ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

[momma_naqi]

nottygal,
aku nya rocher nak postponed to 01/05 and aku nak brownies as well ..both aku amik on labour day can??

 

[nshah]

<font color="119911">san
smlm baru je ah bbual kosong bt she very e impatient lah nari dia dah kuar pi cari seh.. boring gak act

coz laki bini will do bis in KL bt skg tgh nak set up slowly thus e anak will b left in my care, baju, makan tido dia smua ku nak jaga tak sanggup seh.. so if she nak amik biar she pay mostly baru to me FAIR. of coz dear ill tell her berapa je i can afford lah</font>

 

[mira_tan]

Nshahi,
Not only their salary you have to paid. don't forget the Levy..S$170/month.. and their makan...my agenct told me with one maid around, our expense will increase around S$700 to S$800 per month. because they will use more water,electricity, food. so PUB bills will increase and food also...

 

[shahlynn]

nshah,
if I were you... IF ajer..
i wont bother paying for the maid...
pandai2 dia lah.. afterall, ur budget always tight.. so, save some for urself.
talk to her about ur expectations...

Sorry hor...

 

[nshah]

<font color="119911">mira
tx for reminding me on that.. ok ill lay out the consequences to her later..</font>

 

[momma_naqi]

nshahi,
agree wiz shahlynn juz my POV...
for all these while kau tak ada maid pun ok per...
kau rela nak fork out another $300 ??

 

[mira_tan]

nshahi,
If apply, using your name?

 

[hanasan]

<font color="ff6000">Im using coy's email. Sent abt a week ago?</font>

 

[noni1]

nottygal
dah reply... hehhehe

nshah
sekarang ur SIL tengah loaded so cakap kosong terus menjadi
tapi bukit di korek korek lama lama flat jugak

anak dia di tinggalkan, then they not concern on his studies welfare etc?

 

[maswan02]

<font color="ff0000">Mira

true all expenses semua naik...up up and awayyyyyyyy</font>

 

[shahlynn]

i can be very nice &amp; sweet lil girl next door...
and i can be very effing anal...
IF i were you.. IF eh...
I would choose to be very anal... Anak sendiri takleh jaga, kena sibuk jaga anak orang...
Seriously, at times, u have to set ur priorities straight &amp; think for yourself..

 

[Ibu Love]

<font color="000000">Nora
ape hehhehehe..replied u!</font>

 

[hanasan]

<font color="ff6000">Duuuuh, not ez to have a maid arnd eh. Wen u guys talk abt this...mcm ngeri gitu bt of course I'm left with no choice unless mom wants to tc again. Envy to those who hv gd maid to tc of everythg.</font>

 

[nshah]

<font color="119911">Slynn
act kan mmg pun plan aku nak buat camtu, eksen je ah ni oh tu.. tp malas ku nak fork out duit..
janji if she amik, serve my house dats priority ah sal duk in my house pe bt of coz i still do my own things cuma or even dulu pun i cuma minta tlg e maid to help me mop, tukar langsir je lain smua me buat..

naqi
if she ask me to fork out byk tu i dont tink i ada pung.. labih baik aku kuar dat amt amik utk aku sendiri or letak dlm CDA acct anak2 aku seh.. if dat amt mmg not agreeable.

NAw
tulah skg tgh byk duit can sayg bIG bt once dah berlobang smua push kat kita..

n yes shes gg to use my name coz she no house now mah? so if apply under my name kira dah kasi my service kan? so i dont tink i wanna fork out any for e maid...</font>

 

[maswan02]

<font color="ff0000">Nshah

u really want to use yr name...???

tak takut ke?????</font>

 

[mira_tan]

San,
You using suhami suhana sent on 1 april, right? I call them liao...they will look into it... they said they are super busy last week till now...

 

[nshah]

<font color="119911">dan
takut apa? coz e last one pun kai my name.. so far nothing happened ah coz e maid sendiri tau with whom she dealt with alot... thus she tak buat apa2 ah coz like i said mmg ku tak kuasa as i dont pay bt jgn langgar or go against my stuff ah..</font>

 

[mira_tan]

Oh ya, San, they want me to say Sorry to you.

 

[shahlynn]

nshah,
so many ppl, promise lain, sampai masa lain...

 

[mira_tan]

I can feel is not easy to work in Nshashi house...got two mdm...maid sure "panah kepala"(correct spellng)

 

[shahlynn]

panah kepala = arrow head?

 

[noni1]

nshah

If ur SIL change her address in IC to ur address, which she shd by law since she doenst have her own house

she can take maid in her name

sekali in future she buat bodoh tak bayar gaji or levy.. dah gahmen kejar kau...

 

[mira_tan]

nshah,
check with the agency and find out more information first before you discuss with SIL. When we apply maid, they only see the income tax, right? maybe, there is a way that you can put under her name. Unless you want the maid belongs to you jer.

 

[maswan02]

<font color="ff0000">Yeah bebeh.....betul tu nora...gahmen don't play play</font>

 

[nshah]

<font color="119911">NAw
hmm coz now she nak kan levy murah nya pasal sbb tu dia ckp nak kai nama i.. c how lah ill discuss again ah dgn dorang including hub gak</font>

 

[momma_naqi]

shahlynn,
manusia standard...blum kluar duit semua OK GO..bila time nak kena kluar duit....hmmm 1001 alasan diorang akan kasi

 

[shahlynn]

nshah,
sorry, no offence...
but u amik part time maid from masjid Al-Iman suah.
$12 per hour. suruh dia sental ur house every sunday. bayar, and OUT!
ask ur SIL to ketepikan duit for dat. She pay u, den u arrange for the maid to come over.

