Dear all, thanks for the encouragement. I was bleeding badly, so doctor advised to do D&C in case of infection.
It was an emotional day, my first time in the operating theatre and I kept crying and thinking about my baby from the previous scan when I last saw the heartbeat flickering well. The GA knocked me out, and when I woke up, the gynae showed me a cup of blood tissue and said it was the foetus sucked out, cannot determine the baby form but I was heartbroken.
I have been reading some of your posts silently, thanks for the advice, I learnt more from you girls than my doctor.
Don't know what to do for mini confinement, I only ordered lunch from natal essentials but the food was a bit oily.
Sunshine: thanks for concern, will stay strong and look forward to ttc again. Really appreciate your support.
Tethysea and lynzi: thanks for letting me know pros and cons of d&c, had to make a quick decision these two days especially with my cramps getting too painful.
Got back home and resting now cos I feel very dizzy, I wonder whether I can continue to take the folic/iron pills along with the antibiotics prescribed after d&c. Feeling quite nauseous, don't feel like talking to family members for no reason