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    Heartbroken

    Did you try to talk to him? Was he this way before that? If doesn't, it might be that some issue/stress at work or outside, which result in his behaviour. Of course it isn't normal to be treated like that. You have to think if you are able to accept this kind of 'torture' for the next few...
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    Husband visit prostitute and happy ending massage parlour

    You need to ask yourself if you really tend to forgive him, and he's willing to change and stop going there. Fyi, some become addiction to prostitute. If he really did those in the past, probably he's one of the addictor as well. I have a friend who's her ex hubby was addicted to...
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    Can Celebrate CNY?

    ya..usually is 100 days to be exact... but better to ask if the others is pan tang or not
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    Can Celebrate CNY?

    I think depend on self belief. There's no right or wrong. It depend on your belief, culture, and even religion. However, most feel that giving ang pow doesn't sound right.
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    Flirting msges

    I will say if the message (eg I miss you) is something u are afraid to show to, or wish to hide, then the message is consider as flirty.. If it's something that you aren't afraid to show to, then it's not consider as. It's similar to our day to day work life. Like using 'dear' doesn't mean is...
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    Support group for wives with unfaithful husbands

    To answer your question 1) How did you find out so much info like hotel bookings on their infidelity/affairs? (What i found is whatsapp chats - are these valid as evidence for divorce?) >> Usually email? Or via PI. Some engage PI to gather evidence of their partner having affair. Whatsapp...
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    contemplating divorce.

    aside for that, there's no difference with filing divorce...
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    contemplating divorce.

    Did you have the evidence already? Once you have, you can confront him. Do note evidence usually only valid for 6 months :) But to be honest, filing adultery and filing 'unreasonable behaviour' is similar. It's just a reason for divorce
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    contemplating divorce.

    Agreed with the rest. Get evidence, and file for divorce.
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    Laidback husband

    Well, it's part of his character, and since at start he's like that, and you chosen him, it's the path that you have chosen. Yes indeed he said will change but never, and I believe its not the first time already. Probably more than 5 times? If you cannot take it during the 3rd time, you would...
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    Declaring bankrupt but have sufficient CPF to continue my bank mortgage

    No credit score means you have super bad debt or creditworthiness... Not only hdb loan, you cant even apply for credit card etc.
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    Support group for wives with unfaithful husbands

    Well, it depend if you can trust him again. It will take some time to build trust back again. But are you willing to give him the chance and to trust him again? If answer is no, then perhaps you need to think if separation/divorce is the only way...
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    Husband who can't think

    Well, as long as you not paying for it, let him be There are some whom have just 'nice' for themself, still can afford cars etc too
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    Heartbroken

    Cool down.. Nothing to get furious/angry of what others trying to stir. I believe we all have the 'eyes' to judge if it's relevant at all. But I do have to admit that when there's some issue that happened, both are at fault. Both really need to sit down and think what when wrong. And try to...
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    Heartbroken

    Dear Lostsoul&rain, Well, for deleted message, you can retrieve it from the phone, if he haven't empty the trash. Google out, and you will know how to restore/retrieve the message. As for adding girls in FB, it really depending. I do at times add random people (guys and gals) in facebook as...

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