Blue,
I experienced the same problem, my baby is being fed much more than recommended, all because of my confinement nanny, she keeps feeding her whenever she wakes up, to the point that my baby drinks 150ml ebm in less than 2 hrs when she is only 1 week old. My nanny keep telling me baby is hungry and my bm is too dilated and watery as compared to fm so baby is not full.
Until a point in time i cannot take it anymore, i insist on latching on full, but initial stage very difficult coz i started late, i started on her 2-3 week of birth, by then, baby have already gotten used to bottle and always fall asleep aft 5-10mins of latching on, end up she is not full from the latch on, and she would fuss and cry. Somemore when i pump out, my ss is only approx 40-50ml both breasts (aft 45mins-1hr single pump). i'm still persisting on latching on now, think if you latch on and baby is used to it, her time spent on ur breast will increase and she will be fuller. Also, your body will stimulate more milk production each time she latches on. NOw i can pump out approx 80-90ml aft about 1 week of latching on.
I feed her fm in the night when my nanny looks aft her, then i will wake up and pump, store for the next day. If the next day she fuss and refuse latch on, i will feed her the ebm frm last night (if she keep on crying). Else, i will try to latch on if she doesnt reject and doesnt cry too hard...
Hope this info is useful to you