Zhu Sheng Niang Niang (注生娘娘)
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toblerone
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love_is_all_around
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Hi Jolyon,
其实知不知道真相都会难过的。
不知道真正的原因而一直都没有和知道真相而难过，我会宁愿知道。因为我明白有些事情是不可以勉强的 （勉强不会有幸福）。
如果不知道而一致问自己为什么，也是很痛苦的。至少知道后， 可以看有没有什么方法可以去扑救。
其实知不知道真相都会难过的。
不知道真正的原因而一直都没有和知道真相而难过，我会宁愿知道。因为我明白有些事情是不可以勉强的 （勉强不会有幸福）。
如果不知道而一致问自己为什么，也是很痛苦的。至少知道后， 可以看有没有什么方法可以去扑救。
charles2013
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Hi Jolyon,
Thank you! I have enabled my pm. Do pm me when you can. Really appreciate!
Re-posting for your easy reference.
Posted on Tuesday, June 11, 2013 - 10:51 pm:
Hi Jolyon,
My wife and I have been trying hard for a baby as well. We have been trying tcm, western medicine and praying sincerely everyday but still childless.
We hope you can give us some advice. Unable to pm you i think... could you pls pm me? thank you very much.
Thank you! I have enabled my pm. Do pm me when you can. Really appreciate!
Re-posting for your easy reference.
Posted on Tuesday, June 11, 2013 - 10:51 pm:
Hi Jolyon,
My wife and I have been trying hard for a baby as well. We have been trying tcm, western medicine and praying sincerely everyday but still childless.
We hope you can give us some advice. Unable to pm you i think... could you pls pm me? thank you very much.
Hi Jolyon,
I am 45 years old and have been trying to
conceive for a year and no news yet. Doctor said
chances of getting pregnant at my age is only 1-2%.
But I am determine to have one soon, only last year then I
thought of having another child.
I went to Kuan Yin temple to pray for a baby and
I got Lot 8 ( accordingly to the book interpretation
that a baby boy will be born) But prior to that I got another
2 lots which I "ask" wrongly, I did not make sure it is 3 "sheng bei". But got 3 "sheng bei" for Lot 8. I also pray Zhu
Sheng Niang Niang at Toa Payoh & Havelock road recently.
I have never want a child so badly maybe due to my age.
It was very encouraging to see your post that make
me more determine to have one. I also visit Kuan Yin temple in Bugis regularly asking for
forgiveness ( for the sin I did in the past)
What should I chant to have a healthy baby?
Can't wait to be a mum again.
I am 45 years old and have been trying to
conceive for a year and no news yet. Doctor said
chances of getting pregnant at my age is only 1-2%.
But I am determine to have one soon, only last year then I
thought of having another child.
I went to Kuan Yin temple to pray for a baby and
I got Lot 8 ( accordingly to the book interpretation
that a baby boy will be born) But prior to that I got another
2 lots which I "ask" wrongly, I did not make sure it is 3 "sheng bei". But got 3 "sheng bei" for Lot 8. I also pray Zhu
Sheng Niang Niang at Toa Payoh & Havelock road recently.
I have never want a child so badly maybe due to my age.
It was very encouraging to see your post that make
me more determine to have one. I also visit Kuan Yin temple in Bugis regularly asking for
forgiveness ( for the sin I did in the past)
What should I chant to have a healthy baby?
Can't wait to be a mum again.
