ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

[shahlynn]

{The more we have, the more we want.}

but how often are we able to difrentiate need & want?

 

[noni1]

*yawn*

semue pegi belik karipap eh?

 

[shahlynn]

nora,
tak....
sumer gi ikut mamaliz antar hilmi to the bus

 

[shahlynn]

notyy... notty...

 

[noni1]

 

[Ibu Love]

<font color="000000">ape slynn..aku tengah fikiran nie..kira, kira, boleh buat tak nie..hehhee</font>

 

[shahlynn]

notty,
kau pernah mention, rambut kau pun rosak kan?

 

[smalldreams]

Shahlynn
Bak kata pepatah, besar periuk, besarlah keraknyer...

Anyway I'm just wondering something.
I'm thinking of taking no pay leave (testing how it feels to be a SAHM) for a few mths. Tapi eh, how about allowance to my parents eh? It may sound stupid, but how does a SAHM provide allowance to her parents? Hubby kasi ke?

 

[Ibu Love]

<font color="000000">Slynn
arr'arr..split ends lah...apasat.</font>

 

[shahlynn]

{Bak kata pepatah, besar periuk, besarlah keraknyer}

is it a penyakit, or lumrah hidup?


Notty,
i just remembered. kau pernah try Vitane hair system?
aku pernah try... ada improvement sikit.
sikit sebab aku gunakan adik aku punyer...
aku tak ngecek, but orang offer, takkan aku nak tolak...
kau try... its good.

 

[nshah]

<font color="119911">my hair lately byk break seh..
is it becoz of my rebond &amp; normal hair bertemu?
keeps breaking, snapping along e way as i brush my hair</font>

 

[mira_tan]

smalldream,
Does your boss allow that? Is it necessary to do that?

 

[shahlynn]

my hair prob - no split ends...
but now sprouting grey hair...
please arrrr... aku blom tua tau!

my harsben spent 30mins every evening, cabut my grey hair... masih banyak ahh

 

[smalldreams]

mira
What do you mean is it necessary to do that?
Child care mah...plus, I usually won't get a chance to take such a long leave except for after a maternity leave period. My boss should allow lah, tak allow apa pulak seh.

So my qn is, for SAHMs, how do we get $$ to give parents as allowance?

 

[shahlynn]

mira,
normally gahmen sector allows dat...
more so she wif MCYS.

 

[nshah]

<font color="119911">Slynn
entah eh dgr2 e more u cabut e more it will kuar kan?
so far me got no split ends, cuma my hair cam dah tak strong ah, n keeps falling like nobody biz</font>

 

[mira_tan]

smalldreams,
No other meaning.....
$$$ to give parents, of course from husband since SAHM does not have income....unless you have other income or you got saving or the money drop from sky....hihihihi(sorry eh...no other meaning)just joking....

 

[noni1]

Pe'ah

did u see this morning i post link abt karipap triangle?

anyway, for a short while that i was not working (abt 9 mths) i tak kasi alliowance to my mum.
And I was very disciplined with spending too.

shahlynn
banyak yer kau cabut, tak botak ker??

 

[smalldreams]

mira
ouh, like that one eh? Hmm... my hubby also income not very regular, and i'll feel terrible if i ask him for $$ for my parents. Yeah guess savings is the only alternative. hmmm... thanks for yr opinions.

$$ drop from sky? Na-uh, no chance of that happening at all.

 

[noni1]

nshah

try the pantene or sunsilk shampoo for hair breakage

i dun have this problem tho (so far)

 

[noni1]

Pe'ah

its nice u ade option to take no-pay leave

This is what my boss say abt maternity leave "if we can get by without a staff for 3 mths, then we dun need them at all"
ooppsss.. now lagi 4 mths..ouch!!!

 

[smalldreams]

Nora
I saw! Tapi dorang tak tarok minimum amt before they can deliver eh?

Thanks for sharing abt that SAHM-ing thing. Idea jugak tak kasi allowance, tapi kesian pulak coz my mom quit to help take care of Adam. Jadi, takkan dia kering kontang nanti eh? Or maybe I give less lah.

Disciplined in spending tu sudah tentu. I'll remove the Sprees link from my favourites. Or maybe cabut my broadband wire jadi no access to online shopping. Jadi hermit aje.

What yr boss said *IS* ouch! Sebab tu I also feel for pple who fear for loss of jobs after returning from maternity....

 

[nshah]

<font color="119911">NAw
hmm i tink ive tried sunsilk, pantene, dove, clairol smua sama je

pelik ah dulu masa rebond i was soo happy my hair dont fall dat much, bt as mths passed by more n more n now even worst breaks while im brushing it</font>

 

[mamaliz]

peah

curik duit hubby? muekekekekekeke *evil smile*

tak ahh...ni semua pepandai sendiri n also lain keluarga lain pendidikannya...ada mak bapak harap sangat duit dari anak so anak kena kerja n kasi atau suami yg kasi lah...(hopefullu hubby loaded)
ada pulak mak bapak tak harapkan anak kasi apa apa...selain dari kebahagiaan sekeluarga...(ni bahsa family independent)
ada pulak..ada rezeki lebih kasi mak/bapak...kalau tak...setakat kasi buah tangan n keep them happy....(i fell into this category n sadly when my life is much better to share w her she's gone too soon...)

 

[smalldreams]

Mamaliz
kalau hubby ada banyak $$, that's an option to consider, kekeke! Tapi apa kan daya...

