(2014/11) Nov 2014 Mummies


sohkaren said:
Like inside cramp but oso gt tugging sensation. Its below the belly button near the womb. Smetimes the pain is like menses cramp pain leh.
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I dun have menses cramp throughout my menses yrs.... I just feel tugging and pulling.. mild and bearable.. I mean not the kind that makes u think of bad things....

maybe other gals can help if it is like menses cramp....
 
SloshySoupy said:
true.. and Karen if u can try to eat more ok.... dun worry if u start to fret or moody, come in here got joker like us to make u smile/laugh
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Yalor, thats y im here to chat with u gals. Very moody due to whole day of cramp. Like want to shit n fart but cannt. :(
 
siling87 said:
Still ms?
I'm 14 weeks and still having ms. Can puke up to 7 times lol.. But... Trying my best to overcome this stupid ms..Don't sian chat chat here lol
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No ms at all since bfp till now but today suddenly feel super sian, like nothing interests me including food which is very strange for me... Just now went play a while game then feel a bit better, morning really super sian until I told my hubby maybe prenatal depression is setting in liao...
 
mapleleafy said:
must do discounted cash flow to see if got any $ in this biz anot la lol Actually be gynae then huat, every time I go be it hospital or private also super packed!
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mine also... gynae in sg earn so much more compared to their counterparts in other countries....

the no of patients he see and the no of patients waiting everytime I go check up, i tell my bb next time come out guai guai study hard and if u have wat it takes, i die also see u to med sch... lol
 
Mapleleafy, I aso no interest in food. Just eat for the sake of filling up stomach..
Then today beanie appetite change, kps giving me hunger pangs but once I eat I dun feel well. Aiyo dun know wat Beanie wants too. My 變態dh said it's good sign to feel like tat... faintz
 
mapleleafy said:
No ms at all since bfp till now but today suddenly feel super sian, like nothing interests me including food which is very strange for me... Just now went play a while game then feel a bit better, morning really super sian until I told my hubby maybe prenatal depression is setting in liao...
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That good.. Don't keep thinking about depression... If u really feel like u r having.. Pls do inform your . Cuz during my earlier stage, I can cry every night... Nuh is very concern about my situation and they assign an officer to assist me. I kind of feel better too..
 
hopeful_mum said:
Actually I came from pte with glen e and 2 diff drs. None can detect my issues. Since I came nuh though as sub I got much more attention maybe becox I'm high risk. And they somewhat found out the reasons of my previous miscarriages. I had 4-5 of them. I'm not sure now many as one can be a chem preg if not left over hcg from my previous preg

So now I'm very careful. I nvr expect so much attention given to me as a sub patient and the level of treatment makes me feel assured. I agree scan pics not as nice but the assurance of holding my baby in my arms are better than the pics.

This will be my first if everything goes well. So I'm actually very grateful to go to nuh and it was one of the mummies here is 2013 thread who recommended me. Else I will still be stuck at some high paying pte drs who can't find out why I had recurrent losses.
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I'm very happy for you. NUH recurrent mc division investigates >3 mc, I'm glad they can help you as they are specialised in that area. Sometimes see doctors also need a touch of luck de, one gynae at GlenE pointed me to IVF after finding out the cause of infertility... If not I would never have thought of it, maybe cos we're always told young couples lesser worries (35 seems to be the magic number) but it's not true lor. Below 30 also can have major issues. More importantly is to stick with the doctor/hospital that you're comfortable with. :)
 
dolly_gal said:
Mapleleafy, I aso no interest in food. Just eat for the sake of filling up stomach..
Then today beanie appetite change, kps giving me hunger pangs but once I eat I dun feel well. Aiyo dun know wat Beanie wants too. My 變態dh said it's good sign to feel like tat... faintz
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My ah lao say the same thing when I say I feel moody and sian and tired and no appetite! He say wah then you must be happy mah cos finally got some symptoms liao... :\
 
siling87 said:
That good.. Don't keep thinking about depression... If u really feel like u r having.. Pls do inform your . Cuz during my earlier stage, I can cry every night... Nuh is very concern about my situation and they assign an officer to assist me. I kind of feel better too..
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I was being kua zhang and half joking to my hubby, I dun feel like crying or depressed, just supremely sian and tired until it affects my appetite leh... hope tomorrow wake up feel normal again...
 
mapleleafy said:
My ah lao say the same thing when I say I feel moody and sian and tired and no appetite! He say wah then you must be happy mah cos finally got some symptoms liao... :\
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My gf laughed at me, others ms from start n ending first tri. My ms stop ard wk7 then now gg end first tri it's seems to b coning back. She said I opp of others... ~^O^~
 
mapleleafy said:
I'm very happy for you. NUH recurrent mc division investigates >3 mc, I'm glad they can help you as they are specialised in that area. Sometimes see doctors also need a touch of luck de, one gynae at GlenE pointed me to IVF after finding out the cause of infertility... If not I would never have thought of it, maybe cos we're always told young couples lesser worries (35 seems to be the magic number) but it's not true lor. Below 30 also can have major issues. More importantly is to stick with the doctor/hospital that you're comfortable with. :)
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Ya actually the unit is very nice. They also treat ppl with 2 mcs. They helped many women already. I nvr trusted a govt hospital until I'm so well taken care of.

