hanabiwaiwai
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my entercounter with a big bully mother and her big bully son at Ikea @Tampines today:
i was standing at the side of child playing area in the centre of the restaurant, watching my #1 playing. then came along a massive auntie who "die die" must squeeze next to me, so I moved further away.
her son, about 5-6 years old, was also playing in the area. he was pushing his way along the side of the area, where toys are mounted on and many other younger kids (including my #1) were playing. his massive mother didn't do anything to stop his son from stepping on other kids, until he was about to step on my #1, i stretched my arm to stop him, then she said "son, that auntie (referring to me) is upset with what you are doing.." i just feel that she is not really discipling her son.
after a while my #1 nearly rolled down the stairs at the exit. she cried loudly, me of course heart pain. i asked hubby what happened as i didn't see clearly from there. he told me that another kid (not that big bully) pushed her. i just asked him "who?" then that massive auntie, like very sensitive like that, said "no on pushed your daughter." we didn't talk to her leh, think she scared we were trying to accuse his big bully son.
then she added "if u let your child to play here, u cannot avoid her from being pushed" we were busy pacifying my #1, whose upper lip was swollen from the fall, so i didn't reply her. but i feel that she is NOT qualified to say that. she is a big bully herself (from the first part of the story), then her son is also a big bully. my kid and other kids are victims! ok, say i'm kan-cheong parent, but i think that massive auntie is quite heartless to say this kind of 風涼話
like mother like son loh... just count ourselves unlucky to encounter this kind of people
i was standing at the side of child playing area in the centre of the restaurant, watching my #1 playing. then came along a massive auntie who "die die" must squeeze next to me, so I moved further away.
her son, about 5-6 years old, was also playing in the area. he was pushing his way along the side of the area, where toys are mounted on and many other younger kids (including my #1) were playing. his massive mother didn't do anything to stop his son from stepping on other kids, until he was about to step on my #1, i stretched my arm to stop him, then she said "son, that auntie (referring to me) is upset with what you are doing.." i just feel that she is not really discipling her son.
after a while my #1 nearly rolled down the stairs at the exit. she cried loudly, me of course heart pain. i asked hubby what happened as i didn't see clearly from there. he told me that another kid (not that big bully) pushed her. i just asked him "who?" then that massive auntie, like very sensitive like that, said "no on pushed your daughter." we didn't talk to her leh, think she scared we were trying to accuse his big bully son.
then she added "if u let your child to play here, u cannot avoid her from being pushed" we were busy pacifying my #1, whose upper lip was swollen from the fall, so i didn't reply her. but i feel that she is NOT qualified to say that. she is a big bully herself (from the first part of the story), then her son is also a big bully. my kid and other kids are victims! ok, say i'm kan-cheong parent, but i think that massive auntie is quite heartless to say this kind of 風涼話
like mother like son loh... just count ourselves unlucky to encounter this kind of people
