ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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mamaliz
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ahem....gal...aku msg msg kau hari tu kan...dah siap make up ....skali cermin ajer yg dapat tgk muka aku yg kiut ni...sob sob...
its over ehh....but every time kalau tgk dia kat fb kan....damn guilty sehhh...pasal they put up all the gathering pics n he just see n keep quiet...pasal dianya excited hari tu nak pergi is like budak2 nya excited tau...normally he likes to comment on his sch matesnya status...pics...but now he macam segan pasal tak pergi...so he nvr say a word to them now...
its over ehh....but every time kalau tgk dia kat fb kan....damn guilty sehhh...pasal they put up all the gathering pics n he just see n keep quiet...pasal dianya excited hari tu nak pergi is like budak2 nya excited tau...normally he likes to comment on his sch matesnya status...pics...but now he macam segan pasal tak pergi...so he nvr say a word to them now...
smalldreams
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Hello!
I tengah lunch ni, salted fish fried rice. Couldnt lunch earlier coz someone came to see me.
Mamaliz
Kalau nak buat open house ni semua, pakai $$ kan? U need to confirm their attendance before you proceed. IF not, a lot of effort & $$ would be wasted. Sekarang ni ekonomi very bad, I'll avoid having unnecessary gatherings where possible.
So sad, hari raya punya issue pun boleh jadi perselisihan paham. Baru mintak maaf 2 weeks ago...ehehe..
I tengah lunch ni, salted fish fried rice. Couldnt lunch earlier coz someone came to see me.
Mamaliz
Kalau nak buat open house ni semua, pakai $$ kan? U need to confirm their attendance before you proceed. IF not, a lot of effort & $$ would be wasted. Sekarang ni ekonomi very bad, I'll avoid having unnecessary gatherings where possible.
So sad, hari raya punya issue pun boleh jadi perselisihan paham. Baru mintak maaf 2 weeks ago...ehehe..
wati
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Liz, kalau aku, i will do, tapi tak payah lah nak catering2.. maybe after raya buat picnic ker outing. Tapi aku tak faham asal dia msg ex-schoolmate yg pompan tu, then she tak bawak laki and ada yg tak bawak bini..? Tu aku tak agree.. I mean it's gathering seh... and you all are SUPPOSE to catch up on NOW time and not the OLD times... Kau tak takut ker.. kalau dorang meet up ader pompan konon nak mengadu nasib dgn laki kau.. habis nanti.. hanyut.. You will never know.
Better you get into all pictures....
And FRENS.. there are no such thing as PLATONIC frienship between a man and a woman.
Better you get into all pictures....
And FRENS.. there are no such thing as PLATONIC frienship between a man and a woman.
mamaliz
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peah,...
yah money talks....but then again that day they make the gathering also money...they make souvenirs also money...he havent pay also...n the planner keep reminding them all to be present once they cfm coming...she keep harping on the time n effort they used to plan this...i baca i yg guilty.....pasal tu lah i put the money matter one side...
they all pon tak banyak sgt...bole masak sendirik..cuma macam not sure if i shud do it or not...kalau buat macam i sorang bersalah...kalau tak...kesian kan hubby...sheesh~~~~~
jgn cakap i....hehehehe...ada org i kenal pon 1st day raya, malamnya dah tak berbual...
yah money talks....but then again that day they make the gathering also money...they make souvenirs also money...he havent pay also...n the planner keep reminding them all to be present once they cfm coming...she keep harping on the time n effort they used to plan this...i baca i yg guilty.....pasal tu lah i put the money matter one side...
they all pon tak banyak sgt...bole masak sendirik..cuma macam not sure if i shud do it or not...kalau buat macam i sorang bersalah...kalau tak...kesian kan hubby...sheesh~~~~~
jgn cakap i....hehehehe...ada org i kenal pon 1st day raya, malamnya dah tak berbual...
mamaliz
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athlete...
im thinking along dat line also...maybe just ask nicely to cover more of our perselisihan ehh...hopefully he can see im trying to please him also...
he dont dwell but he feels the sadness tau...cuma diam ajerr..taknak talk abt it...
wati...
got one prob also with that one...nanti aku citer kat kau...another reason why aku mati mati nak ikut pada mulanya...
im thinking along dat line also...maybe just ask nicely to cover more of our perselisihan ehh...hopefully he can see im trying to please him also...
he dont dwell but he feels the sadness tau...cuma diam ajerr..taknak talk abt it...
wati...
got one prob also with that one...nanti aku citer kat kau...another reason why aku mati mati nak ikut pada mulanya...