So I'm super appreciative. As much as I complain their scan is not clear but I love them.

And sub don't have package to take one for nuh. U just pay per visit I think.

When deliver I convert to pte. Besides all the money I save from sub I can get myself a bugaboo bee lol
 
mapleleafy said:
I was being kua zhang and half joking to my hubby, I dun feel like crying or depressed, just supremely sian and tired until it affects my appetite leh... hope tomorrow wake up feel normal again...
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Ah like that okay la... Hormones hormones.. There are many siao mummies here.. If u trigger their siaoness, it quite fun thought out the night...
 
dolly_gal said:
My gf laughed at me, others ms from start n ending first tri. My ms stop ard wk7 then now gg end first tri it's seems to b coning back. She said I opp of others... ~^O^~
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dun scare me leh, maybe I'm the type with no ms in first tri, then beginning second tri will ms till the end de?? :x 不要啊！
 
hopeful_mum said:
Ya actually the unit is very nice. They also treat ppl with 2 mcs. They helped many women already. I nvr trusted a govt hospital until I'm so well taken care of.

So I'm super appreciative. As much as I complain their scan is not clear but I love them.

And sub don't have package to take one for nuh. U just pay per visit I think.

When deliver I convert to pte. Besides all the money I save from sub I can get myself a bugaboo bee
lol
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Private still nuh right? Maybe we same timing. I at my ward too hot I go your room sleep.. Lol..
 
hopeful_mum said:
Ya actually the unit is very nice. They also treat ppl with 2 mcs. They helped many women already. I nvr trusted a govt hospital until I'm so well taken care of.

So I'm super appreciative. As much as I complain their scan is not clear but I love them.

And sub don't have package to take one for nuh. U just pay per visit I think.

When deliver I convert to pte. Besides all the money I save from sub I can get myself a bugaboo bee lol
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I am also very thankful to the IVF department, love the nurses and my doc, despite being a very quiet man, is dedicated to his work. Can tell got passion one. Just that my prior experience with one female gynae disappoints me... If my doc sees me through delivery then I confirm stay NUH liao, but he's not... He's throwing me out to normal gynae next week liao sobs sobs.
 
mapleleafy said:
dun scare me leh, maybe I'm the type with no ms in first tri, then beginning second tri will ms till the end de?? :x 不要啊！
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actually if u dun have any during first trim, u can consider urself the lucky few who dun have ms... dun keep thinking ms ms ms, i mean if u think bout it too much, ur ms might tot u missing it n it comes looking for you? hahahahah
 
SloshySoupy said:
actually if u dun have any during first trim, u can consider urself the lucky few who dun have ms... dun keep thinking ms ms ms, i mean if u think bout it too much, ur ms might tot u missing it n it comes looking for you? hahahahah
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Is it too much to ask for if I just want super mild ms? wahahahaha! sekali MS says no in between, either very jialat or dun haf then I **** myself over liao... :x
 
mapleleafy said:
ward dun have aircon?
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i stay in 6 beded before and no aircon. i request no air con coz i got mild asthma. so kenna throw in 6 bedded in kkh.

actually not so bad.. everyone is nice and visitors all quiet and zhi dong.... and boy, was i happy when i see my hos bills.. i payed 0 cash for 2 day 1 nite stay
 
SloshySoupy said:
i stay in 6 beded before and no aircon. i request no air con coz i got mild asthma. so kenna throw in 6 bedded in kkh.

actually not so bad.. everyone is nice and visitors all quiet and zhi dong.... and boy, was i happy when i see my hos bills.. i payed 0 cash for 2 day 1 nite stay
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This is shiokness right ? Aiya.. Don't think so much everything will be fine man..lol!!! And out I go with my babies..
 
siling87 said:
Yep cuz I be taking c class ma.. Doubt gonna have air con. But at the age of 27.. I super Aunty wan.. I gonna keep that 40k ( In case ) in my hubby pocket.. I bear a few nights without air con.. lol
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I also stay 6-bedded before in TTSH for 2 weeks. No air con too but surprisingly didn't remember it as too hot or unbearable (maybe cos I was too sick at that time to care).
 