toblerone
Well-Known Member
随着年龄增长，怀孕机率下跌。高龄产妇在KK并不难找哦！
Post No. 170 (written in pink); April 18, 2013 - 7:49 pm
Post No. 221 (last fourth sentence); May 06, 2013 - 8:43 pm
希望不是三分钟热度。
没错。当时你是怎么问呢? 何时求的签呢？记得日期，时间吧？
很好。
做得对！非常好！忏悔最重要的环节。
你要‘念’或‘抄’都行。老师认为做‘功课’+（念经、许愿、放生），会特快。若‘抄’+‘功课’+‘念经、许愿、放生’，那就是快上加特快 =‘超快’！
*一旦许愿就一定要坚持做得到。
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fruittea80
New Member
Jolyon 你好！
我最近接触到这个网页从你的帖子学到不少。也开始念心经觉得对自己的身心有帮助，非常感谢你的分享！
我结婚快5年和老公一直都想添个宝宝。去年11月，好不容易怀上了却在6-7周自然流产。那时的心情和失望难以形容好在有家人的安慰庆幸走过来了，也再继续加油当中。
我从去年就有服中药西医则断定我有一边卵巢阻塞所以怀孕机录小。暂时没打算开刀看可以解通吗但有想过要试试ivf。如果可以的话，想请你帮忙看一下八字指点指点。我知道你忙等你方便时可以通过pm联系你，谢谢！
我最近接触到这个网页从你的帖子学到不少。也开始念心经觉得对自己的身心有帮助，非常感谢你的分享！
我结婚快5年和老公一直都想添个宝宝。去年11月，好不容易怀上了却在6-7周自然流产。那时的心情和失望难以形容好在有家人的安慰庆幸走过来了，也再继续加油当中。
我从去年就有服中药西医则断定我有一边卵巢阻塞所以怀孕机录小。暂时没打算开刀看可以解通吗但有想过要试试ivf。如果可以的话，想请你帮忙看一下八字指点指点。我知道你忙等你方便时可以通过pm联系你，谢谢！
hi Jolyon,
Thank you for your prompt reply.
没错。当时你是怎么问呢? 何时求的签呢？记得日期，时间吧？
Actually I ask for permission before 求签 (1 time Sheng bei)then proceed with my 求签.(cos I just 求签 not long ago
not sure will offend the God or not)
I sincerely pray & asked Kuan Yin if I will ever have
another baby. I am desperate to have one & will
continue to do good deed everyday in my
life. 签是上个月5月廿十多号求的，时间早上11点多到1点吧
签有expiry date 嗎？
签可以常求嗎？
莲花白与粉红哪一个比较适合拜光音？（I mean
praying for fertility , Bud or fold 莲花?
I saw one article on praying for a baby :
buy 9 buds white lotus & pray to Kuan Yin
bring the flower back & bath ( 1 stalk per day )
Have you hear of this before ?
Thank you for your prompt reply.
没错。当时你是怎么问呢? 何时求的签呢？记得日期，时间吧？
Actually I ask for permission before 求签 (1 time Sheng bei)then proceed with my 求签.(cos I just 求签 not long ago
not sure will offend the God or not)
I sincerely pray & asked Kuan Yin if I will ever have
another baby. I am desperate to have one & will
continue to do good deed everyday in my
life. 签是上个月5月廿十多号求的，时间早上11点多到1点吧
签有expiry date 嗎？
签可以常求嗎？
莲花白与粉红哪一个比较适合拜光音？（I mean
praying for fertility , Bud or fold 莲花?
I saw one article on praying for a baby :
buy 9 buds white lotus & pray to Kuan Yin
bring the flower back & bath ( 1 stalk per day )
Have you hear of this before ?