<font color="ff6000">Wati, I agreed on that PLATONIC friendship!
Liz, bukan u sorang rasa mcm gini. I pon..even till now. Kalau ada gathering mana-mana, either satu family pergi or NONE unless ada halangan ie. kerja. Melainkan status masih single then OK lah but by now, majority i'm sure dah berumah-tangga + beranak-pinak.
Cheer up bebey!</font>
Liz, bukan u sorang rasa mcm gini. I pon..even till now. Kalau ada gathering mana-mana, either satu family pergi or NONE unless ada halangan ie. kerja. Melainkan status masih single then OK lah but by now, majority i'm sure dah berumah-tangga + beranak-pinak.
Cheer up bebey!</font>
smalldreams
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Agree with CIP, perempuan & lelaki can never have platonic relationship. Tak payah cakap orang lain, diri kita sendiri belum tentu.
Mamaliz
Do what you think is right then. Tapi kalau I, I won't do. Everyone has met last weekend. Finish story.
Mamaliz
Do what you think is right then. Tapi kalau I, I won't do. Everyone has met last weekend. Finish story.
I'm sooo sleepy at work...
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latonic r'ship
I dunno eh, I mean I have some guy friends, mainly ex-uni mates, ex-colleagues. So does my HB.
And if any meet-ups as long as its a group, I usually tak kisah, and vice versa.
But 1 thing that's a no-no for me, is giving someone of the opposite sex a lift in the car, even if its a friend, colleague etc.
This is actually a "sensitive" topic for us cos a few years ago, we had an "incident" re this already.
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latonic r'ship I dunno eh, I mean I have some guy friends, mainly ex-uni mates, ex-colleagues. So does my HB.
And if any meet-ups as long as its a group, I usually tak kisah, and vice versa.
But 1 thing that's a no-no for me, is giving someone of the opposite sex a lift in the car, even if its a friend, colleague etc.
This is actually a "sensitive" topic for us cos a few years ago, we had an "incident" re this already.
smalldreams
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Athlete
I pun ngantok ni. Baru habiskan a small bowl of warm cheng teng. Kepala masih pening. Maybe my body belum accustomed to office, after 4 days of mc last week & semalam off.
I pun agree with you, as much as possible, no taking a lift with opposite sex. I have a very good male buddy at work, but since I know hubby is not comfortable, I try to avoid being in the same car as him. I'd also not be happy if hubby kasi perempuan tumpang dlm kereta dia. I'll flip!
San
Ya lor, for me also, kalau ada gathering mana2, I'll bring my family. We're a family now, no longer zaman dulu2 where we're single & carefree.
I pun ngantok ni. Baru habiskan a small bowl of warm cheng teng. Kepala masih pening. Maybe my body belum accustomed to office, after 4 days of mc last week & semalam off.
I pun agree with you, as much as possible, no taking a lift with opposite sex. I have a very good male buddy at work, but since I know hubby is not comfortable, I try to avoid being in the same car as him. I'd also not be happy if hubby kasi perempuan tumpang dlm kereta dia. I'll flip!
San
Ya lor, for me also, kalau ada gathering mana2, I'll bring my family. We're a family now, no longer zaman dulu2 where we're single & carefree.
mamaliz
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i dulu pernah tau nak pi lunch ngan colleagues skali last minute tinggal me n my supervisor, i kancheong! pasal my thinking is dat what if sedara nampak n start a gossip ke? mulut kan bahaya....so i cepat2 calling2 hubby to inform him ah...nak reject lunch ngan dia camner? hubby plak blur...dia cakap pi ajer lunch...nanti tak sempat makan lapar plak....kekekekeke...so i jalan keep a good distance n bual pasal kerja ajerr...abis makan terus rush back....hahahaha....aku yg melebih, laki aku blur~!
wati
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Athlete, same here. I have tonnes of guy frens.. Tapi i realised after they all are married, we are not as close as before.. So i assume that they wife were all sombong. Tapi i quickly came to my senses. I mean i tanyer diri sendiri.. kalau aku confirm tak happy per kalau laki aku ada BUDDY perempuan.. hahah.
I am very close to them as in i will let them comb my hair when it's messy.. hehehe.. betul tau. Abit rugged ler..
I am very close to them as in i will let them comb my hair when it's messy.. hehehe.. betul tau. Abit rugged ler..
smalldreams
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*takes a comb & combs Wati's hair.
