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Java, thanks for your well wishes. I'll keep you gals posted.

Hi Mavis & Sunny The doctor suspected that my stillbirth could be due to cervical incompetence as well. But no conclusion. I had another early miscarriage after that. I'm expecting again, wanted a cerclege but gynae says it may not be necessary since it's a singleton this time round...

Bellybutton, same here, SIL is pregnant again...should be abt 5mth now and she didn't want the baby initially. Here we are all trying so hard and those who have it don't treasure.

Coral I have the exact feeling. I always wonder why everyone else seems to have an easy and smooth pregnancy? Why everyone around me seems to be pregnant? Snort, I know it's pointless to ask "why?" but I can't help it. Sometimes when I see happy parents with their new babies I get...

Hi Coral I did the traditional massage. Didn't think of it at first but did it after consulting some pp. It was about 3 or 4 weeks after the natural delivery then. It was suppose to help put the uterus back in place and help in future conception. Dunno how true but worth trying I guess...

Coral, I was in a bad state, in ICU then, and they had to stop the medication to reduce contraction to save me...We have to let our babies go....it was a very painful decision. My hubby was more worried about losing me....your hubby would too! Be strong. Take care. We'll all be here! Hugs..

Hey folic...I'm in finally! I didn't scroll down further when I saw "Closed: New threads not accepted on this page" :P

Hi Gals, was on medical leave whole of last week! bad bug in the office! Bellybutton,-- lots of hugs Initially, I too blamed God...I questioned why after all the praying things like that still happen!...I even went to the extreme of telling my hubby that I'll not visit another temple (my...

The support group thread for miscarriage is closed right? where did everyone go??

Hi Folic I saw my babies after they were delivered....so small...so cute... but we too didn't manage to take a picture of them before they brought them away. We found out later that the assistants of the priest that helped us with the rites took a picture of them before the burial. I...

Oh...about HydrogenRainbow's posting.... I wasn't looking for "scathing remarks" if that's how it seems. I thought a little visit or phone call from MIL or FIL to ask us (hubby & myself) to take care or getting the maid to make some "bu3 tang1" or ask if we needed anything or whatever...

Hi Reyesmommy After the delivery, the babies were with me until they went away. So KK didn't bring them in boxes, not sure about the collection from the mortuary bit though...my hubby did the arrangements for burial. K&K

My MIL didn't even visit...no questions... as if nothing happened.. no pregnancy, no lost I was upset, told my hubby but he said she is sick, not convenient blah blah blah

Folic, Doc did all the checks.. infection, cervical incompetence, diabetes etc....nothing!...it's a mystery. K&K

Reyesmommy, My hubby is fine now...or it seems. He tries to hide his feelings..knowing that I'll cry with the slightest trigger esp from him. I know he is very sad too..he was so looking forward to them even though he was away on his overseas for his posting during the first few months of my...

Hi Reyesmommy My case was different, my babies were fine...but I had contractions at about 5am...initially i thot i have tummyache, went to the toilet, but the pain was still there. I went back to bed but the contractions got worst and i had slight bleeding, then i woke my hubby up and check...

Hi Reyesmommy, I'm in .... Lost my twins, Keane and Keisha at 23weeks in October 2004. I was devastated! Doctor doesn't know the cause Anyway, I'm still trying very hard to get over it. Used to cry myself to sleep every night.... I don't cry as much now. Doc gave green light to try...