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Well,the counsellor did gave us some advises. Such as changing our response ir reaction so that we wun end up quarrelling. Sometimes it's small things that she answered or me will trigger a big reaction. And we got into quarelling. We did try to have HTHT but then seems like the way we think...

Well,the counsellor did gave us some advises. Such as changing our response ir reaction so that we wun end up quarrelling. Sometimes it's small things that she answered or me will trigger a big reaction. And we got into quarelling.

Well, we have 2 kids. We are looking after them ourselves. We did went to several dates occasionally when she can take leave. But then, things aren't really improving. Theres only so much in a few days holidays can do. Any longer term solution?

Just to add... might as well tell more of the story so that people will understand situation better. Some 2 mths ago, I discovered my wife is having flirtious msgs exchange with one of her colleague. Her colleague lived near us and so therefore got give her a lift or send her home some times...

Well,my wife and I are married with 2 kids for almost 12 yrs already. Had to say we enjoyed the intimate times before wedding (definately) and then even after we have our 1st child, the intimacy and sex was still was quite alright. But after 2nd child, I think we have already stopped...

Hi, for me, my wife dun like to hold hands or come close to me nor initiate sex nowadays. I'm the one who wants it. It's frustrating I know cos since my love language is touch. I do not feel any love from her if these are missing. So, usually I feel better after we have sex, that is my love tank...

Haha, same situation bro. I understand how u feel! She is just not speaking our love language! NO matter how much we want,even talked about it. But talk is just talk. It's still back to square one. NO intimacy. Sianz. Everyday life is bring kids go sch, go work, come back dinner, learn...

Just sharing something with you all ladies here. I'm just guessing. I'm not sure. Just want to ask if you know your hubby is addicted to watching porn? And DIYing to it? I'm currently attending counselling regarding addicted to porn. I used to watch it alot and DIYing to it. And, hence...

It's really tiring to go through all these. But yah, ignoring it is worse. Silence makes the distance further. Thank you, JL8118. Hopefully it can work out.

I think my wife is probably feeling the same way towards me as the way u have towards ur hubby. ("I realise I don’t have much patience towards him. I sometimes wonder if it’s because I don’t feel any love for him anymore so things he do usually just irk me.") It really is making me terrible...

Hehe, Dun think that having great time in bed can lead to legs aching next day. He probably needs to exercise a lot more. Doing squats or going gym will help him probably. And of cos, not just for men, everybody also needs to exercise. As age catches up. All the signs and aches will tell u that...

Hahaha... yeah,been considering it. Why should I keep something to make myself unhappy,right?

o-0"' So basically if nothing's change, everything will be the same. If thats how and ur hubby like it. Then ok loh. I went to counselling myself. It really takes effort on both parties to make it work again, there goes without saying. I believe my wife also know there is something she needs to...

Wow.... ok. Thats surprising to me. But trust for her is broken. So yah,kinda difficult in our relationship now. We do wan to try again, but... it's a vicious cycle. sadly. We plan to go counselling. But what I really hope is improvement, so far there is none.

If I did not found out she went out with friends seceretly,things will probably be that way. Innocent and ignorant. My wife once told me she and some friends want to celebrate the guy's bday at an Air BnB. She said I can go with the kids, but then the kids need to sleep. So I bring the kids back...

I also got friends who jio me for supper and drinks often but I also rejected them. My family comes first. If I go out,my wife has to settle the kids bedtime while I go enjoy. So I rather we go out together for family gathering than going out just with friends. But if cos,I still got go out...

Better see doc. It will lowers man's esteem as well.

Sex is a natural thing that occurs to all people abd for me,since my love language is touch,the more touchin it is,the better. I have and doing housework like maid like that and I yet dun feel appreciated. My wife just likes to sleep and sleep. Can even fall asleep during dinner! Gosh! How ah?

My wife seems to have higher sex drive when she is pregnant too. And we have better sex I think. Well,our babies are still healthy and well. So really no issues then. Just dun be too rough I guess? Yah,since my wife having low sex drive I have to DIY also. Sianz.

Haha, I also dun know if theres such KTVs. I'm not surprised if there is. You wanna go see see? Haha.. Well,of cos it's ok to go with her friends. But if frequency starts to get more? Would u let ur hubby go meet his friends every mth? Go KTV only. (Young boys and young girls) And u stay at home...