toblerone
Well-Known Member
解签
下次，日期能写精准一点吗？这支签应该在‘小满’气之后所求，老师估计在阳历5月21日之后。也就是退节进气，又要入节所得。
See example: post 314. [click here]
观音签特别。普遍有分三个部份。 下下签未必就‘烂’，上上签未必‘perfect’.必须看总签文的内容才行。还有，英文解释行不通的。
老师破例一次，为你解签吧！下次你得找观音堂外的阿伯阿嫂给你解签，才几块钱罢了。还有，老师不想要砸的他们饭碗。
问：求子
【八上签】
【古人】姚能遇仙
【诗曰】茂林松柏正兴旺 雨雪风霜总莫为 异日忽然成大用 功名成就栋梁材
【解曰】此卦松柏茂林之象，凡事有贵气也。
【宫位】丑
【六甲】男
“六甲”- 指的是怀孕。无需理会。
“宫位”- 是签意落在那个宫。无需理会。
PART 1
先讲，‘古人’。 东汉光武帝那个朝代。有位为国君效力的开国老臣，名字叫‘姚期’。姚期有三个儿子。长子姚能，自幼熟读兵书，颇通战法。次子姚霸，三子姚刚，武艺超群，力大无比。在古书记载历史内，姚刚的故事稍微多一点，姚能是后半段一小故事罢了。父子三人一同镇守边境要塞草桥关。后来，汉姚期被光武斩，姚刚、姚能都逃走了。后来，姚能遇到高人指点，脱离困境。传说，此高人就是古典里面的仙。所以，才有姚能遇仙的典故。
PART 2
茂林松柏正兴旺 - 这支签在小满之气、芒种之节（moving towards 5 June/农历四月廿七左右）求得。处在这个阶段，茂林松柏在炎热的气候，树皮必将干燥脱水。
雨雪风霜总莫为 - ‘雨、雪、霜’就是三‘雨’成洪水。你的心里是很想有水来灌这片茂林松柏。可惜的是，暂时还做不到，得要等到突如其来的豪雨才行。
异日忽然成大用 - 异字头上的‘巳’字属火、属蛇的意思。癸巳年戊午月（starting from 5 June 2013），有四火成型！因为，日照强，天气太热了！于是，你心中着急这片茂林松柏干枯，需要水份来灌溉。
功名成就栋梁材 - 这个‘名’，上有夕，下有口。日想夜想，口上一直在挂念生子一事。你心中是希望有水来浇湿这片树林，因为水生木必将有望。栋、梁、材皆有三个‘木’，而当树木得到充足的水份，自然会在成长，如此便能如尝所愿的意思。
其实，这虽是上签，但因你是求子，所以你得此签无坏也没有好。观音第八签是要你‘等’！观音没说你不能生，更没说你能生。需等到对时机，逢对人便有望。看明白了没？
观音菩萨签、关圣帝君签、福德正神签、玄天上帝签、城隍签、妈祖签等等，统统皆暗藏天机。心诚出真签、乱求出乱签。
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Jolyon老师,
谢谢你为我解签，看来等了一年还是要继续等下去。。。。
签是在28 or 29 May 2013 求 的.
"日想夜想，口上一直在挂念生子一事"
this is really true, I have no other motivation except to get pregnant again soon.
Hope all the auntie and uncle are sincere in解签 so I can
approach them in future (didn't know that 解签 是一门大學向，
谢谢）
I am more calm now after reading your forum prior to that
I keep blaming myself for delaying my family planning.
(When I was younger 我有儿万事足，now the more the merrier,
hahaha) Am I greedy?
I am lost again, waiting.........waiting............waiting.............
Jolyon,
How about adoption? My husband said if really can't give
birth then adopt a child but my son is against it.
( We still prefer our own kid)
thanks a million. I feel better now after voicing my doubt.
谢谢你为我解签，看来等了一年还是要继续等下去。。。。
签是在28 or 29 May 2013 求 的.
"日想夜想，口上一直在挂念生子一事"
this is really true, I have no other motivation except to get pregnant again soon.
Hope all the auntie and uncle are sincere in解签 so I can
approach them in future (didn't know that 解签 是一门大學向，
谢谢）
I am more calm now after reading your forum prior to that
I keep blaming myself for delaying my family planning.
(When I was younger 我有儿万事足，now the more the merrier,
hahaha) Am I greedy?
I am lost again, waiting.........waiting............waiting.............
Jolyon,
How about adoption? My husband said if really can't give
birth then adopt a child but my son is against it.
( We still prefer our own kid)
thanks a million. I feel better now after voicing my doubt.
charles2013
New Member
Hi Jolyon,
十分感激^_^
期待您的指点!!
十分感激^_^
期待您的指点!!
mrs_ngiam_wk
New Member
Hi Teacher Jolyon,
I had read your posts in this forum and I would like to seek your advice regarding my baby. He was born with a red birthmark on his face, which cover almost 1/3 of his right side of his face.
And I keep wondering if I had done anything wrong while pregnant with him. Please advice if there is anything I can do to help his condition
I had read your posts in this forum and I would like to seek your advice regarding my baby. He was born with a red birthmark on his face, which cover almost 1/3 of his right side of his face.
