dear jojo,
one thing about making babies... you've gotta relax and enjoy it. Dun harp on it, let nature progress. Trust your body to know when's the best time and best condition to harbor the second darling.
You know, it takes a lot out of a woman's body after each childbirth and this continues when we're nursing our child. Let the body some time to recuperate and build up its nourishment. Meanwhile, keep to a happy and healthy lifestyle. The stork will call before you know it!
Me, being very pro-chinese med, might advise you to take the bai feng wan from eu yang san. This tonic's very suitable for women planning for motherhood. It's a challenge trying to swallow the little capsules, but it's really not so bad. I took only a quarter of the bottle each week. So, one bottle in a month. Not heaty one, dun worry.
K? Cheerie up!
Littledan