kita.
tadi pagi i had 1 prata telor + 1 prata kosong, jadi sekarang masih kenyang. I have 2 Polar Chicken pies for standby though...hehehe....
Nora.R
mesti lah sis, kalau meninggal kat haji, takkan nak fly back to Singapore. Sedangkan kat australia, it takes $20K to fly back the body.
San
Kalau tak mo buat kenduri, you can just sedekahkan some food to the mosque and ask the mosque to read some doa for Almarhum. And of course, doa harus diteruskan setiap hari...that's all that's left for those people yang dah tinggalkan kita.
<font color="0000ff">San
actually kan, dari apa yg i belajar.. dlm islam, dlm sunnah nabi SAW.. tak ada kenduri arwah.. org mlyu yg mengadakan nya.. and iye nya tak dituntun pun dlm islam sendiri.
dgn berdoa, berzikir waktu solat berterusan lebih afdal.
tak payah nak masak2 jamu selera.. tu semua buat bukan utk Almarhum sebenarnya tapi utk kita2 yg masih hidup berjamu selera.</font>
actually kan, dari apa yg i belajar.. dlm islam, dlm sunnah nabi SAW.. tak ada kenduri arwah.. org mlyu yg mengadakan nya.. and iye nya tak dituntun pun dlm islam sendiri.
dgn berdoa, berzikir waktu solat berterusan lebih afdal.
tak payah nak masak2 jamu selera.. tu semua buat bukan utk Almarhum sebenarnya tapi utk kita2 yg masih hidup berjamu selera.</font>
<font color="0000ff">Lina
yes.. takde istilah 7hari, 44hari, 100hari.. ni semua amalan bangsa lain.. kenapa kita org mlyu yg beragama islam nak samakan dgn agama lain??
i neo some of us still practise dat, and ada jugak yg terikut amalam dari org2 tua kita.. i'm just sharing what i have learn.. insya-allah kita sama2 dapat hidayahNya</font>
yes.. takde istilah 7hari, 44hari, 100hari.. ni semua amalan bangsa lain.. kenapa kita org mlyu yg beragama islam nak samakan dgn agama lain??
i neo some of us still practise dat, and ada jugak yg terikut amalam dari org2 tua kita.. i'm just sharing what i have learn.. insya-allah kita sama2 dapat hidayahNya</font>
<font color="119911">yup true apa lynn ckp.. its more to org melayu yg ada2 kan ni smua kenduri, tahlil smua
n even selalunya selepas perkebumian, balik ke rumah ada makanan utk dijamu kan?
bt its not supp to happen act, setakat memberi air kotak je cukup utk yg dahaga bt its not a must to give though.. n for my dad lagi if dijemput ada tahlil or kenduri arwah he will nvr menjamah makanan or minuman dirumah tersebut</font>
n even selalunya selepas perkebumian, balik ke rumah ada makanan utk dijamu kan?
bt its not supp to happen act, setakat memberi air kotak je cukup utk yg dahaga bt its not a must to give though.. n for my dad lagi if dijemput ada tahlil or kenduri arwah he will nvr menjamah makanan or minuman dirumah tersebut</font>
smalldreams
Active Member
zu
mak's home kat mana tu?
Your lunch sounds good!
I just had some fattening chicken pie. Habis lah this time i think i must've put on a lot of weight. In contrast to ramadhan, I cuma put on about 300 grams, tu pun most of weight gain goes to baby!
Lina
ak ah lah, sambal petang tu hapa? Sambal pagi ada tak?
mak's home kat mana tu?
Your lunch sounds good!
I just had some fattening chicken pie. Habis lah this time i think i must've put on a lot of weight. In contrast to ramadhan, I cuma put on about 300 grams, tu pun most of weight gain goes to baby!
Lina
ak ah lah, sambal petang tu hapa? Sambal pagi ada tak?