jascmy,
to others, these are light chores becos they dont understand..but now we cannot stand so long..i may be over-paranoid, but i heard some real stories already.. u tell him baby can come out early, its very dangerous!..will he bear to see baby on tubes lying in NICU for 3mths? he will cry i believe..and tell him for a 5-bedder B2 ward, it cost 56k for baby 3mth stay.. for a 4-bedder B1 wards, it costs 96k.. ask him who bear the cost..