What you said is betul jugak. Ni semua terbagi pada expectations masing2. I think I'll consider giving a bit instead of full amt since insya-Allah nanti I'll care for both my children. Hopefully she'll also appreciate the free time she has before she starts jaga budak full-time again.

I think you've done yr part, it's the thought that counts. At least sempat jugak you contribute to your mom &amp; make her happy

 

[noni1]

pe'ah

no minimum order. delivery charge $5

today's berita harian front page got the ad

 

[nshah]

<font color="119911">NAw
i aru nampaj ur karipap link, if only i saw it from last wk bleh i order utk tadinya potluck</font>

 

[shahlynn]

liz,
i feel dat i gave my mom too little...
but wat to do, itu jer ku mampu...
i still need for myself, susu, groceries...

but whenever i teringin nak makan aper2,
i'll buy &amp; eat at her place. so dia pun dapat rasa.

weekends i masak, she takyah masak...
i hantar seperiuk lauk....
yes, she checks my multiply often...
check i masak apa2 special...
if she havent receive, she'll kol &amp; ngecek...
hehhe.. so cute!

if i btol2 tight, i'll tell her i kasi her kurang.
den, following mth, i kasi her the shortfall on top of her full allowance....

 

[shahlynn]

to answer peah's question...
when i was on maternity leave, i gave her kurang..
when she asked, i said,
"tak jaga cucu.. so dapat kurang... dah bagus tu gaji jalan!"
or
"majikan tutup kedai 3bulan... pekerja kena amik unpaid leave oso."
hehehe

 

[shahlynn]

oooiiiii.....
korang sumer pun tengah apply unpaid leave 3 bulan kappa?

 

[noni1]

aku pening tengok serial number kotak

 

[maswan02]

hello hello

Nak tanya lah

Marsyha baru baik demam, flu &amp; phlegm
fr yesterday her fingers &amp; arms rasa sejuk2 like sweating...asal eh???

 

[shahlynn]

aku pening tengok grey hair aku...
bukan uban eh! grey hair jer!

 

[mira_tan]

Dan, excited on the returns of the father...hahaha...joking
Marsyha seem quite weak...did you see doctor?

 

[noni1]

Danryan

kalau cam gitu something wrong ke??

i pun not sure.

 

[shahlynn]

dan,
bagus lah tu...
she perspiring... getting better.

 

[maswan02]

shahlynn

bila touch sejuk je...risau jugak dong...

Marsyha's voice dah macam ELLA.

Bibik sibuk kat dapur preparing the rencah for sambal goreng pengantin

tomorrow masak nasi sambal goreng, kueh keria &amp; ondeh2

 

[shahlynn]

dan,
dia dah tak fever kan?
if her temp 35+, 36 tu kira okaylah...

 

[maswan02]

in dat case besok she can follow to the airport...

bfast kat sana sambil waiting.....

nari SONYAP je

 

[mamaliz]

sowi....tadi sibuk kat dapor..masak kari daging...now ngah temankan hilmi nap nap...

 

[nshah]

<font color="119911">e time so damn slow today</font>

 

[shahlynn]

mamaliz masak kari daging lah....
tak kirai roti skali?

liz,
kol 5 aku sampai rumah kau...
nak aku passing2 kan pada Dan, lina, mira tak?

mas, nora &amp; notty suruh dorang amek sendiri..
out of the way lah!

 

[momma_naqi]

roti kirai...bestkan...
aku bleh makan sampai 3 keping seh....daging potong kecik2 ...letak kentang....yummilicious

 

[mamaliz]

kekekekeke....cute eh kau ni shahlynn....

hubby aku takler umah hari ni..aku masak satu periuk cenonet ajer sizenya.... bahsa kalau adult dua kali makan nya...

next time kalau korang datang ramai ramai baru aku keluarkan periuk besau ehhhh

roti malas nak kirai kalau makan cuma me n kids ajerr...nanti hubby merajuk makan sedap sedap w/o him...

 

[shahlynn]

mas,
kau nyer 3 keping tu, roti kirai lipat or roti kirai gulung?

kalau yg lipat cecah kari, 3 keping pada aku tak cukup....
min 5 keping @ 1 seating...
takder tenok orang blakang punyer....

 

[mamaliz]

mas...

3 keping ajerr?!!! aku menang ah gitu!!! wakakakaka

kasi aku roti kirai ngan kari daging...aku boleh ngap 6 keping!!!
masa aku budak budak dulu , one of my granduncle jual roti kirai...sukaaa aku tido umah dia..jadi breakfast jer mata aku terbeliak tengok meja full of kirais n periuks of kari daging~~~~~

 

[shahlynn]

roti kirai, aku faveret ngan kari daging, ayam merah or sambal tumis udang....
salad telur!
fuuuyooohhhh!!!!!
tu sebab 3 keping tak cukup...

for my family of 10, kalau roti kirai mesti tepung 2kg! AT LEAST!!! baru puas makan.

 

[mira_tan]

Bye, going home.

 

[momma_naqi]

eh roti kirai lipat yg triangle lah...

woit kan nanti bila da minum air da kenyang....ishh...tapi betul akalua da salad telor...n sambal udang /ikan bilis....huh power teramak....laki aku boring bila aku masak roti kirai sebab dia tak suka roti kirai...aku plak suka kirai seh

 

[mamaliz]

*burp* alhamdulillah...

bye bye miraaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

2kg? penatnyaaaaaaaaaaaa.......