Recent content by krazimitzi

Good for you! I think it's important you take charge, after all you are the parent! If they want a kid again they can go and try IVF *LOL* They just don't know how to transition gracefully from parent to grandparent mode. Hahaha ;)

I'm not sure why you're not leaving? Singapore doesn't seem like a very caring country, but there really are social workers that do want to help. I can recommend Su at Marine Parade Family Centre. She is really one kind soul - even if it's just someone to pour out your troubles to - but also she...

Hahahaha to what you said @95huili ! Oh btw, what I said above, is only if he's NOT an alcoholic. If you realise that he really is one, intervention is your only hope. Stop the drinking completely. Make him go through rehab. There isn't much other way around that one, unfortunately. Just be...

What @tiggerpooh said reminds me of the saying, "The best revenge is living well." I'm a total supporter of that!! ;)

I don't know if it's a cultural thing, but my husband can drink 20 beers a night and he's NOT an alcoholic, he's just not Asian. So I don't know if, when you say your husband has one or two beers a night, if he actually gets drunk, or it really just relaxes him. But it sounds like the drink is...

To all you amazing people who can live with your ridiculous in-laws, I am so sorry for you!!! I don't have any advice in this area because to me, life is too short to put up with ridiculous people. NOTHING in this world can be possibly worth it. No relationship, for that matter. What's the point...

I can totally understand what you mean about the trust, and sadly, you're right. Trust broken is very, very hard to be mended again. I agree that you should just go ahead with the PI's evidence and do what needs to be done - if that's for the best of your future. After all, as you said, you've...

Move out then. Rent a place in the meantime. I moved out even when I was single. It's good to get away even from your own parents, do your own stuff, live your own life, without anyone telling you what to do or how to live it. When I moved out, I wished I had moved out earlier. Expensive, yes...

Wow you girls are really awesome. So noble. Anyone did that to me, we wouldn't be living in the same house anymore, sorry, but it's all about respecting each other. No respect? You're out.

Maybe you needed to give yourself time to let go and heal before moving on, and you didn't really get that chance since you went from one relationship to another. Maybe you could take a holiday overseas just by yourself, maybe go to Bali and do some meditation, or solo trekking etc, something...

I agree with @teslsa_dream, maybe it would help to look back on what made you fall for each other in the first place. I can say I completely understand your situation (the financial part at least), because my husband has been unemployed for the past 2+ years, and relying on my one miserly...

I'm with @Hailey G on cupping. I've tried everything out there, yes including slimming centres and Reductil prescribed by the doctor in the past too, the only thing that has ever ever ever worked for me is cupping. The doctors have told me that obesity is in my genes and I will never be able to...

Hmm just wanted to say hi, just discovered this thread. I have endometriosis and also ovarian cysts. At one point the cysts were as large as a ping pong ball. I did the keyhole surgery to remove them, and try to remove some of the endo too, but as it was too near my intestines, the doctor said...

@towkayneo Hmm I told my husband this story yesterday, and I said, "It's true not to expect it not to change after marriage I guess, cuz it won't be the same like during 'courtship and dating days' again?" And he looked at me and said, "Really? I don't think it changed for us." And he put his...

I found out I was pregnant after already deciding not to renew my work contract and move to another country, where both husband and I will be jobless, no roof over our heads, and also not enough savings, also no visa, so it's kinda make it or break it time, if we don't make it work within three...