 

[noni1]

shalynn / naqi

konsep tu ku namakan

KALAU ade duit and
BILA ade duit

eg.
my PIL say

KALAU Ayah ade duit, ayah ajak anak anak dan cucu cucu semuer makan angin.. ramai ramai kite enjoy satu family

Tetapi BILA ayah dah ade duit (jual rumah),

tak pun kite pi holiday ramai ramai tapi ayah beli kerate, beli TV etc..

Sekian

 

[noni1]

Another eg

KALAU ayah ade duit, mak kau rilek jer
tak payah masak, nak makan kite makan luar
tak payah susah susah anak semuer dah besar


BILA ayah ade duit.. ayah kawen lagi satu...yeah!!!!
(Pedulik ape mak kau)

 

[mira_tan]

my PIL say

KALAU Ayah ade duit, ayah ajak anak anak dan cucu cucu semuer makan angin.. ramai ramai kite enjoy satu family.

Nora, my FIL also said that also.

 

[shahlynn]

hahahhaha!!!!
Nora,
VERY FUNNY....

KALAU aku ada duit, aku bayar duit Cik minah kau.

BILA duit masuk NANTI, aku nak bayar duit Cik Minah kau dulu

TAPI BILA duit DAH masuk, lain stori lah!
hehehhe


Sekian dan Salam Muhibbah

 

[nshah]

<font color="119911">Slynn
yup i did raised abt dat to MIL skit hari coz seems she needed 1 too lah.. bt i told her for wat nak byr maid mahal gila seh skg.. also i do hope she will talked or ask permission from her bro, my hub too for taking a maid.. coz my hub mmg tak suka maid dah tu if now amik no bilik for maid at all.. </font>

 

[momma_naqi]

nora,
wohooo very da gud example lah dey..

 

[noni1]

Kelakar kan..makes a big difference tau KALAU and BILA

 

[hanasan]

<font color="ff6000">Nshahi,
What the gerls say are true. You may want to raise it to ur SIL. Fight now than later cos it involves ur name.

Mira,
No worries. =)</font>

 

[shahlynn]

Nora, Naqi,
yg lagi KELAKAR kan....
everyone dah tahu bila si dekni, dektu kluarkan duit CPF. Si anak2 tak heran tau... Tu duit mak, ayah... mak ayah simpan la..
tapi kan, adik bradik dah sibuk dulu... tanya, kita nyer share braper? and ada yg dah sound nak pinjam ah!

 

[shahlynn]

nshah,
if ur MIL need a maid, amik kat KL lah.. there cheaper rite?

 

[noni1]

shahlynn
so so true....
banyak sharks dah circle circle..

In fact time PIL jual rumah pun makcik makcik dah tanyer hb dorang adik beradik dapat brape

Tapi answer yer is Zilch. Nil. Ilek.

 

[hanasan]

<font color="ff6000">Shahlynn,
Now maid at M'sia pon dah mahal sey...
Last wknds, my prnts went back to Malacca and my aunty tgh pening kepala to hire a maid cos left with no choice too. Need to upfrnt RM5000 to the agent.</font>

 

[shahlynn]

hahahha....
Great White Sharks hokay, dun play play...

the anak2 sikit pun tak heran, tak tanya...


we ever watched a program where si anak dah berebut harta parents kat kubur...
i told my mom... mak, kalau kita, kita taknak duit mak lah... kita berebutkan mak punyer buku resepi! ancient woi!!!

 

[mira_tan]

San, I thought still cheaper than Singapore. but do they have any levy to pay...how much is their salay.

 

[shahlynn]

nora,
bila part tolong bayarkan household expenses, macam2 alasan ada... semua buat bodoh! bila part jual rumah, dapat hasil, tuntut harta pusaka ah!

 

[mamaliz]

last wk sumone asked me regarding my reno payments...i terlepas cakap i bayar in full..tak nak hutang hutang....so she knows i got a bit of cash from my house selling...suddenly last nite call me ask wen im free cos nak kasi i barang...
i say busy pasal nak pindah then say its imporatant to meet me cos she been wanting to give me my bday present....huh??? my bday was last yr december lehhh...
some more add in that itsnsumthing very special...a Rolex watch....huh? but she knows i dont wear watches cos i alwaysssss break my watches n even clocks....claims she been wanting to give it to me...padahal we been meeting each other a few times ...hmmmm?
HOW WEIRD IS THAT?

 

[hanasan]

<font color="ff6000">Mira,
Salary more or less like maids working in SG. Levy is payable at one lump sum. Mayb that's the reason it mark up to RM5000?</font>

 

[mamaliz]

shahlynn

suruh ur mum photocopy buku resepi...jadi anak tak berebut...kekekekekeke...

 

[noni1]

mamaliz
damn weird...

maybe the rolex got hocus pocus... tak pernah pulak orang nak kasi aku rolex.. swatch pernah lah.

 

[shahlynn]

Liz,
kat mana ada gula, kat situ ada semut...
kat mana ada kedoodle, kat situ lalat suka
kat SIAPA ada duit, kat situ banyak members!

 

[hanasan]

<font color="ff6000">Nshahi,

FYI...Just received a reply from Kent.

Our agency fee : $168 (up front loan) or $368 (post dated cheque) Package Fee

Additional $100 for experience or non muslim fdw.

Insurance standard package $192.60 or $246.10(W/waiver protection)

Currently our Indon Fdw salary has increase to $330(fresh) , $360(experience or non muslim)
both are no day off for 2yrs.
</font>

 

[shahlynn]

liz,
suruh photocopy, semua buat tak dengar...
tapi kalau dah photocopy kan, semua tangan ringan...
hehehhe

no,lah... actually kan.. memang kita taknak photocopy. coz wen u dah bukak buku tu besar2 to zap, dia jadi loose &amp; senang tanggal...

 

[mira_tan]

Mamaliz, be careful.

San,
I see.