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xiaohui For every dark night, there is a brighter day. Best wishes to u in the future and do take care.

Hi xiaohui I truly sympatise with you for what is happening but at the same time, I would like to knock some sense into you. What were u thinking by having unprotected sex with a irresponsible KID, especially when neither of u are ready for marriage!!! I honestly think u owe your parents this...

hi xiaohui, if u had read all the posts here for youngjes u wld realised tt support from ur bf is critical to start a family. Life will be v tough for u if u decide to do this alone. How many weeks are u in now (i.e. how much time do u have to decide this)? and how old is ur bf and is he...

hahaha... its a long weekend. Many pple mayb out of the country or on holiday. I'm sure u wld get more advice come Monday or Tuesday.

Hi jess I m sure u wld find 1 u like, just be careful of hidden cost. But just to let u know, i hav a fren who ROMed then gave birth and then had their wedding 1 yr after, just in case u wan another option. On the money side, I suggest u each borrow from ur parents a few k with plans to...

Hi jes That's great! guess then u wld be hanging ard this forum more often for all e wonderful tips Yes, i think ur MIL is not goin 2b easy to live with. Well, anway, I always believe true sincerity will touch pple. So, just be sincere in dealing with her. stay strong n catch up with ur...

Hi jes Good to hear tt ur bf's family is going to support his decision. If he has not oriedi done so, he shd come ur hse to ask ur parents for ur hand in marriage. Remember tt this is just e beginning of everything. Make sure u two work together and communicate often on what and how u each...

Hi jes You appear to be very confused over what is happening. Given his mother's objection and u think he is not prepared to give u 100% commitment and love, do u think it is wise to ask your own mother go to his house to talk this over? Call me traditional but i think it is bad enough that he...

Hi jes Is your uncertainly and doubt now something to do with his apparent lack of happiness/excitement about the BB? Remember, there is no right and wrong answers now, only the best one going forward given the circumstances and situation which only u know best (so don't lie to yourself). To...

Hi jes I hope u talk to your parents REAL SOON and not delay it any further. You need all the help and support u can get now. Whatever u do, take good care of yourself first as everything else can only follow thereafter. btw, have u sorted out your r/s with your bf? is ROM in the works? did...

kekeke... gotta be a little bit careful reading that sentence with that punctuation mark don't want the entire gender be blamed just becos of one ignorant little kid

For a minute, I am going to give u that little bit of benefit of doubt, but pls reconsider some issues of basic courtesy and respect for others' privacy before posting any further messages to satisfy your curiosity. Remember that curiosity killed the cat.

just_curious, "had to make this decision twice". i.e. she was pregnant twice. There is nothing to suggest what was the outcome of those two decision. Stop making wild guesses. Are u the same person going around in the other threads keep asking her for her personal history? Do u have a real...

xiaohui, pls dun wait, go to pharmacy buy the pregnancy test kit (i hear the clearblue brand is easy to read n accurate) and test. If positive, u can test again after another 3 days to confirm. It will not go away by u just sitting there and waiting. I hope u learn your lesson that at that...

Hi jes Yes, I am a guy more than ten thousands miles away and 13 hrs behind singapore time. I am glad that u have made up your mind and that there are some positive changes in your bf side. But I think u need to talk to your family ASAP to get their understanding and support. Believe me...