I am in my mid-40s, been working in the same company for many years and consider having a stable job. Had a P3 daughter. Due to job expansion before covid, i was assigned to a scope which I totally no experience. However, with positive mindset & encouragement from my superior, i took up the challenge. It was a struggle for the past 2-3yrs, as my portfolio was very wide, i spent a lot of time (even on wkends) to learn the rope, sacrificing a lot of family time and somewhat did not pay much attention on my child’s studies and family.
I actually come to my senses when my girl show me her class test result which was a worrying concern. She failed terribly and that actually is my wake up call. Over the 2-3yrs, i had lotsa arguement with my hub, who should teach my girl etc as We are both busy with our work. Some may say sub out, but how about daily homework. Math is not as easy as my time. I have been struggling over the thoughts of resignation. Firstly, i am tired of this new expanded job scope, it is totally not my field. Also, i spent so much time n effort, end up my career is neither here nor there. My major concern is still my girl, i felt i can spend more time with her. To coach her, maybe not academic buy character building which has been neglected. I am afraid if by teens its too late. Have any mums here able to share your experience of sacrifing your career for your child? I do not want to put a stop to my career, i meant to be just a career break, afterall i have been working nonstop for 25yrs since graduated. Will I be able to rejoin the workforce after my girl went to Sec sch? Thats like 2-3yra later.
I actually come to my senses when my girl show me her class test result which was a worrying concern. She failed terribly and that actually is my wake up call. Over the 2-3yrs, i had lotsa arguement with my hub, who should teach my girl etc as We are both busy with our work. Some may say sub out, but how about daily homework. Math is not as easy as my time. I have been struggling over the thoughts of resignation. Firstly, i am tired of this new expanded job scope, it is totally not my field. Also, i spent so much time n effort, end up my career is neither here nor there. My major concern is still my girl, i felt i can spend more time with her. To coach her, maybe not academic buy character building which has been neglected. I am afraid if by teens its too late. Have any mums here able to share your experience of sacrifing your career for your child? I do not want to put a stop to my career, i meant to be just a career break, afterall i have been working nonstop for 25yrs since graduated. Will I be able to rejoin the workforce after my girl went to Sec sch? Thats like 2-3yra later.