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That is so mean of her. I will be probably brawling at her. I can see that you have lots of patience and endurance with her and the amazing love for your husband to stay with her. That is not easy. Thanks for sharing the part to remain silence. I think this is the only choice for me as well...

I got your point.. think I will need time to get it sort out.

I am not staying with Mil. I am also now trying not to go back for dinner as much as I can. Planning to cook before going work. But will slowly detach from her as she will give my hubby another disaster if she fails to see her grandson or him. MIL did attend relatives furneral and my SIL's...

Yes no doubt my hubby will be struck between 2 ladies he love. But this needs to be resolved. If he leave it this way or decided to remain silent, over time things will only get worst. There is no genuine love between the dil and Mil. Family just meet together for the sake to maintain a...

I am sorry to hear that. I am still grieving for granny as well. The pain for a dil is when our Mil treated us like a property that we need to follow their ruling without opposing. Dun they think about how we will feel?? I hope your hubby will speak up for you and not like mine. Today seems like...

I am so happy to hear your good news. You did it well. Wishing you all the best!

Thanks so much for bridging us. Yes.. having the same woes with someone definitely consoled me tat I not alone facing it. However, I envy his wife tat her hubby is working hard on it. Of cos., I feel her pain. Is never easy to just ignore and further endure the pain Mil is bringing to her and...

I am glad that you are doing everything to bridge the relationship between your mom and wife. While for me, I will need to learn to move on to be happier since hubby is not supportive. Will remain silence as much as I can when I am at his mom place. That is the best I can do. Hopefully Mil saw...

As for chinese, usually confinement is for mommy to rest and not advisable to do visiting. Relatives will understand. Of cos. you can go visiting if you still having yr usual daily routine like bathing.[emoji4] I am sure the relatives will still welcome you.

Hi I am in similar situation facing my Mil. I am trying hard to salvage relationship but it seems impossible as she refuse to share with me her thoughts. Even my hubby has long given up. I am glad to see that u still speak up for your wife which means there is still hope to improve the...

Nope.. we are unique individuals. At least he does speak up for his wife where my hubby has given up and leaving me alone to deal with her. Cos he has no power over it at all. Sometimes I wonder why Mil does not give a damn to Dil who trying so hard to pull everyone together. Is upsetting.

All the while I worked hard to have harmony with hubby's family. Trying to make hubby understand and loving her. Like a big happy family for both sides. Treating her like my own mother. What I do not understand is why things become bad without reason. Trying hard to salvage but seems impossible...

I have been rather sad w my Mil to the stage that I hope I have no dealings with her. Too many things happen recently and it all trigger to the point that I decided not to give in anymore. All along I treated her like my own.. but things gets bad without reasons or warning. Cases such as...