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stumbled_by, Yes, my gal has her semi solid for lunch first, now is porridge for lunch and dinner. Milk in-betw. But my my gal has craving for milk one If I give her porridge at 12nn, she would need a milk at 1.30 or 2pm. After that will be 2.5-3 hrs later then hv a bowl of porridge. I don't...

cuclainne, We share some same tots I hv alr booked a chalet at aloha changi, going to hv bbq for adults and plan to hv cupcakes instead of 1 big cake for my girl. But there r many details that we hv'nt sort out yet.... like food for kids and activites and deco. Hb don't seem very...

Hi all, Its been a long time 'seeing' you gals here stumbled_by, I started my gal on cereal when she's 4 months old... I started out with 1 meal a day for lunch. My girl started out with porridge when she's 6 months old also 1 meal a day until when she's about 7-8 months, it becomes 2...

Hi Ozzie, I was listening to Class 95 FM this morning where Glen and FD was saying that marraige needs to be worked on and must work real hard. How true it is. As a 21st century women, we are so caught up with our careers, kids, family, etc that sometimes we just take things for granted...

fuzzynale, My problem is so similar to yours. My DH likes to watch pron and masturbate. We didn't have sex since I'm pregnant early last year till now and my DD is almost 9 months old. I did talk to my DH abt it and he admitted that his sex drive is getting lower... that he don't even feel...

Rae, Well I don't encounter problems like stumbled_by and in fact, I hv started reduce pumping gradaully 2 months ago until last week where I pumped only 1x per day. It's just that now I want to stop pumping totally and I don't know whether there's anything I need to do so that I don't...

Hi Rae, Do u encounter any problems when u stop pumping? I'm planning to stop pumping altogether as my ss is very low now and my DD has started eating porridge liao. When I pumped on Sat night, I only got foremilk and no hindmilk, so I stopped pumping on Sun. This morning I noticed that milk is...

Rae, ya lor baby can sense when we r happy and when we are sad. Funny huh.... I'm still working very very hard to be patient with my DD, hv lost my temper and patience on her few times and I was so so guilty after that. So now I'm very careful with my temper but sometimes still find it hard...

stumbled_by, It's not that u can't give ur DD unconditional love... its just the difficulty of getting pregnant + labour pain + the demand of caring for a newborn day in day out + struggling with BF that make you so burnt out. Give urself more time and u'll find that ur DD is really a bundle of...

Rae, No leh... my DD has no more black poo poo after the 1st few days after birth. Ya better chk with doc... to b on the safe side. stunbled_by, yes still hv a small tummy, but i alr hv tat be4 pregnant My lochia ended abt 6 weeks after birth and my menses came back 1.5 months later, I...

stumbled_by/Rae, Hang in there. Jia you... I know TBF is not easy. I also went thru all that in the early phase and whenever I feel like giving up, i look at my DD and I'll persevere. At times I'll feel that the little ss I hv is really not worth the hard work, but each time when I pumped and...

stumbled_by, I actually let my bb take the bottle when she's 3 weeks old cos that time I really struggled alot with BF and my DH and I decided to feed her EBM fm bottle. But I'm scare that she'll hv nipple confusion so I also continue to let her latch on and feed her bottle when I really can't...

during the 2nd week, it took me 40-60mins to express 20ml. After 4 weeks, i took 30 mins to express 50ml, now it took me only 5-10mins to express 200ml, so practice makes perfect... don't qi nei ok?

stumbled_by, I only started to hv the let-down feeling when my bb is ard 3-4 wks old. Initially I don't know what's let down oso until 1 day when I was expressing and suddenly I saw my BM gushed out like a fountain and I feel some sensation in my breast and after that the same thing happened...

stumbled_by, YES... BF is v v tough but u will definitely see the reward if u persist. I went thru the hard way too... 1st 2 week, ss is low, bb can't stop crying, hv to cope with her hospitaliation, my confinement and pain all that, but now my bb is so active and healthy so really feel that no...