And I keep wondering if I had done anything wrong while pregnant with him. Please advice if there is anything I can do to help his condition
toblerone
Well-Known Member
不重要了。
仙、佛、菩萨知道。
auntie uncle的师傅有教传，有经验就能解。骗吃骗喝是有的。四马路观音堂的解签佬，应该不会胡来。
要是解签佬把签解歪了，吉事说不好，凶兆说成好，要负因果。其二，又收了几块钱的红包费用就算是诈财，罪加一等。
老师的解签的故事多，解错被神明敲头。在United States生活，最初步是给越南人义务解签。由于签是越南文，老师得对照中文签，确定了之后，得找人从中文翻译英文、然后英文才翻越南文。后来，不知不觉，那间庙十传百、白传千，求签的人是越来越多。香客多是很好，不过似乎个个求签成迷了。
明白。
了解。
晚上去exercise. 到处走走，出出汗水。要怀孕也要身体健康，别下班后就闷在家里。</font>
对你有帮助就好。
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toblerone
Well-Known Member
老师跟你说一说民俗学上的看法，为什么会发种种不如意的事。
全新加坡就这个SMH forum board能找出最真实的答案！
女命 - 日元乙木偏强。
See Red Dotted Arrow
1i. 目前走的壬戌运（Year 2004 - 2013）, 去年壬辰年（Year 2012）冲运，所以，一整年事事不如意。
See Red Solid Arrow
1i. 去年壬辰年（Year 2012）阳历三月份乃甲辰月，加倍不如意！
See Black Solid & Dotted Line
2. 流年 - 癸巳年(Year 2013)， 正撞时柱，天冲地克厉害。
Point 1 所以，这两年怀孕非常困难。现在明白可吧？
Point 2 三不五时吵架。要怀孕呢，脾气一定要控制。
男命 - 日元丙火极弱。
1. 2012年开始（直到2021年）走了不错的运势。
2. 流年，癸巳年(Year 2013)， 正撞时柱，天冲地克。注意下半身。希望妻子怀孕，仍然还遥不可急。
3. 样貌偏中上，异性缘佳！希望不会背叛或者做令妻子失望的事。呵呵...
总体上生育方面是小小困难罢了。只是今年恐怕没有喜讯。
总结：双方各有问题。妻子怀孕阻力稍微比丈夫困难一些。我倒建议夫妇互相体谅，夫妻感情要很好。妻子比较有宗教缘，这点很好。要解决难孕的问题，不要单光要靠医药，在信仰方面上作调整有辅助。
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toblerone
Well-Known Member
I have mentioned it before. 妇女怀孕必有胎神.
Read post no. 208. May 03, 2013 - 11:51 pm (answering to first question) click here
相信可以，超难。
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Just happen to chance this post.
I married for 1 year & hub & i is ok with or wo kids
My pregnancy is not plan.
Although I didnt pray zhu shen niang niang for baby, I will present some red egg to her @ my usual temple or other temple when baby reach full mth ...
Hope those ppl who eat the egg will get baby soon
But remember to return when your baby reach full mth
Ehh but i m in 1st trimester which mean early next year...jan-mar if everything is smooth
If there are response, i will announce when the date is nearer within the mth
I married for 1 year & hub & i is ok with or wo kids
My pregnancy is not plan.
Although I didnt pray zhu shen niang niang for baby, I will present some red egg to her @ my usual temple or other temple when baby reach full mth ...
Hope those ppl who eat the egg will get baby soon
But remember to return when your baby reach full mth
Ehh but i m in 1st trimester which mean early next year...jan-mar if everything is smooth
If there are response, i will announce when the date is nearer within the mth
toblerone
Well-Known Member
胎神
只要妇女有怀孕，家中就有自然有胎神。怀孕的妇女有许多避忌，绝对不是迷信。
胎神在每日的方位不一样，触怒胎神就不妙了。
Case Study 1
有一对中年的couple. 妻子怀孕五个月，丈夫当然非常高兴。夫妇很会赚钱，口气很how-liian. 在怀孕期间，they did a big renovation for a baby room (see big red cross in the picture)! 老师曾经好言相劝，可是夫妇耳边风，非常顽固。
老师没臭嘴，孩子出世后问题来了。Baby born with both atrial septal defect (ASD) and ventricular septal defect (VSD). Months later, detected congenital deafness.