Pas tu buat plaits*
Pas tu buat plaits*
smalldreams
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Lynzi
Carik kutu lah....heheehhe, main2 je eh Cip Wati
Carik kutu lah....heheehhe, main2 je eh Cip Wati
momma_naqi
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cecah sambal kicap
wati
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Smalldreams.. aper plak nak kecik hati.. Kau tak nampak ada kutu besar yg aku perlihara kat kepala aku tu.. nampak tau...? Shh.. dia tgh sleep. Memang waktu nap dia tu pun.. Jap lagi dia bangun, siap lah tu.. mengamok tak tentu pasal kelaparan... dah aku kena gigit jari ku kasi berdarah.. terus susu kan kutu ku tu..
HAHAHAHA................. Gatal tak kepala korang bila aku ckp pasal kutu ??? Hahahhahehehehe... (Siao mode)
PEMENANG NYA ADALAH.... LIZ & MAS !!! Anda telah memenangi $50 Voucher AKSI MAT YOYO !!! Kerana tepat meneka "SAMBAL KICAP"
HAHAHAHA................. Gatal tak kepala korang bila aku ckp pasal kutu ??? Hahahhahehehehe... (Siao mode)
PEMENANG NYA ADALAH.... LIZ & MAS !!! Anda telah memenangi $50 Voucher AKSI MAT YOYO !!! Kerana tepat meneka "SAMBAL KICAP"
mamaliz
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lynzi...
pandai dia!!! kekekekekeke
athlete....
yg macam donut tu but the dough is chewy!! i kasi u link...dont drool horrr....
http://www.chewyjunior.com.sg/aboutus.html
pandai dia!!! kekekekekeke
athlete....
yg macam donut tu but the dough is chewy!! i kasi u link...dont drool horrr....
http://www.chewyjunior.com.sg/aboutus.html
smalldreams
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Mdm Wati
eleh aku pun tau lah pasal kicap tu...tapi takpe, kasi chance Liz & mas menang present.
Dulu tiap2 minggu hantar poskad kat Aksi mat yoyo, satu habuk pun tak memang.
Yeah, maybe keeping kutus as pets is something some pple like. Tapi takpe lah eh... hahaha.. I'd rather donate my blood to the more deserving
Btw can I ask you gals for an opinion?
I have a very elderly neighbour (think she's about in her 70s). Sebelum hari raya, she told my son, Adam, nanti hari raya datang rumah Nenek ok! Tapi bila raya dah sampai, she actually knocked on my door & gave Adam duit raya. My hubby dah cakap before that, nanti kita pergi rumah Cik time raya, tapi dia tak respond. Sebaliknye dia kasi Adam duit raya kat pintu. Does that mean I can skip her house? Or should I still visit? Takut nanti dia ingat kita ni tak reti bahasa pulak.
eleh aku pun tau lah pasal kicap tu...tapi takpe, kasi chance Liz & mas menang present.
Dulu tiap2 minggu hantar poskad kat Aksi mat yoyo, satu habuk pun tak memang.
Yeah, maybe keeping kutus as pets is something some pple like. Tapi takpe lah eh... hahaha.. I'd rather donate my blood to the more deserving
Btw can I ask you gals for an opinion?
I have a very elderly neighbour (think she's about in her 70s). Sebelum hari raya, she told my son, Adam, nanti hari raya datang rumah Nenek ok! Tapi bila raya dah sampai, she actually knocked on my door & gave Adam duit raya. My hubby dah cakap before that, nanti kita pergi rumah Cik time raya, tapi dia tak respond. Sebaliknye dia kasi Adam duit raya kat pintu. Does that mean I can skip her house? Or should I still visit? Takut nanti dia ingat kita ni tak reti bahasa pulak.
<font color="aa00aa">liz,
is it?
baguslah gitu..senang kiter yg tinggal north ni.
sejak northpoint dah reno ni bagus ah..nak carik bakerzin pun tak payah pegi jauh2..
few months ago dorang punya cheesecake going for 50% disc..kat town ni semua sold out..kat sana nasib masih ada lagi..</font>
is it?
baguslah gitu..senang kiter yg tinggal north ni.
sejak northpoint dah reno ni bagus ah..nak carik bakerzin pun tak payah pegi jauh2..
few months ago dorang punya cheesecake going for 50% disc..kat town ni semua sold out..kat sana nasib masih ada lagi..</font>