Recent content by Namimummy

I wanted to be self sustainable as well. But for now, i know i cant. Like i mentioned, this came very sudden and i am not financially prepared. I'm one silly woman who trusted this man to take care of me in sick n health, for poorer or richer..for bad or good...

Asking alimony is the only source which i can get money from him. He's earning 3x more than me. And i did the math of the deficits I'll be in.. I am not asking half of his salary. If asking 1/7 of his salary is unethical, then period. He should then stand up as a man to honor his words which...

I need some advices for my flat If we decide sales proceeds to be 50/50. If im getting a resale flat, i must fully utilise the 50% on my next flat i have due to the new clause for resale buyers

Thanks for the advises. He texted me to rush me to agree with the divorce. I don't know what's the rush. Very saddening. Seek advise from a lawyer. Chances of getting higher share of the hse is likely impossible

Was told that they cld either hand deliver to my office or residence

I was just been advised by another lawyer to wait for his lawyer to serve the writ to me. I don't have to go down personally. But I've to respond within 8 days

How long can I delay to collect the divorce document from his lawyer? Apparently i was told i need to come down personally

Will it be based on current market price?

I I don't think I've the monie to buy over his share. Our house value now is abt 500K and we are currently paying 50/50 via cpf

What would delay be an advantage for both? Thanks for sharing the link above. I realised im stucked in an almost similar situation except im not sure if he has a woman outside. I assume he didn't hv. He said I've changed because 1. I've lost alot of weight. I went for weight loss surgery...

I don't know. I wish i would know too. Now he's accusing me of cheating him with a girl. That's the best part. I don't know what tricks he have up his sleeves. He planned all this... He told everybody except me abt his decision abt divorcing me. He transferred out his money from out joint...

I am going down to pick up the documents from his lawyer this week. He felt that i dont love him anymore. Being together for almost a decade and married for 5years, being stagnant at certain stage shld be quite common. He was very affected by it. I know after this happened, he confided to...

He juz claimed he can't live with me anymore. That our lives generally are different etc. I haven seen the papers yet. Should i look at the papers first before engaging the lawyer?

I'm 36, coming 5 yrs to this soon to end marriage... We bought this house in 2015

Hi My husband shifted out of our house since Sept 19. We have no kids. Only one dog under my care now. Yesterday i received a call from his lawyer rep to come down their office to collect the documents n suppose to see if i am agreeable to the terms. He had initiated to divorce since June. I...