SloshySoupy said:
i stay in 6 beded before and no aircon. i request no air con coz i got mild asthma. so kenna throw in 6 bedded in kkh.

actually not so bad.. everyone is nice and visitors all quiet and zhi dong.... and boy, was i happy when i see my hos bills.. i payed 0 cash for 2 day 1 nite stay
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ah me too! 6 bedded, 2 weeks stay and all paid for by insurance haha. The daughter of the elderly lady beside my bed still brought me pork liver porridge lor so nice right!
 
mapleleafy said:
I am also very thankful to the IVF department, love the nurses and my doc, despite being a very quiet man, is dedicated to his work. Can tell got passion one. Just that my prior experience with one female gynae disappoints me... If my doc sees me through delivery then I confirm stay NUH liao, but he's not... He's throwing me out to normal gynae next week liao sobs sobs.
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siling87 said:
Yep cuz I be taking c class ma.. Doubt gonna have air con. But at the age of 27.. I super Aunty wan.. I gonna keep that 40k ( In case ) in my hubby pocket.. I bear a few nights without air con.. lol
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Maple oh cox they specialised in ivf only. But nvm as u say go with someone comfy. Which hospital doesn't matter :) jia you and hope no ms for u at 2nd tri.


Siling come come. No prob I don't mind. But u have to walk over leh carry 2 babies. I love ur attitude save money for hubby. Hubby lucky man.

I also want twins leh but I hear abt ur cost I think one is enough.
 
Okay lah this one I admit. I went to see the 6bed. I very hot don't think I can take it. I pampered :(

But if I have twins I think I will also be like siling. No 40k in my pocket leh. If have wah damn shiok lol
 
hopeful_mum said:
Maple oh cox they specialised in ivf only. But nvm as u say go with someone comfy. Which hospital doesn't matter :) jia you and hope no ms for u at 2nd tri.


Siling come come. No prob I don't mind. But u have to walk over leh carry 2 babies. I love ur attitude save money for hubby. Hubby lucky man.

I also want twins leh but I hear abt ur cost I think one is enough.
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Yeah lor they only do IVF, then once after first tri they transfer you out and I can't seem to find a gynae I'm comfortable with at the private side... :\ I told my hubby weeks ago that I really like NUH, but I dunno which gynae to see there haha. For TMC is I really like the gynae but not overly fond of the hospital, or at least I dun have any first-hand experience yet to comment yet... Taking a risk to choose the gynae I like lor.
 
Perhaps for caes like us who went thru ivf to concieve, we rather spend more $ to make sure everything is smooth bah. Anyway tats my thots lah. One of my ivf gf said since already spend so much wat is tat another few k stay in a better ward when give birth..
 
mapleleafy said:
Yeah lor they only do IVF, then once after first tri they transfer you out and I can't seem to find a gynae I'm comfortable with at the private side... :\ I told my hubby weeks ago that I really like NUH, but I dunno which gynae to see there haha. For TMC is I really like the gynae but not overly fond of the hospital, or at least I dun have any first-hand experience yet to comment yet... Taking a risk to choose the gynae I like lor.
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U try dr Su Lin Lin or prof Mary rauff. I read up these 2 quite good. Cox initially I wanted to switch after I stable. But now I like my high risk Gynae. See her so many times until I comfy. Even as sub she spend time talking and answer my qns. She is dr Anita.
 
siling87 said:
That good.. Don't keep thinking about depression... If u really feel like u r having.. Pls do inform your . Cuz during my earlier stage, I can cry every night... Nuh is very concern about my situation and they assign an officer to assist me. I kind of feel better too..
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Siling, u oso like that. Past weeks i started again but i cried secretly at night as my mum will scold me n say later bb come out hum bao.
 
sohkaren said:
Siling, u oso like that. Past weeks i started again but i cried secretly at night as my mum will scold me n say later bb come out hum bao.
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Then u better inform your gynae. Tell your hubby also. My hubby also know I like to cry a lot. He will try his best to cheer me up. Like fed me with ice cream and so on. Will feel much better with many ppl understand and know.. I am better now.. Heehee
 
siling87 said:
I think it okay.. Cuz I hav cramps too. Expanding I guess.. But if the cramp is unbearable then u got to be alert.

Bed rest is very good for the growth of baby leh.. So u if can then rest more...
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Good and bad..

Too much bed rest can cause blood clotting also... That way those who require bed rest or are bed ridden need to wear those white stocking... To improve blood circulation to prevent blood clots..
 
SloshySoupy said:
I dun have menses cramp throughout my menses yrs.... I just feel tugging and pulling.. mild and bearable.. I mean not the kind that makes u think of bad things....

maybe other gals can help if it is like menses cramp....
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Ya. I haf tt tugging feeling on and off. It's abit like the usual menses cramp. Bearable but juz discomfort. Baby growing and need space ba.
 
Usually by 6 weeks should be able to hear the heart beat. Of coz it really depends on the machines. Don't worry too much :D
 

sohkaren said:
Siling, u oso like that. Past weeks i started again but i cried secretly at night as my mum will scold me n say later bb come out hum bao.
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I mean if u feel better after u cry I think it's a great outlet to release stress. Of coz we won't know exactly wat u r going through or wat u have gone through.
 
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