Rocco: the bb whisperer book is abt interacting with ur newborn in a more effective way. You'll be able to identify your bb's patterns as according to the book bb's generally fall into 5 types. There are diff approaches according to each type. It's quite a highly acclaimed book comparable to the "what to expect" series. Once you've identified which type ur bb falls into, it'll be easier to communicate and train ur bb and can reduce lots of frustrations from both sides...