Case Study 2
曾经抱过一个baby girl. 很可惜的是破相了！
like the one in the picture
追问之下，原因是别人送了张baby的木床给这对夫妇。丈夫嫌婴儿床太旧，结果自己动手做sanding. 还在客厅lacquered整张床。If I knew earlier, for sure I would have stopped him.
有很多人是不信这套民俗学。那些选择scientific reason，老师不勉强。
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charles2013
New Member
Hi Jolyon 老师，
谢谢您的指点！
那能不能说我们夫妇两still have 孩子缘 after this year 2013? From 2014, things will be smoother for wife? Do we need to go for iui/ Ivf to have kids?
非常谢谢！！
谢谢您的指点！
那能不能说我们夫妇两still have 孩子缘 after this year 2013? From 2014, things will be smoother for wife? Do we need to go for iui/ Ivf to have kids?
非常谢谢！！
scooby_yummie
Member
Hi 老师，
我很幸运有一男一女。可是不知为设么我的女儿非常的顽皮。她今年四岁， 脾气非常暴躁， 几乎每天都会被骂被打， 因为她就是不听话， 偶尔还会打我， 捏我。 我很难过， 不知有设么办法。其实当我在坐月子时， 我在不知情下， 曾经带她到佛堂想找哪儿的斋姑取名， 她当下就告诉我， 我还‘不干净’不应该到佛堂去。 将来孩子会很难带。我很彷徨， 已经带她去问过很多神了。可是没设么好转。你是否能指点我？
谢谢你。。忘了说我的儿子和她才相差17个月， 她就是一直欺负他， 打他。希望您能帮帮忙。。其实我一直很想有第三个， 可是看到她还是这么坏脾气， 我就放弃这个plan.
我很幸运有一男一女。可是不知为设么我的女儿非常的顽皮。她今年四岁， 脾气非常暴躁， 几乎每天都会被骂被打， 因为她就是不听话， 偶尔还会打我， 捏我。 我很难过， 不知有设么办法。其实当我在坐月子时， 我在不知情下， 曾经带她到佛堂想找哪儿的斋姑取名， 她当下就告诉我， 我还‘不干净’不应该到佛堂去。 将来孩子会很难带。我很彷徨， 已经带她去问过很多神了。可是没设么好转。你是否能指点我？
谢谢你。。忘了说我的儿子和她才相差17个月， 她就是一直欺负他， 打他。希望您能帮帮忙。。其实我一直很想有第三个， 可是看到她还是这么坏脾气， 我就放弃这个plan.
mrs_ngiam_wk
New Member
Hi Teacher Jolyon,
thanks you for your advise.
I can only pray that he stays healthy.
As I really hope to have one more baby brother or sister for him in future, but I am really scared that the same thing will happen again.
thanks you for your advise.
I can only pray that he stays healthy.
As I really hope to have one more baby brother or sister for him in future, but I am really scared that the same thing will happen again.
