I just completed my first part of divorce with my ex-wife. She wanted to divorce me using stupid "unreasonable behaviour". I was sad and confused then and wanted to just drop everything if not for my children. Finally, I got a PI to check out on her and realise that she was co-cohabiting with a man and his family, portraying herself as the victim. She insisted that she had not committed adultery and insisted to her family that I was the one at fault. She had always been home late citing going to "business" with Amway.
I was angry and sad, why did she do this to me. I was determined to get both my children back. We fought for a few months and finally to CFRC. On the first day of the CFRC, I realised she was heavily pregnant. At least 5 - 6 months. Which means the day she filed for divorce, she was already pregnant. Yet, on that day, she insisted that she wasn't pregnant. Everyone was astonished and shake our heads. She thought that the whole world is blind? Anyway, on that fateful day, she announced that the son I love dearly is not my son, but the son of her lover. Everyone heard that, the judge, my lawyer and her lawyer. Her lawyer is as equally shocked as the rest of the people. I forced her to ask her lover to go for a DNA with my son, she refused, claiming that he is the father and therefore he does not need to go for DNA. If I don't believe, I should go for DNA test with my son. I think hard and asked my lawyer for advice. My lawyer suggested for a court order to force them to go for DNA test. Which is then she said "I said my son is not your son, I never said it is his son." Which literal tells us she have three children from 3 different father, all in one marriage. Yet, from day 1, she claim victim and had been shamelessly lying on every affidavit she had sworn.
I fought with her over and over again. Finally, with the help of my lawyer, I managed to get sole custody of my daughter, but lost my son because we are not blood related. Is it a boon or a bane, nobody knows. Now she shamelessly hide all her asset and wants half of whatever I own. However, my lawyer wants to make sure that never happens.
Mummies here only cite how bad are males are, had you stop to think if there are female who do these and more viciously? Should I, after the whole divorce proceeding is over, sue her for perjury? It is already obvious that from page 1 of her affidavits, she has been lying. Even under mountains of evidences, she is still lying, just to discredit me and to make herself look like a victim. She even had the cheek to put down that she is a good mother and a good wife when she fails her duties as a mother and as a wife fully.
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I was angry and sad, why did she do this to me. I was determined to get both my children back. We fought for a few months and finally to CFRC. On the first day of the CFRC, I realised she was heavily pregnant. At least 5 - 6 months. Which means the day she filed for divorce, she was already pregnant. Yet, on that day, she insisted that she wasn't pregnant. Everyone was astonished and shake our heads. She thought that the whole world is blind? Anyway, on that fateful day, she announced that the son I love dearly is not my son, but the son of her lover. Everyone heard that, the judge, my lawyer and her lawyer. Her lawyer is as equally shocked as the rest of the people. I forced her to ask her lover to go for a DNA with my son, she refused, claiming that he is the father and therefore he does not need to go for DNA. If I don't believe, I should go for DNA test with my son. I think hard and asked my lawyer for advice. My lawyer suggested for a court order to force them to go for DNA test. Which is then she said "I said my son is not your son, I never said it is his son." Which literal tells us she have three children from 3 different father, all in one marriage. Yet, from day 1, she claim victim and had been shamelessly lying on every affidavit she had sworn.
I fought with her over and over again. Finally, with the help of my lawyer, I managed to get sole custody of my daughter, but lost my son because we are not blood related. Is it a boon or a bane, nobody knows. Now she shamelessly hide all her asset and wants half of whatever I own. However, my lawyer wants to make sure that never happens.
Mummies here only cite how bad are males are, had you stop to think if there are female who do these and more viciously? Should I, after the whole divorce proceeding is over, sue her for perjury? It is already obvious that from page 1 of her affidavits, she has been lying. Even under mountains of evidences, she is still lying, just to discredit me and to make herself look like a victim. She even had the cheek to put down that she is a good mother and a good wife when she fails her duties as a mother and as a wife fully.
Please upload your views here or if you want to mail me privately, feel free to PM me or email me at [email protected]