toblerone
Well-Known Member
真厉害！坐月子竟然跑出去了！
华人传统: 得要认真坐月！坐月是休养身体。不能受半点风寒哦！难道你家中的长辈没提醒你吗？
民俗观点: 坐月视为‘不洁’。寺庙得避。
问神了？不必问神的。装神弄鬼的很多。老师从来没听过，问神吞符，孩子就会乖乖听话。
孩子有分‘报恩’、‘讨债’。‘讨债’的孩子问题实在多，最明显就是生病，父母得一直花钱看医生。父母得要想办法还无形债，孩子才会减轻。不然的话，三天一小病、五天一大病，永远医不好。
只要你吃斋念经。
其实，
1. 你的孩子算好了。有很多人的孩子静静不是很惨？Baby 有down syndrome，你说父母能不头痛吗？
2. 先天顽皮，后天方面得用藤条管教了。软的不行，要来硬的。
3. 孩子到了一个阶段，会开始懂事的。不要过于担心。
既来之，则安之。
上天赐你孩子，就坦然接受。在怀孕期间努力做好功课便是。
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fruittea80
New Member
Jolyon老师，
我有看到你之前所post有关超度的细节，在留意下个法会。
我也想开始抄药师琉璃光如来本愿功德经。可以麻烦您邮寄一本大本的给我吗？ 非常谢谢！
我有看到你之前所post有关超度的细节，在留意下个法会。
我也想开始抄药师琉璃光如来本愿功德经。可以麻烦您邮寄一本大本的给我吗？ 非常谢谢！
kailun1983
New Member
Hi jolyn 老师，
可以帮帮看我老公和我有没有孩子缘。
可以帮帮看我老公和我有没有孩子缘。
princessleopard
Well-Known Member
Hi Jolyon,
We had been trying for baby for 4 years. Conceiving is very difficult for us, I even tried iui 3 times. I had 2 miscarriages in 2011 & 2013. I had done chao du for hte first one last year. This year I will do chao du for both. Can you help me check our bazi if we are destined to have children?
Thanks!
We had been trying for baby for 4 years. Conceiving is very difficult for us, I even tried iui 3 times. I had 2 miscarriages in 2011 & 2013. I had done chao du for hte first one last year. This year I will do chao du for both. Can you help me check our bazi if we are destined to have children?
Thanks!
wannabmummy
New Member
Hi Jolyn老师,
希望您指点我。。
1)lately i'm trying to find a new job. Not sure is it a good time to change and will my next job be a better one?
2) I'm trying to have 3rd child after i find a perm job, should i go thru ICSI again? my 2 kids conceived via ICSI.
3) how to improve my relationship with hubby and in laws? Previously was in a bad shape with hubby and in laws that i need to see hypnosis doc.
4) how to improve my 财气?
Please let me know what details you need. Thanks.
希望您指点我。。
1)lately i'm trying to find a new job. Not sure is it a good time to change and will my next job be a better one?
2) I'm trying to have 3rd child after i find a perm job, should i go thru ICSI again? my 2 kids conceived via ICSI.
3) how to improve my relationship with hubby and in laws? Previously was in a bad shape with hubby and in laws that i need to see hypnosis doc.
4) how to improve my 财气?
Please let me know what details you need. Thanks.
wannabmummy
New Member
where can i find the 因果 book?
toblerone
Well-Known Member
掌纹？之前，不是已经说了吗？
唉...要讲‘断掌’说不完的。要分辨生命线、感情线和智慧线。说了之后，别人看不懂，越扯越远了。
post no.: 341 (click here)
真断掌有古怪的个性。双手断掌，很少人有。女性有真断掌，感情路上一团糟。
有些人不看八字，看掌纹。古代的人，不一定清楚记载自己的出生日期和时间，因此，就以面相和掌纹来做命相推论。
一生劳碌命，八字会看得出，掌纹会出现。
一生富贵命，八字会看得出，掌纹会出现。
看掌纹是可以看得准确，但是，老师不鼓励。如同命理一样，知道了结果，就算讲得非常精准，不去做不去补救，说了等于白说。唯独长期行善积德，才是实际做法颠覆命运。
post no.: 227 (click here)
post no.: 208 (answering to last question) (click here)
唉...要讲‘断掌’说不完的。要分辨生命线、感情线和智慧线。说了之后，别人看不懂，越扯越远了。
post no.: 341 (click here)
新传媒的电视连续剧看多了吧？
真断掌有古怪的个性。双手断掌，很少人有。女性有真断掌，感情路上一团糟。
有些人不看八字，看掌纹。古代的人，不一定清楚记载自己的出生日期和时间，因此，就以面相和掌纹来做命相推论。
一生劳碌命，八字会看得出，掌纹会出现。
一生富贵命，八字会看得出，掌纹会出现。
看掌纹是可以看得准确，但是，老师不鼓励。如同命理一样，知道了结果，就算讲得非常精准，不去做不去补救，说了等于白说。唯独长期行善积德，才是实际做法颠覆命运。
post no.: 227 (click here)
post no.: 208 (answering to last question) (click here)
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